₦airaland Forum

Stephenmoka4:
Not talking about money

Stephenmoka4:
Understand that most of them are fake. Redpill or MGTOW and they are still running after women deceiving themselves. (Same with feminist).

Learn some truth in it but, don't shove it in everyone's face.


So OP, know that many fakee here don't like truth and can't help it. You'll be called a simp soon, it's just part of their motto.

Preciousgirl:
This is what we Ghanaians call lunch

Fufu with chicken like soup

3y3 d3 ankasa

This lunch can fix any marital problem



Egya Alatafo) Yi egyimi

BlackfireX:
Tinubu is richer than him

Fahdiga:
They are now celebrities. watch as they will be flown to US to further their education using Niger delta oil money

annyz:
Already decided years back.
We are still here doing great with our grown up kids.

ArticleBeast:
I lived in Kano and now in Zaria. Majority of northerners have not experienced the terrorism we see in the media. Most of BH operations are usually in the deep villages.

JovialJune:
In Nigeria, men are kings because the law favours you all, In the abroad, equality is king, and our women use it to their advantage.


The problem you guys have with wives from naija who went to the abroad is your failure to lord over her as it was in naija, y'all still want a lady of servitude who will abide by your rules and wishes cos of what you're used to forgetting obodo oyibo nor send you

It's simple, when you bring your wife over there, just know it is no longer a master slave norm but an equality, relinquish your right as being the head, you'll live your life peacefully,

I have peeps over there, and they're doing just fine.

annyz:
My wife have been persuading me over the years so we can relocate to USA with our kids.
I trained her before we got married and she is humble.

What do you think

You are seeking advice from a lady...I pity your later story!

Sundrus:
woman wey go cheat on u or ruin ur life go do am irrespective of anything. Just pray make u meet the right lady wey get conscience & sense of good judgement. I know say such ladies dey, but them dey very few.

vivsravine:
ABROAD SISTERS, STOP SHAMING US

How do I start this write up without offending those involved?

Trust me I don't care, because enough is enough of the nonsence you ladies portray over there and forget so soon how you started.

It's no longer news what most of our sisters do to our brothers in the name of marriage overseas is quite alarming.

The news is so hard to bear and you start to wonder who actual birth these type of women, who forget humble beginning.

A man leaves all the ladies in the countries they reside and comes home to pick you as a wife, sometimes they even forget about those good girls they had a life with before they left the country.

He sponsors everyting about you, gets married to you and starts a life with you over there, in less than five years you become wiser than the devil and you begin to act like assistant devil.

Many will have the nerve to call the cops on their husband's in the slightest provacations some of these men go to jail because of martial issues while some of these women become as selfish as cain and they won't give a hoot and many of our brothers lose all their properties over there.

You easily become authoritative because you feel you have arrived and you can't be talked to, many go to the extent of sponsoring their exes to their country of abode, others would build houses here in the country without the consent of their husbands, some will even buy cars and other properties without letting their husbands be in the know.

The records of domestic violence has increased amongst ladies who were picked from here to such civilised countries, they go there and feel they are now wild and cling to have ample rights to discern what happens and nobody can dare them.

Many of our brothers has been deported, some have lost their chances of ever going back to that country and even other countries, many deny them access to their children and finally others go about killing their husbands because of inheritance.

Stop this show of shame and retrace your steps home, stop this abuse you know you can never do back home, in as much as I don't support injustice of any kind, lets stop this bad behaviour and guard your homes.

So many brothers no longer value Nigerian women because of this act that has eaten into them negatively, its a dent on all ladies because even the good ones are now affected badly.

It's another season for them to come back home and pick a wife, you will be with him soon and you will be excited of relocating but immediately you get there, you become as wild as a cat and hunt like a leopard.

So sad, because of this acidious acts, our brothers now come home, marry us and leave us here to take care of the kids while they go hustle and come back intermittently.

Remember karma is a bitch you can win but you won't always win, the repercussions are always closer, nemesis doesn't miss its address and certainly vengeance is of God .

Make ammends now and retrace your steps, don't forget humble beginnings your character is your voice even in your absence it would speak for you.

Ahudiya speaks ©

ArticleBeast:
I bet you haven't lived in the north o. I have lived here for almost 4 years and it is better than any other part of naija.

Blossomfirst:
Hello Nairaland; I am Destine with my instagram handle as https://www.instagram.com/o.l.a.e.d.o_
I am in my 20s and I reside in Portharcourt, Nigeria though I studied in Enugu. I took it upon myself to travel to every single state in Nigeria; and though I am yet to achieve this dream, I am getting closer to achieving my dream. I have been to these states;

Lagos
Abuja
Niger
Bayelsa
Abia
Delta
Ebonyi
Edo
Nasarawa
Imo
Rivers (winks)
Kogi
Anambra.

I have been to Benin Republic too! I look forward to travel to the far north; plans are still underway

I detail my journeys on my various experiences travelling across the breadth and length of Nigeria and one thing I have discovered is that though we are from various tribes in Nigeria, we are all pretty much the same. I have learnt to respect the opinions, belief and culture of the people I meet. Trust me, you have no idea how fun this country can be!

