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Martinez39:
Promiscuity and too much sex is rampant among many of them. Many of those girls can flash their breasts at you or give you a Mouth Action just to have you attend their church or cell meeting.

OMG! YOU ARE CAPITALLY RIGHT!!!

As in, I don't know who implants such desperation in them

Ignatiusprince:
Guy, after d visit and nothing happens between u guys... Free her and even when she tries calling u back, ignore her and u will c her coming fully force on u to profess her love... She loves u bt at d same time she z not ready to date u bt dont want to lose u... Girls d most confused creature... She z keeping u as d gud man bt dont forget to take ur shot to b d champion coz she will soon get fade up with u if she meets d hero...

Thanks

palmshots:
Gee how wud you let a girl have you by the balls to this level? Huh? Whereby she starts spinning it..Bro First you need to have your balls back , she ain't coming over to your place cancel that plans tell her something came up.. Don't ever ask her out Never again...You need to have ur balls back first B4 u can lay dis girl..By the time you Bleep her she'd be the one disturbing you for that love..You still av a chance with her don't Looseguard

I think it's too late to cancel the plan already. My family is expecting her but then, imma have my balls back. I promise

womenareapes:
I still keep wondering why a guy will go all that
extent to ask those ape out more than two times?

See! The truth is that if you ask an ape out and she said no! Respect your dignity and leave that than ape alone

It only takes a woman just 2second to know what she want, but unfortunately our naija women are just bunch of confused piece of shiit!


If I asked a woman out and she said no! Or give me some pending stuff! I delete her number instantly and move my thing. And even when she is trying to come back, I immediately tell those piece of shiit that time wait for nobody


A guy is more beautiful than 100 of those eediots! So stop wasting your time on one ugly goofy shiit of a woman!

How much you only knew that many other women are dying for you just to say hi to them!


Increase your self-esteem and make grounds on your principles!


Last but not the least! Never you take advise on WOMEN here! There brain is so fvcccked up!

Hahahah! Bro, you dey vex gan o

jerab:
With the way things are going, you might end up being her bestie when she eventualy get herself a bf.. Just do d needful. Nd consumate d friendship

After all what I've read from here, I'm not going to end up as her bestie. I'll either end up as her fuckmate or boyfriend. Nothing more or less.

Yamleg:
You very stupid, bro.
Who does that? Toast/woo a lady at all.
My format : I meet a lady, I act like we have been together for a long time. I just start acting as her boyfriend/husband.
So simple.

Lesson learnt.

Akinbahm:
Well, u can still change the wheel urself since the gurl is still unto u...
Firstly bro, where u get the whole stuff wrong was when u decided to woo her which gave her the upper hand to manipulate ur emotion, it has been said severally here never u toast a lady cause once u done that u gave her the chance to boss the game that has not even started yet, asking her out the first time was still fair but u spoilt the whole stuff by asking her till 5th time which down ur game finally ( if you notice anytime u raise the issue she stylishly turn down ur request in a manly manner).
Since the gurl is still unto u u can still win her over, firstly never u raise the wooing issue again nd d question do u av a boyfriend just maintain the friendship stuff as a cover up to strike by playing the boyfriend role mind u never do this along with ur heart(lock up ur heart i.e never fall in love) from there increase the velocity of the romance and make use of her strongest guide(pu**y) to turnover the game to ur reach once u become the boss of the game again utilize it to ur satisfaction to wife her... Don't chop and clean mouth
#Ufedolove

You be boss in the game o

HolyTitus:
First lesson: Never woo a girl who has already gave you her natural resources to fiddle with; during those periods of romance, I guess she'd wished you'd broke that hymen but the good guy in you prefer the romance more whereas babe was craving for something else. Had it been you'd hit her and made it a memorable experience for her; It would have been her doing the wooing job - virtually all the time, a girl's "no" means "yes" reason being that they love adventures and they tends to pretend in order to know that special someone bold enough to meet up with their fantasies. So, I conclude that there is something she'd wanted you to do which you've not done but she kept presenting you opportunities - but I guess you wanted something more; why not leave the icing and hunt for the cake itself.... Hope you got the message

I love this angle

babyfaceafrica:
I am really disappointed in OP....see as small gal play am like ludo...ayam in tears now!!

Lol! It's entirely my fault. I'm a disgrace to the brotherhood. But I swear, I've picked myself up.

elmagnifico411:
Sincerely, I don’t understand why you’re still asking her out. Out to where nah? Somebody misses, gives u her body to play with , even promised to come spend the night in your family house, what else do u want? Can u not see the writings on the wall? She’s even helped put your emotions in check my saying NO to your request. Smallie, u need to grow up. Go with the flow. Quit asking her out and continue to enjoy Wateva she brings to the table. Don’t bother yourself with thoughts of another guy, that’s waste of time and talent.

Eventually, if she doesn’t sit in as the bae, you’d take another girl for yourself, she’ll express how bad she feels but you’d have everything to say about how she shot herself in the foot. It’s a win win situation bro, just make sure u take the red pill.

Thanks plenty plenty

respect80:
@Ufedolove, I don't wish to say anything different from what Toxay said because he already took the word outta my mouth.

You ain't her first choice but it's a fact that she loves you and wishes to keep you as a resort she could fall back to if anything goes wrong in the relationship she's in presently.

Don't be used for such purpose pls. if she can't be with u then she's not for you cos this is almost becoming a trend among teenage girls. They keep giving you green light but when you approach them, they start making you feel like you are begging to be loved.

