₦airaland Forum

So many sad and deadly stories coming out of our boarding schools these days but lazy and part-time parents still push their kids there.

lalasticlala:
https://twitter.com/realamberheard/status/1532083776741842945

Previous thread https://www.nairaland.com/7156999/johnny-depp-wins-defamation-case

some women are just created to be devils.

They won't take responsibility
They won't say the Truth
They will blame everyone else but themselves
They will rather destroy their partner than walk away

IamDora:
Dear Nairalanders, Good evening to you all. I'm in a state of delima right now and I'm so confused on what to do that's why I decided to bring the issue here.

I have a Cousin, he's wealthy and we used to be very close to each other, we do alot of things and talking together. Even when we do meet at Villa during festive periods, we are always together 24/7 that people do think I'm the one eating his money. (If cousins were to marry each other, we would've married ourselves)

So fast forward to 2020, things began to take a new turn, he began to change towards me completely, he hardly picks my calls, neither does he reach out to me thereafter to know why I called (Mind you, I'm not a leech to him, as my family were very comfortable too) When I lost my mom (May her soul rest in peace) this my said cousin never called me to sympathize with me, and I didn't hold it against him either. He started giving me space, I tried everything possible to know why the sudden space from him, but to no avail. So I kept my cool and distanced myself from him.

So fast forward to this 2022, his fiancee (Whom I knew her from him) called me on the 20th of last month to tell me that their wedding is on the 18th of this month and she would so much like me to be in attendance! My cousin never bothered informing me about it even till now!

Now my question is,' Should I honour the said invitation by his Fiancee and attend their wedding or I should stay back and call her to wish her Happy Married Life after their Wedding?

Please help me push this to front page so I'll get a wider audience to share their opinions.

Thank you.

the only truth I can tell you is that the relationship with your cousin is deeply demonic. It was never healthy or beyond suspicion.

That's why he's treating you like a girlfriend who broke his heart.

You even unashamedly said that if cousins were to marry each other, you would.

You no get boundaries and shame?

Worthless piece of human scum. They should be left to rot in jail.

UrPapa:
Wat now happened to the ones they have been collecting all these while?

by their usernames you shall know them.......dafts

FERNANDEZISBACK:
Yeah niceeee..let me see how he's gonna defend himself..
You don't just lay accusations on them without enough evidence to back ya up..was you told by dem kidnappers to paint the army bad?

He shad be invited for interrogation..

the army don't have the powers to invite him!

successmatters:
Another paid propagandist denying facts because he is a beneficiary of Northern kidnapping.

IPOB and Nnamdi Kalu are the biggest propagandists Nigeria will ever see.

How did you hilly fools believe his junk that Buhari was dead and sudanese man is in Aso Rock?

You have to have a special kind of stupid to be a Kalu puppet

buzikid49515:
We know the truth so you can wail all you want igbos don’t kill there follow brothers for political reasons it has been confirmed so you are nobody to tell us what to believe.

igbos don't kill their brothers for political reasons? So it's only for land matters they take their brother's lives?

Nnamdi Kalu ask igbos who don't support him to write their will


Simon Ekpa, onye Abakaliki, killed Ogidi youth leader for organizing ant sit-at-home rally.

Na Fulani kill those ones too?

This kind of special stupidity and emotional fever is what caused you people to believe Buhari is dead and a clone from Sudan is our president.

I only listen to igbos when I have SME to run.

ezenwajosh:
They don't want this in front-page.... This is blasphemy


CONTINUE JOINING HANDS WITH herdsmen TO BRING ESN, NNAMDI KANU AND IPOB DOWN once you're done doing that....they will give the signal all of them hiding in the bush will come out and when you run to the bush they already there.... THE SAME PEOPLE WILL ASK YOU where is ESN, NNAMDI KANU AND IPOB

this video does not dispell the fact that IPOB and ESN are armed criminals who kill fellow igbos to enforce their demonic sit-at-home

Kingsnairaland:
US and NATO, world bullies, found their match Russia ��. The 2 have been known to bully weaker nations , I'm glad Russia is on their neck.

God bless putin God bless mother Russia.

I think Russia is already bleeding.

