Crime / Re: Bishop Burnt Alive, His Son Beheaded As Cross River Communities Renew War by victons(m): 11:29am On Jan 30, 2022 |
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Politics / Re: Orji Kalu Visits Sani Musa Over APC Chairmanship (Photo) by victons(m): 3:26pm On Jan 24, 2022 |
O setigo. |
Romance / Re: My Girlfriend Doesn't Want Sex Anymore by victons(m): 9:34am On Jan 24, 2022 |
Efe42: Hello guy's good evening I'm kind off little weird asking such here but I need little advice guy's I meet this girl some year's ago let's say 2 but we're just friends back then, but time flies as there say probably fast - ward to November last year we meet again this time I took her my place of resident we talk alot the following day she came we had s*x.
So she keep coming and before then I've break up with my ex girlfriend she's too proud and she's always like what's trending and I can't take's her shit any more I call for break up but my current girlfriend is very cool and gentle but so attractive.
But now she said she doesn't want sex anymore that' sex is waken her in her spiritual life prayers really hard except if I'm ready to see her parents introduction!!
I've already told her I can't be in a very were sex is unavailable but I still love her Matured minds pls...
I struggled to understand the story. |
Culture / Re: Ikeja Installs New Monarch, Begins Traditional Rites For 9-Year Empty Palace by victons(m): 12:17pm On Jan 23, 2022 |
What happens to the sons of the brothers who missed out of the throne... Are they still gonna be entitled to it Indeed, the quest for power does not have ethnicity. 7 Likes 1 Share |
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Education / Re: Student Slit Neck Of Junior Colleague Over Refusal To Run Errand In Maiduguri by victons(m): 5:17pm On Jan 21, 2022 |
Things dey sup oo 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: Photos Of Husaifa Adam, NGO Worker Who Raped A Virgin In IDP Camp by victons(m): 9:05am On Jan 20, 2022 |
helinues:
You this lady, stop using a sin of one man to judge all men
Too much of everything ain't good at all Don't give her that attention please. |
Crime / Re: Houses Belonging To IPOB/ESN Members Set Ablaze By Nigerian Soldiers (video) by victons(m): 7:37pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
after4: So ESN now have houses with tiles? Every madness get end So decent house is reserved for your bandits alone. |
Politics / Re: INEC Responds To Tinubu’s PVCs Claim, Says Permanent Voter Cards Still Valid by victons(m): 7:35pm On Jan 19, 2022 |
Dementia 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Chinmark Investors Cry Out For Help; Say "We Want Our Money Back" by victons(m): 8:15am On Jan 19, 2022 |
Jay5mie: I have no pity for stupid and greedy people.
Next please. Stupid and greedy? Are you Okay? |
Family / Re: Is This True Love Or Foolishness? (Photo) by victons(m): 9:18am On Jan 14, 2022 |
From human to masquerade? |
Politics / Re: Resign Now, You Are A Failure - Imo APC Tells Rochas Okorocha by victons(m): 11:18am On Jan 08, 2022 |
APC is confused in Imo state. |
Celebrities / Re: Davido's New House In Banana Island: Pictures & Video by victons(m): 10:25am On Jan 07, 2022 |
Rain no go beat the sofa outside? 2 Likes |
Crime / Re: Gunmen Bomb Police Headquarters In Imo by victons(m): 10:23am On Jan 07, 2022 |
What Buhari triggered. |
Crime / Re: Househelp Who Fled With Her Madam's Son In Lagos Arrested In Ogun by victons(m): 10:14pm On Jan 04, 2022 |
Wahaleux 1 Like |
Food / Re: What's Your First Meal Of The Year by victons(m): 6:05pm On Jan 01, 2022 |
Okpa |
Family / Re: My Ex Wife Wants To Kill My Pregnant Girlfriend by victons(m): 5:25pm On Dec 30, 2021 |
Unique357: My wife left me when I lost everything. She took our two children with her and has blocked me everywhere. I couldn't reach her to speak with my children. I have tried reaching her parents to no avail.
But now that things are going well for me, my brother in law lifted me and I am back to business and I have a girlfriend we are getting married next year march by God's grace.
