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mansakhalifa:
He ain't a "shoemaker". He's a Cobbler. There's a difference.

What's the difference? You may or may not want to ask.

Well, a Shoemaker as the name implies or suggests MAKES or manuactures shoes while a Cobbler only repairs shoes.

Look at it this way, a Shoemaker is like the car manufacturer or car-maker while the cobbler is like your regular automechanic.

So, please, you might want to stop referring to the guy as a 'Shoemaker'.

Quite thoughtful of you to school me on the difference(s)° Gracias

Rest in Jail.

Shoe maker

sassysure:
They are not people shy at all so they can mingle and the best strategists out there so how to make money isn't in the equation.
Former governor of anambra state, Mr Peter obi as an introvert and he is a billionnaire. Dangote is one, some silent billionaires , Bill gate, Prince Charles, Mark, Warren Buffett name them.
They all have one common feature, they talk when the occasion requires it or mingle with the public but they rather love to be left alone to live in their world. Fancy cars, fashions etc, nothing to gossip about them actually.


Some people here are mixing being an introvert and social anxiety disorder together. From what I have read so far, majority have social anxiety disorder and they don't know it.

OH.... thanks for the clarification oo my friend... I knew the features so many of them display aren't that of an introvert but of something else whc u just explained.....

How can u say u have only 8 contacts and u only talk to 2 of them.... and so many absurd stuffs these guys put up there, I feel its just not normal

ArticleBeast:
If he releases on her head or chest, she will get pregnant is that it? Una no go kee person for naija

Oga go and get your facts right, if he releases on a lady's P. P, she can get pregnant especially when she's ovulating, a man can rub his rod against a woman's thing without penetration...
BTW I'm talking from experience oooooo.. hmmmm

Introverts, I'll like to ask you all, How do you make money, especially for some of you who do business.

Derring:
@ 1:30pm yesterday I got a phone call from 08148292037 who claimed to be Mr Benjamin from FBN Abuja. He gave my full names, BVN number, Date of Birth, my Alert phone number, which he called, also the 5 digit number I used to create my FBN mobile bank app.
He said that one Mr Usman created a Union bank account, and is trying to move money from my FBN account to the Union bank. He claimed he stopped the transaction, & is trying to verify if I authorised such transaction, which is the reason I have not gotten any debit Alert.
I asked him to go ahead to block the transaction, for I didn't authorise any online transaction.
He then asked if I gave my ATM card to anyone or used my ATM recently, I said NO. He then asked if I have my ATM card with me, that I should read out the ATM digit numbers to enable him stop the transaction. I told him that he had already stopped the transaction, and have gotten a clarification from me, which is enough to enable him block whatever that needs blocking, if he is truly a first bank staff.
As I refused to call out the numbers, he then asked isn't the first number 5. He then asked what's the next number. I told him that I will never read out my number to who claimed to be FBN over the phone, that I will rather go to the First Bank office & complain. He asked me if he is a ghost or not a FBN staff to get all my details.
As I pissed him off by not budging in, he switched off the phone.
As I checked a message on that my Alert phone, there was already a message from Union Bank, showing Account opening Authentication numbers 872395, 973392.
I quickly rushed to FBN. The Customer care personnel asked me not to bother about anything, so long as I didn't read out those numbers to him nor gave my ATM pin.

NB Please be guided people, it is so real & convincing that I believe some Fraudulent bank staff connive with these HOOLIGANS to dupe innocent customers. Please share widely ASAP.
I have shared you can save someone by sharing.

Exactly what happened to me oooo, but this time around, it was from FCMB, My people shine your eyes ooooo, Fraud is Real ooo,

The guy asked me to call out my account number, and he claimed to be a customer care agent from the bank... I'm sure these guys work with insiders.... if u had called the number, them go still remove my money..... hmmmm

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

No my dear, you didn't overreact, unlike your fiance, mine understood with me, and we actually kept the promise until marriage, we do normal romance but didn't go beyond that, so please kindly stick to your guns, what is yours will be yours... BTW be careful when you romance ooo, if a guy releases on you without penetration, even if ure a virgin my dear, you can be pregnant oooo..

You're my name sake, what a coincidence

Lyydia:
There's this guy that we have been dating for 6 months, we love each other very well and we plan on marrying each other.

