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RomanceRe: How To Make Anygirl Serious With You!!!!! by ucheHapers(m): 5:38am On May 28, 2016
3 and 4 doesn't make any sense
RomanceRe: Romancelanders, Do I Look Like An Ogbanje? by ucheHapers(m): 3:43am On May 28, 2016
This chic no fine...
RomanceRe: guys: Reasons Women Beg Us 4 Money And y U Must Fvck Her very well B4 Givin Her by ucheHapers(m): 12:20pm On May 25, 2016
Ok....
RomanceRe: To The Ladies Like Me Who Receive loads Of PMs by ucheHapers(m): 5:09am On May 24, 2016
Even the Ugly ones too complain...
SportsRe: Giwa FC Has Been Expelled From The NPFL by ucheHapers(m): 8:53am On May 21, 2016
Bros u get hot temper o....anyway na true u talk
Empredboy:
tell us what u know about the Nigerian league. To accuse naija league u most know things about the league just as you know about ur "glorified 'premier league. If you can name 10 nigeria league coaches this season, 10 stadia use this season, 20 players in the league then you are fit to insult the league but if you can't just SHUT UP and play with your toys.
RomanceRe: Viewer Discretion Advised!!! by ucheHapers(m): 3:13pm On May 19, 2016
...was expecting worse
RomanceRe: 8 Signs That He Will Be Faithful In Your Relationship by ucheHapers(m): 3:05pm On May 19, 2016
...keep deceiving your self.
RomanceRe: So Cute Baby Vs Monkey In Fierce Fight For A Bottle Of Milk (video) by ucheHapers(m): 2:33pm On May 17, 2016
Ebola!!! Ebola!!! Ebola !!!..
I af said ma own
RomanceRe: I Was A Virgin Few Hours Ago by ucheHapers(m): 1:36pm On May 09, 2016
Hope u were circumcised in the process too....
FamilyRe: 6 ways women can avoid domestic violence. by ucheHapers(m): 1:33pm On May 09, 2016
Jesus, did people actually read the article. It's obvious people are in a haste to comment without reading even the first sentence. No wonder it's written

"They have eyes but cannot see"
BusinessRe: Aliko Dangote & His Daughter Arrive Maiduguri, Welcomed By Govt Officials.Photos by ucheHapers(m): 1:22pm On May 09, 2016
What is this one saying?

oshe11:
Exactli y I hate Nigeria!




These set wud bliv dia party Loyalists n those set wud bliv dia own party loyalists nt giving an iota of tot if dey r lieing or not!






I rili nid to travel out of dis country to Abuja!
RomanceRe: How To Spot Broke Girls Trying Too Hard To Impress by ucheHapers(m): 1:02pm On May 07, 2016
Jesus!!! This is a nuclear bomb
RomanceRe: Is It A Must For Ladies To 'front'??? by ucheHapers(m): 7:12am On May 06, 2016
I don't waste my time, after a month max, I move on. There are over 70 million ladies in Nigeria which is more than the population of South Africa. Why waste your time with one unserious girl?
RomanceRe: A Romancelander Needs Urgent Relationship Advice by ucheHapers(m): 11:02pm On May 03, 2016
chicken...
RomanceRe: Keep It To Yourself by ucheHapers(m): 5:51am On May 01, 2016
Ok o...but I'm still waiting for the next celebrity couple outburst. Don't blame me
CelebritiesRe: Don't Go To The Public To Solve Your Private Matter - Paul Okoye by ucheHapers(m): 5:45am On May 01, 2016
Is he wearing pyjamas?
RomanceRe: What Cud Be The Source Of This Money? ( Pic) by ucheHapers(m): 7:01pm On Apr 30, 2016
Weed hustle
RomanceRe: What Is The Ideal Age For A Man To Get Married? by ucheHapers(m): 3:11pm On Apr 30, 2016
33
CareerRe: Should I Sack My Driver Or Not? by ucheHapers(m): 1:27pm On Apr 28, 2016
Sack him....bros no emotions, trust me it would get worse and you would wish why you didn't do it soon enough
RomanceRe: Nigerian Ladies Who Had Sex With 2 Different Men In 24 Hours Share Their Stories by ucheHapers(m): 7:36am On Apr 26, 2016
Boy o boy I bet it was a long nite
RomanceRe: Any Special Benefit In Dis-virgining A Girl? by ucheHapers(m): 9:20pm On Apr 25, 2016
Adults that have refused to grow up...
RomanceRe: Nairalanders, Meet My Woman!!!!!! by ucheHapers(m): 7:47am On Apr 21, 2016
Man wey no get work na dem they post woman pishure up and down. A guy that has something tangible keeping him busy won't be seeking approval from strangers. Tomorrow his type would come here crying "she left me for a rich guy".
Your girl should be the one posting all this picx not you...

Wish U both the best...
RomanceRe: No female allowed by ucheHapers(m): 4:25am On Apr 18, 2016
What is this one writing again....
RomanceRe: The Major Reason Why Many Ladies Remain Single For A Long Time. by ucheHapers(m): 7:39am On Apr 15, 2016
Morning coffee for you sir, you make sense...

Toks2008:
I honestly can't shake the pity off my mind anytime i see how many ladies wallow in frustration simply because they are still single at very marriageable ages and this is why i decide to drop this thought provoking piece.

The major reason many ladies are still single at very ripe age is HIGH EXPECTATION and below is a simple illustration to explain my point.

As a lady please get this straight;Good potential husbands are everywhere but your spec may not be readily available.An average Nigerian lady wants a cute,rich,caring guy and no matter how hard they try to shrug this off,they keep using this as a yardstick to be with a man but unfortunately 2 out of 10 guys are the specs of 8 out of every 10 ladies so these 8 ladies clamor to be with these 2 men but unfortunately these 2 guys can't marry more than a wife each.

