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Senile abokey fool

I get koboko

Nigerian explorers are very exploitative especially all these so-called big names.

Things they can't even try in Benin Republic, they'll dish it to us here.

I can't really blame them, I BLAME OUR USELESS OLD FOOL LEADERS.

ademidedavid:
My greetings nairalanders,
I am married for 10years now and blessed woth 3 wonderful kids but my woman is a bit difficult.

To cut the long story short, i went out with a colleague on friday and due to the fact that the kids are on holiday, i took my wife along because she was already raising the roof bout my outing ( NOTE: I have never ever gone out without my family to avoid wife's palava).

On getting there, she complained i was looking at some ladies lustfully which was not at all.......just trying to figure out some important things in my head. After which she complained that i was drunk.....lo and behold i wasnt because i dont take beer, i only take red wine, bullet and spinnorf......which i took a red wine and bullet before leaving the house and also took 3 bottles of spinnorff ( I was never drunk with all of those)

Fast forward to today, i am very open with my finances guess one of my mistakes.........she noticed that a thousand naira (#1000) was missing in my wallet and all means to explain to her proved abortive even though i give her money for things she love like body cream, cloths and others but after all nagging, i was vexed and went to the kids room which i politely asked her to let me be at the moment because i cant withstand her nagging over a thousand naira but she persisted and i have to shut the door against her but she opened it and told me she hates me and regret marrying me.....sounded like the rapture sound initially but later realised it actually came from my woman, my mother of my kids!!!!

i still cant place those words.....could it be out of anger or she actually mean the words for real?

Please help a heartbroken brother.

She doesn't mean it but you can tell her the same too for fairness and eveness so she she'd know how it feels like

Fat boy-man

Lol!

Best position for a basket mouth senile idiot in a very USELESS evil party.

bepositive11:
If that's the case, I wonder what Davido saw in her

Lust...
Stubbornness...
Forming hard guy and nigga...
Hin eyes don clear now.

googlepikins:
Is slut not your mother middle name?

Lol!
You must be mistaken me for your useless drunkard old fool father...

bepositive11:
I don't think she's innocent as she looks either. You knew her personally?

A lot of girls can pretend to be good. If she really was a good woman, Davido would've never left her. He has his reasons

Good women stay away from men like Davido too

A lot of guys in Davido's clique has fuckèd her.
Chioma was a popular runs girls in Babcock back then...

malcom1X:
She's not a slut man, na social media cause am. I don't think she's dated anyone else apart from David back in school then.

Lol
You're very delusional.

Chioma that was a runs girls back then in Babcock....

U get mind o

AutoChick4U:
Who? Annie was married before?? Haha take it easy

Not Annie
Pero

MrBrownJay1:
obviously you were learning, if not you wouldnt have taken the time to reply, you simpleton!

just be quiet and keep learning...

Lol
I only honoured you with the response you deserved.
A frustrated mentally unstable single mother can NEVER educate me.

AutoChick4U:
Single mother of his child.

No
Single mother from first marriage

MrBrownJay1:
who give a flying fukc what you think of who i am....i am educating your deluded self... instead of being quiet and educate yourself, you are here talking nonsense. if you have nothing to say on the subject then learn in silence, you SIMPLETON!

Woe betide you and your education. How dare you? Who the fúçk do you think you are that made you think that you can educate me?
Chai! See what social media is causing...
Fûck you in your delusion and ignorance.

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Kingpele:
Ok shut it down completely abeg ,your speculative projections is creating panic in the business world ,panic buying and keeping dollars is rampant amongst the elites thereby making dollars to be limited and very costly.further killing our naira..if u are not conversant with this thread keep quiet ,so that u don't showcase your flaws here ..there is no way naira will recover the pressure from this firm activities as it relates to our local economy ,some selfish guys might benefits from it and is happy even if we go the way of Zimbabwe. U want government to fix the economy but criticize them whenever they try to do something useful for once.though buhari is still clueless sha

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Or deh niẹ

King solo of our time.

