₦airaland Forum

A girl telling she loves me whether in reply or taking the lead will be a dream come true for me, if I love her too that is. I think people should express their feelings more often. It's a big deal and a bigger risk to says these words for fear of rejection or something else. Girls are most insecure and guys are very childish when it comes to matters of love, so that 's why I'd advise anyone, male or female, to take time to realise what exactly they're feeling so as not to be hasty over some infatuation. Also it's safer to be reasonably sure that one's mate has considerable respect for one. The major problem is that the words are very special and unfortunately the words happen to be on the tip of most guys tongues, so they don't really mean it. They're just after a quick lay, muddying the waters for guys like us. Anyway too much talk on my part, but the bottomline is that I wish I met the hippy days, too little love to go around these days.

I'm quite sure Oprah has better sense than to say that but if she did then I'm really appalled that she could say such a thing. Though I don't entirely blame her, cuz we happen to top the chart by a gigantic margin. I mean I've never heard of any other African scammer, there're probably some but I haven't seen any. I saw a show on ABC called 20/20 where some investigative reporters came over here to find out exactly the state of affairs on this side of the world. I felt very ashamed of my country when they paraded some of the culprits caught in a cafe in Lagos. Usofia was shown depravingly praising the Nigerian wit for being smart enough to 'chop ur dollar' We all need an attitude check to realise that our beloved country can make it in other ways. Though I'm very sure that if we evaluate the percentage of Nigerians involved in this stuff, we would find it insignificant. But I'm sure that's a hard point to sell. God help us![color=#000099][/color]