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frozen70:
This is very daisy

Marrying a man you love is different from marrying a man that loves you

If you love him and you are a willing but he is not making any income, be ready to carry load, I mean family load and don't complain when it's beyond you

It's not a good advice for you to sponsor your own marriage, what about other financial issues that will come up in the family, who will cater for that ?

A man that loves you but have no good income will take because of love and go extra miles to look for what to do just because he loves you and that single act will trigger you to bring out whatever you have to support his little efforts and that doesn't mean that you will sponsor your marriage

Getting married to a financial stable man can not be compared to the two comparisons I stated above

No body wants to move from poor to poorer

Leave the man to go and struggle he has all the time to do that more than the time you have for yourself

Look the mans condition wont remain d same again.All OP needs is to discuss with him on d way forward after d marriage,if he's to learn a basic skill fine,i bet you planning is all he needs.

Ikjosh04:
The key to his prosperity could be unlocked when he get married.

To me, you can marry him, in as much as the man is reasonable and doing everything possible to break his entanglement with poverty.

Btw, no where In the Bible was it written to marry who you love.

The scripture says we should love who we marry.

Love is not feelings or emotions.

Love simply means commitment, passion, pleasure and above all sacrifice!


The distance between dreams and reality is called action and as long as anyone is intentional about their progess in life, the breakthrough will come.

It's also important to note Success in life depends more on who you know than what you know.

Honestly u guys dont read ur bible at all.
Song of Solomon 3:4: I have found the one whom my soul loves.
Read further down and understand better

CsRockefeller:
This is quite dicey. I don't want to act as if your current bf isn't human but what is he doing with you when he knows he's not capable?

For me, he should be the one to pull out of the relationship and let you be, in other words, he is very selfish.

Money is very important in marriage, very important that by the time you enter you'll realise that love isn't a currency that will pay rent, put food on the table and pay your children's school fees.

Use your tongue to count your teeth, don't be naive. By the way, what's all these rubbish talk with "he's the one I love" bla bla bla......., my sister everyone is capable of loving everyone and anyone don't let your heart deceive you.

For me, I can't even date someone when I earn nothing, and I can't even date/marry someone who isn't working. If you want to be the husband as d woman while your bf becomes the wife as d man it's in your court.

Things can change tomorrow for him but hope isn't a strategy. On the other hand, things can even get worse for him.

There is no life gurantee on earth concerning any situation.The finacially stable man of today can be the poorest tomorrow.She should take it in prayers.God is the only guarantee.Marrying someone u dont love is one of the worst things anyone can do on earth.

[quote author=sreamsense post=97065026]The problem with contemporary young generation is that many of you were born into your families when morality vacated your family homes. Being strict is different from being wicked, he is discipling you as his own children so your future can be better, you are here ranting he is wicked.

Many of you just like places you will not be tamed so that you can do whatever you want like forming cult groups on campus, turning campus to Olosho house. If he is not strict and people still allow to do whatever they like, these spoilt rats will still come back here to complain and cast aspersions if any bad thing goes wrong with the school. Go to Catholic schools and see descipline, you these spoilt rats.

Your fathers get money, but lack morality, so when your fathers finally dumb you into CU as correctional center, you begin to misunderstand 'strictness' to ' wickedness' because your fathers failed to even show you '101' of moralities before you left for school because your families lack moralities in the first place. If you like to become wayward and hates descipline, no need of going there, go to federal and state universities and do what you like. Judas Iscariots!

Somebody is sweating to make you great, you call it wickedness! Spoilt rats! Go to volatile areas in North and ask for the meaning of wickedness![/quote

Sharap joor.What do you know about discipline here? Will he still be around them when they've all graduated? Look being disciplined is all about choice and not force.Get that into ur thick skull.How can you expel a student in the final year of his university academics for something that holds no water and you say its not wickedness.I pray ur children would face the same fate when they are in school so u will feel the pain.

