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ideykwum:U welcum sir, hope u will rectify those areas u found urself wanting. |
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Thank God for this failed attempt to damage the possible evidence(s) to use against them - our suspected corrupt officials. |
georjay:Am not hurt at all, 'tis just that........never mind. |
See also 12 things that can surely cause Marriage Failure (Both Modern and Olden Day) 1. You work more on your wedding than on your marriage. You spend hundreds of hours planning and preparing for your wedding—the venue, the dress, the guest list, the bridesmaids, the groomsmen, the ceremony, the vows—but choose not to spend time planning and preparing on growing your marriage. 2. You believe that marriage is a contract. Even though you don't say it, you really believe that marriage is a transaction between two people, a contract and not a covenant. You have the mindset that most things in your relationship are negotiated—"If you do this, then and only then I will do that." You think that marriage is a 50/50 partnership rather than a 100/100 give-it-all-you've-got relationship. 3. You think that your spouse's job is to make you happy. 4. You are not trustworthy. You cannot be trusted by your spouse when you don't speak the truth at all times, you keep secrets or you don't do what you say you'll do. 5. You always put your kids first. You pour all of your time, energy, attention and affection into your children. You give them your freshest and best and always serve your spouse leftovers. 6. You give in to temptation. You talk about your personal pressures and problems with another person besides your spouse. You feel like the other person empathizes and understands you better. Instead of running from this temptation, you run toward it and end up in an intimate emotional or physical relationship. 7. You always expect your spouse to change. You see your spouse's faults and failures every day. It's really irritating and frustrating you. They're messy, they're lazy, they nag you, they don't help with the kids, they're always at work. You think you've done all the changing, and they haven't done a thing. 8. You treat your spouse like the enemy. You think they are on the opposing team so you keep a marital scorecard. You keep track of who spends more, disciplines more, does the dishes more, cleans more, mows more and works more. And you become bitter and resent your spouse for not helping enough or for having more fun. 9. Your words constantly tear your spouse down. You're sarcastic, not supportive, disrespectful, comparing words are toxins of the tongue that poison your marriage. 10. You don't respect your spouse. You don't respect your spouse's judgment. You constantly question their decisions and abilities. 11. You fail to ask for forgiveness and forgive. Your spouse says you hurt them. You don't see that you did anything wrong, so you're not going to apologize. They get bitter. You get bitter. 12. You listen to foolish marriage advice. You listen to well-intended but foolish advice about your relationship from a "friend" who wants you to join their man-hater or woman-hater club rather than listening to wise advice from a trusted source. |
Eyyah, so sad... ![]() May the victim rest in peace. Shedding tears. |
Well, I ain't a banker, am an Architect. But from my experience as a customer I will advise you to go for Zenith - that's the peak. |
May God save us from these evil people. Weak on war fronts, strong on civilians, SMH. ![]() |
Alhamdulillahi bi Ni'matul Islam |
Who is that with pot belly |
Good for him |
Yes oo ![]() The change has already begun, follow them one-by-one until u recover all our loots. Rascals. |
jauntty: EagleScribes: omisakint: ugosonics: okooloyun1: bennydaniel403: alahayi:This early morning? SMH ![]() |
He isn't even remorseful.. ![]() SMH |
Plus-size indeed ![]() |
RapLawd:Ok thanks. I'll try the 'Next' and see for myself. |
WTF! I give up. |
Only those that turn our Nation's treasury to 'Chop and Go' restaurant will fear persecution... ![]() |
True talk. In other words: Only those who turned our Nation's treasury in to some 'Chop and Go' Restaurant will fear Persecution. |
Eyyah...may God give them ten times of what they lost. Wishing quick recovery to those injured by the fire. So sad ![]() |
modelmike7:Wat does the question has to do with my DOB? Just answer me if u were not born d same time with me or just read n walk away. |
Please fellas who is Regina Askia? |
17...lol na football age ![]() |
Yaba left ![]() |
RapLawd:Do u know aviate? |
generalissimo:It will take time bro, d damage symbian phones did to u no b small ![]() |
Jazakallahu Khairan. |
My first year's CGPA was high I dunno how, may b it was because I was afresh from secondary school. |
Don't understand a single thing here |
Give me 30% n i'll help u get ur money ![]() |






