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Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Prenonjebose: 11:31pm On Oct 01, 2020
You claimed that she cheated on you among other things, and was the reason for the break up even after you pleaded with her. Relocate from the area if possible to limit the possibility of bumping into her. Engage in something new in business, academic activity, etc. You will overcome this challenge in no time.
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by CrystalMax: 11:35pm On Oct 01, 2020
Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.
It's gonna be hard o but it is possible.
How?, here are my counsels;
1. Ghost her- Stop following her on social media. You need to stop seeing anything that reminds you of her. Delete her number so you won't have to see her whatsapp status.
Unfollow her on all social media platforms. Wake up to this reality bro. She has moved on, you need to move on too. (Woman? Smh, No keeh your sef o)
2. Find yourself a better woman and create memorable moments with her. (Don't be carried away while doing this sha, women have no guarantee/warranty)
3. Love yourself to the extent that you'd forget ever loving her.

Trust me, you can forget her.
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by chatinent: 11:39pm On Oct 01, 2020
It's not your ex you need to get over.
You need to allow common sense attack you.
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by IamPlato(m): 11:39pm On Oct 01, 2020
Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.
send me email browndaniel210@gmail.com
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by donMIG(m): 11:44pm On Oct 01, 2020
2year?
Omo ur own worst oo... Oga... Make moni forget her
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Eventxpo(m): 11:48pm On Oct 01, 2020
I see people here shouting move on upadan as if it's that easy. I feel you bro. You need to cut the negative energetic cord, also approach it spiritually. There is alots of way to do that.

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Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Queenserah26(f): 11:49pm On Oct 01, 2020
I love this piece

tobechi74:
Simp


When Nollywood actor Pet Edochie fumed at the young men kneeling before a woman, he was backlashed. Pet was comparing happenings in his youthful age against  the youth in this generation. The traditional Igbo man is highly placed in the society. During traditional wedding,the woman kneels down to propose to the man.The one who kneels begs the other for a favor.A typical Igbo man hardly kneels for his fellow man talkless of a woman . He only kneels for the gods who he recognizes as more powerful than he is.

Pet is  not alone. Many men have noticed a decline in the masculinity of men. The Alpha male movement and redpill movement are attempt to correct this imbalance.When did thngs change? When did man begin to loose his ego to stoop so low to kneel before a less powerful being. Was the change sudden or gradual?

Women were seen as irrational and emotional.Men were the rational and strong willed. Men were taught to act like men They had to suppress their emotion close to their heart. Men should never cry in public.  Expression of vulnerability  is a sign of a weak man.  Men are closed minded, rigid and structured. He should not seek fun .Men. Should always be in power, strive for control, compete.They lack empathy necessary for effective communication and connection.

In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women.Then came the industrial era. Lands meant for farming and hunting was taking over by the government to build factory. The owners of the land were jobless.To offer compensation, the men were integrated as workers in this factory. Their male children were not allowed to follow dad to work.son stays at home with the mum while Dad went to work. Father leaves home as early as eight and comes home by six. He is exhausted, he sleeps to get strength for the next day. Fathers became absent in their son’s life. The role of dad in son life began to reduce while the role of mum in son life began to rise. Mummy passes over her feminine qualities to growing son.

Then came education. Female involvement in  education at an early age especially science and  law improve her reasoning abilities (masculinity) . Female take part in competitive games like the male counterpart. This improves their aggression.These women ended up as heads of organization.They took  decision and gave instructions . These women began to have a thirst of power . Their masculine qualities were awoken.

Girls  who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to  the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .

Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.

We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side.  we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by InvertedHammer: 11:53pm On Oct 01, 2020
Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.
/
Bring 1 ram, 4 tubers of yam and 3 kolanuts to my shrine.
Add 1 freshly minted koboko.

I can take care of your madness once and for all.

/
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by OMOJOHN001: 11:53pm On Oct 01, 2020
Its very easy bro. I have been in that shoe before, First thing to do Is to man off and block her as well from all your social media, delete all her pics and replace them with nicki minaj or Dj cuppy pics, or any of your favorite female celeb, then get yourself a better job or work to do.

