Evii:
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Thanks for the insight and enlightenment

You welcome

Graceful to God for changing my life under fee years of sufferness. To God be all glory and praise. Amen �

Evii:


Thanks a lot...is this in anyway connected to cyber security?

Inside Cloud Computing, she will do Cyber security. It is all encompassing course and the job prospect is very high. She will be happy she did later.

Evii:


A colleague is planning of relocating to the UK and his wife is planing on learning an I.T skill here but don't k ow which branch to go into, could you please advice?

Let her start from Desktop Support and after that, she can go into server Administration like Cloud Computing. She can make www.udemy.com her best friend. She can learn many hands on training from that site. I wish her goodluck

handsomeyitayo:
Good day nairaland,

I have this my ex girlfriend that just gave birth and she do call me at times to send her money, .. and come to think of it ,she has fought me before and also insult hell out of me that time I am still searching for job, telling me I don't have money to care for her..she left me though she had a baby girl for me of which I do send money for her feeding and school fees...but she will call me that she needed some money that I should send for her...to eat is difficult, she is doing creche job that they pay her token even where she stays with her husband is her husband friends house and that one had drove them away one night ..I have to send money to her to lodge in an hotel due to pregnancy ...the same husband did not show care at all dump her aside..I ask her about the whereabout of her husband she will say I should forget him, ....I told her can't she go to her husband family house ..she said no...

Even the naming ceremony self dey did...only the husband came..and it was this my baby mama father that just organise menu for the naming ceremony...

But I do send some money to for the sake of my daughter...

I do remember those days we were together ,she will be insulting me , talking to me mannerless ...

We fought then because she dates guys arround then until I broke up with her...

Now she do call for me to send money to her ...but I don't know what to do, I don't like insulting or shouting on someone because she needs help....but I only do for the sake of my daughter...but should I stop.the husband is not serious about her ....

And this my baby mama is stubborn.. hypertensive lady ..

But if I remember those days, is as if I should remind her... and I will stop sending her money.but as a Christian I just use church mind...

If she ask me for money, I do feel pity...

Should I stop or continue assisting her...

I hope it is your daughter that wrote this and not actually you. Do you need nairaland verdit to know what you should do? For crying out loud, there is more favour to a giver than a receiver. The more you give the more your coast of blessings open. Besides, she is having your daughter. If you have money, give her because bible instructed us to do so and not because of the lady. She is in need now and put yourself in her shoes. Women generally are like that and it takes a diplomatic men to role with them. Two longs do not solve an issue. Give her the help she needs if you have the means and God will surely open more doors and ways for you.

Differentiate:

I didn't attack you bro you mistake me for someone else. Kindly check the moniker again..

My appolgy �..

viktohmarkz:


You can get them via DHL, UPS or GIGM
Which ever that you can find around you

Please, DM your number

Differentiate:

In as much as I view your write up as discouragement
I also pick up sense in it too..Its not easy anywhere.some folks here in naija are living far better than those in Austria.
The best thing to do when immigrating to another country is to prepare and go on the right visa.

You just gave the summary of my write up. Why the attack on your first comment since you understand to this extent.

Fidelismaria:

This statement above as become anthem for y'all that are abroad.

I still don't understand why you Nigerians in diaspora say it all the time, we that live in Nigeria are on our own too, no financial helper here too.

Goodluck then. A wise person will seek for more wisdom and knowledge than putting up an argument to appear reasonable.

Andercruz:


I've actually sent you d nairaland mail. I may not know any other way to DM u on this platform except d nairaland mail...if there's any other way, u could enlighten me on that.

benwilsonnneji@gmail.com...dat's still my email address.

tanviet805@gmail.com

OpemipoDoyin:

Please what's your Email ?

tanviet805@gmail.com

Saskay44:
u no dy naija buh u day discourage other pple make Dem no comot for naija rubbish....y u no study for 1 uni for here mumu u run go get better education abroad come enter naira land day write long epistle

My first degree and masters where all gotten in Nigeria before I travelled. I got myself prepared for the journey and I came the best way anyone can. If you are not ready to come in the right way, Nigeria is stilla paradise compare to what you where meet over here. A word is enough for a wise man

Andercruz:



I've actually sent you d nairaland mail. I may not know any other way to DM u on this platform except d nairaland mail...if there's any other way, u could enlighten me on that.

benwilsonnneji@gmail.com...dat's still my email address.

