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Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by debbydams(f): 1:37pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ikwerelastborn:long story |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by Ikwerelastborn: 1:39pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
debbydams:Gist me naw |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by Ikwerelastborn: 1:40pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
debbydams:I'm not arguing with you,I'm educating you |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by Ikwerelastborn: 1:42pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Digmygold:Obvious signs of frustrations its unfortunate your mom gave birth to you as a single mom and you have now become a single mom also and now frustrated, make sure you educate your daughter so she won't be victim also. My last reply to u |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by Digmygold: 1:45pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ikwerelastborn: So because one shows empathy to singke mums you are so pained. Tell that trash above to your single mother daughters when they become inflicted by HPVHIV and Syphilis. |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by NaijirianKing: 2:03pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
It's crazy 1 Like |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by AutoChick4U(f): 3:09pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Ikwerelastborn:Na person wey dem never catch go talk say him no dey lie |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by AutoChick4U(f): 3:12pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Bornboy4:Sir do not mind some kids without first hand experiences. They talking like anyone wanna b a single mom if they had d choice |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by SenatePresdo(m): 10:26pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1: You can marry a single mom, or even a Mom of 5 kids. It's your choice. |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by MrBrownJay1(m): 10:48pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
SenatePresdo: for the 1st time in this discussion, you are finally making some sense... |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by Pumpumking: 11:23pm On Sep 16, 2021 |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by GetMeRight: 12:02am On Sep 17, 2021 |
Romanoff: They need those guys' money. |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by GetMeRight: 12:06am On Sep 17, 2021 |
SyrusdeHansome: Except that you won't go after single mother(s). Or, have you ever dated one? Talk is cheap |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by GetMeRight: 12:08am On Sep 17, 2021 |
Terrier99: Hehe! |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by SenatePresdo(m): 7:21am On Sep 17, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1: The way you sound, it seems like.. It's either you have something going on with a single mom, or that someone close to you is a single mom. |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by MrBrownJay1(m): 7:36am On Sep 17, 2021 |
SenatePresdo: ... or maybe that i dont have a misplaced ego when dealing with this issue. i meet these single mothers, i take my share of the national cake, and when its over, i move on. no big deal, no headache nor long story. 1 Like |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by SenatePresdo(m): 8:09am On Sep 17, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1: The Ego is not misplaced. Can you take a single mom to your people that you want to marry her? While telling them she has a 12yo boy.. Ok naaa |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by MrBrownJay1(m): 8:20am On Sep 17, 2021 |
SenatePresdo: again, i am talking about dating/fukcing single mother, like the OP claimed.... but if i had a genuine r/ship with a single mother, i would have no problem marrying her. having a kid doesnt automatically means a person will be a bad wife (some of these single mothers are way better than some deluded virgins/single women out there), it will simply mean i would have to sit this woman down and let her know that her little bastard child will never be mine nor will ever be treated as such. this is no big deal anyway, because as a 12 yr old, this teenager probably already knows who his father is, and dont need some man who is fukcing his mother to pretend that he is his father. 2 Likes |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by SenatePresdo(m): 11:39am On Sep 17, 2021 |
MrBrownJay1: Why wouldn't the little bastard be yours When you are married to his mother? Worst case scenario, you will be his stepfather, and he can legitimately live under the same roof with you if his biological father didn't legally marry his mother. If you say it's only date you can date them, it has always been my stance. But remember that some people like OP may be of age and looking for who to mingle with and marry, and he wouldn't have any reason to waste more of his time dating a single mom he knows he would never marry. |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by MeeLan: 1:51pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