Here is the deal, we plan on no sex before marriage due to personal reasons. I don't ask for money also, we do cuddle and kiss sometimes. But not sex!

Of recent, he has been acting strange and wants to go beyond our normal cuddle level. I cautioned him about this and he promised to change! But he still does this.

Yesterday it happened again as I got furious and asked him to leave.

Did I overreact? I called, he has not picked up since yesterday.

No my dear, you didn't overreact, unlike your fiance, mine understood with me, and we actually kept the promise until marriage, we do normal romance but didn't go beyond that, so please kindly stick to your guns, what is yours will be yours... BTW be careful when you romance ooo, if a guy releases on you without penetration, even if ure a virgin my dear, you can be pregnant oooo

it is well

Why worry when you can pray.

FloraEC:
Depo Provera injection fails
Pills fails
Withdrawal fails
Condom fails
Rythmn fails

Want to do FP, do a good one only if you want to take in this year

I'll be using a combination of 3, Rhythm, Barrier plus the injection.... Definitely not this year anymore, not even in 2021, 2022 is my plan for the next baby....

Seyibusayo:
You get mind oooo. Now draw your 2 ears and go for family planning like now now now

Dem no born us well make we no do am, I was using the rhythm method, but now I see it's not reliable.... Injection I guess should be next or something similar

tutulicious:
Am just reading this now and I hope it's not late.

I had this same experience, my child was 18 months I was in shock at the positive pregnancy test result and then came to accept the result I started planning for the child, then I had a miscarriage, and then I was depressed lossing the pregnancy, I felt it was because I wasn't excited about being pregnant then I cried and was more depressed. Now its so bad because all my first time pregnancy mate are all pregnant and am not.

Their children will be a constant reminder to me.
I believe you can look over your plans again and give your baby a chance to live.

Thanks sister... After so much thoughts back and forth on the whole scenario, I threw in the towel just yesterday, with the full support of my husband...

Azaebere:
God bless you.

A big Amen...
God bless you too.

Azaebere:
Hmmmmm I saw this post on Facebook, madam I think the answers or reply you got from Facebook should be enough for you. Why broadcasting it every where? You and your hubby should advice yourselves and work as your spirits leads.

Happy new year and stop being a monitoring spirit... You hear

1Sharon:
Sis, I hate when people say that crap. What is the chance of becoming a president?

Abi ooooo, child wey u train inside poverty, na farm he or she go work last last.... Rubbish.... This week will be the end of it.

dankol:
Don't let anyone guilt-trip you. If you know and you know you won't be able to cater for the child. Pls do the child a favour by terminating it.

Straight up... Thanks bro

uninspired07:
If family planning fails, we abort.

We would not get into trouble as couple because we fvcked as a couple.

I fear Nigerian poverty a lot & all must be done to avoid it.

Thanks for the re assurance bro, I'm on my way to aborting mission

johnkey:
Poor people shouldn't even have kids, bringing innocent souls into the world to suffer them.

Later when you talk they'll say, he could be d future president, future this and that, children they refuse to take care oooo,, presently I'm married with two kids a boy and a girl, recently I found out to be pregnant and I will be aborting when I return home from the holidays, only for me seek advice and trust Nigerians na. They say mk I leave Belle wey I no fit cater for

zaynie:
You may need to see a family doctor very quickly if you have no intention of keeping the baby.
But are you truly sure you don't want to keep the baby? Be very sure because the psychological or emotional trauma that follows it is not a child's play.
If and when you're sure (make up your mind quickly as the more advanced the pregnancy, the harder and more painful it is), see a qualified medical doctor only for the best method to use.


Best of luck!

I was very sure until lots of people here kept discouraging me, actually we both want 3 kids, but just the timing, I'm feeling bad about the whole thing, there are things we both want to actualize, but we feel this will be a hindrance....

I'm presently not home, I'm with my parents for the holidays, but hopefully when I get home I can re discuss this with him...

May God help us, thanks for your input..

ebonyjoke:
Madam!!
No need for name calling.
Emergency contraceptive is between 300-500naira. Have never heard of how saltwater acting as a preventive measure.
No one is judging u and no need to insult fellow mothers here.
Go to hospital and don't even think of self medicating with intent to terminate b4 u damage ur health.
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Radarada ni e... Oponu with an hypocritical holier than thou attitude..... Abeg go sleep...

