₦airaland Forum

BaddieFreak:
Love, loyalty and support from her.

love no de pay bills.....my sister forget it, relationship is over hyped in Africa!

JONNYSPUTE:
....And after a man shows up with all these qualities you stated. What will be his reward?

this what I want to ask!

Jodha:
95% of men think money is all women want...and that women will flock around them if they have money. Well I'm sorry to burst yhur bubble they're actually hard-working and contented ladies out there...and if money is all yhu have to offer then yhu have nothing to offer..

Guys should learn to work on their personality, attitude, general approach. I'm not saying yhu shouldn't have money ..but if yhu think having money is all there is...or if yhu have money yhure a total catch and ladies will flock around yhu regardless of how yhu behave...then yhure wrong.

what my business if women don't want money....I come to this life alone and I will die alone!

Zzor:
He should look for some lady around to help him do that, its only very stingy men that are always patronising the market

I can be stingy with my money I work for....I no be charity organization because of pussy!

grace4alltolive:
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can't receive message through mail but Whatsapp!

Skseries:
does visiting a guy means it must leads to sex? Na ur type go say let's just be friends, u dont visit ur friends? Just bcus u have seen bad guys who only invites girls for sex doesn't mean all guys do that.

Lol funny u, u never see guy wey visit parent and still sleep with u and sister together.

Girl sha

have done this before I swear to God,I still feel conscience today because there mum like me like kilode!

I no nothing about it but want to learn!

Untoman:
Have checked around and it’s hard to see a cyber security person. Am not talking about fraud star but guys how are good in cyber security. I have been learning on my own and have tried some cyber security websites like hackthebox and tryhackme. I even have my own pen test lab �. Tools like kali Linux and parrot os are not even know by many and they claim to be into cyber security. Please if you are into cyber security kindly let us reach out and start our our community. I just finished Nysc and got so many websites databases, but with great power comes great responsibility. I ain’t using my knowledge for bad but to help show awareness to people. Kindly drop your phone number if you are interested in cyber security or good at it. 07062038642. That’s my WhatsApp number. Please don’t text me asking me about hacking banks. Let’s share common ideas and maybe we can build the first Nigeria cyber pen test lab � and build a nation that is cyber crime free

ndidigood:
u really need to know what ur wife likes and always show interest in everything about her.providing money is not enough sometimes.
Is wrong to sleep outside BC of misunderstanding. Sort and talk everything over b4 u sleep.
Lastly if ur sexual life is 100% good u will hardly fight.so improve on dat
Do not take women attitudes to heart if I do u will get hurt.
Laugh, talk,gossip, and be friends.
Marriage is sweet if u don't take some things seriously.

abeg nothing sweet about marriage,just over hyped saga!

Jodha:
So sex is all yhu want in the relationship ABI?... Please break up with her...so she can find the man for her that'll respect her choice and wait...

is there anything in relationship apart from sex!

Jodha:
Some Nigerian guys are fond of that... they'll purposely chase yhu...and won't give up till yhu fall for them ...then they take off...

If that's yhur aim...then yhu should know yhure not getting any younger...

I think what yhu feel for those girls is lust...when yhu find the one yhu love...yhull be the happiest man when she reciprocates ...

there is nothing to be Happy about if you are love!

Godoverevery:
I found out most relationship now are based on interest ...
Most people are in relationship based on what the man/woman have to offer ....once he/she stop offering those things complain start.
Is easy to know someone who is dating you for a particular reason because once that thing is missing he/she will change towards you.

Most Ladies date for financial reasons this days while most guys date for sex.

Note : Only very few people are in relationship with no interest or gains attached....Eg As a man you must no once you are dating someone and most of the quarrel you have is about money just no you are in for big trouble or if the only time she is happy with you is when you give her money or buy gifts just know that person doesn't love you.....infact once you can't give this things the weapon you will use against you is no sex.

As a lady if you dating someone who isn't interested in anything apart from sex or just try to exploit you that person doesn't love you.

The worst person you can date/marry is one who only be there with you during good times but will neglect you during bad times.

Never expect much from whoever you dating currently trust me practically speaking nothing like true love in this generation...most people are just decieving and lieing to one another.

If you luck to find someone who loves like your mother then you should be really grateful.

you wan use true love collect money....alaye look for money and Bleep pussy..... money bring bitches,bitches bring life!

Kenplay:
Reputation in life generally, your sense of reasoning is too myopic

you see must ladies saying all this on social media are mostly good babes in nature... some of them can support you with all there life....na disguise Dem de do online!

SenorFax:
Insane children all over nairaland, they all want baby mama thinking it will save them from marriage problems. Stewpid-fvcks

Mind you, they will turn that your so called baby to baby mama too. Karma doesn't negotiate nor discriminate. So don't think you sit on your daughter's wedding day as the father of the bride. Just prepare for naming ceremony of grandchildren born out of wedlock

What you give is what you get.

nothing special for the wedding,na Africa people over hype it!

paul100:
If you mean successful in life,Yes!!!! but come to think of it,why will i hustle and instead of my children to make me proud,they make me sad.Let me say Nigerian Parents words"Those that had 1st,2nd and 3rd,do they have two heads"

no b lie Sha!

paul100:
That true.My friend father when I was in secondary school will always tell his son that if I does not get 1st -4th,no PS3 game for him.The time he got 10th,the father do not release the game upon all the cry and beg.Nobody told him,next term he got second position.That is what I will do to my children in the future.

getting a 1st does not guarantee success!

