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A lot of useful native technologies have been lost to western civilization disorientation

I can't really say. It's been more than a decade I attended with my heart, it's been perfunctory. I don't think I've attended since after my NYSC in 2018

mexxy1:
There's really nothing innovative here.

I've always had my documents like this (since 2015) with the exception of the picture on the front page and table of contents.

Still innovative

I saw this on Facebook and thought to share. I think it's smart...

I don't care

stagger:
The people of Israel still murmured and rebelled against his provision of manna and quails. So God decided to end it. Most people despise things they get for free or cheap. Look at those two Happie Boys. Their story is a classical case of ingratitude and how it usually ends.

Because you're unthankful, your father stops providing food for you and your siblings, right? We keep making excuses for God the same way we do for our politicians

Wizkid is big!
Davido is big!
I don't care who is bigger

Only your number one makes sense, other points are trash. Let me explain briefly.

~learning a skill does not make things better for you. Majority of people with skills in your community are dying of hunger. Let's take content creation as example. For every successful content creator you can think of, there are hundreds of thousands of others who failed. Most okada riders and taxi drivers in your street have skills, but they are not paid well. Someone will buy material worth 5 million naira but would find it hard to pay the technician that will use it and work ordinary 100k. And because of surplus supply of skills, you might be lucky to get a job once in two months depending on what you so .

~You mentioned God. From experience, I have never seen any country on earth; any society on earth that God helped to develop. Sometimes I wonder, the God that rained mana from above for the people of Israel, is he dead? Because there are way too many malnourished people on this earth

Four reasons...

1. She married you because you were the available husband. The attraction was not really there. She might possibly be attracted to a guy next door...

2. Childbirth might have causes a hormonal change that makes her feel irritated when you touch her.

3. She's a lesbian or bisexual. She's more attracted to her gender....

4. You're weak. She doesn't rate you at all.

Too much political drama in the face of collapsing economy

Let's even assume you can sue the UN and you win, who will enforce the judgment?

We shall survive

Buhari blamed everyone but himself for the free fall of the naira during his regime. He even banned abokifx. Now under Tinubu the naira has become a complete shit.... I wonder who he is coming up to blame

In the end personal interest triumphs...

kkins25:
i am not married, and i can relate to it.... lost mine too last month.... we were fine until she became born again and started speaking in tongues.. Even then i was fine with it...

I think LordReed advice is the best.. Here's what I've planned to do,

1) keep ur criticism of the religion away from whatsapp status nd Facebook. Or, at least not the church she attends.

2) Don't say you're an Atheist, instead, say u follow Christ to the core... and take "don't let your left hand know what your right hand is doing" seriously....

3) U also believe Jesus doesn't want to people to serve in public as shown in the Bible..


That's ehat i intend to do... the heart wants what it wants... 😂 😂.. After marriage, u can slowly slowy and small small begin to reveal ur Atheism...

Na weytin me i dey plan do be dat sha...

The thing is, I don't go about announcing to everyone about my conviction. However, I don't pretend to be what I am not. I've been severally called upon in meetings to lead in prayers, I'd just politely tell them to appoint another person . As much as possible, I avoid religious conversation...

Church na scam

My first real kiss...

After reading together, it was around 8 pm. That side of the campus was always deserted at night... A security man had come earlier and told us to switch off the lights when we want to go since we were the only people remaining in that hall. He reminded us too that we were the only people in that whole block.

Now we were done with reading and we switched off the lights, but we had ulterior motives. Holding her by the waist (we both expected it), I rushed her lips like a hungry lion...

I was older than her with 5 years, but she was a thousand years more experienced than me. Although she had a boyfriend, she felt she needed to "blend" this naive virgin boy. I wasn't new in high institution; I had completed my NCE and was already in the second year of my degree...

Now I held her lower lip in-between my lips. I kept sucking and licking one particular spot on her lips for as long as "we" both enjoyed it till we were tired and disengaged.

The following day she had a swollen reddish lip. She told her boyfriend that she hit her face on something at night. That was the beginning of my kissing expedition. Today, kiss is the only thing that makes me happy

Oga, sorry but you're still too young (at mind). First, you don't want to bear responsibility but blame her for intimacy that you both enjoyed. That's childish and girlish.


Second. Confirm that she's not already pregnant and wants to foist the pregnancy on you.

If she's not pregnant and doesn't have any medical condition...date her for sometime and see whether the butterfly will not fly out of your head

If after 6 months you still love her and she is a wife material, marry her.

If after 6 months you feel she doesn't worth it, go back to your current girlfriend, apologize and make up with her. (If at all she'll still accept you back).



But if if I'm in your shoes, she'll remain a side chick and intimacy gadget for life

Casham:
Dude! Have we met Before? You just described me to the very last punctuation. But I have learnt to just be me. Stray true t you. You are my twin, bro.

I'm very sure you enjoy this abundant inner peace that I enjoy too? Never stress yourself to convince people around you, they won't understand. My peace became so abundant when I learnt not to try to enlighten just anybody

1Sharon:
Didn't she know you were an atheist before she met you?

I am not atheist. Atheists are as naive as religionists. They all feel the universe revolves around their myopia

Dtruthspeaker:
Clearly, your churchianity was about prosperity and opportunity and blessings and when you got nothing you left. Hence, like most atheists you thought Church was magic carpet out of poverty never learning.

Anyway, now your life is in your hands and you are running it how you think best thus you do not have anyone else but yourself to blame for your miseries.

Typical church rats. Very easy to predict. Always quick to judge. They only see the world through their tinny understanding. Even without knowing me you have already concluded the type of Christianity I practiced.

