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FamilyRe: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by umarc19: 7:13am On May 15, 2015
ideykwum:
This is the most sound interpretation of the problem I have heard in a long time!!

Thanks! I also examined myself and found myself wanting in some areas! Thanks!
U welcum sir, hope u will rectify those areas u found urself wanting.
PoliticsRe: No Sensitive Documents Lost In Federal Secretariat Fire — Education Minister by umarc19: 12:58am On May 15, 2015
SHARIAREPORTERS:
I hate "change"

PoliticsRe: No Sensitive Documents Lost In Federal Secretariat Fire — Education Minister by umarc19: 12:55am On May 15, 2015
Thank God for this failed attempt to damage the possible evidence(s) to use against them - our suspected corrupt officials.
CareerRe: Please Help Me Choose Between Zenith And UBA by umarc19: 11:38pm On May 14, 2015
georjay:
. Am sorry....I never meant to hurt you...accept my sympathy abeg!
Am not hurt at all, 'tis just that........never mind.
FamilyRe: Why Do Olden Days Marriages Last Longer Than Modern Ones? by umarc19:
See also 12 things that can surely cause Marriage Failure (Both Modern and Olden Day)

1. You work more on your wedding than on your marriage.

You spend hundreds of hours planning and preparing for your wedding—the venue, the dress, the guest list, the bridesmaids, the groomsmen, the ceremony, the vows—but choose not to spend time planning and preparing on growing your marriage.

2. You believe that marriage is a contract.

Even though you don't say it, you really believe that marriage is a transaction between two people, a contract and not a covenant. You have the mindset that most things in your relationship are negotiated—"If you do this, then and only then I will do that." You think that marriage is a 50/50 partnership rather than a 100/100 give-it-all-you've-got relationship.

3. You think that your spouse's job is to make you happy.

4. You are not trustworthy.

You cannot be trusted by your spouse when you don't speak the truth at all times, you keep secrets or you don't do what you say you'll do.

5. You always put your kids first.

You pour all of your time, energy, attention and affection into your children. You give them your freshest and best and always serve your spouse leftovers.

6. You give in to temptation.

You talk about your personal pressures and problems with another person besides your spouse. You feel like the other person empathizes and understands you better. Instead of running from this temptation, you run toward it and end up in an intimate emotional or physical relationship.

7. You always expect your spouse to change.

You see your spouse's faults and failures every day. It's really irritating and frustrating you. They're messy, they're lazy, they nag you, they don't help with the kids, they're always at work. You think you've done all the changing, and they haven't done a thing.

8. You treat your spouse like the enemy.

You think they are on the opposing team so you keep a marital scorecard. You keep track of who spends more, disciplines more, does the dishes more, cleans more, mows more and works more. And you become bitter and resent your spouse for not helping enough or for having more fun.

9. Your words constantly tear your spouse down.

You're sarcastic, not supportive, disrespectful, comparing words are toxins of the tongue that poison your marriage.

10. You don't respect your spouse.

You don't respect your spouse's judgment. You constantly question their decisions and abilities.

11. You fail to ask for forgiveness and forgive.

Your spouse says you hurt them. You don't see that you did anything wrong, so you're not going to apologize. They get bitter. You get bitter.

12. You listen to foolish marriage advice.

You listen to well-intended but foolish advice about your relationship from a "friend" who wants you to join their man-hater or woman-hater club rather than listening to wise advice from a trusted source.
HealthRe: Very Sad Story Of How Nigerians Left An Accident Victim To Bleed To Death by umarc19: 11:15pm On May 14, 2015
Eyyah, so sad... embarassed

May the victim rest in peace.

Shedding tears.
CareerRe: Please Help Me Choose Between Zenith And UBA by umarc19: 11:09pm On May 14, 2015
georjay:
CBN
Did u even read the topic, talkless of the contents?


SMH.

embarassed
CareerRe: Please Help Me Choose Between Zenith And UBA by umarc19: 11:08pm On May 14, 2015
Well, I ain't a banker, am an Architect. But from my experience as a customer I will advise you to go for Zenith - that's the peak.
NYSCRe: How Nysc Corp Member Almost Lost His Life To Torture In Camp by umarc19: 7:20pm On May 14, 2015
May God save us from these evil people.

Weak on war fronts, strong on civilians, SMH.
angry
Christianity EtcRe: Lindsay Lohan Turns To Islam by umarc19: 12:36pm On May 14, 2015
Alhamdulillahi bi Ni'matul Islam
CelebritiesRe: Picture Of Jesse Jagz, MI Abaga & Ice Prince Playing Football by umarc19: 5:32pm On May 13, 2015
Who is that with pot belly shocked?
SportsRe: Emmanuel Adebayor's Fleet Of Expensive Cars(photos) by umarc19: 5:26pm On May 12, 2015
Good for him
PoliticsRe: Ahmadu Ali’s Son Re-arraigned For N4.5b Subsidy Fraud by umarc19: 4:03pm On May 12, 2015
Yes oo smiley

The change has already begun, follow them one-by-one until u recover all our loots.