Thanks ma

Ohemababy:
Hi maam, I perfectly understand you. But see ehn ...this is a public forum. Even if anyone advises you to go and buy so so and so drug, Nairaland mods will take that post down. You know why, abortion is a very delicate thing. Before you know it, people are following the same advice and getting the same drugs which may end up harming them even if it doesn't harm you.

What am I saying in essence. That someone use a particular drug does not mean you can use it too o. Ma, kindly visit your family doctor. He would tell you how best to go about it.

OH thanks. I appreciate this...

Orekegold:
Mama, you will be fine.

Tight hugs*******

Thanks for the re assurance MA.... I just want out and I'll be fine cos right now I'm so mad with myself...

Mummy4life1:
Madam, we don't kill unborn child on this group and we don't insult pregnant women here. Please don't insult the Ma'am again.

I stayed for 7years and 10month before my conception. Tears is on my eyes now because you said you want to kill unborn child

It's not ideal either to have a child you can't cater for, God knows I miscalculated wrongly, my second child is yet to walk, I knew the hell I went thru during his pregnancy and his tutelage, as I talk to you he doesn't eat much, he only loves to suck which is driving me nuts, I'm yet to get myself and can't go thru yet another hard journey if not I might visit a rehab soon... Besides I don't think a developing foetus is an unborn child, pardon my limited knowledge....

Sorry for coming to the wrong thread, cos although I know it's a pregnancy thread, I know some people exist in here who went thru my experience and who had the baby aborted, especially someone who is very popular here but won't mention her name., maybe such can send me a p. M, I'll sincerely appreciate that.

Orekegold:
You came to the wrong place madam.
Can you imagine....radarada.

Radarada ni e... Oponu with an hypocritical holier than thou attitude..... Abeg go sleep...

GreaterGraceGG:
U should have used postinor the next day.
Since you are pregnant now, there is nothing you can do. Congratulations I wish you smooth journey.

I can't keep the baby cos of so many reasons...
I should have used the postinor instead of the salt water... I'll be much more careful next time... Thanks so much.

Liftedhands:
Since both of you have agreed to get rid of the child, then go to the hospital and have it done. Then get a suitable birth control put in place.

50 naira condom or free birth control from govt hospital would have prevented this pregnancy.

Many men and women are crying day and night and spending millions for what you carelessly want to discard.

It's your life, your body and your unborn child do as you please and may God have mercy on us all.


Btw such amount of salt can kill you, better don't try it again.

Thanks ma....

queenfav:
You wanted the baby, else you would have been on some form of birth control.Now you are here asking people how you can kill a child you conceived? Maybe others will answer you.As for me, I advise u to get family planning done to avoid a repeat of this situation in future.If u don't want more kids, you take active steps to prevent pregnancy,not drinking salt water! Birth control is given free at government hospitals,go and do the one that suits your body.

I didn't want the child, God knows this... I calculated wrongly using rhythm method, the length of my cycle days vary a whole lot and because I wasn't sure, I drank salt water the next day.. Thanks for your input though.

Good evening beautiful mothers and mum to be, I'm sorry I have to bring this here, cos this is the best place I can bring this anyways, I'm a mum of two and my second child clocked 1 on 23rd of Dec.2019, My first menstruation after having this boy was on Nov. 13th 2019, by Dec this month, I had sex close to my ovulation and sensing that it could result into pregnancy, I took enough salt water that almost chocked me out (although it was the next day), unfortunately I missed my period, and testing I found out I'm positive. I don't want this baby because it's not planned for, please what's the best way to get rid of this.... I've discussed this with my husband and he is also inw full support... Please help

Good evening beautiful mothers and mum to be, I'm sorry I have to bring this here, cos this is the best place I can bring this anyways, I'm a mum of two and my second child clocked 1 on 23rd of Dec.2019, My first menstruation after having this boy was on Nov. 13th 2019, by Dec this month, I had sex close to my ovulation and sensing that it could result into pregnancy, I took enough salt water that almost chocked me out (although it was the next day), unfortunately I missed my period, and testing I found out I'm positive. I don't want this baby because it's not planned for, please what's the best way to get rid of this.... I've discussed this with my husband and he is also in full support... Please help

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donbachi:
so I will take 10 nairalanders to Dubai next year....by the special grace of GOD.

Please remember unknown queen when you do oooo.