₦airaland Forum

SalamRushdie:
how did the hippo terrorise them !!! they take canoes go into the Hippos habitat and destabilise the place , set up farms on the Hippos ancestral landing riverbank and then turn around to hunt down the hippo down claiming he has been terrorizing them !!!! Human beings and playing the victim sef

The bible says after God created adam and blessed him

He was given dominion over all creatures in the land,sea, and air

So any animal that does not recognize that! Is terrorizing us!

Delivar:
I am talking if they want to do it like stealing the money directly.

They can't do that!

Every hacker leave behind an electronic signature which will be used to track and capture him\her

Besides we save our money in the world bank that is in Geneva !

bukatyne:
Hmmmmmm

And the cycle continues.

Your funny

bukatyne:
@zeb04 is very correct even though I would not be that explicit to you.

Somewhere at the back of your mind, you will think cheating is OK because your mother stayed and the cycle would continue.

Which is why I honestly wonder when we advise a lady to leave a cheating fiance. She might have learnt from home.

It is well.

NNE cheating is not OK

I v tasted it! Its painful

But there is this saying that says life is a risk! Everyone living it is a gambler!

Always expect the worse but hope for the best!

Trust no man but God

Think about yourself

No man is a saint

Two wrongs makes no right


If the lady have not given birth to any child or in a relationship I'll advice her to leave but children are involved!

Its not longer here life she is living!

NNE forget movies! Reality is different

zeb04:
your mother didn’t walk away from her marriage. that is why you are twisted and you think even if you cheat on your wife she shouldn’t walk out . after all your own mother has been cheated on Several times and even probably treated multiple Std’s But she can’t walk away anyways because she is trying to save her marriage ( marriage that is already failed). I actually don’t feel for you. But i feel for the next generations of low self esteem women your mother is raising. She stopped at sharing her husband with several mistresses outside, Who knows, since your sisters probably don’t see anything wrong with that, maybe, we are looking at the next side chicks after all my mother shared my dad with several women and heaven did not fall so what’s new about it “ ripple effect. With that said my mantra is if you give me disrespect, you get disrespect, if you are not loyal, don’t expect loyalty. Women are not rehabilitation center for badly raised boys

Am twisted

Thanks your straight!

Look marriage is not by force

But look every actions have consequences

If you can raise your kids alone n secure good future for them then divorce
from your reply am sure your a kid and have not seen anything

P.s- divorce a man cuz of cheating is like avoiding a town cuz of rain!

NNE it rains everywhere and anytime

Pray your not caught unaware


You can continue with your insults

This is my 2cents

bestshimmer:
After he had an emotional affair with his female married colleague.
I don't want to say I hate him now. But the feelings are not the same anymore.
He apologized and stopped but they were still communicating.
I asked him to stop receiving her calls but he said he couldn't. She would still sometimes profess love to him again. But he would say No.
Until I threatened my husband to send her husband, colleagues, in-laws etc screenshots of her messages.
They've stopped communicating.

But now I can't seem to forget the chats and SMS I saw.
Once in awhile I feel angry and become rude to him.
It's eating me up.

I forgave him when he 1st apologized but when I started seeing them continuing having friendly chats. It pained me. Cos that was how they started.

I complained and he started deleting their chats. Even called me a nag.

Now everything has ended I still feel heartbroken.
I trusted him so so so so so much.
If we were dating I would have just left. But we have 3kids. And am job hunting.

I say in my heart that I forgive him but why do I still feel hurt. Why do I not trust him anymore. I use other issues to cover up and be rude to him. But I know it's not those issues.
Help me. It's killing me

You can't fix a broken mirror thats why you can't trust him!

But be matured! Let your home and children be your number 1 priority!

If you cheat on him and your caught you will be sent out! No matter the excuse you give!


If your rudeness starts to get out of hand! It may affect your relationship with your husband which will one day drive you out of the house voluntary or involuntary!

Besides what character will you be teaching your children! Your daughters will be rude to their husbands and expect their husband tolerates it like their father!

The actions we take have ripple effects in our lives!

P.s to be sincere with you

My father cheats on my mum
She knows ,we even complain to her and report some events to her but she doesn't care cuz she loves her children!

What will she gain if the girl outside comes inside in take full control!


Secure your position 1st!

Look for a job or start a business

So you will not dependent on him


The bible says a good wife builds the home

It didn't say a good wife maketh sure the husband doesnt cheat


just ignore

See your marriage as a full time responsibility you have accepted to take!


I know you will say what about LOVE

Love is like a fairy tale told to young kids!

There is only one time in our life we may experience love and that's when we are old! About 70years still married! Children now parents n you see your grandma children

Then you both hold hands smile n laff about your mistakes,your failures and your successes together!


Marriage is not easy!

uwish:
Care to travel OVERSEAS for visit/study

It is as simple as ABC and cost less as little as PENNY

South Africa (200k)
Canada/Australia (600k)
USA (600k)
UK (500k)
Schengen (700k)

Check my signature

No payment till visa is out


Agreed?

