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RedPanthar:
Continue deceiving yourself. You can deceive gullible people but not me.


You're the breed of men that are so overly possessive you don't want your wife to be around anyone of influence especially her family besides you.


YOU COVERTLY HATE YOUR WIVE'S FAMILY AND SADLY YOU'RE NOT DISCREET ENOUGH TO HIDE THE DUSGUST. YOU CAN'T STAND THEM TO TOLERATE THEM LET ALONE TO EMBRACE THEM AS YOUR OWN.

I PRAY YOU KNOW THE FUTURE AND CAN SEE IF YOUR KIDS WILL NEVER NEED THEIR HELP FOREVER THAT WAY I CAN ASSURE YOU TO CONTINUE WITH YOUR ANTICS. UNTIL THEN, TRED SOFTLY.

There are a specie of men that hate it when a woman's family or friends is around her. And use all sorts of antics to act victimised.

Only God will deliver you from you and teach you different ways of doing things. Your children would grow up too and become adults, should brothers not visit sisters and vice versa. When it's time to shine with opportunity some men act coy.


7k will enough rice and small meat to entertain your guests for the short duration they will be around.


Be Christ-like, Christ-mas is about sharing not only about eating rice.


Stop deceiving people in the time being. You know it's hatred you have for her being around her family and not about money




Should anything happen to you tomorrow, those are the ones that would stand for her, your kids and even you. And it's how you draw them close with what you have now that will make them endear to you should the chips fall down on your end however plenty your tiny peanuts maybe as of the moment.


You will know them ladies. They are the kinds that assume thier wives fell from heaven. Once they get married to them they don't want their wives to be around anybody, friends or family.



There's also female versions. These women marry them give them the entire world. They will never be with you or love you atall and will only stick around cause of favors they get in the marriage. They won't give happiness and after a few years leave you down the line.


It's a personality-complex. Open your eyes to find these kinds out to do the needful.

Stop reasoning with half of your brain pls.There is no hate here.The wife is so damn disrespectful to her hubby.The man is acting according to his finacial capabilities so u cant force things on him he cant handle.Honestly if i was d one i would react more than this cos if left unchecked,she would do more worse things tomorrow.

Odkosh:
Then Anambra people should come and take their son.

So Igbos have ruled for 8 years under Obasanjo.

Now it is the turn of yorubas.

Wait o

Can this be the reason the yorubas did not vote him in 1999.


But what is his father's village in Anambra.

My craze fall on you.Obasanjo is a yoruba demon period!!!

kovic20:
Arranged marriages are some of the most successful marriages if done right. The women grow to love their husbands. I remember when I was 11 yrs old, my wealthy uncle wanted one of his hard working boy boy to marry his only child and daughter who was American trained but the boy boy had no formal education. The girl refused but her father insisted because he saw potential in him. Fast forward 20 yrs later, the man is one of the richest men in my village, very wealthy. This woman that didn't like him then, grew to love this man and don't play with him. She thanks her late father for insisting she married him.

U are just quoting one instance.Do u know that a couple living together doesnt mean they are happy.Some just stay cos of d kids and their parents.My ex-gf is also a victim of arranged marriage.10yrs down the line with 3kids,she regrets ever marrying her man.Always advising me to court any girl i intend to marry and not follow her footsteps.So arrangee is a 50-50 situation pls.

