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 Celebrities › Re: Jennifer Obayuwana, Celebrates Birthday In Dubai by uncjay(m): 10:52pm On May 23, 2015 |
I think say na beta news sef.... ;DI think say na beta news sef.... |
| Education › Re: Let's See How Intelligent You Are by uncjay(m): 9:51pm On May 23, 2015 |
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| Literature › Re: Photo: Chimamanda adichie With Her Handsome Husband by uncjay(m): 12:03pm On May 16, 2015 |
grandstar:Bros dey don dey sell MATURITY for market oooo. Beta go buy ur own.... |
| Literature › Re: Photo: Chimamanda adichie With Her Handsome Husband by uncjay(m): 12:00pm On May 16, 2015 |
Misogynist2014:What do u mean "Too"  ? She no deserve the best nii abi wetin u dey talk? |
| Poems For Review › Re: The Inner Mind - A Short Poem And A Brief Commentary. by uncjay(m): 3:17am On May 16, 2015 |
A wonderful piece there @Op thumb up.... |
| Culture › Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by uncjay(m): 10:14pm On May 15, 2015 |
UjSizzle:Have a nice evening.. |
| Culture › Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by uncjay(m): 9:41pm On May 15, 2015 |
UjSizzle:Lolz....touchy indeed! Everything is an opinion, I guess you never weigh your words before regarding them as opinion. Not even the one you modified because it simply hypocritical. Anyway no hard feeling its a free world so go ahead make your expressions the way you like. Just remember never to quote or reply anyone that takes a jab at your culture because you were never meant to be offended. 2 Likes |
| Culture › Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by uncjay(m): 9:13pm On May 15, 2015 |
UjSizzle:I don't really blame your ignorance, it's obvious you are not Yoruba, but certainly I suggest you should be sensitive enough not to call the way of life of a people obsession. How would you feel if any part of your own culture or traditional is painted as obsession. It is how these people live their lives, instead of you respecting it as you will desire people to respect yours, you are here insulting and making jest of them. How better and authentic are you if I may ask? 1 Like |
| Culture › Re: Why Are Yoruba's Obsessed With Greeting? by uncjay(m): 9:06pm On May 15, 2015 |
That word "OBSESSION" is a very wrong choice of word for generalizing a particular tribe. This thing is not a new thing for heaven sake, it is the Yoruba culture and should not be regarded as obsession. What is obsession is the EGO of your confronter, that's exactly what you should address not the tribe. Besides not every yoruba of nowadays still take greeting in the old traditional way serious which of course is bad. I'm a simple person and I do not buy the idea of compelling someone to greet you when he/she doesn't feel like. It is not by force. So my dear, I get your grievances and understand when someone is pushed too hard, even in that state, do not use it to insult the entire tribe as being obsessed because of one person's behaviour. Peace!!! 1 Like |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Swedes and Italians Singing In Igbo by uncjay(m): 1:46pm On May 10, 2015 |
DukeNija:Bros u have issues with understanding oooo. Just take your time and free yourself from the ethnicentric driven disease in your system, then read the person you quoted again, I'm sure you will understand his submission is not founded on ethnic bigotry... |
| Christianity Etc › Re: Swedes and Italians Singing In Igbo by uncjay(m): 1:35pm On May 10, 2015 |
Samchelsea:I search for the name you provided there but it only came with different other links. |
| Culture › Re: British Tottenham Choir Singing Yoruba song - Ise Oluwa by uncjay(m): 11:16pm On May 09, 2015 |
9jatatafo:All is well then.... |
| Culture › Re: British Tottenham Choir Singing Yoruba song - Ise Oluwa by uncjay(m): 9:02pm On May 09, 2015 |
9jatatafo:You are having troubles with your spirit, u r pained. I suppose no hard feeling nau, but ur comment is derogatory, what is said is right but your motive is full of hatred and couspicious in noticing. My brother go and free your spirit. 3 Likes |
| Culture › Re: Seven Interesting Facts About The Ancient Yoruba Culture by uncjay(m): 7:57pm On May 09, 2015 |
DickDastardly:Simple! It will never grant you peace! QED |
| Culture › Re: Seven Interesting Facts About The Ancient Yoruba Culture by uncjay(m): 7:57pm On May 09, 2015 |
DickDastardly:Simple! It will never grant you peace! QED |
| Culture › Re: Seven Interesting Facts About The Ancient Yoruba Culture by uncjay(m): 7:52pm On May 09, 2015 |
Danrizzle:And u make the sense or your ethnic?? There's no point for this hatred, it just keep us in some kind of bondage without peace because of the psychological trauma that accompanied it. Every language and ethnic is created by God perfectly with her respective strength and weakness as measured by her creator. Why should u abuse what u cannot create. It a form of genocide if u ask me. 1 Like |