FLYFIRE:
I was going to say so because his academics may suffer if not properly watched

who academic help!

Zzor:
These men have succeeded in making marriage so uninteresting,99percent of marriage problems are caused by men.Our fathers are the real men, real men have gone into total extinction, just a handful of them still present in our midst .

is not by force,you can remain singe forever.buy vibrator or pay for sex if you want to feel at home!

chrisblack:
even if they talk about us and don't give a shit about their places ,that's their business. We are not suppose to settle for less. Mind you, irrespective of the fact that their place as some of us claim(many of us don't travel) is not developed? They are still trying their best. Mind you our flagship city of Lagos is built not only on our own achievement . every tribe contributed to it's development in one way or the other.alot of our rich guys in the west are not going into productive manufacturing or agro allied business to empower it's people.What do they do. They build hotels here and there.We need to tell ourselves the truth. We can't continue on this tragectory and believe all will be well. With our acclaimed level of sophistication we ought to reason and do better. Let's sit down amongst ourselves review what went wrong. There's been no remarkable improvement in our lot when you compare where we are with what awolowo achieved during is time. Look at every sector on the southwest from economy to education to health to transportation. Mind you our transportation sector is the worst compared to the level of education we have. Go to our markets ,at this time and age(thanks to ShopRite etc for bringing back the days of kingsway and leventis) Majority of our public are shambles.
Take every sector one by one,do a proper anlysis.You will come to understand the situation facing us as a people. We should stop decieving ourselves. We need to wake up.

is not a lie,but baba na kaduna I dey stay!!

wkkwl:
Please your views would be really helpful.

Thanks

money for what?

Rashduct4luv:
Stop rushing to go see your babalawo/ Dibia Alfa. Do the right thing and have faith!

Even if you wake up see black cat (or red sef) nothing dey happen. It's either the cat is looking for something or it's running away from something!

Even spiders can be busy in the night spinning cobwebs to catch their prey. Then humans will wake up and get caught up in this web....and remember one village people.

Abu al-‘Abbas ‘Abdullah bin ‘Abbas(ra) reports:
“One day I was riding (a horse/camel) behind the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, when he said, ‘Young man, I will teach you some words. Be mindful of Allah, and He will take care of you. Be mindful of Him, and you shall find Him at your side. If you ask, ask of Allah. If you need help, seek it from Allah. Know that if the whole world were to gather together in order to help you, they would not be able to help you except if Allah had written so. And if the whole world were to gather together in order to harm you, they would not harm you except if Allah had written so. The pens have been lifted, and the pages are dry.’ ”
Related by Tirmidhi

I don't think this work with Africa perspectives,my friend having a spiritual problem for more than 4years and he do pray both in the middle of the night and yet no positive results,he was telling me no changes and tired of prayers but his not seeing result..
why is it that the black magic work faster,and praying to God delay....some will be asking you if does people are power than everyone!

nonhuman:
You see why the northern state should be exempted from taking vats and money from federal government, that has to do with alcohols. alcolic company's including Nigerian breweries pays money and make profits for the government, and as a good Muslim we must not partake in such money because is a sin

still better than those pastors that collect from poor members and make themselves rich.... politicians eat from resources,while pastors collect from hard earned members!

marvin906:
You should not eat haram earnings..
But almost all northern states collect beer money..
Hypocrisy of the highest order..
Least I forget all our brothers in the senate collecting under table money is what

everybody cannot obey rules and regulations that why God say he will judge individually!

chrisblack:
he his clearly telling you the truth.we keep hyping ourselves despite the reality on ground .Lagos is not the only southwestern state. Even the so called lagos can you tell me what is really special. We keep decieving our selves. Take a look at lagos the socall development we seem are just piecemeal.over 20 years what has really changed .imagine what will be added in the next 20 years little progression. Other states are write off. Apart from the state capitals of some that have a semblance of glorified big towns ,what have we really achieved?

which truth, only few states are better off in this country,the rest are scrab.....none is even better in their south,they just come here to talk about tinubu or Yoruba and forget about their own political thieves!

Maccoy507:
Pls i ran a facebook ad somedays back and have been trying to pay for the ad but all my cards have been declined. Have tried using flutter wave dollar account but its not going through. Pls can you guys recommend solution, especially those who have been there before.

good day.pls,can you teach me the Facebook ad?

GideonOludayomi:
Ooh, very good. I can link you with food whole sellers to supply here and for palm oil too.

wow,will be great full and appreciate!

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GideonOludayomi:
Wow.

Ibadan is a good place to live but I must ask what you are actually coming to Ibadan to do. Is it look for job or relocate your business?
I know almost nothing about Kaduna so it will be quite difficult for me to advise you wholly.

Just know this about Ibadan; making money in Ibadan requires lots of sense(even more than Lagos). Because of how big the city is, you will require some effort to understand how the city runs and where things are really happening pertime. This basic understanding will help you when you finally relocate. But before coming, be clear about your purpose, it is very important.

to start up a business (food stuff from North and sell over there and buy of palm oil and send back to North).how do you see that!