Family › Re: Most Fathers Today Are Losing Relevance In The Family by victons(m): 12:39am On Jul 21, 2020 |
xynerise: Yes, I said so.
If you are of the school of thought that providing for the family along automatically makes you a caring father, then you are among those that risk being irrelevant to your children.
If you look at most families today, the children hardly mention their fathers when making a reference to something inspiring. I mean quoting what your father once taught you or something positive you learnt while growing up. I am referring to fathers of our time.
Today, everything is about making money and paying the bills. That is not enough. How close are you to your children? It is always the mother that attends to issues that trouble the children today. Even though fathers source for solutions at the end but the children will always remember the person that discovered the problems, or at least care to know what the problem is.
How often do we call our kids, sit them down and ask them about the kind of challenges they face in life?
Some fathers hardly call their children (far from home) on phone except the mother does and maybe pass the phone to him. This has made some people to call mostly their mothers on phone and explain situations to her rather than the father who provides the money to solve the situations.
You can see that despite most fathers provide the money, yet the mothers get most of the appreciation.
My point is, we shouldn't be too focus on just making the money. Let us remember we are also making a family too. speak for yourself please. I even wonder how this bullshit made front page. |
Crime › Re: Man Beheads Colleague After Seeing His N13m Account Balance by victons(m): 11:47pm On Jul 17, 2020 |
heendrix: This is a case of Ipob killing Ipob it's not our business Alright .. the killer is Edo shaa |
Family › Re: Advise For A Woman Whose Husband Is Suffering From A Spinal Cord Injury by victons(m): 1:46am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Saintmary: Oh yes, I am biased. Why? I am biased because people remember for better or worse when women are in situations like this, but if it were the other way around, they will pat the man in the back. https://www.nairaland.com/3959073/divorce-journal but his point was clear, why are you still dragging it. |
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Real Madrid Are LA Liga Champions by victons(m): 1:18am On Jul 17, 2020 |
Congratulations to Madrid, VAR and REF |
Politics › Re: Seriake Dickson: In Defense Of The Nigerian Woman by victons(m): 1:46am On Jul 12, 2020 |
nice development though. I just hope men can equally represent their wife's state of origin. Benefits of marriage should be equal and not gender discriminatory. |
Christianity Etc › Re: TB Joshua: Cameroonian Doctor Healed Of COVID-19 Disease by victons(m): 1:32am On Jun 30, 2020 |
Makweembo: Points to note to confirm this is not an 'audio miracle'. 1. He's a medical doctor and wouldn't just put his reputation on the line for a claim without proof. 2. There are medical reports to verify the healing. 3. The way he reacted when he was prayed for was clearly supernatural - the involuntarily vomit, excessive sweat 4. He's speaking French, not English - yet God still touched him as the minister prayed because language is not a barrier to God's power. 5. He was in an isolation ward in hospital when he called for prayer.
This is a genuine miracle! mtcheeeeeeeeeeeeeew |
Food › Re: What Could Be The Cause Of These Rotten Eggs, Please? by victons(m): 2:19pm On Jun 26, 2020 |
Osmotouch: Mod, please help me move this to front page
I bought this crate of eggs not less than 2 weeks ago and after 5days the eggs started to change and on the 9th day this is the nature of the eggs. Am totally confused but my friend is suggesting that it could be because I covered it, and yesterday I saw the woman that sold to me and complained to her but she was surprised saying the remainder of the eggs is still here and nothing has happened to them.