TOPCRUISE:
You want to break up with her for refunding the money. You know the worth of a thing when you lose it

Worth of weitin? A gold digger? My friend if cant be reasonable them play temple run with ur phone biko

IkpuMmadu:
You are an idiot
You are a simp
Marry her and die of heart attack before 45..
Marry her and end in premium tears


You be real mumu! Spending 30k on a working babe in this period of scarcity


Her toto na gold ?
U no get sense shaaaa

I support u on this my fellow Alpha.The guy na simp,serious blooded one at that.If na me,delete and block from every angle.I go even change key for my house sef.

lekki1444:
well at least she has some form of dignity in her. that ought to count for something.someone returning 8000 in this covid season ? she is a princippled and strong willed woman. thats an asset. its your job as the man to channel these her positive attributes into a positive character and not let it stagnate in negative character. all these weak men today, you are supposed to mold her not indulge her and you have the perfect specimen to be molded

Honestly u aint wise at all.

frozen70:
It depends on what you people have been debating on about financial matters

10k would not actually get a dress for her and probably a shout and a hand bag

If you have been taking care if that then if you don't give her anything this Christmas, it won't be an issue

She returned the rest to you because she feels that you are being smart with her

She wants to be sure that you gave her nothing this Christmas

So, after your grand mother's burial, seat her down and talk with her to tell you her exact reason why she returned the money, that's if you are still interested in her

And if you are no longer interested in her, let the relationship end with the year and move on from next year

She so inconsiderate.Didnt u read d part he stated he will finacially support for his granny's burial? And also where he gave her 30k the previous month.The world is filled with so many ungreatful and inconsiderate souls honestly.

Okuda:
person spend 30k on babe and he get mouth to talk am like say na achievement...hahahahahhahaha

How much have u spent on ur mother or your gf if only u have any.Idiot

oloshun:
We also don't need to know if you are helping your father financially, he is your father. He owes you no publication for supporting him and nobody on this forum is going to say 'Thank you for helping your father's. In my opinion, some things are better left unsaid.

Then ur so unreasonable and gulluible. Tueh to u

CalliDora1:
Op, na wa for you o. A whole Yuletide, it's only 10k you deemed fit for her? She even refunded you and you're here complaining. If she had kept it and quietly planned to dump you cos of it, would it have been better? Now she opened up ( communication), you're fuming. Free her abeg.

Op, seriously, think of it. what will 10k buy her? I understand the fact you have a financial commitment already ( your father's burial) but you should have either made it 20k or not given her at all.

She only returned the money, she didn't tell you it's over. If you dump her now, you don't know if the next girl is going to be worst. just let her know you're not cool with her attitude, then let it slide. It's nothing really.


Modified

All of you attacking me for making a first time controversial comment are unbelievable!

One thing you guys fail to realize is as long as you the man keep demanding sex from the girl you're dating, she has every right to demand whatever she wants from you and you shouldn't complain when she does.

You keep claiming you're not her father and family but forget that you have no right to sleep with her as long as you have not paid her dowry to the father or performed the marriage rites on her. That is stealing! Whoever is doing such to someone's daughter is a thief!

Demanding for sex from a girl who's not your wife is also an entitlement mentality you guys need to drop. Shikenah!

Ur so unreasonable honestly,u read only quarter page of things sef.Didnt u read abt his dad and d burial hes planning in few days time? Ur so gullible of a person.
Didnt u also read where he spent 30k on her last month yet u and her cant even be reasonable.Thunder kill and bury u there idiot.

Kapilta:
Honestly i wanted to praise the lady for being an "Alfa" female before opening the thread didn't know it's actually that OP is doomed.

Alpha female my foot.U people supporting nonsense i pray nonsense will locate you all full dose.Amen!!!!!

Akwaibom1stlady:
Relax.... Talk things over!!

Cos its ur fellow lady baaaa.He's got no biz with her.Am happy he realised the type of girl hes dating.

dontro:
You don't need 8k TV in 2020 because there are not 8k content flying around out there.

Ask yourself, which tv station shows content in 4k let alone 8k?

Full HD, 4k, 8k etc somewhat depends on the content. If the content is not 8k, you can't enjoy 8k!

Most content/stations out there are not even up to HD. 4k content are not even available, unless some YouTube videos and some Netflix? How much more 8k?

