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Romance › Re: What Should A Guy Do In This Situation? by vanbonattel: 6:53pm On May 21, 2013
Yield: Since option 1 wasn't co-operating, he has 2 options left. What he should do is get to know each one of them on a friendly basis to see which one he vibes well with, the most. This would help him out because they'll get a chance to know him a little bit and not judge him solely based on seeing him approach another girl. If they don't reciprocate his efforts after that, then he should move onto someone else. No be by force. Plenty of fish in the sea.
You gat a point but lemme tell you something, girls are very tricky and slippery except you are very loaded or super handsome. For the average guy, all 3 girls have seen your intent before you started the chase, they will play along and allow you make the move, they take special joy in rejecting advances, this makes them look strong and moral, especially when they know their refusal will be heard by the rest two.

Dont forget that these babes know and watch each other, and that they know each others boyfriends, none will like to fall yakata for you since the news will leak to her boyfriend. It has to be secret, or casual to work.

My advice to the guy is to remain friends with the 3, dont make any advances just talk, laugh and hang out with any of them that makes themselves available. Dont ask for anything like romance or special favours, just be around, escort them to places, help out with little things and gain their trust. One will fall one day, maybe the 3 may even compete to see who will sleep more hours in your room in the end.
Politics › Re: Okorocha Threatens To Arrest Idle Youths by vanbonattel: 6:36pm On May 21, 2013
Sagging rules, saw one girl today who sagged her jeans and the dirty undies were showing, she bent down to buy vegetable, come see black dirty looking craw-craw infested yansh! Chai, some guys dey suffer o!
Politics › Re: FG Alerts On Likely Heavy Flood by vanbonattel: 6:13pm On May 21, 2013
I have canoe to sell, those in riverine areas should sell their car and buy canoe shap shap.
Politics › Re: UNN - Special Senate Session For Achebe by vanbonattel: 6:10pm On May 21, 2013
myOGAonTOP: yet......
Yet his mark is indelible.........
Politics › Re: Igbo States Are Lagging Behind In Development by vanbonattel: 6:08pm On May 21, 2013
holy sina: hahahahahahahahaha fall from the couch and still laughing. My guy u funny die, abi na force to suffer together? cheesy
Who is complaining? The person who opened the thread is not Igbo, we are cool.
Politics › Re: UNN - Special Senate Session For Achebe by vanbonattel: 5:25pm On May 21, 2013
myOGAonTOP: Achebe was so great but okigbo was the greatest mind this land has EVER seen in recorded history. I didnt wanna comment but i was forced to. Selah
Okigbo was brilliant, but did not last very long.
Romance › Re: Single Ladies, Why Date Married Men! by vanbonattel: 5:23pm On May 21, 2013
mysticgal: angryWho still asks people for sanitry pads in this age undecided
Many people do, some poor small girls dont know how to approach their dad to ask for sanitary thingz when they know the man can hardly feed them. She feels more at ease when a caring married man who will calculate her periods for her sends then to her and provides those close attention like her dad. The girls will feel they are helping the family by collecting her needs outside so the dad will have life easier.
some dads dont know their daughters haz started menstrating by 18 yrs and they never ask!
Romance › Re: Single Ladies, Why Date Married Men! by vanbonattel: 5:19pm On May 21, 2013
[quote author=Wife-beater-upr]a lot of single ladies date married man because of poverty......and i can understand that...[/quote]Na the adventure sweet pass, their secret is protected forever because the married man can never betray her, he will be stained also if he does.
Romance › Re: Single Ladies, Why Date Married Men! by vanbonattel: 5:16pm On May 21, 2013
How can you say those things, the girls who go after married men knows what they get from it, gentle loving care and not our set of chewing gum boys who use and dump. most married will never pregnant you and run as they dont want the wahala, most girls also love the excitement of the discreet affair, the secret meeting spots and wild s$x in the bushes or uncompleted bldngs, sweet deception of their cheating bfs, (retaliating by giving the gold pot to a married man and being able to hide it)hide and seek, like she is acting a detective movie.

