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Of course
Why won’t he
He don win finish sef

Another thread
Another topic
To be a woman….

Laslas Una go marry woman except you be homo

Toolegit123:
Good day everyone.

So recently I've been thinking about marriage. Tho I'm in a relationship but the woman I've been dating doesn't really seem to have the same serious interest and intentions like me. I've talked to her severally but it seems she isn't ready to settle down yet. Imagine this is someone whom I've gone to see her people and they know me well. My own people know her too. I've equally talked to her mom since she's the one parent she has . And had also talked to her best friend about it too.

But one thing I've noticed about her is that she's over religious and seems to be too close to her pastor. The last time I talked to her about the marriage stuff,she directed me to go and talk to her pastor. Tho I was initially furious about it but I just had to man up,kill my pride and decided to pay her pastor a visit.

From the conversation I had with her pastor,it seems he's one of the major stumbling blocks. Because he was only curious about my financial status he was even asking me what was my source of livelihood,and of which I told him. Afterwards,he then asked me what was my monthly salary. Saying if I'm sure I can take care of my fiancee with that amount,or if I'm planning to have a side hustle. That he doesn't want a case where any of her spiritual daughter will go into a marriage where she'll be suffering. I told her categorically clear that I'm not a lazy man and I don't intend to put anyone's daughter into suffering in the name of marriage.

It's been over a week since I left the pastor's office, and since then,my fiancee has been behaving so cold towards me.

So I don't know whether to continue with my proposal or I should just kindly look for another lady to marry.

Look for another lady
Shey you Dey see red flag now Abi
She can’t make decisions for her self, na pastor Dey decide for her.
Better look else where.

I say na for old age Una go know Wetin Una do unaselves.
Una think to get big nyash na nothing for old age? Your knee will tell you
Na bobrisky I Dey wait for, for old age. God keep us alive.

KnowledgePower7:
I moved into a new apartment and I'm very comfortable.
Now my babe is kinda baddie type girl

Before you judge me. I like her like that
She visits me from time to time. She get car oo. No be small pikin. .

But herr is the little issue.

Early this month she helped me pay half of the money I paid for rent. So technically it felt like we split the rent. Ok cool

She lives with her mum in a nice house.
So of lately she sounds time in my place.

Now this is where it gets funky

She dey kpooo SK loud for the balcony we stay upstairs. Sometimes she smoke inside the house. We have a family neighbor opposite us. I feel that my babe smoke is affecting them because the building is close to each other.
Anytime she smoke I hear this family neigbours slide their window shut.

She does this whenever we want to phuck
Now to make it worse she like to moan loud
One time around 3 am she scream loudly during orgasm . I had to force my hand to cover her mouth.

She is giving me bad rep in this street
And I'm scared police might come
I have talked about this to her and she said that she said rent too and she can do whatever she wants it's her money.

Frankly she paid 80% of the rent
I settled agent fee and the rest

My brothers, what do I do??
My reputation is looking bad
I can't chase her out based on she paid huge part of rent.
She dey moan loud and smoke loud
I still love her. She love me like mad .

But I won't lie anytime she start smoking
I just feel panic that neigbours might call police due to the smell. But she don't care

What should I do my brothers

Better refund her money

On your mandate we shall stand ooo

The foolish people in UK that were singing on your mandate,no Dey Nigeria to dey buy this fuel oo

Baba carry go

bolaayenimo:
President Bola Ahmed looking youthful and ageless in pose with King Charles

So if you look like this man, you go call yourself youthful and ageless? Talk true
You want meaning of youthful and ageless?- Charley boy.

Omo
But this man worwor o

ufotunang:
She is a Christian... even a pastor at redeemed Christian church

Pastor nsi na aro

Oh wow
What an achievement
I am doing back flips out of excitement for this news

Polytechnics don’t even have facilities to term them as a technical school
Government schools generally na mess up
Your next problem is UK university in Nigeria

Minister Isi n me bi

KnowledgePower7:
I have a roommate who follows Jerry Eze bumper to bumper.