Don't waste the money

Spot on bro.Money i will use to buy a plot of land that will appreciate within a year and yield me so much income.Hd wey i get is very ok talk more of buying 8k tv solely 4 playstation5.

visijo:
Well to be perfectly honest, in my humble opinion, of course without offending anyone who thinks differently from my point of view, but also by looking into this matter in a different perspective and without being condemning of one's view and by trying to make it objectified, and by considering each and every one's valid opinion, I honestly believe that I completely forgot what I was going to say.

Thunder and lightening from hell and amadioha shrine will destroy you forever.Idiot.

sapphiere:
And the man too sued for breaching a contract.

ashawo contract baaaa? Is ashawoba registered business in Nigeria,where is her ashawo id card or registration number? Can she boldly stand infront of her family and tell them shes a commercial ashawo worker? Get sense joor

SweetCunt97:
True. No woman wants a man wey no sabi left from right. We love men who can take charge. Taking charge is different from toxic masculinity sha.

Las Las those bad boys who know their left to right go dump una ass for gutter and una go carry una self go look for one church guy to carry una yama yama self for una.Body go tell una later.

Danielfx:
My woman is more concerned on me leaving her than her leaving me...


I have her ATM pin. I transfer card and money at will. I restrict her calls to certain people and she even gives persistent guys my number rather than her own...

I have disciplined her in the past about two times that she even became unconcious at one time, though i vow not to do such again for personal reasons...


She respects me and always make me know her every move...Cheating Kwa ?

The day she makes that mistake, the hypo she tried to drink in the past, na me go force am for her mouth...

Though i spend Sha, reasonable spending but she doesn't hoard penny from me. That's not even the case, i may not marry her due to my own personal reasons. I just love the fact that i am in control...

By the time u finish with her and throw her away,she will still go and look for the said good guys she doesnt like cos time is running out on her side.Their brains are just so animalistic honestly.

Chii59:
Yawns. No dey look face o. I may be old enough to be called your aunt.

Old for ur papa house not in nairaland.Ur not ashamed to say ur old.Carry ur old age come my side u go hear am.

nautybride:
I don't advise such as a woman. Be sure she gives birth to two or three and marry her before investing.
We can easily be carried away emotionally.

See for saying d truth,God will forever bless u,ur future hubby ad ur kids

jimmychang:
What the hell did I just read....... ....She is not a flower .How can you love someone without wanting the person

What you just wrote is not pragmatic

.dont mind her,its only simps that pay attention to such trashy writeups

dyera:
Setting police station ablaze is height of foolishness. When kidnappers and armed robbers start having a field day, you will start crying to the government. If the people of those community are not foolish, they shouldn't allow the okada riders to get away with burning three police stations because of the action of a single policeman.

So killing of innocent cilivians by the police is wisdom baaaa? If u know you cant bring solution to any problem,better shut ur drainage u call mouth and also cut of ur fingers u use in typing nonsense in this forum.

Chii59:
Yawns. Another simp

Mtcheewww! U be littile baby not even girl sef.U never reach d age to operate phone sef.Go take ur feeding bottle.

CalliDora1:
What you mean by spicing up is giving a man excessive sex, that is only when marriage can be spicy? Story.

The thing is a lot of you are chasing shadows. As in... you don't really know what you want and that is why a 5 mins madness called "sex" still can't keep you in marriage even when you have an overdose of it.

What do you men really want? You clearly don't know. Please find out.

When u get married,u will certainly understand but now,i cant talk to a novice like u

legacystore:
Lalasticlala
Seun

Insulting a nairalander
Do the needful

U dey craze oooooo,big time idiot u be

Nonexistent:
Your wife and you have not paid her brideprice? No sir, she is still a public property. It happened a month ago and she is just telling you. I am sure your neighbor is as poor as church rat if not, she would be fuccking him by now and you won't do nada. First verify that story somehow because ladies of today can cause trouble between two men with lies. If the story is true, talk to your neighbor. He is a man like you.

