Q

Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you

But you go accept the gift abi??

Arvelo:
But you go accept the gift abi??

I don't accept gifts from men,forget all I type here on Nairaland.

People don't like good ideas
People love money
Such is d ugliness of life
Rubbish life

Toks2008:
Dear men,

Don't ever think you can win a lady's heart by giving her money, or buying her gifts or taking her on expensive trips cos a woman's heart is very intrinsic and she can give it to any man she desires even if she does not get a dime from the man and trust me on this, if a lady truly wants you, she will need no monetary influence to be with you.

Men must also understand that except there is an established relationship between them and a lady or an agreement with a lady before they spend on her, she is not obliged to give anything in return regardless of how big you spend on her.... You made that choice.

So what is the point?

if you must give a lady money, please don't try to impress but give her only what you can afford and not the type of money that will drive you crazy if you get nothing back in return because ''MOST'' ladies are naturally wired to appreciate a monetary gift from a man not according to what a man can afford or the level of the sacrifice he makes but rather they compare what you give them with what another man can give or worse still what their friends get from their men.

Simply put... MOST ladies will see a gift of 75k from a guy who has only 150k in savings as nothing when they get 1M from a billionaire not minding the fact that the former sacrificed 50% of his life savings whilst the latter probably gave 0.00001% of his monetary worth.

This is why during a heated argument when a man tries to remind a lady of the financial sacrifices he made for her, she usually responds by saying "what have you done that another man can't do" or worse still "how much did you give me compared to what men are giving their women out there"

So guys please, no go dey do pass yourself..

those foolish boys won't listen, don't waste your advice, they will still spend half their salary on the girl and say it's their duty as a bf. their stupidity can't be cured.

. bunch of nice points.....

as for me,I only give any banny the kind amount of money and attention that won't give me sleepless nights in case if she changes her tone....
Gone are the days wey I dey mumu follow woman nyansh.........
these days,if you(babe) can't cross at least a pit for me, don't expect me to cross a gutter for you..


no body be mugu again

PoliticallyInco:
Give a lady money? How many ladies have given me money and who says I have to give a lady money.

These ladies have hands,legs and brains. So why should they be a charity case? God forbid I raise daughters this way. Just because nature gave you a few features to enable you bear babies, you have turned it into a commercial venture? If nature wanted you to rely on men so much it would have not provided you with arms, legs and a brain. One was quoted as saying girls are now wise, they are following the money. That is wisdom? Well okay. If stupid things make you happy who am I to talk. As long as you aren't getting the money from me and as long as you don't come complaining when your economic master that you are a slave to treats you like shit because he pays the bill, then I have no problems with your decision. Enjoy.

Or are we saying the society affects girls so much that they become mentally retarded at making ends meet? Are we saying the society has stunted their mental and psychological development to such a grave extent of mental retardation that they can't possibly work to make their own money and use it as they will. Was a curse placed on them never to make their own money and spend it how they like? Do they enjoy being economic slaves? Recently a lady said most young girls/students will die of hunger if married men remained faithful to their wives. While I am no saint, it is not that these girls will die of hunger. THEY WILL DIE FROM GREED! GREED FROM WANTING THINGS THEY CANT AFFORD AND HENCE NOT LIVING WITHIN THEIR MEANS.

Listen, If the lady isn't a minor or an aged relative then she is not getting a dime from me just like that. In other to get a dime she has to earn every penny of it by working twice or thrice as hard to earn it. It would not matter how many positions of the Kama Sutra you know, how good the head you give is, how wet you get when I slam into you from behind sending your juices splashing everywhere, or how good your food tastes, or how domesticated you are, or how saintly your character is. And oh I also don't kid myself that I am the best man out there. Just as you aren't the best woman either. So please make your own money and "eat" it alone. Let me make mine and enjoy it in peace with legit dependants. See ladies, there are a few ways to earn money from me and I promise you,you must work thrice as hard to earn it and secondly it isn't through any form of sexuality or the stereotypical gender roles of a lady.


I live for myself first, then my young and aged dependants next, then the less privileged, before I then consider a woman.

Bless up... Correct guy...

Zzor:
I don't accept gifts from men,forget all I type here on Nairaland.

Maybe you prefer the endowed gift

Well said

dorin27:
Well said

e touch you abi ?

Aaaaarghmed:
most women never show appreciation, when u have quarrel, the next thing she would say is.....what have you ever done for me.....not minding the fact that you emptied your account to send her money.All these scenarios made me stop doing anything to please a woman even though I have the money or financial muscle.If u ask me for 50k,I wud give you 5k.