As for the bolded, you are very correct. My life is now in my hand. I have outgrown that stage where, if I work hard and my hardwork yields results I will give God the gratitude. But if I fail I'll blame a certain satan. I've outgrown a stage where I don't take responsibility for my life but instead, blame the devil for my failures and thank God for my success even though he contributes absolutely nothing to my success

Bossdave:
Everything you wrote up there shows you don't understand anything about the concept of Adam's sins and the salvation that Jesus brought. You were just going to church for going sake during those years. You never had an encounter with God. You wasted your time like a certain lordreed is still currently doing. Going to church only to waste time. No seeking. No encounter.

I'll not waste my energy arguing with you. I was like you, or rather, worse than you. I defended a lot of rubb!sh the way you're doing. I lost many life changing opportunities because of my christian faith. Each time I look back at the kind of Life I lived in the name of Christianity, I always shudder. My dear friend, no amount of reasoning can liberate you from this misery you call Christianity until you looki inwards and ask yourself salient questions

Arda1000:
Forget her already cus one of the most important thing is having someone who understands and respects your beliefs especially if both of your beliefs differs.
Look at the signs and see how problematic it will be if you guys get married

I've long moved on. The problem is how to find a liberal minded young woman to marry

LikeAking:
Just b ya self..


The reason she wants a churchy man is because she want someone she can control through the church..

Church favors women.. She will always report you to the pastors to get her way..

Secondly you may be too smart, wise and enlightened for her… Women hate such men..


Church gooers suffer the most in marriage, especially the men..

Once woman know you can’t divorce or kick her out cos of the church, you are done..


Just call her anytime you want to fuqk her, fuqk her and let her go..

Not at all. She is not threatened in any way. I relate with everyone according to their level of understanding.

Dtruthspeaker:
You are actually on the right track and I am quite pleased that she too levelled with you with the Truth.

hough in Truth, a pretend Christian and you antiGod (atheists) are both peas in the same pod.

Well. I will laugh at you because clearly an antiGod is more evil than a pretend Christian.

Well keep looking Sabrina and Tamaratonye and Sharon are examples of ladies you should be with so they are out there waiting for you.

But by the way why must she be stuck to your dick after all it is legal to have more than one dick and isn't it stiffling as it goes against your atheistic beliefs? Why don't you both foqck the whole views after all its your lives and bodies and no should complain about it?

I never said I'm atheist. I never said I'm antiGod. But my view of Godship transcend you religionists narrow view. And yes, I can't share my WIFE with anybody because it's a taboo where I come from. I might not believe in certain traditions both native and foreign, but I'm a pure African who would never berate his identity

tonicyril:
there is a diff between an unbeliever and a freethinker..

Maybe u re an unbeliever..

As I am talking to u like this my woman don go to church, but me a no dey go
Prayer a no dey pray
Night vigil is never my thing
Fasting is a no go area for me
Cus I don't believe I need all those things before I can succeed in life, inasmuch as GOD has given me the ultimate power to think, do, ruminate, produce and et al...then no need to disturb myself or waste my time while I should be working for my development and as well be praising him.


I believe in God, Jesus is my saviour.. but I don't stress myself cus He bears my yolk already so why should I kill myself??

You're right, I'm unbeliever. How can I believe that a certain Jesus saved me? Saved me from what exactly? I was not born when Adam sinned. I was also not born when Jesus atoned for the Adamic sin. How does that concern me?

My ancestors knew no Jesus and they were just fine. Since the invention of a Jesus, "sin" has not ceased. Suffering has not abated. War has not stopped. Death has not stopped. Funny enough, both believers and non believers suffer alike.

The whole story of a Jesus and his imaginary salvation are bulsh!t. If I'll have to die first before I receive my reward for good deed... that's a crazy reasoning

I'm 35 years old. My sweetheart left me few weeks ago because, according to her, she can't "marry a man who doesn't fear God". This followed series of heart to heart communication over many months. Her problem isn't that I'm a bad person. Normally I don't categorize people based on whether they are good or bad. I equally do not make decisions based on morality rather based on legality (except in family and relationship matters).

My girlfriend (now ex) always confesses that she has never met a man like me. I hardly express emotions. I don't smoke. I drink moderately. I don't gamble. But I don't judge anyone who chooses a different lifestyle... I'm not diabolic. The last time I raised my hand on a woman was when I was in primary two. The last time I engaged in physical fight was in my SS2. My Yes is my Yes... She wants me to at least pretend to be a Christian even if it's just once. She wants me to pretend to pray even if it's once.... But how can live a lie if if it's just once?

Would you prefer an honest man who has no business with church or a dishonest man who goes to church? At length she saw things from my perspective but her friends convinced her otherwise. "If he truly loves you, he should go to church at least for your sake". "Imagine going to church every Sunday with your children without their father, will there be morning prayer in your home etc...?".

I was born and brought up as a Christian. I dedicated most of my youthful years to Christianity. I lost many life changing opportunities because of my dedication to the Christian life. But when I started asking questions, I was deeply dissatisfied... I've attended almost all christian churches, I've studied Islam greatly, I've done a great deal of searching in both Shintoism and Buddhism. I've delved into the unending African traditional religion... I've reached a conclusion that I won't want to disclose here in the meantime

I have noticed that people, especially religious people, say what they don't mean (lie) with ease. People live double life with ease. (I don't want this thread to be too long)

Now, I'm not looking for a "compatible" partner (she doesn't exist), I only want a liberal minded person that is contented with one d***k. But it seems I'm on a wild goose chase. I might end up single

Nawao

Ok

Okoro

Shameless soldiers

Ok

Nawa. That lady needs massive reorientation...