Herrymax:
I'm not saying otherwise

Money rituals people dem

What is your useless tribe good at if i may ask? Standing in bustops chasing buses with canes i guess.Idiot you.

Arrewa:
sorry to disappoint you...

Out of 19 Northern state... We are facing security challenges in 3 northern states and That happens to be villages.

But because of the love and unity in the north... We share the pains of these states protesting and demanding for a secured north.

But bigots online and offline would come to tell us how the whole northern states has been terrorized.

Once there is kidnapping in any village in Zamfara.

They will come online to tell how there is kidnapping in the north... They will never mention zamfara.

They will never tell you people were kidnapped in a village in Zamfara or Kastina rather they would say north.

They're doing all this to send a signal that the whole of Northern states are unsafe.


Gombe is one of the safest state in Nigeria.

Bauchi is safe!!

Kano is safe!!

Adamawa is safe!!

Yobe is safe!!

Jigawa is safe!!

Kebbi is safe!!

Taraba is safe!!

And other northern states that hardly record case of robbery in a year.

The north is a region with 16 core northern states.

But children of hate would come online to tell the world how unsafe the whole northern region is.

The way you bigots always scream north up and down makes me believe that majority of u think that north is a state not a region.

You guys should stop all this senseless stereotypes!

My state kano is more developed and peaceful than the entire Eastern states put together.

More peaceful when u have Gandothief Dollar as ur governor baaa?U dey craze seriously

EggSauce:
who's begging that failure from otuoke to come back Ipobs i guess.... Both GEJ and Buhari are Total Failures.... Jonathan is the riddance... Buhari is the bad Rubbish... Useless leaders just like Ipob

Sharap ur stinking gutter.You are just a bitter soul who find it so hard to accept the truth.

Makanjuola89:
Apply semen on the spot three times daily and thank me later.

Ouch damn!!!! U nor get single shame ooooo

SilverNorGold:
We have unscrupulous southern elements pretending to be Northerners just to mock us, even here on Nairaland. Members like Kaduna1stSon, Yenefer, etc are examples. They start by praising our beloved father, President Mohammadu Buhari and Northerners and then subsequently unleashing their anti-North agenda.. They don't mean well for us. So they can continue to fool themselves..

That said, I strongly condemn the Kankara GSS attack. The government should do everything possible to arrest the situation and bring the perpetrators to book! More military personnel should be deployed as a matter of urgency to ensure that all civilians are safe and sound. Nothing must happen to anyone otherwise the repercussion may not augur well for the government.. But I strongly believe in the leadership/capability of President Mohammadu Buhari and I am 100% sure he'll handle this issue professionally and intelligently, being an experienced, brilliant and intelligent retired General.

While we await the outcome, I appeal to my brothers and sisters in the North to remain calm and patient.

God bless Nigeria.

Ur region deserves to be mocked.Ur region produced the higest number of military head of states and presidents still Nigeria isnt moving forward and Ur region is the headquarters of terrorism and poverty.Honestly Nigeria needs to split cos your cursed region is the reason of Nigeria's backwardness.Honestly i dont feel sorry for u guys honestly.More calamity shall befall the north and so shall it be.

Tango123:
Its ok to say no sex

But make sure u dont demand any money from the man

And just like its ok for u to say no sex, its ok for the man to say no giving u money or gifts till marriage

God bess u so much

[quote author=Liverpoolman post=96996150]Whatta guan man!


First of all, lemme congratulate and welcome you into the school of celibacy, please don't drop out until you meet the Mr. Right that will walk you to the aisle and permanently defiled your admission on your wedding night... God no go shame us.

P.S: please the Gabriel's and Lizzy's, don't quote me, I nor be una friend.[/quote

Sharap joor! There is no difference between you and linda ikeji

cristy149:
girls will deny it anytime questions like this is asked, but they will never go into a relationship with a guy with tiny dick or an impotent guy

God will bless you a million times

CalliDora1:
Have you ever seen a man without a manhood? The men should stop using that as a bait to lay innocent girls.