| Travel › Re: Recent Beautiful Pictures Of Ibadan - The Pride Of SW. by uncjay(m): 11:23am On May 09, 2015 |
Beautiful!!! 3 Likes |
| Politics › Re: Four Nigerians Win British Parliament Seats by uncjay(m): 11:56pm On May 08, 2015 |
First whether or not they are Nigerians CONGRAT to them all.... Well, it quite unfortunate as to how hatred and ethnic bigotry grows very robust in our system and yet we called ourselves NIGERIANS.... One think we've suddenly forgotten is that out there you are known as NIGERIAN, cos they don't give a shit what ethnic group you emanated from... The most painful part of it is that I see so called educated fellas writing immature. Why can't we just for once come together and work collectively towards a merit driven society of our desire instead of propagating hatred here and there on every single OP that makes front page. 1 Like |
| Culture › Re: List Of Yoruba Dialects by uncjay(m): 8:52pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
zwar:He's ret*rded absolutely.... 1 Like |
| Culture › Re: List Of Yoruba Dialects by uncjay(m): 8:52pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
zwar:His retarded absolutely.... 2 Likes |
| Culture › Re: List Of Yoruba Dialects by uncjay(m): 8:04pm On Apr 22, 2015 |
Okun!!! 2 Likes |
| Sports › Re: Tee Morgan, Reaches The North Pole (The First Nigerian To Ever Reach There) by uncjay(m): 12:46am On Apr 14, 2015 |
dainformant:My brother e tire me ooooo.....beta thing no fit reach to happen dis ogbonge country again? 1 Like |
| Celebrities › Re: Meet Denrele Edun's Wife-to-be by uncjay(m): 3:36am On Apr 13, 2015 |
jessiecah:and u fine pass am....lol |
| Family › Re: Step Mothers In Nigeria by uncjay(op): 9:22pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
qbd2:thankx very much I hav been considering taking a drastic step of such. |
| Family › Re: Step Mothers In Nigeria by uncjay(op): 9:16pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:I think you are been bias here, you are not weighing it rationally, anyway that's your opinion... |
| Family › Re: Step Mothers In Nigeria by uncjay(op): 9:09pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
KanwuliaJara:meaning |
| Family › Step Mothers In Nigeria by uncjay(op): 8:38pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
I decide to limit myself to the confinement of the Nigeria society, as I have never been outside the four walls of this country. Though there might be similar occurrence outside as regard the issues of step mothers but let's limit our discussion to the ones here in Nigeria. There are so many question as to why the role of step mothers an issue in various societies of this country, some step mom are naturally evil and desperately wicked and they don't hide it at all, some are also wicked but they heed theirs, and some are naturally very good that one will wish she was his/her biological mother. My case was no difference; I have this very cunning and manipulative step mother, she is a kind of person that will always appear with this pure heart and gentle character but the soul is a mixture of total wickedness and fragment of kindness, which leaves me at times very difficult to critically define her true nature. She will tend to love you in the presence of people but in the inside is hostility. considering her did toward you is nothing but wickedness. To make matters worst I approach my father with the issue, he just disregard it that I'm been delusional and should stop thinking in a negative way, this is not about thinking the wrong way, but about how she treats me badly and yet behave as though all she's doing is fair and my dad usually believes her. Ranging from food in the house to other activities, she just take pleasure in punishing me and I ask myself what is my offence, she give me every burnt part of the cooked meals and I have no say whatsoever. Yet she make me work as if I were some kind of slave. I don't have time to read at all. Anytime I pick up my book to read that is the very time I need to do something for her. She can call you hundred times a day leaving you with no time for yourself. Can you imaging there was a day she compelled me to work tirelessly throughout and the next day I felt very sick, that I couldn't move myself and all she could say was that, who do you thing you are cajoling, just because of the little sweeping you did yesterday, you are now pretending today? That statement pained me a lot. I spend roughly a week broke down with the illness. One day I met my dad at his small garden and I try explaining issues to him, to my surprise he did not disregard me which I was expecting him to do as usual, instead he told me to endure it that he knows what he was doing. I was like so you've always noticed it and yet you do nothing but he told me not to worry about it, instead I should endure and focus on my education and future, because according to him, she can do anything to harm