indoorscholar:


They thank God when it goes well but sue doctors when it turns bad

and do you know they didn't thank the doctors?

DIKEnaWAR:
Now they have to worry about taking care of them.

Congratulations

worry ke?

lovelygurl:
I can't believe you are asking us for advice!!!

"Please people, my aggressive wife beats me, might even kill me one day, what should I do?"

Duuuuude! Ruuuuuuun!!!!

Do you want to wait till she gets pregnant and you have to deal with her for the rest of your life?

Better divorce sharp sharp before we read about your story on Nairaland "Aggressive woman beats husband to death"

hahahaha!sweet advice from a sweet bae!

wrongchoice:
COURTSHIP DAYS AND MY HATRED FOR WOMEN BEATERS
During our courtship days I have always reiterated my stand on men that do beat their wife. I was of the opinion that they are not lesser than a beast.
She is very quiet, she hardly finishes her words, and she was full of smile that my grandma named her “smiling smiling girl”. My family members were thanking God for me because of her gentle nature. She doesn’t have friends, she goes to church regularly. I went for her because I have seen a lot of unhappy homes and by all means I wanted to avoid such situation. Before her, I had seen many girls that I love and they equally love me too. I leave them immediately I see a sign of anger in them. So, I told her that all I wanted in my life was happiness and I will make sure I keep the home together and going smoothly in as much that happens.
She has her trust issues which I thought they were necessary and not out of control (that was my greatest mistake), but aggressiveness and hatred ,I never had that thought a bit. She didn’t even look it.

MY FIRST SHOCKER
After the introduction, she was eager for the wedding despite the fact that I hardly got employed in a small firm barely a year. We fixed the date and arrangements were going.
3 days before the wedding , I told my wife to-be that one of my friends promised to bring event ;ushers for our wedding just to add glamour to the day, she didn’t allow me to finish when she started shouting on top of her voice and with this kind of never seen before aggressiveness. I never saw such red eyes before in 2 years of our courtship and over 6 years as friends. She said my friends and I were bringing oloshos to sleep with for bash eve which I never even plan to have. Her argument wasn’t a concern but I never see her reacted that way. I cried and I knew I was in for a big trouble.

THE REAL SHOW

Fast forward to after wedding. To my surprise, before any argument she would hit me, sometimes slap just less than 2 months in the marriage. I discovered she has the strength of 3 men. We are talking about a lady that never misses any church program as a youth and when we moved to our new area , she became more popular than myself in the church. This went on for a while coupled with terrible issues that I would be taken one after the other.

THE DAY OF LESSON
There was this afternoon that an argument ensue base on (what I will share latter) , she took out knife, I collected it from her, she brought out fork I collected it from her, she resulted to my belt and she started beating me with it ,I didn’t even struggle with her just like before. She took her shoe hitting it on my head ,I didn’t even move, I wasn’t even angry self. She bite me on my shoulder and thumb which nearly had that finger off if not for quick medical attention. At this point a question flashed through my mind, “would this be how my live would be going?”. This woman may even ask me to lay flat to receive some lashes if I didn’t make attempt to stop her. I concluded that I have to do something. Then without any iota of anger in me. I raised my hand up and gave her 2 thunderous slaps across her face. She opened her mouth for complete 5 minutes she couldn’t close it. I knew she would be thinking she has over stepped her boundary. She started shouting that I have killed her and all sorts. People that never had me speak in that street for good one year I stayed their plus close to a year she has spent with me were aghast. Since that day many things changed for the worse. Though she stopped hitting me after that, except sometimes when she would push me against the wall and i get some bruises.
I later travelled home and my siblings were asking me if my hands were tied to my back while a woman was inflicting all these injuries on my body. They saw both the fresh ones and the old bruises. It was a very big issue that families, church members had to intervene. I can tell you since that day things had never remain the same again. It was the beginning of trouble and unhappy home.

My question is this? If you were in my position what would you have done differently?


you can check the previous post here
https://www.nairaland.com/4126638/how-wife-been-terrorizing-me

Giving the danger lights she's shown prior to the wedding,i wouldn't have married her in the first place

Cladez:
Lol whenever i look at the muslim faithfuls i just laugh........the wealthy muslims are different from the normal muslim from the way they think,eat,dress,talk etc.

Naso them carry the religion for head very soon im go break their neck.

Infact its no wonder why we are way behind the rest of the world!If according to him,the Koran condemns such a Union,then ffs let her answer to her God na sho!!

Young03:
Story for the gods

abi o!

IneedSugarMumy1:
Congrats to her


She should start eating food, make she add small

spot on bro!