Because idleness causes all this,
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by vicoloni(m): 11:55pm On Oct 01, 2020
"In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women"

I used to belong to the school of thought that thinks in the direction quoted above until I moved to America. Omo if you don't unlearn those way of life and become open to modern social evolutions omo na oyo you dey O.

tobechi74:
Simp


When Nollywood actor Pet Edochie fumed at the young men kneeling before a woman, he was backlashed. Pet was comparing happenings in his youthful age against  the youth in this generation. The traditional Igbo man is highly placed in the society. During traditional wedding,the woman kneels down to propose to the man.The one who kneels begs the other for a favor.A typical Igbo man hardly kneels for his fellow man talkless of a woman . He only kneels for the gods who he recognizes as more powerful than he is.

Pet is  not alone. Many men have noticed a decline in the masculinity of men. The Alpha male movement and redpill movement are attempt to correct this imbalance.When did thngs change? When did man begin to loose his ego to stoop so low to kneel before a less powerful being. Was the change sudden or gradual?

Women were seen as irrational and emotional.Men were the rational and strong willed. Men were taught to act like men They had to suppress their emotion close to their heart. Men should never cry in public.  Expression of vulnerability  is a sign of a weak man.  Men are closed minded, rigid and structured. He should not seek fun .Men. Should always be in power, strive for control, compete.They lack empathy necessary for effective communication and connection.

In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women.Then came the industrial era. Lands meant for farming and hunting was taking over by the government to build factory. The owners of the land were jobless.To offer compensation, the men were integrated as workers in this factory. Their male children were not allowed to follow dad to work.son stays at home with the mum while Dad went to work. Father leaves home as early as eight and comes home by six. He is exhausted, he sleeps to get strength for the next day. Fathers became absent in their son’s life. The role of dad in son life began to reduce while the role of mum in son life began to rise. Mummy passes over her feminine qualities to growing son.

Then came education. Female involvement in  education at an early age especially science and  law improve her reasoning abilities (masculinity) . Female take part in competitive games like the male counterpart. This improves their aggression.These women ended up as heads of organization.They took  decision and gave instructions . These women began to have a thirst of power . Their masculine qualities were awoken.

Girls  who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to  the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .

Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.

We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side.  we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/

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Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Avast(m): 11:55pm On Oct 01, 2020
Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

You have been scammed

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Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Unrated900(m): 11:55pm On Oct 01, 2020
Mr man there are plenty fishes in the ocean

Go and make money and get the best and stop saying you can’t get over your Ex when there are better girls out there than your Ex.
Once again go and make money lazy youth.

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Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Tribalism123(m): 11:57pm On Oct 01, 2020
hkidola00:
but is d kola part for real?


For real.

Ofo ma ndi ji ya!

Try it.

Is antitoxin

The puna u have been eaten is poisonous
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Tribalism123(m): 11:58pm On Oct 01, 2020
hkidola00:
but is d kola part for real?

Bitter cola and not ordinary kola o
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Unrated900(m): 12:00am On Oct 02, 2020
Mr man there are plenty fishes in the ocean,Go and make money and get the best and stop saying you can’t get over your Ex when there are better girls out there than your Ex.
Once again go and make money lazy youth.
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Unrated900(m): 12:01am On Oct 02, 2020
Mr man there are plenty fishes in the ocean
Go and make money and get the best and stop saying you can’t get over your Ex when there are better girls out there than your Ex.
Once again go and make money lazy youth.
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Kayeez(m): 12:02am On Oct 02, 2020
Bro! ... You gotta move on
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by FeloniousFelon: 12:05am On Oct 02, 2020
Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

The sooner you realize that women are not capable of love like the way men are they better off you will be.

God did not create them like us.

They have been programmed to fall in and out of love with ease.

Their love is very superficial and the only time you really get a woman to truly love you, know that God has blessed you.

Nothing you do or say can get her back.

The more you hold on to hope of getting her back the worse you will be.

Free yourself from that woman.
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Bitcoinomy(m): 12:08am On Oct 02, 2020
I laff
Carchoice:
Nothing can be done bro.


She took your senses with her. You can’t forget about her. I’m sorry.
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by OriOko88(m): 12:09am On Oct 02, 2020
A simp thread. I can't Imagine myself having sleepless nights over any ex, no matter how hot or pretty she is. Even my current gf, I am just dating her for Datin and marriage sake, no be say I really fall in love like that. Soft guys everywhere.

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Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Nobody: 12:13am On Oct 02, 2020
Alexgman1:
But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with Someone
I can feel your pain, bro. It's not that easy coz I was once in your shoe. You just have to fight it & let go forcefully.

Don't mind the fools calling you simp. They are alpha males on faceless forums, but the fact is; they could be simps in their closets.

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Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Huzormah(m): 12:15am On Oct 02, 2020
I think a resetting slap will do the trick .This is what happens when your dick functions, instead of your brain .

