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Yeeeeaaaahhhh! Av got a bufday mate

zalam:
me dey...april 5all d way

joywepo:
April 7th, the best month of the year. II'm planning to celebrate in Miami.

pls do send us pix of ur celebrations. Mine wld be in my "igboro"

Welcm bae! Glad to knw ure one of us

Feyifahm:
April celebrant are the best.. I rep April 20

Wat info sir

OBENI:
Thanks for the info

Yh! Yh! We rock dear!

komek:
April07 present.

Kai! I realy enjoyed d insight u gave. Its really awesome for d gvt to tink up dis plan. I just hope we scale thru

2nd para: I ddnt say ure lusting after me. I'm not just convinced enuf by wat u presented. That's all

Dyoungstar:
Yea, huge money if well managed.

I know someone that got 10 million in Kaduna, one young man.

He didn't include that he was going to buy a car in his proposal but bought the car immediately 5 million (the third tranche) of his money was given to him.

They sanctioned him and threatened to collect back the fund of he didn't replace the money within a given time frame.

He thought it was joke until they arrested him and collected everything back.


He was into poultry feed production, he needed truck not car, but he didn't include it.

Had he bought truck they would have let him go only to make provision for the truck in his plan.


A friend of mine in Minna got his 10m and used a million to marry his wife, IGBO man, he was smart enough to cover up.

But made sure he replaced the money before going for the other remaining traches.

It depends on who is your monitor and your relationship with your monitors.

The money is disbursed in tranches.

You can't cheat and go free, there's jail waiting for you.

Another friend got 3 million in Kaduna, he's doing well now. Just bought a BMW x3 SUV this January.

I have over 12 friends that won, with these guys one will ask why I've not won.

Like I said, grace differs, destinies differs.

What you are planning may not be God's plan for you.

But just keep on moving and working hard.

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Urchbarbie you ignored me ba?

You stated your line of work here, thinking we could stick heads together and work was why I mailed you, only for you to think am lusting after you.

Immature thinking.

No offense please.

So true! No one bats an eyelid as to d level of promiscuity dats why children out of wedlock is on d rise. The cycle is a continous one. Av lived in dat city n resolved not to settle dere. (Man proposes sha)
I tink after dere d nxt city whr such thrives is Taraba st. Jalingo precisely

fellis:
Yes, they don't really take marriage seriously over there.
So many small girls give birth outside wedlock and no one bats an eyelid.
In many cases the mother is even happy about it because she can now boast of having a grandchild.

Swt! I just decided to like dis post by actually quoting it.
Its a rhetoric question tho. No1 "shaming" wld give u d desire answer

Shollypopzz:
At times, I wonder if these people realize how much of a low-life they appear.

Let's assume these made-up stories are true, what does that have to do with domestic violence?

What irritates me the most are women that laugh and joke with these butt-hurt nonentities.

I mean the "slut-shaming" is just pitiful. How can a thread about marital advice get people so worked up and jealous?? Is her supposed past suppose to make anyone dislike her or make her arguments void?

Dearie! As soon as my "casual leave" letter is approved, tmrw hopefully, na Lagos get me o. I won't stay in dis volatile region o!

trendiitee:
thanks dearie, u re a darling. how is preps for election over there?

Dats 11k. I can't afford dat much sir

MurphyInc:
You will add 1k for fixing fee.

How does wearing a hat make someone look clueless! All dese APC Fans sha!
First GMB needs to get himself a dictionary to spell, then furnish his fan base with one

Arsenella007:
It makes him look all the more clueless..

Pls leave him alone. Haba! Its his identity. Have u ever seen OBJ loose his agbada bfr? Even GEJ don wear suit bfr. Abeg .............buzz off!
GEJ till 2019

Arsenella007:
I don't see anything stylish here. But can someone please tell this man to lose the hat for once??

Truly nne! The venom in dese men can kill a whale. Haba! How do u cope? Its like u spoilt dier market here on NL. Whr they trying to rob seun or ........what?

babyosisi:
You got that right
The thread has also angered a few men whose rotten characters are being revealed by the posters

You dey church?
God help you
Repent!
Chegharia
I wan begin go my own

Noticed dat abt d men in d south south. They can like to av babies outside wedlock, but wld never deny d child and dier responsibilty to dat child

fellis:
Bayelsa men are usually very hornny ..... I lived next door to one in the university, he was doing a masters program. The dude was trying all means possible to get sex from me. Even after I finished from school he was still trying. I had to block him from whatsapp cause I was tired of his solicitations. He also had a son out of wedlock. Even though the guy was hornny as anything he had one good feature; he cared very very much for his son and was always calling home to talk to him and sending things to him and his mom to keep them happy.

Lolx! Pls, when dat day arrives don't forget to make a shout out to me, and I to u. #bighugs! We rock

debola23:
Yup...5th of April. Planning a parry for meself. April peeps rock!

Definitely he did! U shldnt encourage dat line of reasonining. U always seem to claim dat women getting abused is justified cos we ferment such with out mouth. Its sad when u say such is justified! Very sad! Am a typical nigerian, who is against any abuse of any kind. So don't promote such here whr ppl with low IQ wld construe wat u av said as being obtainable.

coogar:
you are a typical nigerian woman. you hate hearing the truth. you find the truth bitter, the truth hurts you. unfortunately for you, God made me in His own image.

Nne m! Its very sad d level ppl take jokes. U knw? Dis is a public forum. Tinx shldnt just slide. Someone else wld misconstrue dat guys every comment. Just like I did

freecocoa:
Ha! Nne biko e never reach that level.

