₦airaland Forum

czarina:
The above shows that you clearly already know what to do. Why ask?

MotherChristmas:
The last winner and payments will be made after I return from church.

MotherChristmas:
You didn't say anything about your financial situation.

MotherChristmas:
I don't have much money but in the spirit of Christmas I want to bless some people with a token for Christmas .
Please how much is one whole chicken in Nigeria.
Give me a range.
Thanks
You can be of any religion or any culture the only qualification is that you are unemployed and not a new handle that registered after me or without active participation .At least you can buy chicken and give your mom for Christmas to celebrate.When things get better for you ,do it for someone else.
Now tell me your story I will pick one winner daily till Christmas day.

EmptyCoconutHead:
I'll get the Services of a housemaid or concubine to do that.
no need for the scam called wife.
I'll just pay the services of a lady and when she delivers a child for me then I pay her off and train my child.
That is a more better idea

EmptyCoconutHead:
useless women.
If not for bearing of children and sexual gratification to kill konji, there's no other use of women in marriage.

eni4real:
Be more polite when you are talking about someone else parent

mimimile93:
this is a very stupid african way of reasoning.. because my mama born me make i born pikin abi? Even if i dont hav wat it taks to raise a child make i born am put for dis world abi?

Freehuman:
"Musa our children will be fine, Musa I will love you forever." Na so Musa take read Amina wedding invitation for toll gate. Walahi , Musa faint for gate.

Na me be Musa. Wetin my eye don see heavy for mouth to talk. I don leave gateman work make I go become something for this life. Men with Benz don carry my heartthrob oooo. Amina ,I love you scatter. I won't marry no other girl than Amina. I won't marry.
Money do me something for this life. Abeg young men abeg make una try become something for this life, work hard, shun Yahoo, focus and help your Papa, Mama and siblings. Na only them love you.
Cries an ocean

innobarca:
It is not about men.

The husband will find it difficult to just forget his own family.

Rare to see a married woman hate her own family, very rare.

It's always wife quarrelling with the husband family, difficult to hear wife neglecting her own family unless the husband is not financially okay.

The woman is not a bad wife, She should try to make peace as the husband suggested?

My own woman came into my life and family, heard about how my eldest sister helped me.... She went close to her and they became very good friends, till today they are very close.

Some women knows how to make their men love them.

sassysure:
The mistake she made was that she should have started early to ascertain her right and respect.

When u u want to please and belong, this is how it usually end.
Also the husband isn't that smart. He should be seen in public eyes as neutral. Don't entertain shit.
Council and admonish them separately.
By the way, why can't they leave them alone.
Very jealous people.

TonyeBarcanista:
You want him to stand up to his sisters and at same time expect amicable solution? Jesus!

And yes, the husband has a loving family that is as important as life itself. The wife has to blend by making peace with her husband's siblings. There is no ambiguity here!

I am saying this because I have loving family, I will never separate from my family because I married someone. She should be seeking true reconciliation with her SILs instead of seeking her husband "support".

TonyeBarcanista:
I don't expect her to say FULL TRUTH because humans are fond of saying half truths to make them appear as oppressed and garner public sympathy. I know that her in-laws aren't mad people to be taking gifts when she didn't err.

What did she do? What has she done? What is the recurring issue? Saying it is envy is the most FOOLISH assumption! Why should her SIL envy her? Is she their mate? Is she the one feeding their brother? Use your brain


You can go hit your head on the wall if you are pained by that assertion!

Only those that don't know manipulating style of women will fall for this nonsense nag

BTW Are you married?

babyfaceafrica:
Why will an adult drink kerosine just because someone said so on nairaland?

Donald95:
There is nothing bad marrying an AS woman when you are AS. Love is a very strong feeling which one cannot just wake up one day and throw into bin and then move on like nothing happened. No it doesn't work like that.

I will give you advice based on what my uncle did. Check the babies Genotype, if it is Sickle, Abort it. My grandfather AS married AS too. They only had one Sickler

bluefilm:
So, why you con carry your issue come nairaland na?

You hear say your brother in law dey nairaland?

Nonsense.

viceddy95:
Not his fault ,he wasn't able to pay at the appointed time but he has paid half of the money...he gat to take care of his baby and wife,,let the OP be patience with him...

quintessence007:
Pure maturity, I hate it when people feel too big to greet first.

makavelli80:
hmmm this woman sef

stupidity:
this is exactly what I’m beginning to understand about we Nigerians. We tend to take advantage of ones simplicity and calmness. I had an experience yesterday evening.

It’s time I start breaking bottles to show that side of me.

makavelli80:
It's easier said than done.

Shibaraba:
Their money their life..... At least they are doing something with their money and life. They have both to gamble with.

Meanwhile some people here have no money
(if they manage to have its 30k/month)

And they definitely have no life. They know theirselves. I won't waste time calling names.

Hamachi:
Are you encouraging CS?

makavelli80:
The fear of marrying a second hand lady. Aside family I can't imagine living with another person for the rest of my life. Is there any thing one can enjoy in a woman without getting tired of one day?