Oil dey ur head.Women are so so deceitful.I saw a lady last month,toast her nd she agreed.Sharply she started calling me my love,telling me how she loves me bla bla bla.Fast forward fo last week,i met her and her cousin walking on the road and he is my friend.I noticed that she was turning her face from me,then her cousin told me that she is having her trad by jan 2,omo i was so shocked to my marrows.Since then,she blocked me on whatsapp,blacklisted my number.Women arent to be trusted honestly.

DaudaTheSexyGuy:
Is that what she told you Tunde?

I did not toast her o

guy leave his wife to be alone unless i go use magun on u

Chii59:
Hehehe. Fallacy of hasty generalisation.

Madam he didnt generalise pls,he assumed by putting "might" which doesnt refer to all ladies.Go and learn english all over again.

Chii59:
He abused me terribly. So I reported him to the mods. How can I report someone for asking for phone number?

So wat did u gain now by reporting him? Are u now a millionaire by doing so? Its girls like you that make guys think most ladies are rude and arrogant.

CalliDora1:
Why are some of you acting like sex is the only thing required for a relationship and marriage to work? It is this high expectations some people go into marriage with that causes problems. Expecting your man to perform like your ex or your woman like a porn star and when they dont, you start going out to get it.

Do you want to tell me most marriages that crashed didn't practice premarital sex or enjoyed good sex in the marriage? But still it crashed and your Almighty SEX couldn't salvage the marriage.
You meet someone and the next thing you start rushing yourselves with sex and forget to look out for other red flags. Then the next thing marriage ( cos sex is good). Afterwards, you'll begin to see the red flags and you want out.

To your question,.. since sex is not my major drive for going into marriage, if I meet a "carrot" sized man I wont bother because One...I didn't mess myself up so he'll meet me there with his size.
Two...if you truly love someone and are committed to him, whether or not he satisfies you, you won't bother.

Love is what conquers all. Not sex. In my opinion though.

U see u are not yet married and u wouldnt understand.Y us infidelity or adultry rate so high in Nigeria if sex isnt as important as u claim? This is d major reason y all these overly church people do suffer setbacks in their marriage cos u all take certain things for granted and in turn those things turn back to hunt themso hard.U see marriage should be enjoyed more than being endured and if u think that only bible will do the work,my sister ur in for a big shock.Go and learn various ways of spicing up marriages b4 its too late

legacystore:
quote author=willingheart post=97067897]I'm truly in love with this guy. We are happy together, We understand each other perfectly. With him I'm � myself, No pretence. Same with him. He's everything I want in a man, but the problem is that: he doesn't have money. He keeps trying, but things are not working. no job and he's from a family where everyone are on their own facing their challenges, no support.


He's 35yrs this yr and I'm 30 already. He wants to get married, but he can't afford it.

Lately, I buy almost everything for him, to support him.

Age is not on my side, yet the only man I love and that loves me can't afford to marry me. If we're married, it will be easy for me to share everything with him without my family members putting eyes.

My Aunt called me stu.pid that i should accept a financially stable man instead of being with a man who can not afford to take care of me.
I have little money I saved to support my wedding as well, but he have nothing.

Married people in the house please help.
I want to have direction plan for my life coming year.

Marrying the one you love or the one that's financially stable. What's your advice and opinion?


So u still don't have sense at 30

Just marry him n learn the hard way now

Since he can't afford to marry u, just get pregnant for him n u will become affordable instantly, just do it for him so u will become very affordable n u marry the love of ur life.

Shut up ur mouth.Who are u to judge her future by saying she will learn d hard way if she marries him?Are u God? Ur a big fool.

[quote author=fannybaby post=97077941]The bible already has the answer. Wives honor your husband and husband love your wife....

It is your husband that is suppose to love you. If the financial stable guy loves you, please go for him.

If the other guy have some change tomorrow, he won't still give you money to run the house[/quote
U people and ur stupid advice,how did u know if he will change if hes got some change tomorrow?