Yh! Yh! We do

kene05:
April 5 baby, we rock!!!

Tnx for taking time to explain ur position. She may not av said how much she is investing, but considering dis story, she would definitely contribute. #myjudgementtho. And for the mums advice being d best in ur opinion, I don't subscibe to it. This wld give u room for MIL and DIL "fights"
I'm still of d opinion dat if they can even afford a single room, d better for them. How wld u want to start up ur marital life in such a setting? For me, its a no no!

EfemenaXY:
Well I did. Read her post again. I certainly didn't see any mention of her offering to help out financially. Isn't she working? What's she using her money for?



Of course she obviously knows the man better than we do but what's the essence of you pointing that out? As per the other story you mention, I haven't read that. Nonetheless, I take each story on a case-by-case basis and tailor my response to it accordingly, and not based on some other story.



His mother gave him the best advice possible. The mother is a realist and obviously and advocate of cut your coat according to your size. Even though I'm not his mum, I too would go for her advice. Not, she advised him, and not forced him. That aside, he's a struggling young man trying to do the right thing. Would you rather he spent that 70K on a privately rented accommodation that comes with it's own additional and separate utility bills? Or spend that money towards completing his home.

They have a long, hard road ahead of them and it's frustrating that she can't see this. I won't be in the least surprised that she'd want a fairy tale white wedding and trado with all the works, without having considered how they'll eat after the ceremonies and the guests having eaten their fill, returned to their respective homes.

A little foresight and planning ahead never does anyone any harm. She is 31 for God's sake. Not 21.

Hey! Easy on d sis ma! I can't deduce her not wanting to assist from her writeup. Nto forgetting she knws d man better dan we do. In d other thread whr a woman complained she invested so much in her man n marriage only for her husby to use his bros as his next of kin. Did lady's man too sounds like a mums boy n she needs to be careful to avoid stories dat touch. Am not against a woman supporting her future husband, but she needs to weigh her otpions too. Pls don't sound so harsh on d lady once again.

EfemenaXY:
Your fiancee as you say, is a low income earner - so it makes perfect sense that he lives with his parents to save up and cut back on unnecessary expenditure as much as he possible can. He's also got quite a lot of projects going on which needs a lot of financial input too.

~ He's building a house for you both. Your future home, and that is no small feat.

~ He hasn't got any household appliances / furnishings for the house when completed and that too requires money.

~ You want to get married (Court, church, and traditional wedding) I presume and that too will cost money

The way I see it, the poor man is overloaded with financial costs and rather than support him, you at the ripe old age of 31 begrudge him for not spending his meagre resources on a privately rented apartment for you both. Little wonder he turned to his mother for advice and she didn't fail him.

Look, I understand your need for privacy, but privacy doesn't come cheap. You're working aren't you? So which of these projects have/are you assisting him with? Why does he have to bear the whole load on his shoulders? You act like money grows on trees and you even had the guts to mention unashamedly that he came into some money but rather than spend it on your "want", he's decided to hold back having discussed with his mum.

If you really, really, do want your privacy, then you bring forth the 70K to pay for that apartment. Let the poor man concentrate on completing his building. Your future family home. I also think that as a mature, working woman, you should start looking to furnishing your home with the appliances you say you lack.

Even in the wild, the male builds the house while the female decorates it to her taste. You aren't a naive twenty something year old fresh out of Uni, but a mature woman. So please act your age and support your man. As he focuses on completing the house and footing the wedding bills, you dip your hands into your pocket and assist him with something substantial.

To say your post annoys me is an understatement.

Sometimes when I read ur posts, I wonder if u were made by God. Haba! I just hope dis comment is a joke and not sometin uld pass unto ur sons, if not, evil wld multiply in d world.

coogar:
i don't need my hands to put women in their rightful place. however, not all men are into talking or dragging insults with women.

verbal abuse isn't any less serious than physical abuse. if a woman verbally abuses her hubby to the point of provoking him to slap her then his action is fully justified....

April babies are beautiful creatures. Am sure dats y ur moniker is Pretty050

pretty050:
19th april. Present

True dear #headswell.
I just hope the reason for his death (ie salavtion of mankind) locate each unsaved soul IJN, amen

gidjah:
wot i do is to mark my bday on every RESURRECTION DAY,aint dat awesome dear?,ho pe u duknow too that of all d Powers Jesus commands,d Greatest and most mysterious is d RESURRECTION POWER!!?,dat is d reason y Aprik kids are RARE GEMS

Wow. Nice. I wish mine were so,but dis, it gives me a kind of satifaction. And yh, we r rare gems

gidjah:
i was actually born on a EASTER MONDAY WAY back,but it hardly matches wit that date,APRIL KIDS ARE RARE GEMS DEAR

Plus d fixing price right?

MurphyInc:
I assure you, its a great price I gave you.10k is good.

@contact. These r adults. If they decide to learn its dier biz. Am sure no one forced them

laplace12:
Did you contact their parents and Guardians before handing them guns?

The first time i cooked was when i was 13: i have 2elder sis who shared d cooking. That day i gree die for mum say i must cook. She let me. It was jollofrice. Hmmm. I kept feeling cool dat day, dat i stirred d meal everytime i opened d pot. Served d meal for mum, she then asked me why it was looking like eba. I said i dont knw o. Forgetting dis na kitchen wiz. She now said nxt time, dont stir jollof rice till d water is dry. I cant forget dat instruction.