The thing sweet sha, thatz the truth.
Literature › Re: Is “Things Fall Apart” Really Chinua Achebe's Best Work? by vanbonattel: 4:57pm On May 21, 2013
[quote author=PAGAN 9JA]I wonder what did Nigerians (IGBOS especially) learn from his work. how many reverted to Traditional Religion?[/quote]He did not write his books to convince us to drop our xtian beliefs, himself is a serious xtian. The books were meant to give us a footing about our rich history and they way our ancestors lived.
Politics › Re: UNN - Special Senate Session For Achebe by vanbonattel: 4:50pm On May 21, 2013
Napoleondegreat: I will upload pictures as soon as i see the space to take photo as there are too much crowd right now.
Ijele nwoke, always pulling the crowd dead or alive.
Properties › Re: These Properties Are Available For Sale In Enugu by vanbonattel: 4:48pm On May 21, 2013
spyder880: Thank you for the offer, that I am talking anything less than the value of this land is because I wanted to use the cash for another purpose but the land I wanted to buy has been sold, the music just changed and there is another offer from another buyer who wants to buy the whole plots. I just opened discussions with him today. Thank you once again my friend.

Actually there is another group of buyers who came to see this plot today and asked that I add some more space to my planned division line for them so as to make the land larger. I agreed to shift the line but will collect N4.5 for any of the halves they choose to buy.

This is one of the last spaces in Achara layout, there are no more plots for sale as the area is already built up. N4.5 or nothing else now. Its not good to sell at a loss.
I kinda like your honest way of doing business, I am ready to acqire this land if you can drop some money from the asking,4.3? need to get me a space in enugu...... sending you a message right away.
Education › Re: 2 Killed At OOU Student Protest by vanbonattel: 7:20pm On May 20, 2013
Wild wild west, people from that part of the country are known to be rascals.
Car Talk › Re: Mercedes-benz E-class Coupé - Pictures by vanbonattel: 7:10pm On May 20, 2013
deejayzee: I av bin waiting 4 d day I'll be d first to comment n now my tym has come dis one is nut a car but a machine,d producer can do better benz product is d best
You are number 34 grin
Politics › Re: Riot In Onitsha? by vanbonattel: 7:07pm On May 20, 2013
[quote author=Dudu_Negro]You need to be watching these bakassi boys. Gej has accidentaly discovered that State of Emergency helps his political ratings. To be forewarned is to be forearmed. grin grin

Get those hoodlums under control.....put a curfew in place while guess are attending Achebe burial.[/quote]Thank you for confirming that the man is so great that his burial will be a mass affair. He is really a great man.
Politics › Re: Riot In Onitsha? by vanbonattel: 7:05pm On May 20, 2013
xynerise: A friend of mine just told me that there are several gun shots in Onitsha now. Who else can confirm this?
I can confirm your bad belle and rumor mongering skills.
Car Talk › Re: Mercedes-benz E-class Coupé - Pictures by vanbonattel: 7:03pm On May 20, 2013
Car wey I buy for my 14th girlfriend last week? mtcheeew.
Sports › Re: Bash Ali Protests At PDP Secretariat Over World Record Bid by vanbonattel: 6:58pm On May 20, 2013
[quote author=wise_many2k]Dis same old baba will beat u silly and remove ur front teeth tongue[/quote]I will only be running around the ring and will not punch him, but by the end of the first round, this baba will be dead from exhaustion.
Sports › Re: Bash Ali Protests At PDP Secretariat Over World Record Bid by vanbonattel: 6:56pm On May 20, 2013
Somebody neeeds to trick this baba into the ring and bash his teeth down his throat. We need to rest from his harrassments.
Politics › Re: Boko-Haram Stole Over N200M From Banks In Daura Attack by vanbonattel: 11:44pm On May 17, 2013
Boko boys visits home,
Politics › Re: Senate Says President Has Not Declared Any State Of Emergency by vanbonattel: 11:41pm On May 17, 2013
The senate just woke up from a deep slumber, goom morning honourable senators, its 4pm!
Politics › Re: International Community On Boko Side....Nigerian Govt Needs A New Strategy by vanbonattel: 11:34pm On May 17, 2013
YorubaNegro: Our govt has done a very poor job of rallying international sympathy against bokoharam. On numerous occassions those who are leading global war against terrorism have declared and designated bokoharam and the Northern region as the aftermath of prolonged neglect, poverty and destitution. Repeated lobbying efforts from interest groups within Nigeria to label bokoharam as an international terror network has failed.