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Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Chicago213(m): 12:16am On Oct 02, 2020
banio:


Guess U miss her smell and her succulent pussy. Look for a girl with the same smell and succulent pussy. That's the only solution.

lipsrsealed undecided
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by SouthWestBlood(m): 12:21am On Oct 02, 2020
Alexgman1:
Its up to two years since i broke up with my ex (ALEX MARVEY). But uptil now I haven't gotten over her. She has moved on & deeply in love with someone new who she profess to be engaged to.
She has blocked me on every social media platforms but yet i still find a way to stalk her. Following her updates & uploads using a different and fake id.

Whenever we cross paths on the road she ignores me like we never knew before.
Despite the fact that it was her that messed up and did all the lies & cheating, yet i still forgave her for everything she did.

How can i move on and let go of her totally & for good because anytime i and my new girl are eating, walking, bathing & romancing i do imagine my ex.

I wish say you fit reason like me. My case and yours are somehow the same. For me, I didn't have issue of self esteem or confidence, I begged because I loved her. But the day her dad called us to meet and discuss what happened, she lied to her dad and even said I was never going to find anyone like her. I told her that was the point of going our separate ways. Lol.

Be a man and move on bro. Have you ever thought of how sometimes you were with this your ex and still saw hotter girls than her? Yeah, think about that and apply it. If you don't feel anything for your present babe, just end the relationship now and keep looking till you meet someone that matches all you look for in a woman. That will erase the memories of your ex in no time. One more thing, stop stalking her. It's bad for your sanity!

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Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Chicago213(m): 12:22am On Oct 02, 2020
Deborah98:
let me sound silly, can you date me undecided, lolzzzzz just move on bro,life na turn by turn okay

grin
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by jimcaddy(m): 12:27am On Oct 02, 2020
Perfect response to his problem. I also have that ex that I gave my all to and she messed up. It's hard especially when you have invested a lot of emotions, finances et al. But she doesn't love you, and even acts like she no send you. So you too you have to lock up and hate her back. Dish to her back the hate that she serves you
lacruz12:


This is what happens when you give your all and expect your partner to do same. You were the drive behind the relationship and she was just a passenger hoping to alight when due, you gladly pick her up whenever she loses interest regardless of her sins.

You gotta move on bro, she doesn't deserve your love one bit. You know quite well you are never gonna be 'perfect' even if she comes back to you, so kill the feelings and see the light in your new girl.

Stop stalking her, start steering your life in the right direction. There's more to life than meets the eye, you are wasting precious time. Invest your energy and time into improving yourself. What's wrong with you is just inferiority complex.... Thinking you ain't gonna find another like her. My guy na lie

Build your self esteem and confidence, think about the lies and cheating and tell yourself you don't deserve a filth like her. No better revenge than being successful, give her reasons to see she lost a gem

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Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by SouthWestBlood(m): 12:29am On Oct 02, 2020
jimcaddy:
Perfect response to his problem. I also have that ex that I gave my all to and she messed up. It's hard especially when you have invested a lot of emotions, finances et al. But she doesn't love you, and even acts like she no send you. So you too you have to lock up and hate her back. Dish to her back the hate that she serves you

Spot on!
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by akinsmyk(m): 12:29am On Oct 02, 2020
You need no prayers bro. What you have to do is very simple. I can't understand why you're stalking her. I feel like slapping you. Stop doing that shit, only mumu do.

Block her on all social media pages, never use fake id to stalk her and what goes on in her life. You will never move on if you keep doing that and it will keep destroying your relationships and beautiful one you can have.

You should be the to cut her off first. Your first step to freedom is to stop stalking her and monitoring her like an evil spirit.

What you're doing is witchcrafts act. Stop it and ask for forgiveness

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Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by greencard: 12:33am On Oct 02, 2020
Read books

Any expert can recommend

it will replace alot of thoughts and memories.

Your mind is clouded with so much thoughts of her that's why you feel your world is crashing over.. its all in your head, just replace your thoughts that's the trick and focus more on the remaining energy and rebuild your self-esteem.

Stop thinking about how you could have got her back or times spent together..

Just take it one step at a time . You will be better off her ,believe me.

Don't create any monster within you and hurt innocent souls you meet after her ..your happiness may not come from the next girl u meet or the 2nd either..just be patient and busy .

