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Congratulations bro, you never wanted to let anyone know that you are a big boy

Let me get something right,
You took her in when she just finished her jss 3 abi ? What was her age ?
Was she up to the age of consent ?
Where the parents involved ?
What did you tell them before they released a jssc 3 girl you just met ?

Something is not right at all,

Batam:
Which Christian denomination allows polygamy when the Bible forbids it

any Bible quotation to back up your claim ?

Blendy77:
You sound like you really love your wife and this no kids issue is weighing you down. How about having a surrogate to carry ur kids via ivf? U can use her eggs n your sperm and pay someone to carry the baby via IVF instead of marrying a second wife. Suggest this to her and see if she will agree. Cos for a woman to agree to second wife means there's a lot she's hiding ranging from medical issues to spiritual. If she agrees to this suggestion, kindly reach out to me and I will tell you how to go about it including introducing u to an ivf Dr who can help u out. All the best.

ok but the cost of ivf thing no dey here.

StPete:
Go and buy sense mugu

nkakwu

Will God forgive buhari for what he turned this country to

Jashub:
So what's the motive for kidnapping her ? Mtchwww

hmmmm to enjoy sex

anthonyuncle:
wow!
did you wed your wife the day you met her?
what were you guys discussing during dating and courtship?
why didn't you go for medical checks before marriage?

and wakanda church desist from counseling your wife to be sincere about her past & health, forbids divorce, adultery and yet supports polygamy.

NB: there's nothing like peaceful polygamy in our society.

hmmmm people should comment on what they know

Spherica177:
Which denomination? Please i beg to differ. No church will do such thing. You can go ahead with your second wife plan but i disagree at the bolded

i belong to a messianic Jewish assembly and polygyny is allowed

StPete:
You’re just hungry to be fucking two women or possibly have every reason to have legitimate three.some without consequences. I pity any woman who takes up this useless offer

you are the only useless thing here who must comments on a post you knows nothing about

The first time you posted on this matter, i thought you were just an acute simp, but now it's clear that your eyes are not clear. You need deliverance. You are dating a female demon

Richy4:
@ red highlights, It never crossed my mind too until I was exposed to the reality of life... I never even knew that a man might decide not to get married in this world except the Reverend fathers but yeah..it happens...

Maybe an open and honest conversation could be the solutions this time around... Put all cards on the table while discussing...At least she should meet you half way.. is she opened to surrogacy,.. is she gonna be ok for you to have a baby Mama, or is she opened for a second wife options...

Both of you loved each other... she doesn't want kids, u want kids.. so there should be compromise... meeting each other half way is the deal... 50:50

if you read my responses you will notice that i have had a heart tp heart talk with her many times , that was when she permitted me to marry a second wife

earleswood:
Kereku. Somebody dey oil am.

very possible

Samfloxin:
Let me tell you the fact. If this me, I will save money,work my visa secretly and leave the country. When I go there ,I marry again

yea, but in my case, there is a big reason why i can't leave now,

Richy4:
Sorry to ask.. but what were u people discussing during courtship...I believe there are times that u said I will like you to be the mother of my kids.. what do you think we should call our first kids etc.. what was her reactions?..I believe both of you were not on the same page before you tie the knot..

thanks for this angle you are coming from. She was a student when I married her and when i raise the issue of having children, her excuss then was that dhe can't combine schooling with having kids, we did not have long courtship actually and i think it contributed to all these, she was able to hide her disdem for kids, and it never crossed my mind that a lady could marry without wanting kids

Unzerious:
10 Years!! Abandon ship ASAP!

Divorce her first, you'll only be bringing Unlimited harm to your new Wife and Unborn Kids If you dont.

devorce with out evidence of adultry or witcraft is impossible in my church

Zonefree:
You don't need a second wife yet.

You need to divorce that Jezebel first and get yourself another beautiful damsel to console your heart for a decade of living with the devil.

our church don't grant divorce unless you have evidence of adultry. The church granted me permission to marry a second wife, and she is very ok with it

Unzerious:
10 Years!! Abandon ship ASAP!

Divorce her first, you'll only be bringing Unlimited harm to your new Wife and Unborn Kids If you dont.

in the christian religious denomination i belong, polygamy (polygny) is normal and we know how to practice it peacefuly, she can't harm anyone because everyone has their own spaces.


As for divorce, she simply refused to go (actually I'm a husband material with good looks , without being a simp,) in our church you can't divorce any woman without an evidence of adultry or witchcraft. More over she is very harmless and likable, i even have her permission to marry a second wife

Rosrozz:
Was there an agreement with your wife not to have kids before marriage? I think there’s more to this, your wife is hiding a very important issue about her from you.

there was no agreement with her not to have kids, i also noticed that she is hiding things from me especially reasons why she couldn't have kids.

YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

Reno is a young man with expired brain. These days he talks before thinking and has been consistently showing his blind hatred for Peter Obi.
Too bad for him

Hmmmmmm
I endured this kind of rubbish from my wife for 10 years , i actually was thinking that she will change , they nodey change anything ooo. My wife even refused to see a medical doctor.

My problem now is that she refused to leave me and the marriage alone, i have even begged her to go and she refused. To worsen the matter every lady i approach for marriage dosent want to be a second wife. I stopped sleeping with her since 1 year ago . Her job is far more interesting to her

I really can feel your pain

Parachoko:
Obi supporters is made mostly of IPOB supporters. They will start telling us Tinubu is more than 70 years, but none of them will be able to back their claims up with any evidence.

Is a waste of time arguing with them.

Dem fit com tell you 61 years is still a Youth.

may you look like tinubu at 70

Nice one

God bless Anambra state

Mad pipu every where

Fact is that Ekweremadu is prone to forign embarrasment. Second is that he critized the wrong guy at the wrong time . Amadioha may even have a hand on his wotowoto collection

Big lie. Na who go get mind open restuarant on a monday in anambra state ?

Ha. Iyabo's nyash pass this one naa ;DHa. Iyabo's nyash pass this one naa

Bonesbreaker:
Neither Tinubu nor VP will win the primary be watching mark today's date someone here told you this will happen an unexpected figure will win it

hmmm. Who will upset the cart?

FEAR NORTH