Bros you still try sef, if na me she go suck my dick b4 she collect am...

Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you

. you way I dey see so.

This ia 9ja forum, why do u have Americans as photo??

Me l don't give any woman money for free ooo l place u you place me l gave her she gave me nothing else to want from a niggar. DMX

Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you

same here

I concur. Women are amazing beings. You can imagine a girl traveling kilometers to meet a guy who spends nothing on her, using the money of the one who spent thousands on her without giving him any attention as fare

My advice, give only what you can afford to a woman without expecting anything in return. And do not expect much from women in life. Give as if you're never going to remember again. Those who run after women in life don't get them. You can imagine a girl whom you have been chasing for years, only to visit you uninvited after you've given up the chase and when you asked what's she doing in your place , she says, so, now that I'm here, are you going to chase me away?

Thats women for you. Even your wife in the house. The moment you remind her of all you've done, you wan hear tori of your life be dat. Even if you still gave her 1m naira a day preceeding the tori, she go say, can you tell me one day you've ever done something for me since the beginning of this marriage ? If you begin counting, na wahala you dey try pull for leg be dat oo. She go say heen, wetin you don do, wey somebody else never do? women!

Toks2008:
Dear men,

Don't ever think you can win a lady's heart by giving her money, or buying her gifts or taking her on expensive trips cos a woman's heart is very intrinsic and she can give it to any man she desires even if she does not get a dime from the man and trust me on this, if a lady truly wants you, she will need no monetary influence to be with you.

Men must also understand that except there is an established relationship between them and a lady or an agreement with a lady before they spend on her, she is not obliged to give anything in return regardless of how big you spend on her.... You made that choice.

So what is the point?

if you must give a lady money, please don't try to impress but give her only what you can afford and not the type of money that will drive you crazy if you get nothing back in return because ''MOST'' ladies are naturally wired to appreciate a monetary gift from a man not according to what a man can afford or the level of the sacrifice he makes but rather they compare what you give them with what another man can give or worse still what their friends get from their men.

Simply put... MOST ladies will see a gift of 75k from a guy who has only 150k in savings as nothing when they get 1M from a billionaire not minding the fact that the former sacrificed 50% of his life savings whilst the latter probably gave 0.00001% of his monetary worth.

This is why during a heated argument when a man tries to remind a lady of the financial sacrifices he made for her, she usually responds by saying "what have you done that another man can't do" or worse still "how much did you give me compared to what men are giving their women out there"

So guys please, no go dey do pass yourself..

Say no more bro....you hit the nail very well and the roof will never leak..........gbayi baba nla

Petyprincess:
Please tell them o, girls like me can't be impressed with money, if you like spend from now till tomorrow,what matters is a good heart with fat pocket of course

What is the fat pocket needed for

Confused soul [quote author=Petyprincess post=94578581]Please tell them o, girls like me can't be impressed with money, if you like spend from now till tomorrow,what matters is a good heart with fat pocket of course [/quotpe]

Sonnobax15:
e touch you abi ?

J111333:
We nairaland men are broke so why advise us, abi pesin fit give wetin he no get?

I'm not broke...... because my account dey cry for help doesn't mean I'm broke...

PUNAengineOIL:
They always get mad when i reply their financial demands with the phrase "no money o, where I wan see dat kind money?"
Money spent on women is wasted, i knew this long time ago. If the money is too much please help your needy friends, they will praise you till eternity.

When these 2 people tell you to run, please just look for chair and sit down.

God bless you brother in the Lord

well...

dorin27:

na polar question na yes or no ?

Dear men, before you give a lady your money make sure you nack am. I pass!

Sonnobax15:
na polar question na yes or no ?

none of the above

Zzor:
You are somehow right, a man's money doesn't really move me,if you like buy me the most expensive gifts,if I don't like you,i won't still like you

passionberry:
same here

even with your billions,i will reject you without a second thought if you are a wayward man.

dorin27:
none of the above

e clear say you no know book.

Petyprincess:
Please tell them o, girls like me can't be impressed with money, if you like spend from now till tomorrow,what matters is a good heart with fat pocket of course

confused soul

makeherscream:
confused soul

you didn't understand her comment,shes just trying to point out the fact that she's not rulling out money.A man might have a fat pocket and you still don't dig him

passionberry:
same here

This your story be like fowl wey get teeth......I no believe you madam-one-chance