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Adasun:
dis is someone dat think like a man.exatly what is happening to me.

Da more i beg da more i am being underated

I Have been dia and back!i see ur so emotional!wt u did was wrong!but c'mon dts not enough to stoop so low to doing chores!call Her to order!d mistake you did was to call family members 4 her

YelloweWest:
Well your opinion is dead wrong! You can't treat your wife and mother of your kids like that and expect there will be no consequences!
Your kids will watch their mother suffer all her life and will resent you for that as adults.
The best gift you can give to your kids is to show the that you love there mother so if u offend your wife have the humility to begin for her forgiveness and be patient. Only God forgives immediately, for us humans it takes time.

Watch d man comment!imagine doing d house chores and cooking 4 d kids!she bringing a man home!dz z prEposterous!shee doesn't lovE d man nor her kids

YelloweWest:
How can they hate their mum when you are the one who broke the family by cheating? ?

Dt is not a substantial excuse 4 her misconduct!2ndly it was just was just cheating not lyk I married a 2nd wifE

Joy1706:
My point is you marry the side chick. She marries you as well

Mayb am not God!

Joy1706:
Okay. It's been confirmed. This guy na confam dunce. Can't even come up with sound arguments

Do u mean mE?

Kirinwa:
You are immature.

Op you need time alone with your lovely wife. Take a break with her. Just you and her alone. I repeat ALONE.
Be honest with each other.2-5 days tins. You can get some family members to stay with the kids if they are quite grown up like 4years.

Otherwise she should drop 1 of her breasts at home.

I Guess majority love dz advice

bigiyaro:
gbam. Moreover over in Africa we can Mary Mary wives.

Mayb but we v to use sense

egobetatoday:
Have she asked why he did it? funny! so there is a good reason for cheating on ur woman? this is a new one on me!

Ofcourse there must be a reason!

Adasun:
haba joy why all dis

Do u want me to use an axe and break my heart bfor u knw dat it's da first and last tym i did those shamful act?

Listen i was somehw polluted in da heart dats what lead me to da heart.

Even right at it i was regreting okay.hw i wish u knw me wel

am nt dat bad as u thing.am nt even egocentric

all i want is to get confidence and controlled of my hwz again

Mr.... my point is try and gt hold of ur liFe!1st b4 u become a laughing stock in ur family! And among ur frnds

egobetatoday:
she may not even remarry

4 her pocket!

YelloweWest:
Well your opinion is dead wrong! You can't treat your wife and mother of your kids like that and expect there will be no consequences!
Your kids will watch their mother suffer all her life and will resent you for that as adults.
The best gift you can give to your kids is to show the that you love there mother so if u offend your wife have the humility to begin for her forgiveness and be patient. Only God forgives immediately, for us humans it takes time.

Read all my posts as in relation to d topic and ask if d'll hate mE or d mum

Look adasun!D moree you beg a woman! You lose your respect and self-worth!the rubbish have already happened!we can let it b d other of the day!


Call her to order!!!she better bE your wife or go to that man dt won't cheat!

wizzyrich:
u made a point bro, two wrongs can never make a right. Let him continue begging, but if it persist, then she will have to go her way.

Confam bro!babe v been slamming me For the post!pls tnx

YelloweWest:
You will die hated and alone bro. Change your mentality

Kpele door!dts my opnion!

repogirl:
you obviously don't know much about the female folk, I hereby rest my case.

When you rush so quickly to lump all women together as prostitutes, keep in mind your mother and sisters and whether they are part of the 99.9%

Sorry I dnt v sisters!my mum n all d good babes out dia is d. 1%

repogirl:
seriously? That's the best argument you could come up with?

Maybe you need to wake up and see that its the twenty first century, umm, I think women go to school now ......maybe you also didnt realise but women have jobs and careers now .... some take it further and establish successful businesses, so therefore many women don't need you to pay their bills but ofcourse they would prefer to marry a MAN who's got his own, so as not to make him feel emasculated.

But maybe you prefer the ones that need you to settle their bills so you can sustain your ego by acting like the dictator?

And so Hw many men r successFul!99.9% girls are into runs!love is 4 d highest bidder!

I just want to know wt I gain as a nigerian!i go to school no job!i serve THE d country no bEnEFits

Joy1706:
The side chick still has to say YES abi. She would still marry you

Yes naaa!husband hard to get!

ILoveMakonen:
Please write your english well, i like ur comment but d english is making it irritatable. *no offence

Ya it's nairaland dt re-edit it but tnxz if u understood some!

slap1:
He means his wife, not girlfriend. And why won't you beg someone you offended? Be forming African man while you're actually dying inside.

Girls b lyk iam a diva when u beG!it's lyk adding fuel to burning Fire

Mayb!but better dan living in a hEll

malachytochukwu:
You think it's that easy uhhh?... He messed up real large and this is all you have to say... That's your opinion though but I am sure that if it were the man that caught the wife red handed this thread would have been filled up with... "kick the wh*re out!"... This is the time for him to show his wife real love and not taking up issues with her. He should not even contemplate divorce at all... Otherwise his whole life will be in a total mess...

repogirl:
this your post funny no be small, if she didn't marry you, would you have married yourself? Lol.

Have you noticed on wedding invitation cards that it is the woman's name that appears first, e.g. daretodiffer weds uckennety? Why do you think that is?

It is because she 'chose' to marry you, you didn't just pick her off the side of the road and force to live in your house. So wipe that mentality that you do women favours by marrying them. She agreed to your proposal and that's why your bride price was received or you would be looking for another woman to beg to accept your proposal.


And marriage is not a relationship, seriously? I guess to you, its a dictatorship then.

IF I couldn't pay her bills!will sHe agreed?

Am in a tight situation now I nid advice on aw life is on d two country so I can cHose!

daretodiffer:
Ode!

Loser!

Onye nzuzu!

Lame!!!!

Joy1706:
But if she didn't say yes, would u have a marriage? Ur both architects of d marriage

I'll marry d side chick n mk my main chick my side chick

daretodiffer:
Ode! Loser!

Ewu!winner try n ask a Guy out nama!

bardella1:
me cheating
Is cool
Women cheatin is trouble lol

Women cheating means dt am nt a man!i can't control her even in bed

Joy1706:
What the Fucck do u people even mean by 'I married her, she didn't marry me'? Was it a ghost that said I DO to you on ur wedding day? Did u we'd urself? Didn't ur wife say vows? If yes, dude she married you too. You pple should upgrade ur reasoning abeg

Am d architect of d marriagE!

daretodiffer:
You are wussy. The husband should have thought of that before he did what he did. The wife can decide to stay or leave, she should choose one biko.

Aunty wussy!pls let Em divorce HENCE she can't Grow pass it!mayb d nxt guy won't cHEat!

She don taste *#aboki dick E d swt!well well!walahhi!!!

worry359:
Ok but still be careful. we have seen people robbed even by their relatives.
Check everything several times before paying.

Ya tnx dts y I v pple lyk u on nairaland i'll scan it n una go confam am!sEnd me a mail pls