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chidiokay:
what is menstral pain compared to how much i lose yesterday when chelsea, real mADrid, liverpool all decided to lose yesterday ... murphy overdose no fit kill the pain

Murphy overdose?

Or

Na morphine overdose, you wan talk?

Onegai:
Pregnancy and Giving birth.

It is insane to feel something move inside you, kicking and then slip out of your body, crying and breathing. And that something turns into a whole human being.

I want to experience this

Lamanii22:
My daughter is four and in nursery 1 but she'd be five 5 by January and would still be in nursery 1, my neighbours are saying her education is slow that I should speak to the school so they can put her in nursery 2... I don't want anything that would disrupt her learning. Should I just let her continue nursery1? Thank you.

Rubbish
Better leave your daughter alone
Which one is education is slow?
Did your neighbours also think of how well she would assimilate? Na so person go Dey see 13 years old in SS3 with no brain for learning.

Better leave your child alone.

Why should a neighbour even be telling you what to do for your child? Na neighbour get pikin?

Chai

So I no go listen to odunodublvck songs again laidis?😂😂😂

Anti world gangster( Abi Wetin he Dey talk sef)

Werey say… 🎵fall into her kpekus like a beast🎶😂😂😂😂

Wo aunty tacha when you see the truth you say it.

Lagos state is dirty, not coming from a place of tribalism but they need to keep those northerners/ Hausas in check. They use every nook and cranny as a place of abode, shitting and pissing, using it as a spot for packing plastics… True, fashola demolished that nonsense but come to fagba now the rail na all of them full there, fill up the whole rail with their dirtiness and beg beg. Da fvck…Wetin Sanwo Olu Dey do sef?

I will speak of Lagos because na there I know.

Aunty tacha, should talk true. Lagos is dirty and yes Smelling.

Kobojunkie:
Technically, no! The traditional getup of marriage assumes there are set roles for the woman, and those roles include doing of chores. Women in those commitments are more or less glorified housemaids. It is the non-traditional marriages that reject the idea of gender roles, insisting instead on shared responsibilities between the man and woman.

Okay na
Do you
🤐

emirate9:
Every body cant do chores, by logical reasoning

A woman that does house chores, cook n clean na wife material, virtuous wife But a Man that do same chors naa mumu, simp, gbewu da nii even the eye of his own mother

i can imagine my mom walk into my compound see me sweeping .. the 1st question is where is your wife

Every Mallam to his kettle
Do you
🤐

Don’t equate income to chores Biko aunty
It doesn’t make sense
Everybody should do chores whether you bring or not.

zenburster:

"An old woman is always uneasy when dry bones are mentioned in a proverb"

It appears the bullet fired into the air, hit home.

Pele, Murife dont cry.

Na blank you fire o
E no hit anywhere
Because I’m making you see some other reason why you don’t have to criticise single mothers automatically, I am now a single mother?

Guy, you funny.. but I refuse to laugh.

zenburster:
See stomach!!!

I realized that like 7 of the female housemates are single mothers.

These are the ones who even publicly disclosed it.

Gradually, the single-motherhood syndrome that destroyed the African American society is now deemed acceptable by Africans.

Clap hand for Jesus for all those involved.

So because a woman isn’t in a “perfect” marriage box, it’s suddenly a syndrome? Abeg, miss me with that lazy argument.

Single motherhood didn’t destroy any society — bad leadership, poverty, and deadbeat dads did. Many of these women left toxic marriages or chose peace over chaos. That’s courage, not failure.

The real problem is this culture of blaming women for everything while giving men a free pass to dodge responsibility.

Single motherhood is not a disease. It’s survival. It’s resilience. Respect that.

Makavelli001:
I've been Tell one girl I just sincerely liked that I want us to be in a serious relationship but she refused. Then she was working. Then after 4 months I decided to call her, surprisedly she answered me politely. Not like other times when she was always arrogant.
Then later she told me that she is no longer working. That she quit.
Fast-forward, we started relating. She comes to my house to cook sometimes. But I no chop am (knacking) becos I luv that girl, so I didn't want to be in a hurry.

So one wkend she came, a guy called her and the guy was tell her to forgive him for disappointing her yesterday. After their conversation, I did as if I don't no what was happening. I didn't ask her who was that.

But she was uncomfortable. Then after she had finished cooking, she started telling me about the guy. I told her she shouldn't tell me. That I did not ask her. Then she answered me arrogantly that I don't have the right to ask her because we are not dating.
The thing pain me but I just keep silent. This is a girl I really loved. And she have been asking me money and I have been giving her. And she have the mind to tell me such thing.
To her surprise, I just stood up, and I told her to come let me see her off.
Since then I Neva call her again. I deleted her from my diary.
But she have been calling.
Guys should I accept her back??

