₦airaland Forum

Solofresh2:
They do same and expect the man to be calm but if e reach their turn wahala go sup 😂

So she did same to the man?

Mirasteel:
Maybe that's why she's still single.

So you agree marriage kills a woman’s dream

Can she spend her own money already?
100k for hair
Wetin you Dey plait aunty
How many attachments you wan use? Shuuuuuu
I fear this my gender oooo
Una Dey overdo sometimes
Anyways…..men dey

Kalulu44:
Though not in support of what the guy did, but this same girl saying she was molested or sexually assaulted can hit a guy's backside or bum bum and there will be no cause for alarm. Everybody will even laugh at it. Is it that female bum bums are made of gold and the guys made of stone.
I just don't get it.
And the Os even said she's traumatized 😀😁😂 😂😂😂

Sense ❌
So at this your age you don’t know that the woman’s body is often sexualized as compared to the man? No be woman nyash them go show for music video to entice the audience. So you should obviously know that more attention is given to a woman’s back side, you men are after their backside like flies to shit.
And why call her Os , you don patronize am before?
It’s not hard to identify men with two left brain

Mirasteel:
Why is she with him?

Stockholm Syndrome

All of you justifying that man are slow, like very slow
Encouraging the slap to that girl
But y’all can hear Nana say ‘ kill my child for me, the same way you beat me………’ The man is a woman beater, ugly man wey Dey beat woman

LordIsaac:
Marry a God-fearing and disciplined virgin; stay away from howloshos...and 90% of the issue is sertled.

Because they easily be manipulated and controlled
Typical men behaviour… yall can’t take half of what you dish out

Kalatium:
IF YOUR MONEY IS YOURS AND HIS MONEY IS OURS, WHAT EXACTLY ARE YOU MARRYING HIM FOR?

There is nothing wrong with a woman having money. In fact, every woman should have the capacity to earn, save, invest and build something for herself.

Financial independence is valuable. The problem begins when financial independence is interpreted as “my resources belong exclusively to me, but your resources become a responsibility I am entitled to share.”

Imagine a woman earning ₦2 million every month while her husband earns ₦500,000. She says, “My money is my money. I worked for it.” Fine. But if the same woman expects the man to pay rent, school fees, provide food, handle emergencies, maintain the car, support both families and still prove that he is “a responsible man,” we should at least be honest about the arrangement. She is not asking for equality. She is asking to retain her income while assigning the traditional financial burden to him.

Now reverse the situation. Imagine the man earns ₦2 million while she earns ₦500,000. Suddenly, many people will say, “A man should take care of his family. Her money is her contribution, not her obligation.”

Why should the principle change simply because the gender changed?

A woman earning more than her husband is not a problem. A husband earning more than his wife is not a problem. The problem is when one person's financial strength is treated as personal property while the other person's financial strength is treated as a marital obligation.

Marriage is also too unpredictable for this mentality. A man can be wealthy when you marry him and lose his business five years later. He can lose his job, suffer a financial setback, make a bad investment or simply experience circumstances nobody anticipated.

The same thing can happen to a woman. If your commitment disappears the moment your partner's bank balance does, then perhaps what you were committed to was the lifestyle rather than the person.

There are countless marriages where women contributed significantly to their husbands' success. They supported businesses, sacrificed personal comfort, invested their own money, managed the home during difficult periods and encouraged their husbands when things were going badly. They did not see their husband's success as competition. They saw it as the family's success.

Men should be capable of doing the same for their wives.

If my wife becomes the bigger earner tomorrow, I should not feel threatened. If I become the bigger earner, she should not feel entitled to everything I make simply because I am the man.

The sensible question in marriage is not “Who earns more?”

It is “Are we building together?”

Because marriage is supposed to be a partnership, not a financial arrangement where one person keeps the benefits of independence while the other person carries the obligations of tradition.

Bring your money. I will bring mine. Let us decide together how to build our family, protect our future, invest, support each other and survive difficult seasons.

Money should be a tool for building a life together. It should never become a weapon for one spouse to establish superiority over the other.

If you genuinely want a partner rather than a provider, marry with the mentality of a partner too.

Una don Dey tire to brag about bringing things to the table?
Mehn… yall are the head, bragged about bringing things to the table and even the table, so please do as head biko

Mtcheeeew
Tell me exactly what makes you happy about the so called independence.