Rascals.
CrimeRe: Selling Banned Drug Is Big Business; It Enables Me Marry 3 Wives – Suspect by umarc19: 8:23am On May 12, 2015
jauntty:
Fool
EagleScribes:
NAFDAC!
omisakint:
Good
ugosonics:
ok angryok
okooloyun1:
.
bennydaniel403:
angry
alahayi:
wow
This early morning?

SMH lipsrsealed
CrimeRe: Selling Banned Drug Is Big Business; It Enables Me Marry 3 Wives – Suspect by umarc19: 8:21am On May 12, 2015
He isn't even remorseful.. embarassed

SMH
CelebritiesRe: Photos: Actress Eniola Badmus Shares Lovely New Photos Of Herself by umarc19: 5:02pm On May 11, 2015
Plus-size indeed grin
PhonesRe: Make Your Iphone Friends Jealous Of Your Android by umarc19: 3:04pm On May 11, 2015
RapLawd:
by yahoohuh


Yes!!! I know Aviate launcher but ain't as good as next...


all the features that makes it look unique can be added to next launcher through settings and ad-ons...



Next is Number one in the whole market not just by name but by standards, anyone who has both will tell you same thing!!!


#TeamNext3DShell
Ok thanks. I'll try the 'Next' and see for myself.
PoliticsRe: Fintiri Spends N22bn In 86 Days As Governor – APM by umarc19: 2:59pm On May 11, 2015
WTF! shocked

I give up.
PoliticsRe: Only Those With Guilty Conscience Will Be Afraid Of Persecution - APC by umarc19: 2:52pm On May 11, 2015
Only those that turn our Nation's treasury to 'Chop and Go' restaurant will fear persecution... grin
PoliticsRe: Only Those With Guilty Conscience Will Be Afraid Of Persecution - APC by umarc19: 2:49pm On May 11, 2015
True talk.

In other words:

Only those who turned our Nation's treasury in to some 'Chop and Go' Restaurant will fear Persecution.
PropertiesRe: Fire Injures 7, Burns 109 Shops In Lagos by umarc19: 2:34pm On May 11, 2015
Eyyah...may God give them ten times of what they lost.

Wishing quick recovery to those injured by the fire.

So sad embarassed
CelebritiesRe: Regina Askia's Daughter Stephanie Involved In A Ghastly Car Accident by umarc19: 6:25am On May 10, 2015
modelmike7:
. . . . . When were you born? You missed out dude!
Wat does the question has to do with my DOB?
Just answer me if u were not born d same time with me or just read n walk away.
CelebritiesRe: Regina Askia's Daughter Stephanie Involved In A Ghastly Car Accident by umarc19: 11:34pm On May 09, 2015
Please fellas who is Regina Askia?
CelebritiesRe: Sikiratu Sindodo's 17yr Old Pretty Daughter(pics) by umarc19: 11:02pm On May 09, 2015
17...lol na football age grin
FashionRe: Ladies Can You Rock This Hairstyle?????????????? by umarc19: 10:56pm On May 09, 2015
Yaba left undecided
NYSCRe: NYSC: 8 Reasons Why You Should Serve In A Rural Community by umarc19: 5:21pm On May 09, 2015
Martins301:
Shout out to all 2014 Batch B corp members.

CC:
Hi bro, TR/14B/2070
grin
PhonesRe: Make Your Iphone Friends Jealous Of Your Android by umarc19: 9:09am On May 09, 2015
RapLawd:
Not compared to Next Launcher 3d Shield...



na the real bomb be that!!
Do u know aviate?
PhonesRe: Make Your Iphone Friends Jealous Of Your Android by umarc19: 9:07am On May 09, 2015
generalissimo:
Excuse moi, pls enlighten me. What does an android launcher do? I just bought my tecno 2 weeks ago, dunno much about android yet grin
It will take time bro, d damage symbian phones did to u no b small grin
IslamRe: Humility-an Attribute Of A True Believer by umarc19: 2:36pm On May 08, 2015
Jazakallahu Khairan.
EducationRe: Why You Will Have A LOW CGPA In First Year by umarc19: 1:20pm On May 08, 2015
My first year's CGPA was high I dunno how, may b it was because I was afresh from secondary school.
WebmastersRe: How Can I Solve This Issue Of Which I'm Experiencing In My G Analytics Dashboard by umarc19: 11:19am On May 08, 2015
Don't understand a single thing here
WebmastersRe: Affiliate Funds Transfered From Kenya But Nigeria Bank Saying The Cant Recieve by umarc19: 11:12am On May 08, 2015
Give me 30% n i'll help u get ur money grin

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