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Bobloco:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2022/05/apc-why-we-rejected-ekweremadus-guber-bid-2/

Ugo Agballah is walking with the PDP in Enugu.

oikirodah:
https://ireporteronline.com.ng/blog/expensive-shit-jonathans-consensus-candidacy-and-tinubus-popularity-tops-apc-agenda-ahead-of-screening/

Osigwe Omo-Ikirodah is a paid Tinubu propagandist!

Social media really has a way of pushing trivial and nonsense into the front burner

Bianca won't like this.

Omojowofestus:
To know more about this sir, kindly search and look up for the keyword "I WILL" in the scripture.
Anywhere you find it when God's speaking... Note it and may the Lord give you understanding sir.

this leaves more questions than the original article.

Seun:
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paid for article.

Dorwadora:
Selfishness is when you think your opinion is better than mine..... Deal with the entitled mentality first then come talk later

I'm entitled to my opinion, if you don't like it.... Then you do something bad to yourself.

Ciai

nope, selfishness is when one is so self-conceited that she thinks cheating in marriage amounts to when her partners tries to take her happiness.

You're either alexythemic or one little 5 year old baby in an adult's body who thinks life evolve around her toys and cookies.

You're just one little stiff-necked, greedy taker in marriage, never a giver.

Acehart:
No verse expressly shows where vows were exchanged. However, this verse is profound in showing two people had some form of agreement before they tied the knot- Amos 3:3 Can two walk together, except they be agreed?

Another verse is this: If a man vows a vow to the Lord, or swears an oath to bind himself by a pledge, he shall not break his word. He shall do according to all that proceeds out of his mouth (Number 30:2).

Whether a promise to a girl is made in secret or in the public, a man is bound by the words of his mouth.

stick to marriage vows ,please. Because there were none.

Essential the opposite of a virgin is a wife by Jewish standards back then. And by that standard a man may marry more than one wife as all the prophets and Abraham and David did.

But I admire your cut -and-join verses to support your position.

Dorwadora:
I respect the institution of marriage.... Very well....


But my happiness is more important.... If I'm not happy then how can I make the people around me happy?

Don't share your thoughts with me tho....

selfish carefree little tot.

Dorwadora:
I don't think God will look favourably upon an abusive marriage.

This teaching is the reason Osinachi died. Cheating to me is not only bleeping another woman or man outside the marriage. The day you try to rob your partner's happiness then you've cheated.

If the marriage does not worth staying, then kindly get da guck.

potential divorcee

Acehart:
“Here is another thing you do. You cover the Lord’s altar with tears, weeping and groaning because he pays no attention to your offerings and doesn’t accept them with pleasure. You cry out, “Why doesn’t the Lord accept my worship?” I’ll tell you why!

Because the Lord witnessed the vows you and your wife made when you were young. But you have been unfaithful to her, though she remained your faithful partner, the wife of your marriage vows. Didn’t the Lord make you one with your wife? In body and spirit you are his. And what does he want? Godly children from your union.

So guard your heart; remain loyal to the wife of your youth. “For I hate divorce!” says the Lord, the God of Israel. “To divorce your wife is to overwhelm her with cruelty, ” says the Lord of Heaven’s Armies. “So guard your heart; do not be unfaithful to your wife.””
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can you point us to any place in the bible where it was recorded that marriage vows were exchanged between husband and wife?

adenigga:
https://dailypost.ng/2023-You-will-never-be-president-Igbos-will-reject-you-Ohanaeze-hits-Atiku “We are waiting for the APC presidential primary to take the final decision on whether or not Igbos will participate in the 2023 elections.

This goes to show that the mindset of the average Igbo is that of the mindset of IPOB. And it is no longer surprising ehy the criminal organisation succeeded.

This people can't think outside the box!

Newton2024:
[s][/s]Abacha's son won Kano PDP Guber Primaries.

Lamido's son won Jigawa PDP Guber Ticket.

Elrufai's son won APC Kaduna North Federal Constituency.

Ajimobi's son won APC Ticket to contest Oyo Assembly Seat.

Ibori's daughter won PDP Okpe/Sapele/Uvwie Federal Constituency of Delta State.

Ganduje's son won APC primary election for House of Representatives Dawakin Tofa, Rimin Gado and Tofa.

Okowa's daughter won PDP House of Assembly Primaries.

Akala's son won APC primaries for Ogbomoso Federal Constituency.

Fayose's son won PDP Ekiti Central Federal Constituency .

Yarima's son also won....

The circle continues.

