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kaaz: You should sit down with your wife and ask her honestly where you are lacking.  has she brought some concerns to you that you thought to be not important and brushed off?


THNX sistawoman

BUT I HAVE SAT HER DOWN TO ASK HER THE SAME QUESTION BUT  SHE SAID SHE IS NOT LACKING ANYTHING AND SHE STILL SAY THE SAME OLD STORY THAT NOTHING IS GOING ON BETWEEN BOTH OF THEM THAT HE IS JUST A FRIEND

MAYBE I WILL DO WHAT MISSY B HAVE SAID : TO ASK HER TO CALL HER FRIEND IN MY PESENT AND TELL HER NOT TO CALL HER AGAIN AT MIDNIGHT BUT WHAT ABOUT DURING THE DAY MAYBE WHEN AM AT WORK THEY CAN STILL CALL EACH OTHER

THIS IS REALLY TOUGH AND I don't WANT MY MARRIED TO BREAK UP

AM SO CONFUSED RIGHT NOW

Make her call him in ur present, n den take d phone and ask him if he dnt kw she is married, n neva to call her at odd hours again, den watch her closely in case she change tactics.

pastie: I dnt knw what i wrong wit my fellow christian!!! Everyday dose Animals kils our felow but al we cold do is to sit our ass an fold our hands watchin them,instead of fightin them back,if u dnt knw dose animals ar gradually wiping us out of dis country,jst tak a lok at dia population dia far mor dan we do,cos in dia religion a man is alow 2 marry even 4 wives,which atleast every wife bore him abt 6 childrens compare 2 xtian dat is alow 2 mary only 1.My felow xtian wake up,chin up an chest out an fight fight 4 ur right riligion.SHIKENA

it wil b great if d pastors n churches can hire security guards n arm church youth, so dat u cn protect urslf frm BH, bt dnt go afta innocent Muslims n Mosque o, cos dat wil spell anoda doom. I case my rest!

debedebe: pls tell me hw his wrong? Tell me or giv me the link where muslims were killed in the mosque indescriminately as u said. U sound bokish haramish....

r u dis daft? Someone just gv u 2 link above, n u stil fooling urslf, d ova 200 killd in Kano nko, r dey chicken? Ode!

[quote author=Ms_Steph]how many Muslims have dey killed?? Pls wise up[/quote]so far muslims hav sufferd more casualties since BH start dere madness, remember wen ppl lik u come here n say "let dem kill demself"

Front page pls!

Seem like d laptop guys doing dere job, we only enjoy 1 hour of electricity daily in ma area, today sef its zero hour.

Mighty Sparrow: What is in power? These northern elements are lazy and their only industry is government. It is just recently I began to see able bodied hausa - fulani doing 'going' or 'okada' they sell carrots, kolanut, tea, suya, etc. I have not seen (I might be wrong) a carpenter or mechanic, mason etc among them. Are they not lazy? Even in about thirty out of fifty years after independence they rule, they only steal money to enrich their privileged few. Their youths are deceived about western education while their emirs and political class send their children to most expensive schools home and abroad.
Their community is filled with filth, human dregs and squalor.
It does not matter GEJ with all his mistakes should continue or look for a sensible 'middle belt' -definitely not of this extraction or ideology-
Candidate to hand over power to. This so called northerners cannot lead us anywhere, they are senseless, and barbaric. Their communities in this age are poorest in nigeria. Imagine people that cannot give names and address numbers to their streets. No matter how many bombs they throw under whatever guises to hell with cheats.
Period.

thunder fire dat ur mouth! Who open d gate for u? Guess u didnt take ur drugs lately.

Thank u so far guys, am taking my time nw, n we v both agree 2 stay 2gether hoping things wil change, n if dey didnt, i wil have 2 move on.


I also think d distance btw us nw is nt helping matters.
I also kind of get confuse 2day wen i say "I LOVE U" N she say I LOVE U TOO"

Fellow Nairalanders, am in a relationship wit a girl of 23yrs old, am 28, we started wel around may dis year, n i was able 2 meet her sister who leav in d same town with me, she spent sometimes with her sister here before moving back 2 her base, stil in d same state.

After she moved back 2 her base, i notice some changes, like she dnt call as usual, n if i dnt call, she wont complain like before, n wen i complain she wil ray she is sorry.

Last week, as we were chatting, she said she cant marry me n dat she is breaking up with me, and when i askd her why, she said she dont love me, n dat she have tried but couldnt love me, so when i ask her if 2 month is enough 2 decide, she was speechless.
We manage 2 come back together,so i askd her if truly she dont love me, n she said yes, but she like me.

We have both agree 2 continue and let love grow between us, bt ma worry is am i doing the right thing to give her time 2 develop her likeness 4 me into love? Pls advice me.

Dont mind that foolish aboki

u must b high on something, so because he said d truth, he is nw aboki? Ode ur hatred 4 Aboki wil giv u hyperteitis. Useless bigot.

And some ppl are already insulting d Hausa/Muslims without getting d real fact, just wonder hw daft some ppl can b sha, n u claimd 2 b educated.

Dats hw dey sit at d comfort of dere room n spew rubbish about wats going on in d North, SMH 4 u, some even say al Northerners r BH, wen ppl r living in fear daily, economic activities grounded, n u think a sane Man wil wish dat 4 himself?. We shal get ova dis n God wil xpose d evil behind BH n it shal pay 4 it.