Instead of this boy to go and find work
Early in the morning he will be shouting like animal speaking nonesense tongues.

I will go hustle come back and he I still indoor locked in his room.

I left that house in 2023

Guys guess what??..

This is 2026 3 years has passex
I link up with a friend of mine and he reminded of my former roommate.

We then went to his area
Omo this guy has nothing doing.
No job
Very poor face me I face you house

AND THE MUGU STILL DEY BLAST EL ROI

Pastor Jerry Eze using mugu like my roommate to cashout from YouTube

Meanwhile my rommie still dey shout reteremsjashodika serekeboboriba and still living in poverty 3 years later.

Me that don't follow such nonesense
I'm doing very well financially and planning on marriage soon.

Thank God I didn't fall trap to that nonesense

He probably thinks his poverty is spiritual
And would rather speak in tongues for a miraculous outpouring of finances while the propagator is busy making money from his YouTube videos.

God help me

JackDaAlienz:
How can a wife insult husband in front of children. Because he is kind and gentle

Omo my mama hit jackpot
Because if na me na uppercut she go chop

I think I got my mum craziness
My sister got the kindness of my dad
And her husband too dey exploit am

Wahala for who kind for this country

Once you are kind gentle and nice
Nigerian Women will squeeze you till last drop comes out.

I don't even know how my p man survives
But I swore to never ever ever be like him

Then don’t make it a woman/ wife thing
You just said your sister act like your dad, right? And she is being exploited by her husband right?
Good
So your explanation should be ‘ don’t be too nice to people as a human so you don’t get exploited’
Don’t make it seem like all women are like your mum, na your mama get bad character and na your papa Dey mumu for the character, now your sister don get the same character and you still think all women are manipulative? The man wey Dey manipulate your sister get toto?


Tor

Shey na the soap wey them sing 🎵 Ose ST ma re o—— e
Ose ST ma re o—- e
O dara fun -something something

Tor

But she be Muslim, abiii
Which three characters again

Is the 200million dollars meant for him?

That’s good

Colos don take over

smasher1:
It's a stupid example. The example that matters and it must be country specific is that out of 100 people that married in Nigeria for example in the last 5 years, so and so percent have divorced.

You’re getting the point wrong.
The point is that when you list only negative outcomes before asking a question, you’ve already framed how people will see it. Why not also create a list of marriages that are still thriving instead of creating the impression that marriages mostly end in divorce? What exactly is the purpose of the list? to suggest no one should get married again?

It’s just like having a list …. Dead, dead, dead, dead and then asks ‘ you still want to live

BarrElChapo:
Well filming someone without their consent for your content is definitely illegal, if that’s where they’re coming from, I can understand.

What a shame
Chai

God forbid
E reach this one you Dey say illegal
Shame on you

Agaracha must win

I want to be this extroverted
But what’s the other efulefu’s reason for her not to make video?

How did Nigeria enter the matter now

God abeg oo

Hemanwel:
I am trying to post the picture; I hope am not going to get banned. Mods, make I post the picture, so that people can see it and make proper recommendations?

Modified:

nlfpmod, seun, mynnd44, lalasticlala, please you guys should allow me post the picture so that others will know it's a serious issue.

Many think I am joking and that is why they are making a humor out of it.

You wan post your gbola sorry your brother gbola for NL
Go hospital Oga!!!!!

DeclanR:
Na your fellow woman go still infect the innocent Guyman

And the stup!d human no know Wetin be protection, still no know say e suppose go hospital ?

E never rub palm oil? Tell am
Yeye

QuinQ:
Life is not what it's cracked up to be.
All those countries have higher suicide rates than us. This rich girl below was only 42

And?

QuinQ:
She had no choice. Suffering in Nigeria only to come to UK to find there's even more suffering plus cold, isolation, depression, etc. Would it be better if she committed suicide?

What are you saying?

He is 94 already??

Tor