If not for pride and to save face, Putin would go on a knee and plead.

Russia will never come out of this for many many years.

DKM123:
I read the first line of your hogwash and immediately knew you realized you made a total FOOOOLLLL of yourself with your thorough lack of comprehension and unintelligence and for the first time in your life realized that you are indeed a HEARTLESS PIECE OF SHEET and the footstool of Satan!

So with nothing to write, you decided to deviate by typing COMPLETELY CHILDISH gibberish that is totally out of point. Hahahaha! How old are you?

Your sisters, cousins and daughters will meet and marry men like you and the husband in the story. Your wickedness to your future wife will lead her to poison and killll you cos wivked people like you DESERVE slow painful death. I am not just typing some childish insults, I am talking REALITY. YOU AND YOUR WCKED HEART WILL SURE PERISH SOON. Evil basta#rd!

it's too late to pretend to be logical now! That window is forever closed.

Na curse I come curse yoy now!

Your papa and mama exchanged an encyclopedia of STDs between them so we understand and forgive you for being born with brain lesions and chronic alexythemia!

ojuu4u:
I'm biliv u re raised by drunkard and perhaps, a woman born for several men.

You're worse than an indigent bastard. your kind of condition is what Italians call Figlio di putana, a child conceived in a whorehouse by a regular male customer with a new pr0stitute, abandoned by both and raised by charity.

God1000:
don't be a devil's advocate pal.

I don't think you know the meaning of mob action

No wonder this generation is so depraved and deplorable, you are trying so hard to vilify the good people and defend wrongdoers

You need serious rehabilitation ;

we understand where you are going and appreciate it.

But I'm 100 percent sure the law in Ghana has consequences for nudity and pornography.

Let the villagers take them to the police and stop applying corporal punishment. Now I'm sure if those useless teenagers decided to sue they will get compensated greatly.

Village people are hypocrites who often use inconsequential subjects to regig their dying and useless laws that is often at odds with legality.

That being said, the teenagers should be punished severely but flogging? Nah!

Channah1:
What's lazy in being tired and wanting to rest? is the woman a machine of some sort? Meanwhile, the girlfriend may not be working or having other responsibilities that his wife carries alongside tending for the kid and the big head himself, that's why its easy for her to cook pepper soup at any time of the day she's called upon.

On top of it all, that's not enough reason for the man to become a cheat. Issues like that can be resolved through communication, dialog. Not cheating on her. That's arrant nonsense and not justifiable enough.

A cheat will always be a cheat whether the woman is perfect or not. He's only looking for flimsy excuses to exhibit a character trait that is naturally in him and most men.

I don't know where cheating is a penalty for a womans refusal to prepare a dish for her husband.

how do we know the woman who agreed to prepare the fish is even a side chick? And how do we know he's sleeping with her?

Secondly, it is not the wife's inability to prepare the meal that was the issue, it was her lack of finesse and feminine wiles.

Instead of saying it's impossible, she should have said she was tired and not say it was late because 7pm isn't late.

Now the question everyone was evading is why didn't the husband ask the "sidechick" for the meal before asking the wife?

Channah1:
Why would you think you did something wrong here?
He didn't get the side chick that same day you refused to make pepper soup. They had obviously been dating long before then. So what makes you think it was something you did that pushed him out?

A man who has the effrontery to disrespect you like that will not hesitate to bring her in and wife her the next time you have a little misunderstanding. So, you better borrow sense and divorce the randy goat. He's not worth it.

I don't know why some women dey mumu themselves as if they can't exist without a man. A man that doesn't value you for that matter.

Stay there and be asking rhetorical question.

nice question. Now is it then the wife started being lazy and foul mouthed?

ojuu4u:
And u think by doing that you are a "role model" not only to ur wife but ur children, even people around you?

Don't you think you are the way now because how ur father treated ur mother wen u re growing up?

Did u want ur kids to be wayward in future?

and you're making reference to his parents?

Are you sure you weren't raised in an orphanage?

DKM123:
What am I reading? You said you came back from WORK and went straight to the Kitchen to sweat and cook for your husband, yet #*F*&U!£C"*#K ?