Why won't they indulge in a relationship? Must all relationships involve sex? Change your mentality. Biko!

Do u know that lack of sexual knowledge has destroyed lots of marriage? For instance,if u married a guy and on ur wedding night u discovered he has a small carrot penis size and cant satisfy u with it,wat will you do? I asked this cos i know ur not a virgin and you know d type of dick fhat satisfies you,cant you endure it for life? Give me an honest answer.

AandGee:
It's Grammy season, the time to celebrate nominations of our favorite Nigerian artists. Sadly, only one Nigerian artist made it to the 2021 Grammy nomination list. And that is the self-acclaimed African Giant, Burna Boy. His recent album, Twice as Tall was nominated under the Best Global Music Albumillioory.

Davido fans have been asking the one millionn dollar question, why has Davido never been nominated for a Grammy award, why wasn't he nominated for the 2020 grammy, and again the 2021 grammy?

Well, watch the video below, as we answer this question.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=El0maGl_v0k

First of all the Op is stupid for saying "self acclaimed".Burna is not self acclaimed but the real " African Gaint" by merit.If Op support davido,he shouldnt hate others cos his oga wasnt nominated for the Grammy awards.

modsAREuselesss:
e sure me say bomb dey you head and u be confir badluck. u carry your badluck go destroy girl that was doing very well to the extent of even sponsoring you. after she meet you, she went broke. u be bad omen.
instead of to hustle and compliment her efforts and even stop her from the olosho work, u just went and destroyed her totally. may thunder fire you for destroying her with your bad luck

Is Olosho a good work? Look at ur mouth like "she was doing well". Infact u dey craze

Olayinka777:
Hmmm hmmm I am sorry for u!
By the time his mom dictate to him on the type of style he should use for u etc your eye go clear.

One day u will become a mum.Hope u will practice wat u preach.Also remember,once u point a finger at someone,remember that 3 fingers are pointing back at u.As u descriminate against others,so shall people descriminate against u.

[quote author=modsAREuselesss post=96796485]show the ladies you are advicing your husband first na[/quote
U dey mind d bitch.

zimdante:
You are wise and experienced

When ur children grow and marry may they permanently abandon you.Amenn

Ritapearlydove:
Go girl!

And ur first son and daughter will never get married.Amenn

Zzor:
I will advise all ladies to do away with men who are too clingy to their mum, all those mummy's boy type, your home will be run by someone else and not you.

The problem with u is that u have short or close range thinking.Wat if when u get married and have only one child will you come here to post this rubbish if people runaway from ur only child cos of his/her predicament?

Kobicove:
Is that what you think?

You will become a mother soon.I hope u will practice wat u preach when it comes to ur children

sapphiere:
I probably want him fired. What if his family is aware of his waywardness? If he is fired and no money to spend on other women his sense will come back.

U lack sense cos u fail to realise that he losing his job will make matters worse rather she would be seen as a sworn enemy.Honestly you dont think with ur head.If he was beating her once in month b4,once he is fired,he will beat her sixty times a day cos of wat his wife have done.

Cyberterror:
This is another proof that Jonathan was working with Boko Haram to destabilize the north.

You are a fool and will forever be a fool.Since Jona left office y cant saint Buhari stop this terrorism.U can as well tell me Jona created bandits,herdsmen and also islamic extremists.Useless sperm like you.U will be purged out from planet earth.Idiot

SilverNorGold:
.. This news is worse than the death penalty to wailers..

Watch them invade this thread with: "it's a lie!", "lie Mohammed", "propaganda!", "story", etc..

Trust me, these wailers are not just pathetic, they're evil. Yesterday made me realize this truth.. I was having a discussion with one of my neighbors, Nnamdi, yesterday when he told me something that shocked me so greatly. He said that if God should ask him to kill his father, mother, brothers and sisters as the only condition to make President Buhari to resign, that he would accept. I asked him why, he said because Buhari is a devoted Muslim and he doesn't like him naturally.

