₦airaland Forum

ZUBY77:
Relax. You have only read the part where we just met. It kicks off off again in February 1st.

Oga zuby on thread will u be kicking off?

that money must be retrieved......its a pity that dude just got himself in a big trouble....well oga zuby is now lenient....lolz..... I'm not truly sure about dat.

it so pitiable to see many graduates wasting away looking for one blue collar job, at worst they still tries to make choices, knowingfully the very state of the nigeria economy. Instead of them to be creative or simply look for simple means of livelihood, they chose to stay idle and cry to the govt. Expecting miracle? thats illusion and laziness , work for something. I'm still in school and I already have a business plan, hoping to get establish when I'm out. just to avoid the heavy joblessness in the country.

Israel is a nightmare in middle east....lol....imaging the number of instances on different occasions.

This is wickedness oooo at it highest level. There's no justification whatsoever for child abuse. The little I experience under my step mom, is one thing I won't pray my enemy should experience. Some women are naturally wicked and should be excommunicated if need be.

Imaging the pain that little girl will be going through. Parents too should learn to keep their children irrespective of the situation, yes it might not be palatable but determination and perseverance will definitely uphold ones hope to better life. The fact is, except for few, most Nigerian bosses are yet to know and understand the moral obligations, relationship and interactions that should exist between a boss and the maid. God help us ooo

sheilak:
She is fine

Lolz......to you!

clefstone:
Funny thing about women is that no matter how pretty u are, your man will eventually get used to that body and see it as nothing special. So y flaunt it instead of flaunting ur brain

I'm sorry to say ooooo, to me the Bae no make sense Lol....oh I mean she no fine to me. So wetin?

lalasticlala:
sorry, not me

Hahahahahahahahhahaha....that guy won put u for one chance lolz.....

@lalasticlala come and see what the streets are talking about ooooooooooooo
@farano people wants to talk about this oooo. Oya help push this one to fp.
@seun oga nla...i hail ooooo.

glossy6:
I wonder why this is not making fp. so that government will step up security in these communities. I couldn't sleep well last night because we noticed strange faces moving around in Ketu- Ijanikin. Not after hearing of their activities in Morogbo, Ilogbo and environs.


oga Seun, lalatisclala obinoscopy do the needful

Another form of 3 Mopol in our communities

Thank you very much ooooo, I've called, shouted, begging and hoping they will push it forward oooo.

Larger audience, should share their view and government should be alerted for goodness sake. I've not had first hand experience of the touts activities but two days ago all the male in my street were all awake through the night keeping watch, when I asked I was told one million boyz are coming. Who or what the hell is one million boyz? So my were alerted to fight them back in case they show up.

That's terrorizzing the peace of people. So the mods should please send it to fp,.....lalasticlala.

cruzita:
AVOID DOING IT

Did you read the write up??

cruzita:
when u sleep with your brother or sister ,things will never remain the same again.u can't look into each others eyes neither can u stay together like siblings again,u feel depressed and guilty.U start looking for where to go to avoid him or her in fact everything will definitely change

So what's your opinion on how to salvage such resultant effect

lalasticlala!!! Do the needful.

vickvan:
What the Op wrote is 100%. Its becoming alarming these days. I couldn't even sleep last night because of one million boys. They do carry out their dubious act at night along Shibiri, Ajangbadi in Ojo LGA in Lagos. Please oo.. we need strong security agencies. May God help us.

Abo oooo help us canverse to any govt officials and parastatize ooooo..... We need help.

Decker:
Yes there is such possibility, especially if the female sibling is being deflowered by the male. But this attraction will be more of sexual than physical or emotional.

The minds of women associate a deep attachment to traumatic experiences, especially one of a sexual kind, and such experience could alter their sexual orientation in a lot of ways, and the perpetrator of the traumatic encounter or who she shares such traumatic experience with, becomes a prime factor in the whole equation and becomes subconsciously aligned into the whole sexual alteration.

Wow! In that case the females need psychologist asap..... Thanks bro.

saintloveren:
YES YES YES AND A BIG YES, forget about phychologist it does not last long, u cannot drive away wicked spirits with mere words of encouragement. "JESUS IS THE ONLY way and the bible is the only permanent phychologist.

Ok sir.....thankx

rotation, farano.......pls sirs do the needful nau, get this thing to the larger audience. Thanks

Decker:
It depends on the psychological threshold of both individuals and the effect of the aftermath of such experience on them.

Definitely, such event could leave them with emotional scars that may linger for some time and even change their perception of themselves both as separate individuals and as brother and sister, but this doesn't happen in all instances, and like I earlier said, it ultimately depends on the individuals themselves and how psychologically and emotionally strong they are.

I think after such experience, both siblings should talk to a psychologist together and separately. The psychologist would ask them questions and help them deal with any developing feeling, be it an attraction, fear, trauma, reoccuring fantasies or emotional turmoil, that they might have as a result of what happened. Most times, this "feelings" don't happen instantly, they grow gradually and blossom months after the experience, so, it's advisable that their visit to the psychologist for reassessment becomes a continuous thing. For instance; twice a month over a course of a year.