me in the future which could be even worst than what I'm facing now, so rather than fighting it I should pretend I'm okay with everything till I leave them. I wish to leave that house for the campus but they won't let me, maybe because I have this special attachment with my dad, anywhere he goes I'm always the first person he takes along. To be sincere, I do not have the best of step mother and I have witness other people with different stories and versions of step mothers. Women I think are supposed to be loving, tender hearted and caring but why is it that some especially step moms (though not all) have dreadful and wicked heart towards another woman's children. Kindly share your own experience and probably profer some possible solutions on how issues like this can be tackled. |
| Family › Step Mothers In Nigeria by uncjay(op): 8:30pm On Apr 12, 2015 |
I decide to limit myself to the confinement of the Nigeria society, as I have never been outside the four walls of this country. Though there might be similar occurrence outside as regard the issues of step mothers but let's limit our discussion to the ones here in Nigeria. There are so many question as to why the role of step mothers an issue in various societies of this country, some step mom are naturally evil and desperately wicked and they don't hide it at all, some are also wicked but they heed theirs, and some are naturally very good that one will wish she was his/her biological mother. My case was no difference; I have this very cunning and manipulative step mother, she is a kind of person that will always appear with this pure heart and gentle character but the soul is a mixture of total wickedness and fragment of kindness, which leaves me at times very difficult to critically define her true nature. She will tend to love you in the presence of people but in the inside is hostility. considering her did toward you is nothing but wickedness. To make matters worst I approach my father with the issue, he just disregard it that I'm been delusional and should stop thinking in a negative way, this is not about thinking the wrong way, but about how she treats me badly and yet behave as though all she's doing is fair and my dad usually believes her. Ranging from food in the house to other activities, she just take pleasure in punishing me and I ask myself what is my offence, she give me every burnt part of the cooked meals and I have no say whatsoever. Yet she make me work as if I were some kind of slave. I don't have time to read at all. Anytime I pick up my book to read that is the very time I need to do something for her. She can call you hundred times a day leaving you with no time for yourself. Can you imaging there was a day she compelled me to work tirelessly throughout and the next day I felt very sick, that I couldn't move myself and all she could say was that, who do you thing you are cajoling, just because of the little sweeping you did yesterday, you are now pretending today? That statement pained me a lot. I spend roughly a week broke down with the illness. One day I met my dad at his small garden and I try explaining issues to him, to my surprise he did not disregard me which I was expecting him to do as usual, instead he told me to endure it that he knows what he was doing. I was like so you've always noticed it and yet you do nothing but he told me not to worry about it, instead I should endure and focus on my education and future, because according to him, she can do anything to harm me in the future which could be even worst than what I'm facing now, so rather than fighting it I should pretend I'm okay with everything till I leave them. I wish to leave that house for the campus but they won't let me, maybe because I have this special attachment with my dad, anywhere he goes I'm always the first person he takes along. To be sincere, I do not have the best of step mother and I have witness other people with different stories and versions of step mothers. Women I think are supposed to be loving, tender hearted and caring but why is it that some especially step moms (though not all) have dreadful and wicked heart towards another woman's children. Kindly share your own experience and probably profer some possible solutions on how issues like this can be tackled. |
| Politics › Re: I’ll Accept Defeat In Good Faith ─ Agbaje by uncjay(m): 8:18am On Apr 12, 2015 |
seunfly: |
| Politics › Re: Woman In Labour Insists On Voting, Delivers Baby Shortly After Voting In Sokoto by uncjay(m): 11:49pm On Apr 11, 2015 |
Cutehector:Not necessary she should bother, she has discharge her civic right and had shown how patriotic she were.....fate decides so she got ntn to worry about. #MyOpinion# |
| Politics › Re: Woman In Labour Insists On Voting, Delivers Baby Shortly After Voting In Sokoto by uncjay(m): 11:46pm On Apr 11, 2015 |
Brymo:ur pen speaks well of whom u are...what the hell do u mean extremist! Huh? At least she's better than u |