Now my ex is back in the picture making life difficult for my girlfriend. She is blackmailing her and bombarding her with nasty messages to the extend of humiliating her in public, calling her all sorts of names like husband snatcher etc. I am angry with her because she has left me when I needed her the most and this girlfriend stood by me with my poor conditions and now she wants to play victim and putting the blame on my girl.
I want to arrest her and let her rot in jail but on the other side I don't want to do it for the sake of our children who are 10 years and 7 years. I want to deal with her in a calm way because there are children involved . What do you think I should do? Who is the brother in law that lifted you? Your ex's brother? |
Romance / Re: How My Ex Humiliated Me On Christmas Eve by victons(m): 5:32pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
deewhydoski: Ladies should start coming out and tell us how guys maltreat them... Let us hear it, we want to learn from it. Don't leave guys to be doing it alone here on this plat form You're still trying not to be wicked? Breakfast awaits you. |
Romance / Re: Close Eyes And Marry Her With Her Past by victons(m): 12:12pm On Dec 29, 2021 |
cutecommend: Looking for a decent girl today is not as so easy. We have decent and God-fearing ladies, and we have many ladies who have sex. Before you meet your wife, she might have had several sexual partners, probably met bad guys, probably done lots of bad stuff.... You will just have to close your eyes, ignore the past and move to marry her like that... Nonsense post. 1 Like |
Fashion / Re: Stunning Photos Of Most Beautiful Girl In Abuja 2021 Contestants by victons(m): 11:54am On Dec 29, 2021 |
Jaw dropping |
Romance / Re: My Lady Made A Mess At A Hotel by victons(m): 11:00am On Dec 29, 2021 |
slimjohn2k5: You would HV listened to her side of the story.
Then process it for sometime before letting her go
I saw most of us saying he should not, but it's prejudice to conclude. As much as we all deserve fair hearing, we should give to others.
Imagine police start arresting you because of your looks.
He should HV known his girl that this is the time for her menses unless it changes. Did she discuss before hand she will stay long When he suspected the guys move earlier, at what point did he loose guard and they exchanged number. I see he was dropping the plate just to know where she went And she didn't bother to call again |
Celebrities / Re: Precious Chikwendu: I Am Actually A “Mami Water” (Photo, Video) by victons(m): 11:35am On Dec 27, 2021 |
Anything for attention. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Businesswoman Climbs On Client's Car For Refusing To Pay For Services by victons(m): 7:33am On Dec 20, 2021 |
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Politics / Re: Gunmen Kidnap Eze Damian Nwaigwe (Traditional Ruler Of Mbutu, Imo State) by victons(m): 5:42pm On Dec 09, 2021 |
Nawa ooo |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Rather Make N8M A Year Working For Myself Than N82M Working For Someone Else by victons(m): 11:55am On Dec 04, 2021 |
Some "independent" persons still go broke later, and at any time. 2 Likes |
Jobs/Vacancies / Re: I Rather Make N8M A Year Working For Myself Than N82M Working For Someone Else by victons(m): 11:53am On Dec 04, 2021 |
Motivational speakers again. 23 Likes |
Education / Re: Child At Home, Beast In School? by victons(m): 11:44am On Dec 04, 2021 |
EmekaStanley: I watched with annoying disgust the video of a young boy who was wriggling in pains on a hospital bed due to the brutality meted out to him at school by his follow school mates. Story has it that he was tortured by a group of boys who were cultists. because he refused to join them.
The boy's dad said the cult boys came to his room and started beating him and stomping on him, after which they gave him a substance to drink. Eventually the boy died. This is too much to happen in a secondary school.
Bullying has been a hydra-headed beast from long ago. I also suffered while I was a boarder in a secondary school somewhere in Southern Part of Nigeria.
I had a couple of bad cases but the most painful of them all and that which has stuck in my memory was with the case of a senior student then, called Niyi Lasisi. That's his real name. I don't know if he is on this platform but if this goes viral whereby he sees it, I'd love it.
Niyi made me and a fellow roommate of mine engage ourselves in a marathon slap over a disagreement I had with the roommate. The worst of it all was that Niyi made sure that the slaps were heavy on the 'receiver' else the 'giver' will receive an extra slap as a penalty. It was brutal and arguably the most traumatic experience I had as a Junior student.