Dis may just b a mischivious fellow looking 4 attention, cos even BH dnt addres demself as BH, n usualy warn dat dere name is Jamatul ali sunna lidawati jihad, n nt BH. In an advance country wit gud Tech, dat guy is a gonna.

[quote author=Kobojunkie]That one na lie. As someone who lived well over 21 years in Ikorodu, I can tell you that you are probably looking for criminal gangs and not cultists in the Ikorodu case. In all the 20 years I have been in that town for Oro, no one killing has been directly linked to the festival. Matter of fact, much of what drives the fear is myth and not much else.

People should, rather than dismissing this as some CULT AFFAIR, should demand that the authorities pursue and PUNISH those responsible for this stupidity.

O boy,dats d truth of d mata, n mind u i didnt link dere death 2 d Festival, if u lived wel dere u wil kw dere hav been powa tursle btw dis 2 groups, n dey only use d oro festival day 2 settle scores. U live dere 21 yrs, i was born dere, n dats ova 30yrs.

Here in Ikorodu, we wokeup 2 c like 5 naked corpse at diffrent T-junctions, d corpse are alledge 2 b dat of Cultists distrupting d town's Ongoing festival dat prevent females frm coming out througout d day. D cultists were killd by Local Vigilante group, bt there is wide allegation of side taking, since al d corpse ar dat of Aiye group alone.

Royal crown Sec School Ajaokuta Kogi state, 2009/2010. Nice place with regular supply of Electricity.

There is nothing like suicide bombing or bomb, i was there yesterday morning when d guy was caught, n immediately post d happening on my facebook wall. D guy wantd 2 burgle d Church,and was caught nd handed ova 2 a vigilante group called "ONYABO" who beat him 2 stuppor n tie him,while asking him questions, he said he hide something in d church whic he could not produce afta taking d men round various point in d church, at a point he said d thing is in his ANUS. Nothing was found on him, i guess he was trying 2 avoid being killd,cos any criminal caught by dat group is usualy slain at a T junction. O boy rumour can spread like wild fire o, d issue of Bomb startd wen someone askd whether wat he hide was a bomb,n b4 u kw it ppl startd shoutin bomb! bomb!. I can also confirm dat d guy Is a Yoruba resident in Ikorodu,cos he mentiond a particular dreaded street dat serve as aboad 4 criminals like him.

Now i know how daft u are, wat a waste of fund on ur Education (if u r educated), so because BH claimd 2 hate western education means evryone does? In dose skool in d North, u wil b lucky 2 graduate with a Pass. Lazy NINCONPOOP!

Go n make ur research, in 2004, Usmanu Danfodio Uni was named best in Nig by NUC,n was also named best in 2007 along with BUK. So wat r u talking about?

Are u not a Nigerian? Y cnt u advice dem too,rather dan pointin Fingers at d whole North,or did u think d Northerners r happy with d current trend?

@xpagnol am refferin 2 u on ma oda post k?

U must b a goat for making dat statment, take on any Northerner dat read d same course with u n get d shocker of ur life. U cant just post without being tribalistic Otondo like u. I read Economics n grad with 2 : 1.

Na wa 4 u o, so u think d Militants hav more weapon dan d Nig Army? Undrestimate NA at ur own peril.

The northerners are viewed as uneducated,but u dare not try dis nonsense (OMO ONILE) in d north.

Read the complete story on Vanguard, it stated dat many among those arrested are Igbo youths,so dnt start ur tribal bashing here.

Tot vanguard report 950, among them Igbo youths, retired police n Immigration officers. Igbo in Boko Haram,na wa o!

U guys r just basin ur arguments on sentiment,cn u provide any tangible evidence dat Buhari hv any connection wit bokn haram, n did boko haram startd durin GEJ admin,what abt d october firrt bombin by MEND,why did GEJ hurriedly sack Salami afta d later turn dwn their promotion?. Sentiment apart we need a president lyk Buhari. Its nt abt a southerner ruling,didnt OBJ rule?,y did pdp fault d zoning arrangement,n nw want Tanbuwal remve? Anwer me. 100 days wasted 4 nothing!

It is Obvious now that PDP does not actualy won the presidential seat. Odechukwu is building the ground for another round of crisis. Time wil tel. Enjoy ur fresh air!

@seanet02: ur comment hav realy portrayd ur ignorance and illiteracy, i wil not respond by firing back at d south,cos am not a stew peed goat like u. Instead of u to use dis avenue to promote peace n unity u'r rather being sentimental,tribalistic unnecesarily. Ninconpoop!

Guy get ur fact b4 talking,am currently in d north n d situation is d same here as oda part of d country,d ppl r not happy abt wat is happning,dey dnt kw wat boko haram want. Dis ppl r fanatics,so dnt put d blame on d whole north.

Dats exactly wat am saying,instead youth com here and argue abt tribe n religion,if we dnt unite n see ourself as NIGERIANS,we wont have d strenght to effect d much needed change. Dnt 4gt dis ppl up there dnt care abt us,dey put tribe n religion aside wen lootin our treasury. If we start a protest n ask 4 wat we want,dey wil do it,hence we show them d language dey undrstand "VIOLENCE. We strongly need a revolution.