Of course, his reasons were nonsense to warrant such a deathly and heartless fate for his own family. Guys, that was why I ended our relationship cos he might murder me one day for having a different opinion.

I just hope our Nairaland Buhari's haters are not like that else, e no go good.. May God help us all.

Honestly u are just the son of a bitch.I know you are one of some Apc online wailers sent to cause disunity but u have failed wholefully fool.I have my eyes on you.

sweetrace:
Op, age is not the issue here. You’re too immature for her. Please do her a world of good and let her go. She needs to be free to meet a mature and compassionate man who will treat her well and not seek seek approval from Nairaland or others.

Wats d immaturity here? Havnt u ever asked for advice b4 concerning marital or relationship issue b4? As if u sef is even mature to say d least.Rubbish

FinianIb:
Hi, Happy Sunday.
To start with, intruding her privacy is wrong, don't do that again. Also, I assume you guys are more like friends with benefits. Her lifestyle is hers, yours is yours. She can't change until she finds a fault in hers. Your advice can't change or do anything. Let her continue her ways, only time will tell.
Don't intrude her privacy again. It's not gentlemanly.

Many things are obviously wrong with you.Didnt you read the part where she first checked Op's whatsapp and was mad.So that isnt intruding in his privacy right.U are a one sided idiot

Sixfeetbelle:
This one will also get married one day and be expected to honor his marital vows? Okay ooh. I don dey look you and your 5000 girlfriends. Kwantinue

� ������you are so on point.

MISSCONGENIALITY:
I don't know how you guys here on nairaland think. Do you expect a 30yrs old adult to behave like a teenager? Do you expect you yourself to still make the same mistakes you made in your early years? What's with you and women. Why is your mom not behaving the same way she did when she first got married.
You is your 17yrs old sister not behaving and tlako the same way she did when she was 3.
Don't you know that human development is stage but stage and it's abnormal for one to be aging and and behaving the same way they did when they were kids. Why is there anything like slow development in otheret?
Is it that you just like to call out women or you are just daft.
You want a 30yrs old lady to be running after men like a lady in her early 20s who doesn't have a dream yet. There are still ladies who mature faster than their age due to the environment or the experiences they've had. When you you are 40yrs, think and behave like a 26yrs old guy and see if people will treat you the same way they treat your mates who are emotionally and psychologivally matured.
I'm not in my dirties but I'm.more matured emotionally and psychologically than some ladies in their forties. Maturity is not about how many years one has lived. It's about the experienced they've had, what they e learned from those experiences and how they handle issues to avoid making the same.mistakea theu made earlier.
No wonder many of you can't engange in a topic intelligently. You all think it's about about making derogatory topics about ladies.

Madam stop playing intectually intelligent being here.Can a leopard spots ever wash away? A slut is always a slut.Besides when they say humans are political animals wat does it imply?A desperate lady can pretend to be good just to get what she wants.Shes no different from our politicians who promise u heaven on earth and all of a sudden become a tyrant when elected into office.Always face the reality by being truthful abt situation of things.Stop being manipulative here pls.

Raiders:
good. Nigerians are very stubborn and dont like obeying traffic laws. why would a driver drive 'one way'. he could have killed someone

For saying this,henceforth,u and ur generation will never be able to afford even a bicycle.If u currently have any,it will be siezed by law enforcement agencies and auctioned to another person.Useless pig.

olayiwola72:
Bro let be honest it not everything you will blame Sanwo olu for ..are you mad what is your problem sef ?all those commercials bus no Dey ever hear word
Make dem sell everything

Any car u buy must siezed and auctioned for penny feeds.Idiot

gift2xl:
Vanity the bible Say's.

I know this one go sweet your belle now.Vanity crew

Golan007:
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Too much rubbish.

Your existence is absolute rubbish