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Hope you don't have zero self esteem sha

Get ur acts together and focus.

If you have not been dressing properly, begin to do that. In fact, how's your personal hygiene like? Hope you brush your mouth thoroughly? Always comb your hair...cream your body, get a sweet perfume or body spray, roll on.. .smell good. I don't mean you should break a bank to look good.

Talk with confidence when in a group and less jokes...if really you want pple to take you seriously. Learn to stay in your lane and always avoid trouble.

Atimes lend a helping hand to your classmates if you can.

Always be cool, calm and collected...smile often. Don't be insultive too...get serious with your academic. Stop skipping class.
Ladies like to flock around guys like these.

Above all pls never you feel bad or look down on yourself....I love the fact you shared your problem here. You will be fine, OK. Warm hug to you

thanks so much I appreciate

post=75050984:
Our posts aren't for people witj SLOW brains.
Move ahead and read posts from your ilks young boy!
Don't kill yourself with headache pls!!

foolish guy,just listen to urself,u are just trying to justify ur foolishness, if u don't have any reasonable to say,it is not a must to comment,alright,bunch of hypocrite

Mariangeles:
I received your mail request and I've replied... Hope you received it ??

ve sent u message

Tamarapetty:
No! It's different

ve sent u message

Mariangeles:
I received your mail request and I've replied... Hope you received it ??

am seeing mail from tamarapetty,are u using 2 username

Mariangeles:
If you need someone to talk to, you can send me an email

I try to pm u,but is showing error, pls,can I get ur email address

JESUSBOIY:
Don't be needy

Don't ask a girl out directly

Don't give a bleep

Reduce the frequency of jokes you make

Keep a straight face always, avoid smiling too much

Get angry and react immediately when you are offended

Don't be too available: Absence creates value

Talk less and only when necessary

Ignore anyone who ignores you

Realise that people who get to talk to you are privileged


Be assertive, learn to reject and say NO(without explanation*) to unreasonable demand and request made by guys and girls


Finally, think big, start seeing yourself as someone who is too important. and stop texting that girl.


Infact, Block her on WhatsApp ,when you see her next time, bone your face and ignore her and watch her feel the way you are feeling now.


Reply this post, I want to ask a question.

wat is dat

SKhanmipost=74928815:
Your topic itself screams out the problem. Dude you have just 2 things to fix. Work on your self esteem & stop giving a damn! Most of the introverts I've come across Ehn,you either fear or respect them. How come yours is different? Cos you want to prove yourself & they see it.

Through out my 100level,i maintain my distance with everybody,but they do say it behind me and even to my face that i always form,and am proud,and during my 200,i try to associate myself with everybody on and off-k,but right now,both left and right,everything is humiliation for me,i can't even retrace my step,am in locked zone,but thanks to everyone that have been commenting

Mariangeles:
Maybe that's where the problem lies...
You try too hard to please people, to make people like you and they see that because it's obvious...it is so unappealing.

You have to build yourself...let that feeling of rejection propel you into something great .

Do you have friends ??

I don't have any tight friend apart from d one I mention over there,and since dat time i don't have any real friend cos am just downgraded, whenever I sent her message, she don't reply anymore

Mariangeles:
Don't be depressed . Do you always joke around even when things are serious ??

sometimes, to get familiar with people

'm a guy in my mid 20s,and am bored about how things are going for me,why am I always rejected,nobody want to listen to me,no one give a damn Bleep about how I feel,even those that am sure am better than,they always want to make fun of me,they now turn me to joking subject.

For instance,if we are given a group work to do in class,and I try to raise a suggestion, no one will listen, but if everything goes wrong,and I bring an idea and perhaps it works, they will see it as ordinary,but if it works through another guy,the person will be like god.
And this thing has now advance from my academic life to real life,all the girls ve ever asked out in my life do turn me down and d most painful one is d one wey I approach d last time, she is my best friend and she is d one I do confide in,she bluntly told me without feeling any remorse that 'I don't need u,I know wat I want'. That is the most brutal response ve ever heard in my life,since that time am just depressed.

i don't know if i always appear stupid or not,but naturally am an introvert and whenever am doing that they see me as a proud guy,but d more I try to get familiar with people,the more they take me for granted, how do I get out from this,cos right now,everything just tire me.