Go do apprenticeship at any company you grow there
Then every year do a program at ITF(industrial training fund)

Attend siwes classes

Once you v the skills of the engineering field you want! The ITF certificates to back it up your an engineer





Remember the 1st oil drillers wasn't engineers but american prisoners

Go to the oil rig today most drillers didn't get the title via a university degree

Research about this!


1st mechanic engineers didn't study it in skool

Neither did they wright brothers that built the 1st aeroplane

5

Straight to Columbia for marriage

XaintJoel20:
On your first paragraph, I will advice you to grab some copies of books that spoke extensively on the Nigerian Civil War.

This time, read it from a neutral angle.

Thanks...

How truthful was those books!

Try read there was a country by chinua Achebe

Watch youtube videos

You will see that Nigerian soldiers went around destroying properties and killing unarmed women and children

Earthbound:
You cannot pass Customs at Ikeja any day of the week, month or year make you no see at least 5 obituaries for their fence.

Yet you can never hear that the Nigerian customs are recruiting

XaintJoel20:
So they should fold their hands and watch the daredevil Fulani herdsmen sniff life out of them and annex their ancestral home

If they face the Fulani herders with the force the fight requires, a time will come when even the military will be divided in who to support. The military chased will be divided and this could give room for mutiny.

The problem with most of us is that we don't want to die.

I would rather die on my feet fighting than die on my kneel begging.

More than 3million igbos died in the genocide tagged civil war!

Igbos are still in Nigeria, so what's the need for their death!


The Nigerian military is backing them!

Ask your self! Even the captured boko haram members are released back into the society or release in court cuz of what that is called judicial technicalities.

How many herds men has ever been arrested?



My brother the best is to leave it for them

XaintJoel20:
The youths of Plateau State should man up and defend their ancestral home, ease they will have no place to call home in the near future.

Man up and defend what?

Enugu people tried it and the whole Nigerian battalion came and arrested every man,woman,children even clawing insects ,then took them to the army barracks where they were made to regret their decision

royalamour:
Please don't mind the typos and other errors.

Bro

What are you waiting for?

You don't need nairaland for wisdom

Bros 1stly send your son away and throw that whóre out! But don't forget to beat her blue and black before doing it!

Involve all kinds of things for her! As she could stab,shoot or kill you at any provocation!


Don't go low or look at her as a girl!


Look at her as your fellow man!

Two men can't be married and stay happily ever after

royalamour:
Please don't mind the typos and other errors.

Bros

What are you waiting for?

You don't need nairaland for wisdom

Bros 1stly send your son away and throw that whóre out! But don't forget to beat her blue and black before doing it!

Involve all kinds of things for her! As she could stab,shoot or kill you at any provocation!


Don't go low or look at her as a girl!


Look at her as your fellow man!

Two men can't be married and stay happily ever after

kanzjude:
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I have keke for sale its in umuahia

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LifeIsGuhd:
Okay, sorry about that. Have you tried to check it out @hospital?

Yea I was told its nothing to worry about


My grandma father said it was the same with him

LifeIsGuhd:
OP, I think what you're experiencing is termed hyperhidrosis, not so sure... if this condition just started all of a sudden then I'ld advice you see a Doctor.

For the poster above, it is NOT normal. #note: there's a reason I didn't quote you

Its happening to me

Since I was a kid till date


Right now I sort of find it hard to type with my phone cuz its sort of slippery

chyna4luv:
I don't want to mention names because, I don't want to offend anyone. I attended like five churches, I mean FIVE CHURCHES. I got the address during TV programme because I like watching different church programmes, more importantly, the once that usually see vision and prophecy. the thing dey sweet me eeh. Lol.

I'm not saying you must attend church, you can as well visit a good Alfa that can see vision and hidden things, if that is your belief, it will surely work for you.

Thanks.

Chyna.

Do you v link to any alfa

Nayah:
Proudly Cameroonian, super warmful and peaceful country , socially united, patriotic and rich in terms of culture( 300 ethnic groups)
Love you so much Africa in miniature !

Please are there factory jobs in cameroun

sassysure:
Sorry.

If you didn't sort out the reason for your first denial, u will still get the same treatment.

I did bro

Jasen1:
We had serious issues about it last month I asked her to leave since she don't want to work, she started crying and begging even her parents(mum) and her sister called me too, I pardoned her but she still not working yet, bro I'm soft hearted am not really complaining about the expenses but the fact that she becomes more lazy everyday is worrisome

Bro this girl did you no wrong

Your unofficially married

And couples do quarrel

If you think she's lazy! Have you gotten her a job or opened a business for her
Look she's just an unofficial house wife thats the role she's playing
And you thinking of kicking her out! Omo your not soft hearted oooo

Besides she's already working she's warming your bed almost every night if you were to go brothel do you know how much you will be paying

2ndly does she do house chores like cleaning the house, washing your clothes,ironing your cloths and cooking for you

Mr man I know your broke and can't afford feeding an extra mouth!
And your tired of her pvssy!
But trust me if you kick her out thats wickedness

Hence she has accommodation problem the worst you can do us to rent another house and leave her in this one!

My 2cents