You ran for ya Life, and that's one of the best decision you will ever make. Most single mothers are a calamity waiting to happen. Most of them are results of unruly, ill- mannered, poorly raised girls. Them nor dey hear word. They tell you they were saints and the guy was the demon. Get involved and you would see yourself become the new demon. That thing wey nor make am fit stay with the other man go soon start for your side too. They can pretend and play nice at the beginning... 1 Like |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by MeeLan: 1:55pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
The problem is not and will never be the kid boy, believe me. The mum is the wahala. Note that every single mom with their child has this mentality that you the new man is the new intruder in their life. 1. If you correct the boy, she will counter lecture her behind your back. 2. If you correct him too much, she will say you don't love him. 3. If you don't talk so much she will make the kid her chat pal in the bedroom while you sit I the parlor and waist. |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by MeeLan: 1:59pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
For centuries, the mind of the single mother has not changed. The new man is Not her sincere main priority. She is more experienced than the man and she will use it against him, its only a matter of time. When she cooks, her first concern is what her boy prefares! Single moms have been wired to be hard hearted to men. They only play along to get what they want; money or husband. |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by MrBrownJay1(m): 4:31pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
SenatePresdo: nah he wont, that child would be his biological father's child, and no man should try to take that away from babydaddy. Worst case scenario, you will be his stepfather, and he can legitimately live under the same roof with you if his biological father didn't legally marry his mother. yes thats the only thing that you will have to do,,,aka allow this extra person to stay with y'all... you will have to live under the same roof and accept one another, but technically you are just the dude who is fukcing his/her mother. you owe that child nothing than to be civil around one another. now if you decide you suddenly wanna be that child stepfather and make sure that child follows the rules and regulations in your house then so be it, but always remain emotionally detached as this ainjt your child,,,he/she is just a guest in your house. If you say it's only date you can date them, it has always been my stance. that whole discussion has always been about dating a single mother... But remember that some people like OP may be of age and looking for who to mingle with and marry, and he wouldn't have any reason to waste more of his time dating a single mom he knows he would never marry. very true.... but as i told the OP, when you initially meet a woman, do you automatically tell her:"hey, so i just want to let you know that i am a woman beater who likes to cheat once in a while, an abusive man who likes to get drunk/high to stupor and rape his woman and/or that i got a small dikc and am a premature ejaculator"?!?!? lets stop being hypocrites here.... the same way these women hide this side of their lives is the same way men hide theirs. |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by UncleKoboko: 9:27pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
Roseey0:It doesn't exist... Stop deceiving yourself. |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by UncleKoboko: 9:36pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
mikovo2002:You story is very funny and I perceived that you're beyond miserable in your relationship. I bet there's something you're getting from this woman that you're can't get anywhere and you can't let go. A woman who treats you that way doesn't love you and doesn't deserve love. What are you still doing in the marriage? |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by UncleKoboko: 9:39pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
cococandy:No let frustration kill you o... |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by UncleKoboko: 9:59pm On Sep 17, 2021 |
AutoChick4U:Very incredibly foolish comparison and a selfish tactics to brainwash or exploit someone... YOU BE MARY!? |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by UncleKoboko: 6:34am On Sep 18, 2021 |
[s] Goodnews007:[/s] Lol Handwriting of a frustrated single mom As someone posted earlier, "You will never find a single mother divorcee or seperated woman who will tell you it is her fault she is a single mother/divorced or separated. it's never their fault!!!! Even the one that went to sperm bank will blame the donor of the sperm for her situation". |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by UncleKoboko: 9:23am On Sep 18, 2021 |
[s] MrBrownJay1:[/s] Shut up with your nonsense! I know you're a single mother hiding under a male moniker here. That's one of you people's problems.... You lie and pretend a lot. |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by AutoChick4U(f): 3:11pm On Sep 18, 2021 |
UncleKoboko:It ain't that deep |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by debbydams(f): 4:31pm On Sep 18, 2021 |
Pumpumking:u no well |
Re: A Case For Men Who Don’t Want To Date Single Mothers by Pumpumking: 4:40pm On Sep 18, 2021 |
debbydams: U very rudes. so u can answer a simple questions to confirm if I hav yansh or not? do u hav yansh or not gademmmit, plise? |
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