₦airaland Forum

Why is it looking like rang rover?

Very very ok to buy. Congratulations in advance

Policy has never been the problem of Nigeria. The political and moral will is what matters more

But some sorry people said he's just a trader

What a big blow to Governor Hope Uzodimma

Soludo will later regret his actions against Obi. It's just in a bid to please his paymaster in Abuja

Are those supposed to be your headache?

Vision101:
The big name that fears primary election. Fears challenges. He doesn't want to labour. Presidential election that covers the whole country how will the ordinary voters in remote places recognize a man that two months ago told them that he's in ADC and he now starts telling them that he's in NDC? Anyway the transfer season will close by Saturday 9th May. We have 6 more days to go. He might transfer again to FDC.

Meanwhile APC has finished recruitment long time ago and are on preseason training tour.

Obi is a big name. Unfortunately APC would be having emergency meetings on how to scatter NDC

PDPdestroyer:
Is there any ethnic group called North-Central?

none, too.

As if there's any ethnic group called South South

1. Obi should be the flag bearer. Atiku should nominate the vice. (I do not recommend either El rufai or Kwankwaso. None of those two can attract real votes)

2. Atiku/Obi ticket. But there has to be a strong agreement that Atiku will do one term and hand over to Obi. They can only win if there's convincing assurance that obi will take over after a tenure. Truth be told, only Atiku and Obi have real voting values. Obi has wider appeal while Atiku has more game.


3. Each of the contestants should find a political party that has a national spread and get their ticket. They should get a consensus but keep it secret. They'll campaign separately but step down for the consensus days before the polls. Such move will confuse the ruling party and they won't know which party to destabilize

Bought my MTN 2007. Lost count of how many times I've retrieved it

Mrslarissa98:
Hello everyone, I need your advice please.
I am half Nigerian. I am married and currently living in another African country with my husband and our two children. Our first child is 4 years old and the youngest is 9 months old.

I was born and raised in Nigeria to a Nigerian father. When I was 13 years old, my parents divorced. My mother took me, my younger brother, and my elder sister from her previous relationship back to her country. Since we left, I have not seen or spoken to my father.

Unfortunately, my mother passed away two years later when I was only 15. Life was very difficult for us because my mother’s family treated us badly, but that is not really what I am looking for advice about, so I will keep the story short.

I got married 5 years ago, and 3 years ago my husband and I relocated to a different African country. We are both involved in business. I run a hair salon while also taking care of my duties as a wife and mother.

When I started my business, my daughter was already 2 years old and attending school, so it was easier to manage both my business and my responsibilities at home. But when I became pregnant with my son, I knew it would not be easy anymore because I would need someone to help take care of him while I worked. I stayed home for about 3 months after he was born, and when I was preparing to return to work, I asked my pastor’s wife to help me find someone to assist me. She had helped other people find help before, and she introduced us to a 19-year-old girl who came to live with us.

At first, everything was going well. She took very good care of my baby. My daughter’s school was close to my shop, so I was the one dropping her off and picking her up. We had planned that the following year we would move her to a school closer to the house so the girl could help with picking her up.

Let me also add that while I was on maternity leave, my husband used to come home around 1 p.m. to eat lunch. But when I returned to work, I asked him not to come home during the day anymore and to start taking food to work instead, which he did.

When my baby was about 5 months old, we left for work as usual. Around 10 a.m., my phone rang. It was my husband saying he was at the hospital with the maid and the baby. I panicked and asked what happened and if my baby was okay. He said the baby was fine, but the maid was the one who was not well.

He told me that he was at work, but he suddenly felt very uneasy, like something was telling him to go home and check on the baby. When he got home, he heard the baby crying inside the room where the maid shared with our daughter. At first, he ignored it, thinking maybe she was changing the baby. But the crying became worse, and he heard a loud bump. He called the maid’s name, but there was no response. When he entered the room, he found her lying on the floor naked, and the baby was next to her crying. He picked up the baby and called the neighbors, who helped cover her and put her in his car. One male neighbor followed them to help with the baby while they went to the hospital.

The girl was unconscious at first, but later she recovered. After she was discharged, I was wondering what could have happened. I asked her if she had any history of seizures or something similar, but she said no. She explained that she could not clearly remember what happened that day. She said that after putting the baby to sleep, she rushed to take a bath, and after coming out of the bathroom she could not remember anything else until she woke up in the hospital.

During the following days, I allowed her to rest as much as possible, and I started taking my baby with me to my shop. It was not easy, but I wanted her to recover.