My advice to many ladies is to understand that it is perfectly normal to seek for a "financially ok" guy to marry but no matter how hot you may be, it is easier to get a man to marry you when he is struggling than when he is made.Comfort,wealth and good life is not usually instantaneous but progressive.

Don't be fooled,many expensive wedding ceremony you see are sponsored by the bride or groom's family.As a lady,try your best to get something doing and lets just assume you meet a guy that makes as little as 40k a month and you also make like 40k a month,please start a life together and continue to build your lives together. You can always do an elaborate intro and engagement party and proceed to the registry and when you have money you can do a very big wedding ceremony.

This thread is not for the few ladies who are fortunate to find a rich dude but for countless number of Nigerian ladies who are on the other side of the divide.

Our ladies should Stop indulging in ultimate search contest with many other ladies for a rich guy and Until our ladies learn to look in the right direction,be financially independent,lower their expectation and be ready to build a life with a man without the negative preemptive mindset of what will happen after he becomes rich,i guess there will forever be an increase in aver-aged unmarried ladies.


Just trying to make sense.
RomanceRe: How To Make Your Long Distance Relationship Work by ucheHapers(m): 2:34pm On Apr 14, 2016
Correct guy...

stmartynz:
@OP, what's so difficult in pasting it here... U want to help pple bridge gap and u are still asking them to go more miles.

SEE AM HERE JARE



A long distance relationship is typically an intimate relationship that takes place when partners are separated by a considerable distance. It is a strong emotional commitment to another who is far away and often beyond physical access most of the time. This requires a great deal of maturity and emotion. It's only ever effective in a case of lofty strong loving relationships. The below tips will help in making your long distance relationship work.



Have respect for your partner: Show respect to your partner as much as it should be' people tend to overlook how the other partner feel in their relationship, instead they think only about themselves. They expect their partner to fulfill every of their needs and feel is their right but your partner is human who can do much and it would be impossible to meet all your expectations. When you feel you have been wronged in some way in your relationship, have open mind, try to see things from your partners point of view. Always take to consideration your partners feeling and try to understand where they are coming from before you take action. You need to respect their feelings before you attack them with words that can really hurt them.



Make your partners feel special: Think and think very hard of things you can do everyday to show your partner that you really care.Use words like "I love you" or "I love talking to you", I want to be with you" or "You give me joy and happiness" on regular basis, this will give your partner more assurance. You can also send letters, emails, text messages, your picture to your partner.Gift too will do a great deal. All these simple things makes relationship to stand the test of time, unfortunately most couples forget these simple things once they feel comfortable and settled in their relationship.

Try to know more about your partner: Long distance couples use phone , send a lot of text messages and emails. In your conversation try to keep that spark on, exactly like the way you start the relationship. Avoid topics that can cause argument that can lead to bad feelings about the relationship in general. Be open minded to ask question bothering your mind about your partner.


Trust each other: If your partner has not cheated on you before trust him/her. Don't make baseless accusation about your partner cheating on you. Don't believe that your partner is cheating on you due to the fact that your partner doesn't doing everything you want. This can strain relationship. In a committed relationship you should be able to talk about everything(don't be afraid to ask tough questions).

Have a solid plan about your future together: Please don't enter into long distance relationship if you are not willing to have your life changed drastically. The relationship can't be a long distance relationship forever. One person has to move or both, if you really love each other these shouldn't be a problem. Don't engage in a long distance relationship if you don't love your partner deeply.

Arrange to visit regularly: Make plan towards visiting, this will give you some thing to look forward to. Visiting is a powerful way to boost long distance relationship. This can be very expensive . Save for it, both of you can share the cost. If you afford it, it worth it to make a trip to see someone you love. Be reasonable in case you can't afford it.

Communicate often: Try to communicate on daily basis and figure out reasonable amount of time you can spend on the phone. If you are worried about the phone bill, get network provider that offer low rate or free calling within the network. Incase you are in different countries try free internet calls through services such as skype. Get a webcam and good internet service, this will allow more interaction than a phone. From a webcam, you can read your partners body language and facial expression, this make interaction very interesting.

Interact with others: Don't be too occupy or consumed in your relationship. Make sure your long distance relationship is balanced with your day to day activities at home. Connect with friends and family members.

Have a night date with your partner: Distance is not a barrier, your can still have night dates. Just set a particular day in a week to eat the same meal, watch the same movie and interact online, or chat up for a longer period of time on the phone.


Wish you success as you journey through your long distance relationship.
PoliticsRe: Ben Murray-bruce Reacts To Okon Lagos Commonsense IG Post by ucheHapers(m): 1:01pm On Apr 14, 2016
If you want the common sense you can come and collect it
RomanceRe: Will My Boyfriend Apologize? by ucheHapers(m): 4:46am On Apr 14, 2016
Early morning sex...
RomanceRe: My Girlfriend Spread Her Legs And Asked Me To Shave Her Bushy Vagina, I Did This by ucheHapers(m): 8:39am On Apr 11, 2016
Stupidity and foolishness need to be eradicated
RomanceRe: Epic Response From A Guy To A Girl Asking To Borrow Money. by ucheHapers(m): 6:20pm On Apr 10, 2016
Swahili is NOT spoken in South Africa...
RomanceRe: Live Snake Found In Woman’s Vagina (VIDEO) by ucheHapers(m): 5:54pm On Apr 10, 2016
Nothing person no go see
RomanceRe: Live Snake Found In Woman’s Vagina (VIDEO) by ucheHapers(m): 5:52pm On Apr 10, 2016
Nothing person no go see...
RomanceRe: Men And Breast by ucheHapers(m): 3:02pm On Apr 08, 2016
Blame Buhari ...

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