Though, I come to understand that emotions are subjective in human morality. I like your point here about seeing a psychologist. But are you also saying there the possibility of both individuals having feelings for each other over time, after the experience??

saintloveren:
hmmm well according to my say and experience in spiritual matters, the moment they both slept with each other, in the realm of the spirit, a vail was open for every demon to enter into their life, from demon of sadness and depression to demon of torment that they cant forget to demon of anger, what they need is a thorough deliverance to chase away those wicked evil spirits in the name of JESUS, then after they need the word of GOD as a food to be eaten daily and by so doing the love of GOD will flourish in their life and their past will be over and behind them, what will be left is only the love for JESUS and to live for the future.

In other words, ur reservation is that spiritual deliverance is the only way out. What about the non-christians They too must pass the spiritual options?

joshing:
I bliv itz wrong to sleep with your sister now..girls plenty in our society & I'm wondering hw dt kind of mistake occured

I'm talking about a situation where one is compelled to do it. Not willfully, and/or even if a mistake what should be the next step.

Hi guys, this is inspired by some rumors circulating lately. It's about the "ONE MILLION BOYZ" I'm sure many of you are familiar with this phrase and the hideous atrocities, molestation and violation of fundamental human right of citizens associated with their activities around Lagos. Actually, its the first time I'm hearing about them, and seriously? what the hell is the government doing about this.

Anyway, what caught me the most is one outrageous act they engaged in, and that is compelling siblings of opposite sex to engage in sexual intercourse in front of them. I was like.....wtf?. Whether or not this is true I don't know, but if true it is wickedness.

Now to the basis of this write up, provided that in a situation where such a thing happened, after the exercise, how should the siblings expected to see each other, certainly things can never be the same again with them. What measures can truly cure such, remember there's already emotional and psychological damage here. Should the two stay away from each other that they don't meet for a long time? or they just stay together and pretend nothing happened? Can it work that way?

I'm oblige to table this internal confrontation of mine before you distinguish nairalanders, as I couldn't find a conclusion of what's best to be done, to shed more light, giving your respective views on what should or shouldn't be done.

Okay, enough of me talking, over to you all, our dear therapies and psychologists, lets hear you out.

Cc; tosyne2much, lalasticlala. Rocktation, farano.

foriz4u:
chiooo...c as d babe fine finish... EFCC won't even jail for any reason even if she's find guilty. only her smiles alone go confuse d judge.

Lolz......@smiles confusion.

this is what u get when chose to be a player and think of having a decent home....it doesn't always work out that way.



@thelastsentence......lol..."til death do us part" hahahahahahaha.

Lemon12:
A very useless Oba


That goes around flogging co-traditional rulers

I from this moment ban him from entering into Igboland

Failed, pained and frustrated mofo like you would never disappoint at any moment.

Suck it....

Classicman47:
So why the sudden craze for Igbos? I thot Yorubas has this hatred for them. What changed?

These two tribes have been having inter-marriage union ever before your father know what is right or wrong.

So your tot, is as saying you never exist here.

nijabazaar:
I stay in d UK for just four or six months a year, the remaining part is often between Enugu or Anambra. So don't you use that White man land tag.....

That Achebe view inasmuch I would like it be just a Single story narrative (quoting Chimamanda" ) is not...

I had asked my parents and other survivors of the war, the tremor in their eyes is enough to almost make me consider Achebe to be be Homer.

My parents are not based in the UK....the oldest man in my village is not based in d UK...Frederick Forsynth does not understand what it means to be Yoruba....but they all point at Awolowo...
Hate is a very human emotion and so is love. My Yoruba friend will cit his hand to save me from a komodo....that I know.

And that's why I have been confessing to my priest and at the same time I knew why holocaust survivors tremble a lot....but German acknowledges..that's a first for Restitution.

Here Lagoons are constantly prepared...

Those tremors and emotional depression the shot or pierce through The faces of your parents and others are all as a resultant effect of one thing and that's the fact that they lost that war with many casualties recorded for them. War is a very bad thing and should be avoided at all cost, no good thing ever comeout of it.

I don't need to convince you otherwise, for decades you lots point it at awolowo as though he was the very reason you lost. In war wicked things that the ear cannot behold do happens, conflicting parties tend to bring out strategies that work for their success. Awolowo was a Nigerian with nigeria at heart. All he did was bring advice that will quickly bring an end to the war and yes it comes with desperate measures. But he's not an igbo hater. (his work and words testifies to that)

My question is, if you were to be in the biafran army and the opportunity to wipe away the entire nigeria as the only means to assert victory, would you do it or not??

As for lagoons even though I don't stand to defend any provoking statements that comes from whoever, yet I must note that it was purely a political motivated scenario and the media help in giving it a centinary interpretation for folks like you.