Please I need answers because I bought a crate to save money. it's "...not more than 2weeks ago..." |
Politics › Re: Reasons APC NEC May Sack Oshiomhole, NWC Members On Thursday by victons(m): 10:20pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
e don happen |
Politics › Re: Edo APC And PDP Campaign Posters Of 2016 And 2020 by victons(m): 6:43pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Edo politicians shaa...ugly |
Politics › Re: Edo APC And PDP Campaign Posters Of 2016 And 2020 by victons(m): 6:42pm On Jun 24, 2020 |
Edo politicians shaa ugly |
Family › Re: Have You Ever Lost A Very Good Relationship Due To Genotype? by victons(m): 12:18am On Jun 23, 2020 |
Biglittlelois: So how do you ask a potential their rhesus factor seeing that not everyone knows anything like that? most Nigerians over 98% are positive already |
Politics › Re: "APC Edo Primaries Remain Postponed" - Giadom Writes INEC, DSS by victons(m): 2:00pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
SmartProf: I'm sure INEC is not even reading any of these shits being dropped by these confused beings a letter they already stamped as received |
Politics › Re: John Bolton: Trump Planned Stopping $1.5 Billion Aid To Nigeria – Ex-NSA by victons(m): 1:37pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
Olominira: Since that racist assumed white house, nothing closed to 1bn has been sent to Nigeria. Go and obtain the data does he owe you the billions? |
Sports › Re: Torino FC 'Black Lives Matter' Tweet That Got People Talking (Photo) by victons(m): 1:32pm On Jun 22, 2020 |
the pics shaa is a wrong choice |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: At What Age Did You Make Your First N100,000? by victons(m): 12:11am On Jun 22, 2020 |
18 |
Politics › Re: Godwin Maduka Celebrates His 61st Birthday by victons(m): 8:56am On Jun 21, 2020 |
I thought he's an anesthesiologist.
the post said surgeon... I might be wrong though |
Crime › Re: Two Men Arrested For Filming A 12-Year-Old Girl While Raping Her In Anambra by victons(m): 8:54am On Jun 21, 2020 |
fuckingAyaya: How do people enjoys rape? it's "how do people enjoy rape?" |
Politics › Re: Atiku, Wike, Okowa, Momodu React To Obaseki's Defection To PDP by victons(m): 8:09pm On Jun 19, 2020 |
,�� |
Travel › Re: Flood Takes Over Oshodi-apapa Expressway (photos) by victons(m): 4:28pm On Jun 18, 2020 |
federal road  |
Politics › Re: El-Rufai’s Email Saying Southern Women Youth Corpers Are Seen As Whores - Reno by victons(m): 9:03pm On Jun 14, 2020 |
I know El rufai have always being tribalistic, but this is supposed to be a personal email where he expressed his opinion. His words are not certainty, he said "...are seen as.." he didn't say "they are.." |
Politics › Re: APC Appeal Committee Upholds Disqualification Of Obaseki, 2 Others by victons(m): 8:54pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
already written script, Obaseki should seek other alternatives |
Politics › Re: Edo 2020: PDP Aspirants, Stalwarts Resist Obaseki by victons(m): 7:26pm On Jun 13, 2020 |
APC should tell us the exact inconsistencies in Obaseki's certificate first. |
Car Talk › Re: Photos Of Innoson Vehicles Purchased By UNIZIK by victons(m): 11:43pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
anambra amaka |
Crime › Re: Thunderstorm Kills 18 Kidnappers While Sharing Ransom In Adamawa by victons(m): 11:36pm On Jun 12, 2020 |
Thunder Amaka |
Politics › Re: Why Maduka Should Take Over From Obiano- Survey by victons(m): 8:02pm On Jun 10, 2020 |
he's shown capacity, I hope he joins a party that can win. |
Nairaland General › Re: A Nairaland Medical Student Writes A Poem To His Senior Colleagues On Workers' D by victons(op): 11:04am On Jun 10, 2020 |
ZhiosonWind: nice rhymes
Together our hearts will gell thanks broh. |
Politics › Re: Senate Moves To Tackle Erosion In South-East (Video) by victons(m): 9:50pm On Jun 09, 2020 |
welcomed |
Nairaland General › A Nairaland Medical Student Writes A Poem To His Senior Colleagues On Workers' D by victons(op): 7:35pm On May 01, 2020 |
I decided to appreciate my senior colleagues in the frontline of this pandemic with a little piece Read;
Happy (Health) Workers' Day
The momentous Victims Who make the big sacrifice With distorted life rhythms Unintentionally paying the price
Although he announced his banns But in his profession, he wouldn't slack With a legion matrimonial plans Told his old lady he'll be back
When the pandemic is over And the clan weep for a brother At least, commemorate the aider Who willingly laid on the alter
Together our hearts will gell Collègues Seniors,I wish you well.
Onyeka, N. Victor The medic and the ink
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Crime › Re: Police Officers Fight Over Bribe In Edo State (Video) by victons(m): 9:29pm On Apr 23, 2020 |
Which way Nigeria |
Family › Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by victons(m): 4:26pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
allow her to get the car... she is worth it |
Health › Re: Doctor Assaults Senior Nurse In FMC, Owerri by victons(m): 10:13pm On Jan 28, 2020 |
This story is obviously one sided |