Don't accept her back
She is confused

daniwise:
Who tell you say Will Smith started as a singer.You didn't watch 'fresh prince of bell air' back in the days?

Yes oga
He rose to fame as a rapper

How many of them senate they farm?
So easy to sit with your money and be shouting farm, na so e easy to farm?

But what is so special in beans and plantain that Ghanaians are excited to claim the dish?

Eddodoh:
I have problem keeping a serious and committed relationship.

I always found myself keeping multiple partners & still maintain contact with some of my exes which add to the pool of women in my circle. I find it difficult to detach from them.

This really drains me emotionally and financially as I could get several demands from these ladies at the same time and it really stressed me. Moreover, age is no longer on my side.

In the past, I have lost good girls who were really committed but because I wasn't committed, as I had to juggle all of those girls together.

How do I do away with this problem? I will appreciate any suggestions or advice.

Omo
If you marry laidiz na your wife i pity
Side chicks go be like waterrrrrrrr!

milann:
make me and you do enter room make we born own abi you never tire to dey zuzu

Who be this one again?

Make this people rest naaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa

But the man fine sha

Na old e old sha

12 more characters?

Apcshit:
Nothing wrong with Lesbianism .Nigeria is a backward country

Yenyenyenyenyenyenyenyen
Come push am forward na

Zic na comedian

Since when

Therock5555:
Even the most ugliest women have atleast 2 toasters per day... And you say women are going through a lot.

As how, all they have to do is make a choice and stick by it but No...


They have alhaji for steady billings.


Tunde for steady clubbing and outings


Francis takes them shopping


James flies them all over the world for vacation


Mathew is ready to put a ring on her finger



Lemme not talk too much.... Most of them eat their cakes and hope to have it later on.....

How many ‘ ugly’ girls have you toasted before?
Yall go just Dey talk Wetin no Dey true

Majesty33:
This is not supposed to be a topic cos it's the way the most high designed nature to be. Any girl that is not chased, then something is wrong with her . What makes u a girl if guys can't approach u. Even girls feel bad deep within if they are not approached by any guy for one whole month

Na so
Who told you this?

It’s funny how these guys feel that every lady is approached by battalions of guys every day.. smh

None

dilliond89:
I met James during my 200 level in the university. Back then, things were tough for my family — my dad had just lost his job, and my mum’s petty trading could barely feed us.

It all started when I was on the verge of dropping out because I couldn’t pay my school fees. James, who was just a casual friend at that time, noticed my mood one day and asked what was wrong. I told him everything, thinking he would just encourage me.

Two days later, he sent me the exact amount I needed to pay my fees — without even asking for anything in return. That single act of kindness changed my view of him completely. We grew closer, and before I knew it, we started dating.

Fast forward three years — I’ve graduated, done my NYSC, and James has been nothing but supportive all through. He’s always talked about marrying me, and honestly, I had no reason to say no.

But here’s the problem… my parents recently introduced me to a wealthy family friend’s son who just returned from the UK. They are pressuring me to marry him because, according to them, “he can give you a better life.”

I feel torn apart. This is the same James who stood by me when I had nothing. The same man who sacrificed so much for me. But now my family is threatening to disown me if I refuse the other man’s proposal.

Please… what should I do? Follow my heart and choose James, or obey my parents and marry the man they want?

Run away with James.. I mean Elope with james

Sirchiboy:
Earlier this year I open a pos and charging business.
I spent close to 1m plus,
I put the business under the management of this girl because I went for a program.
We made agreement she will be sending me so so money weekly from the business.
She only sent me money 3 times for the period of 6 months before this business crash.
Before this business crash , she never one day told me how the business is going ,
If I ask she told me the business is just new and it will stand soon.
Before I knew what was going on, she started telling me one excuse to another if I ask her for not sending me money weekly.
Just last week , she open up and told me the business had crash.
That she was lying to me not to feel bad.
She employ sales girl paying her and also employ bike man , paying the bike man too.
Choi, business when never stand, you don get personal bike man.
I said since the business is like that and you never made one kobo.
Sell everything in the shop and send back my money .
She said the reason the business never make headway was because of the use of gen.
That we should not sell the shop rather install solar.
That solar will cost 1m.
Fact about this shop , the shop has charging ,pos and selling of small phone parts.
She did not make profit from pos , she did not make profit from phone parts , she didnt make profit from charging.
So putting solar will make the business boom then I discover that if i ever get marry to this girl , I might regret the rest of my life.
This girl is just 22 years and from igbo.
She is from a very poor famili then my mind flash back may she has been sending my business money to his family

wtf is from Igbo?

You sef, you dense

Congratulations

But that shi is ugly

Yall just create unnecessary problems and drama

Wtf is this question now?
Who should take married man’s plate after eating, are you guys for real?

And yall are really debating it? Osanobua

Table and woman question don tire Una Abi, now na plate.

Mtcheeeew