Check out my pictures and enjoy the scenery of the country we call home!

For more travel stories and pictures check out my Instagram. Thanks

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ogbiwa:
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UNCLEOKORO:
Indicate interest today

Jodha:
Yhu never see babes sha....so yhu mean to say...yhu never see correct stallion?

Omoh yhu dey jonze big time ..no be joke.... I'm no too get ukwu ....but I'm not flat....far from it...

officialfestus:
daily or weekly?

Kabiyesi12:
I wanted to say is because u have collected yours, bro don't give up, we are the next in line to get approval. If you have put off your mind don't discourage others this loan mean so much to others than you might think.
Our approval will surely come by his grace.

Qpid5:
i had a ticket of 28k of which all other games came out positive� but one is yet to play.. they are currently showing cashout of 9k with just one game remaing.. muti correct score. Shelfield united vs man utd ... 0-2 1-2, 0-3, 1-3
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your opinion please
this bet9ja have taking so much Amount from me

Kabiyesi12:
Have you gotten approval and Disbursement?

stacyadams:
I just d wait d day ur approval go come...u don try

Princessmkpafi:
Please dear friends, I need pure honey, as in original honey from Kaduna, I want to do small business! If you are from Kaduna ready to supply me please kindly drop your number, WhatsApp number thanks.

tunize:
Mothers are irreplaceable no doubt, but fact still remains you should love your wife and respect her too just like your mom.its all a balance mothers should know their boundaries and wife should also hers.

austinofo:
My role at my working place got reduced and the pay reduced drastically as well after the lockdown and due to the low pay I am planning on relocating from Lagos after this December. I have set 300k aside as a possible capital to any business I come to the decision of starting come January but I am really confused on a business to begin that can raise me up to N100k in profits monthly for a start. Please I need recommendations.
Thank you.

IntellectOzone:
Good Evening NL Tweeps

I'm actually not comfortable with this lady I make her package for this my brother
It all started this way, his girlfriend he as been with for over 7 yrs just cut short there relationship journey with no iota of reasons. Her decision was respected and accepted by everyone of us because she's so much loved by us all but her problem is "she not opening up with issue bothering her, she holds up things that hurts her which she is suppose to spew out to heart without no single human knowing about it" sometimes anyone that notices her mood calls her and make sure anything is wrong but she always reply she's fine.

On a faithful day, my brother female client came to him for business talk and they chatted about relationship, marriage and all that. He then explains how things elapsed on his relationship that broke is mental health down on embarking on another relationship.

So this his client showed him one of his friend which he told him she's single and searching. He then called me to take a glance look at her picture and tell him wassup, I replied she's pretty much okay (Not knowing as Yoruba adage do say "Ewa ko ni iwa" meaning "Beauty is not Behavior".

We collected her WhatsApp digit and I bigin the chattings myself (Intro, Business, e.t.c) and they begin to know eachother better on calls and chats but on this faithful day when she was invited for Date. I can't believe the kind of act this lady been displaying and it looks embarrassing and shameful to my very self and my brother.

She was giving the permission to have his phone but I can't believe all she was doing was asking different kind of dumb questions and still placing curses on everything she sees, she going through his contacts and setting eyes on any number stored with female name, the next thing is curse upon curses (Asin first date o, meeting that is not upto 1 week), she will then switch to WhatsApp and read private chats and places curse again and same thing with Gallery. All this things looks strange to me dhor, I can't just stop getting rid of it.

I let it all go and still looks forward probably she will change not until when the three of us both went to this my brother client which is also her friend event.
We got there sitted resting as it as been a long journey getting to the event destination and this lady grab this phone again and started placing heavy curses again, that was the time I intervane and ask her what her problem really is? And to be honest with you this lady is a single mother of 3 kids which 1 didn't survive RIP, which her my brother client which is her friend didn't tell us before embarking on this journey and with this her toxic behaviour that sucks.

She then got annoyed and left us at the event till we saw her coming back again playing innocent card me myself dunnor subscribe for, Lol.
To make matter worst, she grab the phone again and did one annoying thing by deleting numbers anyhow, saving numbers on her phone unknowingly planning to call them and swear for them (Asin till date, this nonsense relationship is not up to 1 month o). Even her friend denied she doesn't know she's as this toxic jealous but she was aware of her kids and plead for that.

Now they were talking on phone and I entered his room singing and she heard voice and accuse him of keeping a lady inside, he told her I was the one but this girl no gree not until when I collected the phone from him and fake my voice like a lady, Omo x1000000 this lady places curses on me ni o, na so I change my voice back and talk senses to her head annoyingly and get off phone for her.

My problem now is that, I don't want him doing anything with that lady again, I want her gone in peace and him stay his Lane in peace too.
Now am planning on calling that his ex and beg the hell out of her, she so much respect me and I hope she gree. I just prefer this lady than that quack lady of no manners aswr.

Please advice me, can I proceed in my plead with his ex? Or he should look elsewhere for another lady?