One day, I came back home and found the house empty. She was nowhere to be found. I panicked and called her number, but it was switched off. I called our pastor’s wife, but she said she had not seen her. She was already aware of what had happened at the hospital. We were all worried and tried to reach her without success. Our pastor’s wife even sent someone to her aunt’s house to check if she was there, but she was not.
After a few days, we found out that she was staying with her elder sister in another town. We felt some relief knowing she was at least with family. We tried to contact her to ask why she left suddenly, but she would not pick up our calls.
Four months later, she came back to the church and informed our pastor that the reason she left my house was because, according to her, ever since she started living with us, my husband had been making advances toward her. She said she always refused him. She claimed that on the day of the incident, my husband came home and met her in the room while she was dressing, forced himself on her, beat her, and she passed out.
The pastor called us, and the girl repeated this in front of everyone. My husband could not deny it and started begging for forgiveness. I was completely shattered. Although the pastor and his wife counseled us and tried to reconcile us, and my husband has been begging for forgiveness, I am still heartbroken. I am no longer interested in this marriage. I feel anger and pain whenever I look at him.

Now I feel like taking my children and going back to my home country. I cry every day and feel very depressed. I really need advice, please help me.

If you report him to the authorities (which is the legal thing to do) he'll be jailed and you and your children will suffer greatly because you will cater for them alone.

If you divorce him that will be worse.

If you continue in that marriage you'll feel hurt everyday.

This issue is complex but I have solution. Since he's been begging for forgiveness, he should be willing to make sacrifices to merit the forgiveness. So ask him to leave the house. This will give you the time to heal. It might take up to some months... Call him back after healing.

This should serve as a warning to other women. Don't employ adult female as a maid.

Lastly, try to make peace with that maid on behalf of your husband

I'm currently handling a project in Uloano. Your observation is true. There's no village in SE that doesn't boast of massive structural developments

MadamVanessa:


Even before opening, I knew already that south east states will top it.

I'm not from south east, but if you're opportune to be In south east , I don't mean their urban areas, because that one speaks for itself, I mean interior villages, and see the massive sophisticated structural buildings in these villages, you'll know that South east is no body's mate in this country .

I did my national youth service in Imo state, Isu L.G.A, Uloano village precisely. what my eyes saw in that interior village and the surrounding villages, my mouth cannot say it. I saw castles .

I'm sure the dude thought they were going to ask him about Peter Obi

I wish to take it someday soon. I've only heard of it but never seen it.

But why is nobody responding...

I'm asking this questions for clarification and also to introduce a perspective.

1. MTN headquarters is in Lagos, right? When you make call in Uyo, do they record your VAT for Akwa Ibom state or record it for Lagos?

2. Opay headquarters is in Lagos, right? If opay collect VAT from a User in Bauchi, do they record it for Bauchi or Lagos?

3. First Bank headquarters is in Lagos, right? Does first bank remit VAT according to the states where they were generated or centrally?

4. Punch Newspaper is headquartered in Lagos but distributed across the country. Does punch remit VAT according to their states.....?

If you have answers to these questions please come forward so that some things can make sense.

obi4eze:
So what happen to that Chairman who Dangote recently reported to EFCC for embezzling funds from his agency. Or has it been swept under the carpet as usual?

It's a strategy Dangote used to force all of them under obedience. He has the right connection to discontinue the trial. Can't you see they all now sing Dangote song?

Dangote has shown that he has more political game than his opponents. Everyone is now falling in line to avoid whistleblowing. They have suddenly realized that Dangote can meet local demand. Bunch of selfish corrupt entities!!!

Please I need advice from experts and experienced technicians.

My generator is Firman SPG4000. I don't have much appliances so I used to leave my refrigerator on the stabilizer whether with NEPA or Gen. My Fridge had a little issue sometime ago and the technician that came to fix it advised me against using the fridge with stabilizer on Gen. It's been some months now but I still struggle with plugging and unplugging fridge from wall socket to stabilizer... I'm tired already. So please gurus, is there any harm leaving the fridge on the stabilizer whether with NEPA or Gen?

One of the advise he gave me that I accepted 100% was to set my stabilizer on "delay" mode. I wasn't using the delay mode before, so if I changed from Gen to NEPA and vice versa the fridge will continue working immediately. I've stopped that one because I learned that it's bad

Zero attendance. More zero attendance years to come

Lol. This shows that the man has lost all hope. Unfortunately juju doesn't catch those in power I would have asked him to get one from Asia or Africa

This man is just an all rounder. Just like Peter Mba, SE is currently blessed with sensible leaders

GSI is looking at you....

You guys should keep speaking grammar out of ignorance

GSI is looking at you....

So the marriage ended almost immediately after it started? People dey marry these days o

This one no get sense. He should have come to Nigerian politicians for tutorials on how to make the impossible possible

It affected nairaland. This is a further proof that freedom in this world is just illusion. One person can destroy what the whole world hold dear

A lot of things don't add up. Was he the only person at the checkpoint? What was his colleagues doing? What was himself doing that made him not to notice till when the said mad man came to close...? Was he drunk? What happened to the mad man after shooting him?

I'm not saying the story is not true, but it doesn't make sense to me

It seems PDP did their homework well. I'm surprised.

The fall of wike will be massive. He has stepped on many toes. If he eventually loses control of PDP, Tinubu will succumb to pressure to offload him