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And then?

I have a friend who got pregnant by a man who wanted nothing to do with the pregnancy. He denied being responsible and walked away. She couldn’t bring herself to have an abortion, so she had to prepare for motherhood alone.

Another after 2 children, For years, he abused her physically and emotionally, reducing her to a shadow of herself. She put her nursing career on hold for seven years to be a stay-at-home mum while her colleagues advanced professionally both at home and abroad.
he didn’t leave her, she left him. She chose herself. She got a job, rebuilt her life, and today she’s looking way better, I can see peace on her face, the glow, the chubby face.

So no, women are not always the problem. Some men are irresponsible, abusive, and selfish.

A wife is a human being, not furniture or property to be controlled, mistreated, or discarded. The fact that a woman agreed to marry a man does not give him ownership over her life, dignity, or happiness.

Make Una Dey think, Una wey get tail in between

saweide:
They don’t have respect. Any woman who is not ready to respect his husband and submit to his man will end up been a single mother

So
All single mothers don’t have respect?
You see how you Dey think?

Sinkara:
Them no go talk true
Them single mothers dey mad

Smh
You know it’s pathetic and a myopic thinking to assume that women always are the problem. It’s still so pathetic to always think men do no wrong, assumed to be saints.

Sorry

EmperorIsaac:
Those sons are not 10 years old. What if God asks one of them to succeed you?

Doctors' sons later aspire to be doctors; lawyers' sons; engineers' sons...In fact, it's the joy of parents to see their sons succeed them. Jimmy Swaggert's sons succeeded him. I think he owes those boys some apology. I see no wisdom (I say this respectfully) in this declaration since it's ultimately going to be God's decision.

Even Jesus wanted His disciples to succeed him here on earth. In fact, God in the Old Testament specifically asked for the dedication of a particular tribe.

IT IS NOT A FAMILY BUSINESS!!!!!!

Illiteracy

‘ you quick Dey vex’ - dad
Shy and reserved- mum

It was never meant to be 1 country
Nigeria should split up

muyico:
Pure skits
Not real
Ladies can't pay for sex!

Who come be sugar mummies?

Una no go rest for this life of una never carry topic about women.

escortafrik:
Hello guys, I really need your advice because I’ve been turning this over in my head and I don’t want to make a mistake.

So a bit of background… I’m in my final year at the university, just trying to finish with good grades and figure out what’s next for my life.

A close friend of mine introduced me to her cousin a few months ago. He’s doing really well for himself, stable, calm, and very intentional in how he carries himself.

We got along pretty quickly and things moved from just talking to a serious relationship faster than I expected, but it has been good so far.

Now the situation is this… he wants me to move in with him.

At first, I thought maybe it’s just excitement and love growing fast, but he’s been consistent about it and says it’s because he sees a future with me and wants us to start building our life together properly. I do like him a whole lot , and part of me likes the idea of us being together in that way, like a real couple sharing everyday life.

But I spoke to my friends and they are not having it at all. They keep telling me that once I move in, it might reduce the chances of marriage happening, that men can get too comfortable and stop seeing the need to “formalise” things. Even his cousin who introduced us is saying I shouldn’t as well but I’m quite surprised because this guy has been so good to me in every aspect of my life.

Now I’m stuck in the middle. I don’t want to act based on fear, but I also don’t want to ignore advice that could save me from future regret.

So I’m asking honestly… what do you think I should do in this situation?

What else do you want to hear?
DO NOT MOVE IN WITH HIM
You want to move in and you want someone to tell you to move in with him so it won’t be like you moved in due to your own advice but advice from someone else.

If you love yourself, DO NOT.

Yorubastardz:
Real life doings.

But why are you girls so good at making horrible decisions??

If she allow me date am
Na she for dey chop my money now

You girls are so bad at making decisions
Una go chase away the right one
Then start crying tears of regret in Shiloh

For your mind now you be the right one
You are still pained that she rejected you.

This just made my night

Two of my faves won
Uzor and Bucci

Their nose ooo
Especially the older men
Check osho, obayagbon, pat utomi,okpebolor….. and others
Even my Pa 😂😂😂😂
Na God save my brother sha ( small)

Sorry o
Jesus no give me assignment o

And he is shining teeth

Skj13777:
Madam you still dey how UK.

Oga
I no know you o

Shallipopi Dey do him talk for inside his head, long face wan pull am enter his own wahala

Fight your fight oga and leave Pluto presido oo

Mirasteel:
Small face

Oya go face front.

😏

Long face
Na for Akpi you get power for
Oya carry wizkid go police station na
Ozuor!

Omo this yab sweet me o
Any yab against long face, wake me up!!!!!

Awon ode

Can’t she be arrested?

SmartPolician:
Irresponsible girls are looking for God-fearing men too. Wonders will never cease!

How is she irresponsible?

Who get time for this Una family wahala
Abeg shift lil princess, we ain’t interested about your momma or her movie,
Yall like to be talked about shaaaaa

Funke go Dey think say she be all that.
🤣🤣
Mtcheeeew

If na me sef be Toyin, I won’t ever greet her. Wetin Dey do her sef?
Carry face like nyas.h

Toyin if you greet am again too, I go swear for you

This gender
Na to Dey beat women upandan

Kemadealadire:
Lol 😂😂 women, women, women, just imagine a world without women.

Them go too suffer
They no Dey allow us drink water drop cup
Yet they don’t know their existence started from a woman.