Don't mind those one's deceiving theirself in the name of alpha male or players.. accept your self and rebuild

Wa wa alright last last
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by Muftimenk: 12:33am On Oct 02, 2020
Makanaki127:
I was once like dis in 2016 after my GF broke up with me, make I no lie I almost kill myself out of depression, as d gal Sabi Bleep die, and anytime I remember the sex aspect wen I done miss I go like call her back, she is also very intelligent gal, she graduated with distinction back then in OND, I was down then like really down
But today I have move on completed but I can't love any gal again, I shall just day use my brain and I'm proud to say na gals day beg me to be serious with dem, some say am rude and dis am that but it just it, I day Bleep anyhow and the most sweet part of it I'm now a player, I can lie for Africa, I'm happy to be mumuing gals
this your last speech weak me ooo
Lol naso guyz go dey mumuing ur sister too

This life ehn......
Re: I Just Can't Get Over My Ex After Years Of Breakup. by IduNaOba: 12:33am On Oct 02, 2020
tobechi74:
Simp


When Nollywood actor Pet Edochie fumed at the young men kneeling before a woman, he was backlashed. Pet was comparing happenings in his youthful age against  the youth in this generation. The traditional Igbo man is highly placed in the society. During traditional wedding,the woman kneels down to propose to the man.The one who kneels begs the other for a favor.A typical Igbo man hardly kneels for his fellow man talkless of a woman . He only kneels for the gods who he recognizes as more powerful than he is.

Pet is  not alone. Many men have noticed a decline in the masculinity of men. The Alpha male movement and redpill movement are attempt to correct this imbalance.When did thngs change? When did man begin to loose his ego to stoop so low to kneel before a less powerful being. Was the change sudden or gradual?

Women were seen as irrational and emotional.Men were the rational and strong willed. Men were taught to act like men They had to suppress their emotion close to their heart. Men should never cry in public.  Expression of vulnerability  is a sign of a weak man.  Men are closed minded, rigid and structured. He should not seek fun .Men. Should always be in power, strive for control, compete.They lack empathy necessary for effective communication and connection.

In early days, male children joined their fathers in the river fishing or the forest haunting. Female spent their time with the mothers cooking. Each gender know his role. You hardly see a man in the kitchen or a girl hunting. Men learnt to act like men and women learnt to act like women.Then came the industrial era. Lands meant for farming and hunting was taking over by the government to build factory. The owners of the land were jobless.To offer compensation, the men were integrated as workers in this factory. Their male children were not allowed to follow dad to work.son stays at home with the mum while Dad went to work. Father leaves home as early as eight and comes home by six. He is exhausted, he sleeps to get strength for the next day. Fathers became absent in their son’s life. The role of dad in son life began to reduce while the role of mum in son life began to rise. Mummy passes over her feminine qualities to growing son.

Then came education. Female involvement in  education at an early age especially science and  law improve her reasoning abilities (masculinity) . Female take part in competitive games like the male counterpart. This improves their aggression.These women ended up as heads of organization.They took  decision and gave instructions . These women began to have a thirst of power . Their masculine qualities were awoken.

Girls  who enjoy highly competitive games with a desire to win also increases their aggression (masculinity). We tag such women names like Tomboy. They are ladies with highly developed masculine side and poorly developed feminine side.. Such masculine girls are attracted to  the beta guys. If a man is more masculine in nature,he will be attracted to a very feminine woman who will compliment his energy. Balance men prefer neutral women.. Masculine girls at attracted to a feminine guy or sisi or beta guy . Such guys are few as society teaches guys to wear the Alpha mask. She can only find solace among her fellow feminine women. This is the origin of homosexuality- . Heterosexual are no different from homosexual as both seek balance .

Society has widened this energy balance over the years. Civilisation is bring closing the gap. Homosexual are closer to achieving balance compared to heterosexual. Yet, Homosexuals feel guilty for not complying with society expectation. . There is nothing wrong with homosexuality, for it IS what is. However, we need to bear in mind that society at this time is traumatized due to so many centurie conditioned to comply with that. DO we want to fit in? Until WHEN? We need to learn to Love who we are, while allowing others to be what they want to be. Acceptance is the way of Life.

We should understand that each individual hold masculine and feminine qualities within us. When both qualities are not well alligned, the person is out of balance. The traditional gender roles over the years has created highly masculine males on one hand and highly feminine female on the other side.  we are drawn to certain individual that help us correct these imbalance. These highly masculine males become attracted to highly feminine female.

https://tobechispeaks./2020/09/23/sexual-imbalance/
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