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Tickles001:
The bolded is part of the lies that women cook up to amplify their whining.
A woman's body is designed to handle childbirth without complications. It signals inadequacy if anyone develops other health issues from the process.
It doesn't mean the process is any more dangerous, it only women are getting weaker and disfunctional.

If our foremothers gave birth effortlessly multiple times, women of today shouldn't have problems doing the same with all the safe birth practices we have developed that wasn't in the past.

Lies? Women cook up pre-eclampsia, gestational diabetes, postpartum blindness and Bell’s palsy? Come on… these are recognised medical diagnoses, not stories women invented.

Your reasoning is incredibly myopic.

So if a woman develops complications following childbirth, she’s simply “inadequate”? That’s your conclusion? Weaker and dysfunctional? God… who be this one?

And how exactly do you know your foremothers gave birth effortlessly? Were you there? Or have you conveniently ignored the increased maternal mortality of the past? Many women died during childbirth, many babies died, and countless women lived with obstetric fistulas( ever heard of vvf?), chronic pain, uterine prolapse and lifelong complications. Survivorship bias, mixed with misogyny, makes you remember only the women who survived, while conveniently forgetting those who didn’t.

If childbirth was truly effortless for our foremothers, why did virtually every society have traditional birth attendants, midwives, childbirth rituals, and such high maternal mortality?

By your logic, because the heart is designed to pump blood, anyone who develops heart failure has an “inadequate” heart. Because the kidneys are designed to filter blood, anyone with kidney failure has “inadequate” kidneys. That’s not how biology works. The body is designed to function, but disease and complications are an inherent part of human physiology including childbirth.

Childbirth is a natural process. Complications are also a recognised part of that process. That’s exactly why obstetrics exists. And no, women don’t lie about these things. Reason better abeg

cr7lomo:
Always forming victim... living with victim mentality all ur lives ...and yes , we are all animals ...we breathe oxygen, eat food, poo, pea , have sex or mate , communicate, get emotional, run blood in our veins ... so u are also an animal ... abi u think animals dont go thru pains of birthing... u think the world revolves around women... I only blame modern men...cos if it were up to men of past generations...una for don get sense .. Adults that think they are babies

My intelligence will reduce further if I reply this gibberish

What’s the definition of the submit abeg

I’m even shocked that Nigeria still has blood to bleed.
Nigeria wey don dry up since. Nigeria na walking skeleton

Well
In Uk it hit high of 34 degrees today
And I love it
Tired of jackets and sneakers.”

engagingworld:
This response is epic. I love it.

Women and exaggerated importance.

What is epic about the response?

Tickles001:
Keep emotions aside. Point out one lie in what I said.

Childbirth may not be the most pleasant experience, but women exaggerate the whole thing to score cheap points.

In the past, people literally gave birth in farms and walk home with the child in her hands. It's not that complicated, except the woman herself is inadequate.

How can you be so inconsiderate and say child birth/ labour is an exaggeration? Cheap points? ….. for same process that leads to depression, blindness, paralysis, Bell’s palsy, gestational diabetes, etc
Not that complicated? I pity your wife

cr7lomo:
U shut up...he is absolutely right... u women cry over everything... even animals birth... but for una , una go de do like say na Jesus una de deliver

#olodouprising
‘Even animals birth’ such a shame comparing your mum to an animal
How can you compare the birth process of animals to that of human ( women). Are you normal?
Since you are comparing yourself to animals, hope you eat off the floor, hope you have a leash and an owner, or wait you live in the bush/forest?
You poop on the floor ?
And yes women will cry over everything, because we experience pain, unfortunately the society didn’t condition us to ‘ man up’ and not cry, so yes if it hurts, if it is painful we are going to cry!!!!!!!, we will cry because pain is subjective oga.

Counterigbolies:
shut up n get d f outta here

Na u go first give birth abi wetin b your problem?

Abeg go rest, nobody force u get Belle

Shut up
You have a nasty attitude

Eba50:
How men suffer all their lives for women to have money and bs comfoetabl. How women fight over successful men. Ajayi exvwife and beauty queen are fighting over his estate, women who were not there when he was making his money. No big deal on why men make money

You are suffering because of woman?
Like you are not suffering because of yourself, you are not suffering for yourself to have a better life?
Don’t you think that’s foo. Lishness?
Them put gun for your head?
You don’t want good life too? Oh your good life is dependant on women? You are lost, then you don’t have purpose

Tickles001:
Women will find a way to cry about everything. A woman's body is designed to do all that safely.
If you are finding it difficult then you are a weak woman or you have a health problem.

Women in the past have been doing it without all the assistance available today.
So, do it and shut up.

Shut up!!!
Are you okay?

Who raised you sef?

TheStoriesOfMan:
Garlic. 2-4 per day.

Moderate exercise.