They all deliberately kept ASUU on strike in order to keep the circle continue easily for their children.

If it continue like this, the son of nobody can never be somebody.

We must never be tired of demanding better funding of Education.

#Wecantcontinuelikethis
#Revolutionnow

doesn't change the fact that IPOB are a bunch of bloodsucking terrorists and criminals.

Kanu and Ekpa are worse than 200 buharis


IPOB is the worst thing that happened to igbos after the civil war!

Smoke55:
cram this off head..

Immediately you meet your d@d at home..

Recite this thing you typed here to him..

lolz, what a dumb retort from a drugged up Mkpurumiri terrorist.

felixawe:
He had a daughter with someone else when he was in school. He told me, “It’s a boyhood mistake. I thought I was on top of the world and nothing could bring me down. It was that pregnancy that nearly ended my education.” Looking at how young he was when he had the child, I believed him. We all make mistakes. Our mistakes are many while young so I couldn’t hold it against him. I accepted his proposal and dated him for two years before we finally got married. His daughter was living with his parents. When the child was four years old, her mother brought her to him so she could also continue with her life. It’s his parents who took the daughter in and took care of her while he moved around living life.

Our marriage was one year old when he told me he wanted to bring his daughter to come and live with us. I didn’t hesitate. I told him, “Bring her in. I don’t have any problem at all.” We didn’t discuss the issue again but in the back of my mind, I knew the girl could come in at any time so I prepared my mind and my heart to receive her.

Along the line, I got pregnant and delivered a baby boy. Just around that time, he brought his daughter in. She was quite respectful and very shy. She didn’t talk a lot. She was always looking around for something to do. I loved her. I always did my best to get her closer to me. I bought her some gifts. I bought her new clothes. I was teaching her how to keep herself as a lady and was always in the kitchen with her. My husband loved the chemistry between us and even called us twins. I said, “We can’t be twins. She’s my daughter—my first child.

Then things started going missing in the house. I had a phone I wasn’t using. It was a brand-new phone a friend gave me on my birthday. I had a good phone so I placed that one aside. The plan was to send it to my mom. When the day came for me to visit my mom, I looked for the phone everywhere and I couldn’t find it. I asked my husband, “Haven’t you seen the phone I brought from the office the other day?” He responded, “The first time I saw it was the last time I saw it. Haven’t you left it in the office by mistake?” There was no way I could have left it in the office but when I went to work on Monday I looked for it.

I was like a madwoman roaming free. I went from box to box and office to office. I would ask anyone I would meet, “Haven’t you perchance seen a phone around here?” For a whole week, I looked for the phone. I didn’t find it. At some point, we give up. So slowly, I let it sink into my mind that I’d lost the phone.

Then it came to my money. I will take a fat purse home and by the time I realize the purse had grown lean. Some money had been taken out of it. A purse is something we move around with so when money gets missing from your purse, you hardly can tell where the money got missing. It could be any of the places you went. I started being careful. I will get home and count the money in my purse before I sleep. Often, I will wake up and count the same money until one day I woke up and realized that GHC100 was gone out of my purse.

My husband was the first suspect. I asked him, “When did you take money from my purse that you didn’t tell me?” He was lost. Me? Why would I leave my purse there and come to your purse? No, I haven’t done that.” My husband has no reason to lie. He wouldn’t even take it in the first place so that brought my attention to the girl. When we were alone I asked her, “Adwoa, have you been taking things from me without asking?” This girl swore heaven and earth that she hadn’t taken anything from me. She even cried. A twelve-year-old girl can be trusted to a certain extent so I apologized to her and asked her never to tell her father about it.

I trapped her one day and I got her. I went to the bathroom to bathe. Our room was opened. I turned the shower on and looked through the small space I left when I was closing the door. I saw her hurriedly going into our room. When she entered, I came out. I waited for her outside until she came out. She saw me and got shocked. I asked, “What did you go there to do?” She was looking at me. I went closer, looked into her hand, and saw a GH50 note. I asked, “So you’re the one stealing from me right?” She burst out in tears as if I’d beaten her. I said, “I will tell your father when he comes.”


My husband came and I complained to him. He acted aloof. I said, “Did you hear what I just told you? Adwoa had been stealing from me and I caught her red-handed today.” He retorted, “So what do you want me to do to her? Kill her because she took GHC50 from your purse? My parents never mentioned that she had been stealing so why would she steal from you? Only God knows how you’re treating her in my absence. The reason she’ll take money from your purse.” I was shocked! “Is that all you can say? You live with us. Have you ever seen me maltreating her or anything? I give her all the love. She’s my daughter so why would I starve her?”

