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This one never mad like this?

Nawa o
Okay , I no be bad belle o. Yes she rapped, stayed on the beat but Wetin she really talk wey Dey make Una go gaga? For me to certify one a talented rapper, I gats hear punch lines o. I may not be one, but I know rappers, I’ve heard rap songs wella. Make Una chill jor, okay she’s good but hiaaaa…… the hype don pass Wetin she rap
But yall saying she is talented Dey make me laugh
I hope she wrote the lyrics herself

Martdc:
We’ve been dating for 3 years now, but I’m starting to lose attraction towards her.

I do other things as a man ought to do, but sex is not included. Last time we had sex was 2 months ago, and we live together.

I enjoy her care, and every other thing aside sex. I feel irritated anytime she comes close, or touchy.

I’m not seeing anyone else. I’ve lost interest in so many things including having sex with my girlfriend or any other girl.

What do you guys suggest i do?

what else do you want to do?
LEAVE OGA

lightwind:
You will be very lonely at old age... Your siblings children at a time no go dey reason you again, they will be very preoccupied with things to meet up with. By that time you will be regretting why you no marry or have children when your mates are marrying and having their own children.

Except you decided to be a baby mama or a single mother in the future. Just have 1 or 2 kids in your name and forget about husband.

You see now at this age you are, of course you can do lots of things with your strength and power, go to work, market, cook, go out with friends etc.. time will reach when you will be unable to do any of this again..real matter o no be play. Na that time you go see the value of husband and children except you wouldn't like to get old in your life.

You see that loneliness at old age is what most people are scared of, nothing else.
Loneliness at old age is very brutal and real sis.


Even people around you at that time sef will be calling you a witch at old age, WEH NO GREE Marry Or Get Children. He be like you still be teenager or still enjoying life at your parents house

Remember Nigeria doesn't have old people homes, unlike Oyibo land where they have all this facilities they use in taking care of Old people in their country.

The reason i wrote all this long message for you is because you are saying i don't have sense.

And why do you think I want to read all this epistle?
Why my statement dey pain you like this?

Danjunior:
Thank you for this your quote.... Always waiting for miracle to happen or God to come and punish politicians or bad eggs for them instead of confronting it

How many you don confront?

lightwind:
See you, See menopause!!
See you,See Mountain of Fire and Miracle Church or Redeem where you go dey fire prayers for husband weda rich or poor.

You better be wise

see you see sense 🫲🫱
Y'all keep assuming that everyone wants to be married

trumpcoat:
It's well,you married right,not all men are lucky but most importantly be nice to your wife first, because women have the grace of doubling anything be it good or bad,if they can use small sperm to produce a baby then don't underestimate women

na we Dey use the sperm to produce baby??
That’s biology o, we don’t have any input in that, we have the ova and you have the sperm, they come together and a baby is conceived.

Skelebone:
Wow
A very supportive wife.
Hold her tight bro

Shioor

Amovingman:
Hope women on nairaland can follow your wife footsteps for their husband or boyfriend

What is the footstep?
Yo cook potatoes and have it with oil?
Dey play
I want better
Tell your sister and daughter to settle for less

osuofia2:
Greeting king Charles

No fact
Just exaggerations
Do you know what Nigerian men are doing to their wives in uk? Oh you won’t know, they are the victims obviously

Y'all were clamouring for ‘ what do you bring to the table’ we don Dey bring everything come table Una still Dey complain, Nawa o

franchasng:
He is right to a very large extent.


Asian women are one of the most loyal women ever created by God.


Black women have a high tendency to be disloyal once they are financially buoyant or independent, it's sad but not all of them anyway.

Why do you think that is though?

Could it also have something to do with how the men treat their wives? Maybe the issue isn’t race at all, but differences in relationship dynamics, respect, communication, and expectations.

osuofia2:
`True, go to Europe especially UK and see what Nigerian women are doing to their husbands, once they become Registered nurse

Eeehheeehhnn
What are they doing? Gist me biko

Lalami3232:
Let me correct you bro, marriage no dey bring luck atall. It's just that when you marry, you tend to be more careful with spending and you want another source of income because you've automatically inherited a liability. Which luck na marriage de give? The luck wey she no fit give her ex boyfriends abi na another one. Some of una wey call unaselves men dey make me laugh.
You meet a non-virgin wey numerous men don sleep with, you tell her say "babe I wan privatize your kpekus make E be mine alone. I no want make people dey chop am again as usual (that's the definition of marrying a non-virgin)", that na wetin marriage dey all about nowadays for Nigeria. So how she take bring you luck as a man? If sh get luck, why she no use the luck on her siblings? Bro she no bring you luck, you only doubled your hustle. Anyways, that's not really my concern sha. Have you done DNA test Oga?

What do I even know sef aside enlightening my fellow men nationwide with the good news of DNA

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You go old tire

Tickles001:
The bolded is part of the lies that women cook up to amplify their whining.
A woman's body is designed to handle childbirth without complications. It signals inadequacy if anyone develops other health issues from the process.
It doesn't mean the process is any more dangerous, it only women are getting weaker and disfunctional.