That's why I like igbo and yoruba girls. Once they give you green light on their own, you are sure to drink from the golden pot not some pretenders parading themselves as holy Mary.

Use your head for fucck sake. You are and igala man and I want you to act in light of that. No dulling at all cos if she doesn't want something from you, she wouldn't go as far as kissing u.

God bless you my brother. I'm really picking myself up.

kellycute:
I can teach u. We just gonna flip up the script, like a flash she gon plead with u to be her guy.

Sensepill : the way up, is the way down. The way forward, is the way backward.

Teach me please.

Akinbahm:
Brotherly before u sign out from school make sure u contest for Hall chairman for ur hostel cause u r a certified chairman for friendzones why on earth would u agree to this extent for a fresher to play on ur brain this far I swear as I dey I fit tear u slap from here and e fit reach u to proof my level of boilness towards u...
Keep my advice till morning cause ur case be like sleep medicine to me and u Bleep up big time aswear...

Even me sef know say I fvukup big time.

fayded:
I like your story telling prowess. which is why I'm offering my advice.

First off, you've lost your balls to her, whenever you start doing something with a girl, never you ask her out, let her be the first to ask the "what are we" question.
2nd,...she said no the first time, you should never have tried again.
and 3rdly ...Stop giving her so much attention, goddammit is she the only girl in your side?? Just stop. find other girls, invite them over, have fun, gist, laugh.. and all that.
just ignore the edidikang girl or something.
oh and she shouldn't come to your house this Friday. cancel it. that's a wrong move, bro. a very wrong move.

oh and lastly as a bro. NEVER YOU LET A GIRL DECIDE THE TERMS FOR YOU. YOU SET THE TERMS. YOU'RE THE MAN.

You are the real Gee. But my family is already expecting her. This is why I don't want to stop her from coming.

dave4rella:

You don't ask a woman out!
I have never asked a girl out before
I assume boyfriend responsibilities
And other stuffs and allow her do the asking.
Even the lady I'm about to marry, I never asked her out! Rather she did! Don't ask ladies out!i repeat!
I'm not wealthy yet, that you might think it's because of money! If you understand women you will not stress yourself!

Wow! I won't make this mistake again

Thank you all for your advice. I really appreciate them

JoeMaddog:
What the hell is wrong with you guy? After all the rants of ubunja and co on this site, you're still bahaving like a puci. She's in her hoe phase and you tryna take her off the market... You're doing something right and thats the only reason she's coming back to you. She'll soon get fed up with you if you don't do quickly and give her the D. Once she's invested in you, you're the champion. Harden up nigga

No vex for me bro. Na my heart dey do me

kellycute:
guy, u dont have game at all. U need someone to teach u for real

I know I know I know

Omar09:
Bro. Whether or not you sex her which I'm 100% sure she won't let you. Still talk to her. Tell her you don't wane such in your life n mean it.

Mine ended when she asked me to teach her math n I asked for a Mouth Gig which she refused n I refused too.

Lmao

You are a bad shaid

Omar09:
Just like looking in the mirror. The same exact situation. I'm in my final year in the university. Tho I have called her bullshit n she's respected herself.

Good for you bro

Omar09:
Song. Na so I mumu

Omar09:
Look man if you get pass this one which you will eventually, the rest will be a walk over case.

Thanks man

Omar09:
Allow her to come over to your house, enjoy the smoosh even make an attempt to fvck her. Sweet tongue her make sure you bleep the hell out of her but don't rape. Then in the morning have a brief meeting with her. Tell her you can't continue the way you two are going. It's either you two are dating or you are not even friends at all. I have asked you out several times n you said no. I don't wanna continue like this. Then let her leave. Watch her reaction. Thank me later.

Omo, this one get as e be o

Toxay:
You are probably not her first choice and she does not want something long-term with you,that's why she is comfortable with the the relationship between you guys as just friends.

She is bidding her time, pending when she gets her "dream man", when that happens,she would ensure you get it that she isn't interested and all those romance and calls will stop and even when you call her, she will make it clear you are a either a disturbance or just a friend.


She is likely very young too and she is still at a stage where she has a specific image of the kind of guy she wants and would not settle for someone else no matter how much the person cares for her even if you are the best she can actually get

Wow! Someone said this too.

But about age, she's a year older than me. I'm 21

Omar09:
This is the same situation I found myself in. In fact I loved this girl eh. She was initially crushing on me oh. If I had known I would have let it be at that crush. I asked her out three times. She refused it each saying I don't know how to ask a girl out. Should I fry beans n serve her? To the point I composed songs just to ask her out. See where my mumu reach? Free that girl even if she says yes later, it won't worth all this your effort. Talking from experience.

Thanks


I really want to. I already feel humiliated. My heart, please heed to my words!

Powersurge:
if your father is not rolling in it, don't waste your time on school relationship as a guy. But you can enjoy it for what it is.


But never you have it in mind that it will lead to something serious. What University unites, final year and NYSC will break. in today's Nigeria, love is 70% money and 30% other things like education, handsomeness etc.

Hmmmmm

AwkaetitiBabe:
Yes, Herpa rents did not suffer to send her to school to do boyfriend

Oh really?

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lakeside30:
O boy see name, Edidiong, ufedo,,,nawa o

Edidiong (Akwa Ibom) means Blessing while Ufedo (Igala, Kogi state) means Love