He walked past me and went inside. He didn’t ask the girl any questions or tried to reprimand her in any way. I learned my lesson. I started protecting what’s mine. I locked my bag and locked our door whenever I was going to bathe. I started doing a random search in her bag to see if she had been picking things from the outside. Sometimes I will see portions of baby food in her bag. She had taken some of my baby’s food to school. It’s just food so I didn’t complain. One day I saw a phone in her bag. She said it was for a friend. The following day the phone wasn’t there.

One morning my husband came to ask me, “Have you taken money from my purse?” I answered, “Why would I leave my purse there and take it from yours? No, I haven’t.” I was laughing in my head. I thought he would ask his daughter about it but he didn’t. Days later, it happened again and he came to ask me. I told him, “Stop asking me about your missing money. We both know there’s an elephant in the room but since you’ve refused to address it, I will also keep quiet on it. I won’t take your money. I will ask if I need money from you. It has always been like that and it won’t change.”

He said I’d suggested that her daughter was a thief so he got angry. He started throwing words around carelessly, calling me names I didn’t deserve to be called. He said, “It’s obvious you’re the one stealing my money just to make my daughter appear bad.” That really hurts me to the core so I spoke harshly to him too. His only defense had always been the fact that his parents never complained to him about his daughter being a thief. I told him that day, “It won’t hurt if you ask your daughter about it. I’m not saying you should beat her but be a father. Ask her about it. You don’t even talk to her to know about her day. You’re always running from taking a responsibility for this girl. Do you know she has once come home with a phone? Do you know she comes home with a lot of things that don’t belong to her? How would you know?

So his daughter became the reason we fought every day. He was able to garner the support of his parents against me. They said I’m making things up because the girl wasn’t my child. One day the argument got heated and my husband said, “If you think you can’t live with us, you’re free to leave. I’m tired of your nagging. If you think you’re doing all this just to drive her away, then you’ll be the one to leave and not her. She’s my blood. You’re a stranger I brought home.”

“Wow…wow…wow”

One evening, I strapped my son behind my back and took him for a stroll. He had been crying all night. I wanted him to sleep. The stroll took me a little farther from the house then it occurred to me that I didn’t close my door. I rushed towards the house, got into the compound, and saw her dashing out of my room. My patience snapped. I held her hands and beat her mercilessly. She had become the devil in my marriage. Again, I felt she had been pampered for far too long and it’s the reason she kept doing it. My husband came from town to see her crying. He asked why and I told him everything. He asked, ”You beat my daughter?” I said, “Yes, I beat her. She’s the one sitting there. Ask her what she was doing in our room while I was out. I gave her a proper beating this time. She has to stop.” He asked again, this time with anger in his voice, “You beat her?” I said, “Yes I did.”

He threw his hand and I pulled away. He threw the next hand almost immediately and it landed on my cheeks. I still had my son strapped behind me. I screamed out of shock, “You slapped me?” He screamed back, ”You’re lucky you have the child behind you. I would have beaten you mercilessly. Of all the silly things you do around here, do I beat you? How dare you touch my daughter? Did she steal your life’s investment?”

The next morning, he woke up and saw me packing my things. He said, “Go wherever you’ll go, I don’t care. And when you leave, don’t forget to tell your family to return my drink.” I got home and told my dad just that. Old soldiers don’t tolerate nonsense so my father held my hand and took me to the police station. He said, “Make a report so they go after him. Tell them how he beat you while you were still carrying your son at your back.” I wrote my statement and took the medical form for medical checks. The next day he was arrested. My dad said, “Make sure you don’t pick anyone’s call. They’ll call to beg you. Ask them to call me.”

But my heart couldn’t rest still knowing that he had been arrested. I thought it was going too far so I started begging my father. He said, “Let them deal with him. He’ll learn sense.” He spent a day behind bars until his parents came around and talked for him to get released. I was at the police station when he was released. He couldn’t look at me and I couldn’t look back at him. I knew the marriage was over.

A week later, we returned the drinks and traditionally called off the marriage. The divorce process was very long and tiring but we went through it successfully. All through the process, he was still angry. Angry that I’ve spoilt his records. “I’ve been in cells because of you. God will punish you.” I didn’t have the energy to respond to him. He said, “We’ll see who will take care of that boy behind you. You’ll arrest me and still think I will provide for you?” I still didn’t care.