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Tenses:
I know a man who studied medicine and surgery but didn't finish due to hardship.

For years he was just floating until he met a millionaire who's case defied all professional treatment.

This man only prescribed drug not more that 8k. This millionaire was reluctant but he was persuaded by his wife. He took the medics and I'm less than 3 days the man was fit like a fiddle.

All these doctors get jealous when they see an uneducated cure a patient.

The thing dey make them mad ..

Your point??

Are you quack?

The OP and MOD wey Dey involved with this post
WHY DO YOU WANT ME TO KNOW ABOUT SOUTH AFRICA? HOW AM I CONNECTED TO SOUTH AFRICA? WETIN CONCERN ME WITH THEIR HISTORY

And then?

I have a friend who got pregnant by a man who wanted nothing to do with the pregnancy. He denied being responsible and walked away. She couldn’t bring herself to have an abortion, so she had to prepare for motherhood alone.

Another after 2 children, For years, he abused her physically and emotionally, reducing her to a shadow of herself. She put her nursing career on hold for seven years to be a stay-at-home mum while her colleagues advanced professionally both at home and abroad.
he didn’t leave her, she left him. She chose herself. She got a job, rebuilt her life, and today she’s looking way better, I can see peace on her face, the glow, the chubby face.

So no, women are not always the problem. Some men are irresponsible, abusive, and selfish.

A wife is a human being, not furniture or property to be controlled, mistreated, or discarded. The fact that a woman agreed to marry a man does not give him ownership over her life, dignity, or happiness.

Make Una Dey think, Una wey get tail in between

saweide:
They don’t have respect. Any woman who is not ready to respect his husband and submit to his man will end up been a single mother

So
All single mothers don’t have respect?
You see how you Dey think?

Sinkara:
Them no go talk true
Them single mothers dey mad

Smh
You know it’s pathetic and a myopic thinking to assume that women always are the problem. It’s still so pathetic to always think men do no wrong, assumed to be saints.

Sorry

EmperorIsaac:
Those sons are not 10 years old. What if God asks one of them to succeed you?

Doctors' sons later aspire to be doctors; lawyers' sons; engineers' sons...In fact, it's the joy of parents to see their sons succeed them. Jimmy Swaggert's sons succeeded him. I think he owes those boys some apology. I see no wisdom (I say this respectfully) in this declaration since it's ultimately going to be God's decision.

Even Jesus wanted His disciples to succeed him here on earth. In fact, God in the Old Testament specifically asked for the dedication of a particular tribe.

IT IS NOT A FAMILY BUSINESS!!!!!!

Illiteracy

‘ you quick Dey vex’ - dad
Shy and reserved- mum

It was never meant to be 1 country
Nigeria should split up

muyico:
Pure skits
Not real
Ladies can't pay for sex!

Who come be sugar mummies?

Una no go rest for this life of una never carry topic about women.

escortafrik:
Hello guys, I really need your advice because I’ve been turning this over in my head and I don’t want to make a mistake.

So a bit of background… I’m in my final year at the university, just trying to finish with good grades and figure out what’s next for my life.

A close friend of mine introduced me to her cousin a few months ago. He’s doing really well for himself, stable, calm, and very intentional in how he carries himself.

We got along pretty quickly and things moved from just talking to a serious relationship faster than I expected, but it has been good so far.

Now the situation is this… he wants me to move in with him.

At first, I thought maybe it’s just excitement and love growing fast, but he’s been consistent about it and says it’s because he sees a future with me and wants us to start building our life together properly. I do like him a whole lot , and part of me likes the idea of us being together in that way, like a real couple sharing everyday life.

But I spoke to my friends and they are not having it at all. They keep telling me that once I move in, it might reduce the chances of marriage happening, that men can get too comfortable and stop seeing the need to “formalise” things. Even his cousin who introduced us is saying I shouldn’t as well but I’m quite surprised because this guy has been so good to me in every aspect of my life.

Now I’m stuck in the middle. I don’t want to act based on fear, but I also don’t want to ignore advice that could save me from future regret.

So I’m asking honestly… what do you think I should do in this situation?

What else do you want to hear?
DO NOT MOVE IN WITH HIM
You want to move in and you want someone to tell you to move in with him so it won’t be like you moved in due to your own advice but advice from someone else.

If you love yourself, DO NOT.

Yorubastardz:
Real life doings.

But why are you girls so good at making horrible decisions??

If she allow me date am
Na she for dey chop my money now

You girls are so bad at making decisions
Una go chase away the right one
Then start crying tears of regret in Shiloh

For your mind now you be the right one
You are still pained that she rejected you.

This just made my night

Two of my faves won
Uzor and Bucci

Their nose ooo
Especially the older men
Check osho, obayagbon, pat utomi,okpebolor….. and others
Even my Pa 😂😂😂😂
Na God save my brother sha ( small)