I almost quit school even though I was just a beginner but for some reason my Dad allowed me to choose if I wanted to quit or not and I chose to stay. If I see Niyi today, I'll look him straight in the eyes and tell him, "You know what Niyi, You really sucked, I don't know if you still suck now though".
My Dad visited and noticed my bad looking cheeks, he took me to my guardian who also doubled as my housemaster but that was the last I heard of anything about it.
There are many 'Niyis' in our boarding schools; Students who see nothing in deriding and brutalizing their fellow students. They go home and exhibit signs of this anti social behaviors and the parents see nothing of a big deal out of it, thereby releasing them to cause problems for others.
What manner of effrontery would warrant a set of secondary school students to damn repercussions and torture a fellow student up to the extent that the student has visible marks of torture and eventually dying as a result of it. You can imagine how deadly they'll become by the time they get to the University.
Their acts were dastardly and it speaks terribly about the culture in the school; the school might be breeding unwholesome kids for the society. It is good news that the Lagos State Government has shut down the school indefinitely.
Investigations should be carried out to determine the extent of this menace in that school and all those found culpable in the boy's death should be made to face the law squarely.
As a parent, what are you doing in order to introduce a wholesome human being in to the society? Please do not leave the moral upbringing of your child or ward in the hands of the school, you do not know what is going on in the school.
It is great to give your child the best in education but providing all their needs do not make up for their discipline and good upbringing. Your child is your primary gift to the nation; they either contribute positively to it or they drag it in the mud and it is your responsibility as a parent to put this right.
Paying heavily for school fees is not where the job ends, you might just be paying to have a terror disturb the peace of other kids in same school...literally.
The nation is where it is today because of the family values inculcated in those who have ruled this nation from the onset till now. There is no point pointing one finger at the government for them to do things right whereas the other 4 fingers of yours are pointing back at you saying, "Okay...yeah you are right but what about your own kids, what are doing to make them better"?
You can't be complaining of a bad nation yet you are putting little or no effort in training 'nationable' kids. Your biggest national responsibility is to hand over a roundly trained citizen to the government....that's all. And who are the government? It's you, me and everyone else.
Now you as a parent, don't send your kids to school only to have some ill-mannered untrained kid bully them for you. How can you do this? Encourage your kids to speak up and speak out no matter how threatened they may be. Ask them questions and demand answers. If you find anything suspicious, scream down the roof, shout, go to the school and make a hell of noise.
Become a lioness defending her cub.
Involve the social media, talk to the police, the lawyers or anyone that can hear you at that time. Don't go pursuing money while your child is being wrecked in school.
This nation has got to be better and it starts from the family circle. If more people put their families right, it will translate to a better nation.
ES
This is an post is exquisite. I can not forget my own experience as far back as my Primary 2. I heard the boy is late now. And then, the beast I had in secondary school, Marcel Onwuka, I heard he's still terrible till now. |
Sports / Re: Three Reasons Why Messi Shouldn't Have Won The Ballon Dor Award (Opinion) by victons(m): 10:45pm On Nov 30, 2021 |
So can you compare Sweden and Slovakia to Uruaguay and Chile 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Ekiti Boys Accused Of Stealing Eye Drops For Their Father Released From Prison by victons(m): 9:28am On Nov 17, 2021 |
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Foreign Affairs / Re: Islamic State Group Claims Responsibility For Uganda Bombings by victons(m): 9:16am On Nov 17, 2021 |
As usual. 1 Like 1 Share |
Crime / Re: Chidinma Ojukwu Arrives Court Today Looking All Fresh (Photos) by victons(m): 3:39pm On Nov 16, 2021 |
The comments here are quite sickening. Lose persons quickly forgot the crime and started talking about physical appearance.
Y'all can keep grooming more killers. 50 Likes 3 Shares |
Events / Re: Woman Who Had 10 Kids With 10 Different Men Buried In Penis-Like Casket (Video) by victons(m): 12:47am On Nov 15, 2021 |
She's like many other girls... Only difference is that she had the baby. |