HRHQueenPhil:


i like suprises, good ones.. maybe my own husband or bump in my finances. lol

Well then let me surprise you!

HajimeSaito:


True. She possesses every quality that those illiterate, over-subservient hajias will never possess. A true class act and example of a Christian woman.

and if i may ask,are you a Christian?

jakD:

Stop this childish tribalism for God sake.
How does scoring mean you play most?
Behave sensibly dude!

You took it out of my mouth ma bro!Its about time we stopped all this bullshiit if we must move forward

just2endowed:


She should have fixed the money and invest in call deposit

exactly!!!

just2endowed:


http://punchng.com/student-goes-on-spending-spree-as-her-bank-account-gets-1m-in-error/

mumu na im be her real name jo!If i was in her shoes,i'll invest the money in stocks or any short term investment like a 30-60days FIXED DEPOSIT instead of spending part of it!Imaging the % growth of 1m USD in FD for atleast 30days!

dre11:




Caught cheating with hubby’s friend





http://hmetro.co.zw/caught-cheating-with-hubbys-friend/

Pics 1: scuffle at Huruyadzo shopping centre
Pics 2 & 3: Gift and Yelmina

But why always Zimbabwe?

kidap:
It is no longer news that Rosy Meurer was accused by Tonto Dikeh of sleeping with her now estranged husband, Olakunle Churchill. Nollywood actress took to her Instagram page to put her big butts and said self discipline is everything someones needs to conquer physical and mental being. Checkout the caption and photos

"Self-Discipline is everything. If you can conquer your physical and mental being, you can conquer anything in the world. #selfdecipline #everythingrosy#rosykisses#QueenOfAllQueens?".


http://news.nollyzone.com/rosy-meurer-puts-big-butts-display/

My bae fine pass her i swear!

[quote author=PointZerom post=51753488][/quote]as they say,"truth is bitter."#livewithit

PointZerom:



What do you have to say now that MMM??.

no investment is totally safe dude!

xcesspaschal:
End time marriage

na you sabi?#Itscalledchoice

Fearcom:
Happy married life. May your marriage be blessed with plenty children!!!

what a prayer!there a more than enough the world over already that need our care and love...

Tallesty1:
Girlfriend?


Does she look like a girl to you?


She don pass lady level sef.


She is a woman already.








Love is truly the absence of common sense.

lol..you've got beak man!

sportskid:
The church is the reason why many Christians are Poor. Its so sad.

True that!you spoke my mind!...sadly it will forever remain so until they snap out of that trance

PointZerom:


At least he have warned them against it, any body that brings such money to the Church is on his own. Like my Pastor always say 'If you are not born again Pls don't bring your money to the church'.

religious bigotery!no wonder there's so much penury in christiandom!#makesmesick

SmartMugu:
Is he going to refund those church members that paid tithes and offerings to his church from the 'satanic' money they made from MMM?
Some people need to know when to stop saying thrash. In his head, he will rather prefer everyone that listens to whatever he tells them to do the routine - keep their money in the bank, withdraw it and come and pay tithes and offerings with it. As long as it's coming from the bank, it's holy, from MMM its demonic - in his head.

To be frank, which one is more 'demonic' , the existing banking system or MMM? Banks take deposits from one person to offer loans to another to earn interests for their personal gains. MMM let's people deal directly with each other offering and receiving help and doesn't tie people's lives up with loan payments.

Now, why is this pastor saying nonsense when him and his church own bank accounts and are a part of a bigger messed up scheme. If banking isn't a ponzi scheme, let everyone withdraw their funds at the same time from all banks and see what happens.

guy you just nailed it jawe!

phemmyutd:
I was never a fan of this pastor, but after watching this video I was forced to check history of this MMM man history on Wikipedia

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sergei_Mavrodi


I pity those involving in this scheme, any day MMM reaches it target, that's the end

Their monies isn't it?!

DanPel:
My Aunt wanted to introduce me to dis sh*t last wk,bt as she was talkin to me abt it,i purposely dont listen,she knew me 4dat,dat once u talk to me and i am less affected,i dnt care.
MMM,BETTING or anyother money doubling scheme is really bad. Let your normal income okay you.

in life,People are entitle to their choices! #justareminder

kingcliff:
what's the meaning of VIO abi VOI self?

vehicle officers inspection...lol

Polyestar:
There should be a law that any soldier caught beating up a civilian be transferred to Sambisa to fight Boko Haram.

dude,VIO na civilian?!

horciglowri:
Well I dnt af 2 tell u if I am 1 or nt, I will luv it if u can shut dat tin u call mouth #nooffence

hmm...i forgive you for the insult!