There is this girl in my street,we grew up together,though we are not close from the onset but our family are close together.
And just like this time last year,we started getting close to each other,DAT my mother is even asking if there is something going on between us, but I said no.
So just few days ago,I decide to step up and i try to ask her out,she said she is in relationship, but i persuade her to have a rethink,then she gave me another reason that we are too close,that my sister see her as a sister,and 'm like a brother to her too,but i let her realize that we are not even 1% related,but she insists that it is not possible.
So, am trying to end d conversation so as not to disturb her work, but she told me I should not worry that her apprentice got d job done,cos she is through with her own school and she is into some vocational job due to this unemployment stuff ,but me,am still in school
so each time i tried to end the conversation,she always try to keep it on and up till now,she always want us to talk together and she will still strictly turn me down,and am not d type that will be pressurizing a lady for relationship.
so could it be she is not interested or she is trying to play hard to get.
I can't read d fingers on d wall,perhaps there is someone that can.

post=74425274:
Good to know nobody died through it all.
Still fresh in our memory how hundreds of youths died while trying to get a job during the wasted and evil ways of PDP.

Nigeria will be great again.

Fresh from Premium Times stable.......
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/146394-unemployment-nigeria-worsened-jonathan-govt-report.html

is like u ve trade ur brain for n power peanut salary,every failure,u sha want to associate it with PDP,pls go borrow brain o,or better still u can still pretend as if u got one

functional party with functional people with functional brain unlike some group of lifeless dullards

normal

old cargo

the man must quickly learn how to chop belt

DAT is wat I will never do

Niorte:
Think critically, that 206 is for two sessions. Dividing it into two.. You have an average of 103 first class per 3000 students. That's about 3.5%

Many people commenting here don't understand simple mathematics. A school produce 206 first class out of 6000, you said it is too much. What is the percent of 206 of 6000.


There is no school with rigorous activities and course work like FUTA. We renamed it Federal University of Test and Assignment.
Some call it Federal University of Testimony and Achievement.
Others call it Federal University of Tension and Agony

UI is a learner where FUTA is. I did my undergraduate in FUTA and my second degree at UI.
UI is using old glory. FUTA is no walk over.

i can't stop laughing, u urself u know u are just exaggerating

Lordofthewest:
This daft ekiti man that refused to pay his workers for over 9months has come again...You mean the man who looted Nigeria with his cohorts only to accept defeat as easy way out of the consequences of his weakness and foolishness.

4 ur mind, u are talking sense

the man is just so humble from his childhood days,see d pose, nothing change in it till today

this is graphic,no one can hold anybody like that without rotating @ 360 and u can't cross ur leg like that and telling me u are rotating

another paid blackmailer

Allaboutkatiee:
Rip English

am not writing an essay,so get d Bleep off,so get d Bleep off

hmmn

Kalapizim:
we wey go OAU nko, suicide is not they way out ......RIP bro

henhe, yellow and white house they slap person back to back

Sleekfingers:
What's this mofo saying......

ur papa

Sleekfingers:
Hmmmmm...very strong indeed....

Mama p the brainless

Mama p the hippopotamus...who likes shedding crocodile tears

if ur mother get half of d brain wey patience get,she won't be staying in village all her life

Hotfreezer:
Aren't you the miscreant who opened threads for sex chat, porn pics and sex orgies? So, you're an RCCG member?

https://www.nairaland.com/4586732/erotica-sexy-whatsapp-group

https://www.nairaland.com/4757913/freaky-whatsapp-group-matured-minds

https://www.nairaland.com/4757882/huge-ass-complications

I'm sure Pst. Adeboye must be very proud of you.

lol,bros wait,u be FBI or wat,see how u attack person with his own very speech

QueenBelle:
how old are you

24

QueenBelle:
ranting on nairaland won't get you anywhere. Are you in a relationship?

No,DAT is one of d problems am facing,I do chat with this girl,but I can't just bring myself to d surface of pouring my mind out

nepapole:
Ogbeni u better reply queenbelle asap. She could be your saviour. U don't need to stress at all. She is delivering her self to your door step.

pls stop being salvage, am serious