We’ve been divorced for over four years now. He doesn’t take care of the child, which is less of my problem. I got married again a year ago. My husband takes care of the child as his own. Nothing is missing so I don’t bother my ex-husband. He went back to the mother of his daughter while we were going through the divorce. They lived for only a year and got separated again. What happened? I don’t know. I’m here minding my business.

I’m sharing this story because at some point I would like to change my son’s name. I would want him to bear the name of my husband because he’s doing everything for him now. A story of this nature was shared here a few weeks ago and the comments were diverse. Looking at my situation, I want to know if it’s the right thing to do since my son’s father hadn’t been interested in him after the divorce.

–Lady Pat

Do you have any relationship experience to share? Email it to submissions@silentbeads.com

https://silentbeads.com/my-husband-chose-his-daughter-over-me-so-i-want-to-change-the-name-of-our-son/

what an emotional Ghanian idi*t. You want to give the son of a man who was legally married to you to another man in the name of what?

Smoke55:
you mean your f@ther?

I mean your mother, the putrid mixture of hoe and low who birthed a human catastrophe like you.

Smoke55:
Who are the nnamdi kanus family??

Kanus family should no that they are inconsequential when biafra is involve..

Kanu have for long seized to be theirs..

Kanu is a public figure and a biafran property,any biafran can use his picture or name to agitate for biafra..

Just like ojukwu kanu is a biafran phenomenal and no slowpoke can tell anyone what to do with kanus name or pictures as far as the biafran project is concern..

Kanu family should go and sit down,we don't no them..

another human vulture has spoken.

What a criminal

Balkan:
All these Afonja news. Your lord and personal Saviour Tinubu is about to be disgraced. The criminal has bought plenty of sniper by the side.

words of an idle criminal.

SmartGeneral:


Simp Simon Ekpa the bast.ard clown

And after the 2 weeks sit-at-home during the election, when IGBOS will start screaming of marginalization, useless Ekpa will be nowhere to be found. He will stay his ass in Finland with his family and be enjoying.

IGBOS, please think! Think!! Think!!! For mess's sake. How can a clown in another man's land be dictating to us how to run our everyday lives?? Well I've beginning to suspect that this has something or two to do with politics and politicians. See him shouting Biafra land as if he gives a mess about the life of an average Igbo man. Tufiakwa!

I can't understand how a tribe in southern Nigeria can be this dull and foolish like igbos.

Only an illiterate region can give this renegade coward criminal this kind of relevance.

Igbo done enter one chance!

blowjohn:
Attack the message not the messenger

that's what Wike, your lord, is incapable of.

Ninobraw:
I just relocated to my own house recently, I have killed 2 snake since I came, there re lot of rat and cat around, sometimes cat match the roof of the house making noise untill someone advise me to stone it immediately I hear it noise, really it has reduced since I have be stoning the cat, now how do I get rig of snake totally from my environment

after getting rid of all the snakes, you need to get rid of your bad grammar too.

Reno doesn't have integrity. Or shame . Or standards or ideals. He could change the post amd restage the ring as long as his interest is met.
Reno Omokri doesn't have truth.

This is a man nobody should pay any attention to.

What has Reno Omokri, the idiotic demagogue, to say about this ?

I'm surprised you didn't add police and army

Hoodyrich:
It's common sense, mind you that's just a fantasy not like I want that for a life time.

lolz. All right. It's just strange to find a tall man wanting a taller babe.

naptu2:
2023 Elections: Simon Ekpa mocks Enyinnaya Abaribe and Rochas Okorocha. Insists that there will be no elections in Biafra.

Simon Ekpa @simon_ekpa



https://twitter.com/simon_ekpa/status/1529394344796508163


Simon Ekpa @simon_ekpa



https://twitter.com/simon_ekpa/status/1529394931986583553



Simon Ekpa @simon_ekpa



https://twitter.com/simon_ekpa/status/1529348094638292992

whenever the south East wants to do agitation, they always leave it to the failed drug pushers and criminals.

Nairaland is giving voice to a renegade criminal like the abakaliki idiot he is.

The only other people who gave this idiot any time are the very illiterates that are in high population in Igbo land.

Hoodyrich:
I believe am taller than you in person.

okay let's agree to disagree that you're a mental dwarf then?

The penis is never part of repentance.

Hollaspecial81:
Nigeria my country

dotard, it's Ghana.

Some girls are often comfortable dating a loser and cultist in the name of alpha male.

Her statement, if you force me to date you, you can't force me to marry you only emboldened the idiot!

If you want to end a relationship, end it with boldness.