Bokoharam attacked and destroyed properties and staff of UN, kidnapped and killed citizens of some of these Western countries and was paid a huge ransom to secure release of French families kidnapped not too long ago. It threatened that if any Western forces invaded the Northern soil they would incur worse than the casualties they sustained in Iraq and Afghanistan.

All the triggers are there to summon sympathies against them, but yet they are getting moral support from Western leaders. America even warned of sanctions against the Nigerian govt if it uses heavy handedness like it did against boko in Bama.

How can Nigeria turn the tide of international support around to its side against bokoharam?

State of Emergency in North and deployment of boots and guns could be a good strategy if the international community was behind the govt but as it is this action is already alienating the GEJ government. Amnesty had some strong goodwill but with current state of things that capital has been lost as well . This deployment may have been well positioned and received wide acceptance if FG had the Western world behind it but given that is not the case, it is hard to swallow this as a good decision.

What do you think?
I think you should go to sleep
Family › Re: Does Your Husband Help With The Child At Night? by vanbonattel: 11:30pm On May 17, 2013
ollysoft: I dey try ooo... my baby is almost 2 months and we have started d vigil. Like yesterday I slept around 1:30 am and could only catch 5 hours sleep but I was very late to work dis morning. I am already thinking of how this night will be since I am to dash out to office around 6am 'morrow morning. The main thing is that the baby is sleeping now ready to wake up soonest. Guys, my wife no dey sleep at all oooo.
It is her job, she should do it. I pay the damn bills man! and if you get sacked for sleeping on duty, your wife will feed you baby bre,st milk!
Family › Re: Does Your Husband Help With The Child At Night? by vanbonattel: 11:28pm On May 17, 2013
I will help you carry the baby, then when you sleep I will squeeze a valium5 into her mouth, she go sleep for 2 days while I catch my sleep, which kain nonsense........
Properties › Re: How To Make Sure Money You Send From Abroad To Buy A Land Doesn't Get Embezzled by vanbonattel: 11:04pm On May 17, 2013
InvertedHammer:

Take a gamble or keep your money.

As in gamble, it either turns out good or bad
Why is he sending it at all, shebi all Nigerians na tiff as you talk?
Properties › Re: How To Make Sure Money You Send From Abroad To Buy A Land Doesn't Get Embezzled by vanbonattel: 11:03pm On May 17, 2013
Rastamann: Whats happens if I cannot be there personally because I live abroad and not chanced to travel?
Just use the money rock oyinbo girls, when you come back here you can borrow a bike and become an okada rider.
Properties › Re: How To Make Sure Money You Send From Abroad To Buy A Land Doesn't Get Embezzled by vanbonattel: 10:13pm On May 17, 2013
melojames: Nice write-up, poster. It really destroys the business of the few genuine Estate Agents in Nigeria.

Let us also always endeavour to expose the fraudster & quacks scamming buyers to the security agencies & also drop their names on NL.
God Bless
To tell you the fact, the thieves are abroad.

https://www.nairaland.com/1173970/scam-alert-omowunmi-allen-pre-order/2
Properties › Re: How To Make Sure Money You Send From Abroad To Buy A Land Doesn't Get Embezzled by vanbonattel: 10:08pm On May 17, 2013
[quote author=Okiki_Oluwa]Hm! It's a pity that no one can be trusted @ 100% in this world.[/quote]Including we senders, some of us who cannot afford to feed properly in yankee, save for macdonalds throwey food will come online forming big boys, lying that their brother chop them money. I heard one who claimed he was robbed as he picked a taxi from MMA Lagos, na me borrow am money to travel go naija o!
Properties › Re: How To Make Sure Money You Send From Abroad To Buy A Land Doesn't Get Embezzled by vanbonattel: 10:03pm On May 17, 2013
InvertedHammer:

On the converse, you can spare yourself the heartache and purchase a flight ticket that will cost about $1200 during off season and be there physically present to witness the transactions after all investigations are completed.

No money handed out is guaranteed.

I will not advise anyone to send money to anyone (no matter how closely related) to purchase a land.

PREVENTION IS BETTER THAN CURE!
Same way guys in Nigeria should be adviced to buy themselves an air ticket and hop into the plane to buy themselves a car in the US, who trusts all our naija guys in the diaspora with our 419 mentality and ripping off Nigerians who send money for stuff to be bought for them?
The Nigerians wey dey abroad are more criminal minded than the ones in naija.

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