If our foremothers gave birth effortlessly multiple times, women of today shouldn't have problems doing the same with all the safe birth practices we have developed that wasn't in the past.

Lies? Women cook up pre-eclampsia, gestational diabetes, postpartum blindness and Bell’s palsy? Come on… these are recognised medical diagnoses, not stories women invented.

Your reasoning is incredibly myopic.

So if a woman develops complications following childbirth, she’s simply “inadequate”? That’s your conclusion? Weaker and dysfunctional? God… who be this one?

And how exactly do you know your foremothers gave birth effortlessly? Were you there? Or have you conveniently ignored the increased maternal mortality of the past? Many women died during childbirth, many babies died, and countless women lived with obstetric fistulas( ever heard of vvf?), chronic pain, uterine prolapse and lifelong complications. Survivorship bias, mixed with misogyny, makes you remember only the women who survived, while conveniently forgetting those who didn’t.

If childbirth was truly effortless for our foremothers, why did virtually every society have traditional birth attendants, midwives, childbirth rituals, and such high maternal mortality?

By your logic, because the heart is designed to pump blood, anyone who develops heart failure has an “inadequate” heart. Because the kidneys are designed to filter blood, anyone with kidney failure has “inadequate” kidneys. That’s not how biology works. The body is designed to function, but disease and complications are an inherent part of human physiology including childbirth.

Childbirth is a natural process. Complications are also a recognised part of that process. That’s exactly why obstetrics exists. And no, women don’t lie about these things. Reason better abeg

cr7lomo:
Always forming victim... living with victim mentality all ur lives ...and yes , we are all animals ...we breathe oxygen, eat food, poo, pea , have sex or mate , communicate, get emotional, run blood in our veins ... so u are also an animal ... abi u think animals dont go thru pains of birthing... u think the world revolves around women... I only blame modern men...cos if it were up to men of past generations...una for don get sense .. Adults that think they are babies

My intelligence will reduce further if I reply this gibberish

What’s the definition of the submit abeg

I’m even shocked that Nigeria still has blood to bleed.
Nigeria wey don dry up since. Nigeria na walking skeleton

Well
In Uk it hit high of 34 degrees today
And I love it
Tired of jackets and sneakers.”

engagingworld:
This response is epic. I love it.

Women and exaggerated importance.

What is epic about the response?

Tickles001:
Keep emotions aside. Point out one lie in what I said.

Childbirth may not be the most pleasant experience, but women exaggerate the whole thing to score cheap points.

In the past, people literally gave birth in farms and walk home with the child in her hands. It's not that complicated, except the woman herself is inadequate.

How can you be so inconsiderate and say child birth/ labour is an exaggeration? Cheap points? ….. for same process that leads to depression, blindness, paralysis, Bell’s palsy, gestational diabetes, etc
Not that complicated? I pity your wife

cr7lomo:
U shut up...he is absolutely right... u women cry over everything... even animals birth... but for una , una go de do like say na Jesus una de deliver

#olodouprising
‘Even animals birth’ such a shame comparing your mum to an animal
How can you compare the birth process of animals to that of human ( women). Are you normal?
Since you are comparing yourself to animals, hope you eat off the floor, hope you have a leash and an owner, or wait you live in the bush/forest?
You poop on the floor ?
And yes women will cry over everything, because we experience pain, unfortunately the society didn’t condition us to ‘ man up’ and not cry, so yes if it hurts, if it is painful we are going to cry!!!!!!!, we will cry because pain is subjective oga.

Counterigbolies:
shut up n get d f outta here

Na u go first give birth abi wetin b your problem?

Abeg go rest, nobody force u get Belle

Shut up
You have a nasty attitude

Eba50:
How men suffer all their lives for women to have money and bs comfoetabl. How women fight over successful men. Ajayi exvwife and beauty queen are fighting over his estate, women who were not there when he was making his money. No big deal on why men make money

You are suffering because of woman?
Like you are not suffering because of yourself, you are not suffering for yourself to have a better life?
Don’t you think that’s foo. Lishness?
Them put gun for your head?
You don’t want good life too? Oh your good life is dependant on women? You are lost, then you don’t have purpose

Tickles001:
Women will find a way to cry about everything. A woman's body is designed to do all that safely.
If you are finding it difficult then you are a weak woman or you have a health problem.

Women in the past have been doing it without all the assistance available today.
So, do it and shut up.

Shut up!!!
Are you okay?

Who raised you sef?

TheStoriesOfMan:
Garlic. 2-4 per day.

Moderate exercise.

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Tenses:
I know a man who studied medicine and surgery but didn't finish due to hardship.

For years he was just floating until he met a millionaire who's case defied all professional treatment.

This man only prescribed drug not more that 8k. This millionaire was reluctant but he was persuaded by his wife. He took the medics and I'm less than 3 days the man was fit like a fiddle.

All these doctors get jealous when they see an uneducated cure a patient.

The thing dey make them mad ..

Your point??

Are you quack?

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