This is how much Nigerian women have lost thier self esteem and value marrying idi#otic Nigerian men who treat them like they are subhumans and lesser beings with no feelings.

How da fuuk do you come on social media after such callousness by your so called husband asking if you did wrong? What nonsense wrong are you asking about?
You did wrong and your husband did amazingly right. Is that answer okay?

May I not raise a stewpid daughter with the self worth of a castrated millipede.

Wnere in the article did she write that she came from work and headed straight to the kitchen and sweated to cook for the husband?

She said her husband came from work by 7 and SHE SERVED HIM FOOD

See as you dey exaggerate and add curry and sugar on top of the matter.

Are you a pussy?

czarr:
Alpha male
Lol.

But seriously that was disrespectful to the wife.
This is what happens when you bring nothing except vagina to the table and you desire to marry a rich man, especially a rich man who knows you are with him cos of his ability to provide. You would be treated without respect.

No woman who the husband considers as valuable to his life, economically/financially, spiritually etc. Would treat her like that.

did you read the article or fail to comprehend?

The wife is working

Majority of the population in Eastern Nigeria think of only business and nothing else.

They believe Buhari is a clone

They believe unknown gun men are DSS

They believe nnamdi Kalu is ready to die for them

They believe the sit-at-home is killing Buhari and the federal government

They believe the ESN/IPOB are harmless.

Unassuming idiots!

MrCover:
A Notorious Criminal accused of terrorizing Ibusa community and its environs, has been arrested by anti-crime patrol team in Ibusa Police Divisional headquarters, in conjunction with Ibusa Anti-Cult Volunteers.

One locally made cut-to-size short gun and seven live cartridges from the suspect identified as Ekene Okonji a.k.a. “galaxy”.

The Delta State Police Command, led by CP Ari Muhammed Ali confirmed the report in a statement signed by the Police Public Relations Officer, DSP Bright Edafe.

The Police image maker said, “suspect is currently in custody and investigation is ongoing.”

Source: https://www.lindaikejisblog.com/2022/5/notorious-criminal-arrested-in-delta-state.html

only in Nigeria will police do a mug shot with the suspect in cuffs

truthfinder319:
Don't use your dad picture to depict Governor Bola Tinubu, his pix if you need is attached here

conquered slave!

drlateef:
How would you know when you are always high on Mkpuru mirin?

the empty retort of an ewedu urchin

drlateef:
Fake news. He worked in several international organisations. And you think he used fake certificates? His university confirmed his studentship, yet you are wailing Sowore Do you need some tramadol

which international organization did he work apart from international drug cartel?

Russia has always been an aggressive paper tiger

Shame on Nairaland!!!

Mooh247:
You are correct technically he didn't steal in fact he invested Anambras Allocation in a private company, Anambra made whopping 75 billion, Diamond made billions, and Obi got a fair share

That's a genius

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Tinubu paid urchin

adenigga:
Source: https://dailypost.ng/Atiku-How-IPOB-Obigbo-killings-made-Wike-lose-primary-Nnamdi-Kanus-brother

it would appear that criminality and stupidity runs within nnamdi Kalu's family.

Same pattern the older criminal in DSS dongeon is using on his illiterate followers is what those same scam apprentice is trying to use.

successmatters:
Another advertisement killing, an experienced crime analyst will tell you that.

The people who overpowers a police team are not your usual two kobo cheap criminals. These guys have enough training to become confident to take on an armed police team.

The people who shoots people on the head wants maximum impact, something to sell the headline and draw shocked responses. They want to announce it via their pictures that a region is unsafe.

The quick and immediate posting of crime pictures online tells the rest of the story, someone is out to paint a region as bad.

I am sure you decried the presidential assertion that the Fulani terrorists were strangers!

And yes, the perpetrators of violence in south East are strangers even when IPOB have vowed to destroy anyone who oppose them.

Joezinho:
With the incessant attacks on Police formations and officers in the SE, I think the IG of police should order the immediate withdrawal of all police officers in the South East.

Fool

successmatters:
We no send you message Ohuabunwa, you're on your own.

please are you an IPOB miscreant?

saintkel:
Hmm...dis one Wike d wear Igbo cap

no he should wear Ijaw or Yoruba hat