Continue to spread your seeds niggà. I want to be like you too

Good!

Cool dude.

My only problem with him is that, he married a single-mother. Most single mothers are very cunning, manipulative and selfish.... That's another topic...

Then, he's still punishing his wife for cheating on him too while he was messing around even after more than 10 years...
This is good but bros e don do nau U don do pass am. It's time to move on.

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MrBrownJay1:
check your mindset bro, we can clearly understand from what you wrote that your problem is deeper than you think. thats why you didnt just write that it was high chances the a baby daddy FUKCS a woman again, but instead wrote that there was high chances he would GET HER PREGNANT, which is on another level completely. i didnt misquote you.



bro you are truly confused..... so you mean to say you can love a single mother (aka date her etc) but but as soon as marriage issue is concerned, thats where your problem is?!



A) there is no logic to the above insecurity you are talking about. if she aint with him any longer AND act right in your r/ship then there is no reason why you should automatically have doubts about a single mother.
B) why do you care what r/ship level she has with baby daddy IF SHE IS WITH YOU NOW and act right in your r/ship?
C) why do you automatically think that there would still be something going on between them?



remember, you are the one who is focussed on marriage here, as the OP was solely talking about dating....and as we can confirm, since you can "love" a single mother it means that dating is ok for you....aka CASE CLOSED!



- a man that automatically assumes that a single mother is a potential problem (or that there are risks with such woman), simply because she had a kid with someone else, thats a SIMPLETON move.
. a man that cant tell a single mother what time it is...aka that her bastard child is hers and her only and that you want nothing to do with him/her... thats a SIMPLETON move.
- a man that automatically shakes in his boots when he sees a single mother, regardless of the interaction you guys have together etc , is a SIMPLETON

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Shut up with your nonsense!
I know you're a single mother hiding under a male moniker here.
That's one of you people's problems.... You lie and pretend a lot.

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Goodnews007:
Nigerian men and their ego. Always finding new ways to make women believe they are 2nd class citizens.
Today, its the turn of single mothers.

Little wonder your women marry oyinbo once they set foot outside the country. Who wants an egotistical man who can never do wrong and who sets himself on a pedestal as a partner?

And the ones that have been wifed by you; many are suffering but few are talking about it.
Though, judging from recent happenings in marriages, the wheat is gradually being separated from the chaff.

Poorly trained boys who never grew up mentally presenting themselves as men. Whoever trained this generation of men that feel they are a God's gift to women and should be seen and treated as such, did a very poor job.

Olosho, kpekus, vaginarians, fishy, the future is female, evening newspaper, and so many vile words used to describe women in this app daily, and all from the same men who see themselves as the best thing to ever happen to womenfolk.
All nairaland topics are flooded with statements that demean and degrade women daily, I ask, to what end?

If a woman seeks for a divorce, she cannot stay in marriage.
If she aborts for u after pushing her to, she cannot be wifed.
If she leaves a relationship for another man, olosho
If she's a single mother, tear race my brother (her kpekus is for everybody)

If she doesn't marry on time, avoid her(evening newspaper)

What makes you guys think that ur womenfolk existence lies on your opinion and why are you trying so hard to push it in their faces that they are subject to how u portray them?

And you still wonder why divorce is on the rise, the scale is gradually falling out of their eyes.

These days u expect your women to be educated, polished and hardworking, not housewives and dependent on you which is a blessing cos it has made so many women independent these days, but u still carry an age old mindset of men being seen as Spotless as snow to this jet age.

You guys should change ur mindset, it's all in your head. Being a Nigerian is hard enough already, must u make life harder by being mean, inconsiderate and so judgemental to women?

Haba!

Every woman get flaws, so does every man.
See the beauty in everyone, let love lead.

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Lol
Handwriting of a frustrated single mom

As someone posted earlier, "You will never find a single mother divorcee or seperated woman who will tell you it is her fault she is a single mother/divorced or separated.

it's never their fault!!!! Even the one that went to sperm bank will blame the donor of the sperm for her situation".