BodyCount:
TO ME, MONEY LAUNDERING IS NOT REALLY A CRIME... IT DEPENDS...

🙄

Pootle:
speed darlington look alike

Either you are high or you just don’t know how speed Darlington looks like.
Focus on the man in question instead of mentioning someone else .

KingMack:
You must be tinubu supporter 😁

God forbid bad thing in my life
Abeg no curse me ooo

KingMack:
That guy above jus stole my FTC 😞

For 2026??

Shuuuuuuuuuuu

smallsmall:
See this one o!
Nigerian Men are top pick for any lady, worldwide.
Too much Sense and Swaggar.

You are living in a fantasy world
Come to reality

Kaczynski:
How is UK different from Nigeria??

How is Uk same as Nigeria?
Political system is not the same
Health system is not the same
Educational system is not the same
Road network/ transportation is not same
Work system is not the same
Environmentally sef not the same

So how is Nigeria same with uk

georgeakins:
Must he go to dating app to look for ladies to date?
Doesn't he come across ladies every day ?

You never know wasup

Kaczynski:
UK is literally nigeria but with snow and yt peeps.

🙄
Uk being likened to Nigeria is weird and absurd
How you go say Uk is literally Nigeria
Which area of Uk are you using to compare with Nigeria?

Enlighten me

Nigerian men be thinking they are all that

Shiooor

Hangulsaram:
Oga is not everyone that is ready to wash their dirty laundry outside like Peter, ever since this issue started u will notice that he is the only one talking, and I never said he is totally at fault. I can never say such about my mum on internet world I don't know about you. You are the one who seems to live in the same house.with them and knows everything.

Shebi na you talk say we no know genesis, like as if you know the genesis too
What did he even say about his mum?
Again na you be Jude, go and make things right with your twin brothers. You be elder no Dey do like devil

Hangulsaram:
I never mentioned Paul & Jude, as a matter of fact I will borrow Jude's statement long ago. "There three side of every story his side, their side, and the Truth" involving their mum and demonizing the dead woman is what am against this is his own mum for that matter. He was busy making his money releasing videos(a case in the cour) back to back selling his product and you people are here picking side.on something u.dont.know the real genesis of it and how it's still going.

Hiaaaa
How he take demonise him mama
Was it not what happened at the time that he talked about?
Seems you know the real genesis
If everything he said is a lie why can’t Jude and Paul deny it with their own evidence as everything don Dey online.
Jude keeps going round and round with his explanation no meaningful explanation
Paul on his own talks like he is just learning to speak, nothing meaningful to counter what Peter said
Now Peter came with evidences, may d had issues with Jude, Cynthia Morgan had, Henry said Jude is bad, how else do you think people will perceive Jude.
We no know genesis, but Peter don bring revelation. Until Peter is countered as bad as Jude/paul then Nigerians will keep promoting him, na only his story we know.

If you are telling an event and it involves a dead relative won’t you still narrate the event as it happened? Same Peter that narrated how his mum didn’t want him marrying Lola is same person that narrated how his mum eventually accommodated Lola, so where is the demonizing ?

Be like na you be Jude sef. Better go and return Peter money, mr 40%

Hangulsaram:
That was/is the goal. To promote business, anything maakee money even to demonize dead mum.

So
You are justifying what Jude and Paul did?

Na now I believe Wetin my friend tell me about VDM

This guy na mumu o

Lumig:
Where's the Brotherly Love? If one should look very deep and intense at the situation surrounding this hullabaloo, a female either in the form of a girlfriend or wife will have a hand in this discord.
It's a pity how men (friends or blood brothers) fall apart once the other gender comes into their midst

SMH
Any way to blame female
The man no get sense to think?
Na Jude them dey mention since, you sha find way say na wife or girlfriend get hand inside
You ehn??
Was Jude not misbehaving before Lola got in the picture?

Kingpele:
The nurse had a point but I will rather wait for a trained doctor to explain more about it ...nurses are often not in the position to give this kind update...but I have already read this news on phoenix website...ebi like nairaland no dey get updates on time

What are nurses in the position to give update about?

I like the blend of the housemates
Flora, Abi, Mercedes, Temi, sultex, tram….
Good good
Flora and Abi go fight sha

Aioli
You seem Boring ooo

This Abi go fall o
I don’t understand her voice and accent

Okay I like martins