₦airaland Forum

New222:
. We decided not to keep the preg.
She's recovering well.
Thanks

illicit:
She later fo o

Labi4real:
������ you be legend infact I need to talk with you self ���

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
You mean you couldn't interprete that simple illustration?

I think I can now confidently rationalise the sort of person you are.
I shouldn't have been surprised in the first place.

We4all:
I highly doubt you’re a married woman. You speak without emotions and see abortion as a normal thing.

No sensible, responsible and selfless married woman would ever feel the need to abort a pregnancy; unless she was medically advised to . But you did this twice and you’re very proud to say it. Shame on you!

You and your hubby are the most selfish beings. You both want to enjoy unprotected sex but are callous enough to discard the consequences of that reckless act. The blood of those two fetus will hunt both of you till the end of time.

To think that you feel that your two living kids have more rights to live than the aborted ones is just unacceptable. Bookmark this page and in future, come and quote me.

UnknownQueen:
My friend, abeg I will speak without being biased, my opinion is that you end the fucking pregnancy, I'm a married woman with two children, and just as you did my husband was practicing the withdrawal method with me, but twice it failed, I took in twice and terminated my pregnancy twice because we were not ready for a third and fourth child....

My advice is that you find a good Dr to do DNC for the young girl, don't spoil the future of the girl because of child wey she go still born plenty plenty for u....
I know it would be easy for you to ask her to keep cos u won't be the one affected, but if she were my child , I'll get rid of the foetus almost immediately.......
Nigerians like to attach yeye sentiments to issues like this saying the child is from God, tell me what happens to children that die immediately after delivery?.
What also happens to zygotes growing outside the womb (ectopic pregnancy) and there's a need for an emergency evacuation in order to save the life of the mother...

Abeg count this situation as one of those to protect the future of the girl...Like I said before, she go still born plenty pikin for u in the nearest future ...

Regards...

New222:
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Though it will be tough, I wouldn't mind keeping the baby. It's the girl I'm worried about. This will end things between her and her family. Her education too. Thanks for this though.

scholes23:
Yes auntie

Oluwaseyi00:
Most definitely

EmiDon11:
aunty kukuma tell us say u no dey hear big grammer we go understand and help u .
Because i know say u no understand wetin op write

Holluwatarhyor:
One major thing in this life is that you should live your life as long as you ain't hurting anyone.....stop seeking validation from people on how to live your life....just fear God in all your ways....lobatan


I'm a civil engineer and into building construction.....you can contact me if you are in need of a professional to handle your building projects

Foreigna2:
My expectations aren't high from her, they are basic educational standards which she can't meet. Have you heard Akpabio speak? Or Nse Ikpe Etim? They both have accents but they speak proper English.
You listed people from French-speaking countries as standards in English. Is English their lingua-franca there? No. They probably learnt English as adults. Mercy learnt English from primary school, English is her lingua-franca and she still speaks like an okpa hawker. Her supposed education can not even show in her speech or thought process.

emmanuelonwe:
Let me ask: where will you spend your eternity?

damoneymag:
The westernized Nigerians



Western education has proven invaluable to the overall devopment of Nigeria. It has empowered us as a people and placed us on a pedestal from which we can view the world and contribute our quota to the betterment of mankind.



More than just imbide the western education, we've gone ahead to adopt western life style as well. Now speaking our native language is frowned at, as children are forced to speak Queen's English as a way to show civility. Intelligence is now measured by your beautiful accent and good grammatical construction as if before the arrival of whites, we weren't intelligent.



Worse still, our mode dressing have been so weaternised, you'll wonder if the up and coming generation still remembers their culture and root. Things that were frowned at and seen as abominable, have become the norm now, all under the guise of trends and "times we live in".



By simply observing, you'll notice 70% of our youth now wear ear rings and dread lucks, multiple neck chains like hip hop artist and many more. What's even more disturbing is young mother plaiting their sons hair and piercing their eyes as infants. For Christ's sake, how did get to this point? Why are trying so hard to become more western than the westerners? Why is our native names and way of life suddenly seen as archaic and crude?



We have to nip this wave of western rascality pervading our youth in the bud, else generations to come would know nothing about our identity as a people and what we truely stand for. Let be Africans with our chest and stop measuring intelligence using western gauges.

Dotinacircle:
Can we talk, hope there is no problem.

osazsky:
sorry for this..i know u are in a tereible situation ma pls work urself out of it..pls it can make u depress but create a distraction engage urself with something..learning a trade tailoring reading wat interest u...u are covered amen

lailo:
Evilqueen, I beg I sabi u before?(I hope you've given same advice.....)
U know my sister? (your sister who is the grand - patroness of all feminists.....)
U know my house?(Put your own house in order.........)
While i talk my own while not just talk your own?
Abeg Carry ur frustrated life comot for my mention
Stewpid sllut and pained bitch......

lailo:
Africans and miracle

lailo:
Congrats. Women are funny. They wanna eat their cake and have it. There is a way God arranged it. Submit to a man and live a world of peace, carry pride on your head and live a frustrated and depressed life. Another feminist bites the dust