Just sent you mail now

Naijaolosho2:


Shut up your mouth with your long epistle,I would have believed u if you were in Nigeria and you're saying the bolded.

That is why understanding basic English language is important. Keep disgracing yourself on the social media

viktohmarkz:


Thank you,
You can check out my space
https://www.nairaland.com/6773257/8ball-apparel

Thats 8Ball Apparel on the fashion Section

What s beautiful products. I like them but the issue is how do I get them

Saskay44:
u no dy naija buh u day discourage other pple make Dem no comot for naija rubbish....y u no study for 1 uni for here mumu u run go get better education abroad come enter naira land day write long epistle

This will be my last reply to you. Go back to school and learn the use of diction before I can teach you what you need to do. Simple English language, you can't understand and that is why you are writing unethical

Valuc:
a country will make you or break you.. it all depend on you.. it's better you are in a country where it's hard but there are opportunities than this shitty hole call Nigeria... U had as much as 13000 yet u left..

I never discouraged anyone from travelling. I am only pointing out what one should equip him or herself before making the move. Alot came with little or no preparation and the obvious is happening to them now. If you have all it takes to travel and you are willing to, you wouldn't come and be frustrated.

Saskay44:
Most useless thread on nl

It is your type that will start blaming your agent when you meat the opposite on your arrival. A wise man always seek for wisdom. Stop showing your low level of understanding and seek for knowledge.

Andercruz:


Hello Dear, I would love to have some conversations with you.... here's my email address: benwilsonnneji@gmail.com.

If it's more convenient I reach u, u could drop d channel you feel is fit to reach u...My kind regards.

Thanks and you can send me a DM

viktohmarkz:


Thank you so much,
I'll really love to experience abroad and be a Nigerian in the abroad, am very tired of being a Nigerian in Nigeria i swear

God will see you through. Amen �

donhils:

What is with you people abroad always trying to discourage others from coming? It's better to stay in Nigeria yet any time they come back, they'll still rush back to where they came from. The guy wants to japa, if you can help him, do it. When Nigeria is better tomorrow let him be among those guys who may decide to come back, but for now Nigeria is not good!

Point anywhere in my post i discouraged anyone from travelling. I said that people should weigh their options before travelling. If you are not financially viable, you better stay back in Nigeria and hold onto what you have been doing.

Misterdhee1:

This should be written in gold, but trust some to still go ahead and learn bitterly.

Thank you for your kind words and comprehending my assertion

Limassol:
The irony is this guy indirectly discouraging migration lives in Austria(one of the most developed country in the world). UNLESS YOU RELOCATE PERMANENTLY TO NIGERIA, NOBODY WILL TAKE WHAT YOU SAY SERIOUSLY.

I am not discouraging anyone either. If you want to come, I can guild you on the processes involved without charging a dime. All I am saying is to be prepared both financially and emotionally before making the move. Austria is a nice place depending on how you come. I wish you goodluck bro

golddeejay:
Nigeria is a paradise. Why are you not in paradise instead of Abroad? Just shut up.

If you are a literary giant, you would have understood my write up instead of attacking it. I wish you goodluck brother

Mandela887:
Please I wish to relocate, which country are u?...is life better in d country u are?...how much can bring me there?

Your best bet is to come as a student. Any country in Sheghen is cool. Canada, Australia, USA and other good countries are great place to migrate to , if you have the Financial capacity

Oppnas:
Please how much is required as proof of funds

My prove of fund when I came to this place is €13000 deposited in your account

OmoWorld:
Please can you answer the question from VEXT
(Are you in Nigeria presently)






quote author=Vietnaminfo post=106238061]I am writing to advise our brothers in Nigeria, who will like to come abroad. Please, ignore my grammatical or typographical mistakes and pick out the admonitions i am going to give. One thing you need to ask yourself is, what is my purpose of travelling abroad? What are my long and short term goals. What skills do I have to offer. Am I financially viable? Don't run from flying pan to fire. Don't listen to the advise from your agent. Make your candid researches on the country you wish to travel to. Don't travel because of what you see guys displaying on Facebook. Most of those guys will only wear nice cloths and snap in a good car or in a good setting just to lure you to send money to do visa for you. If you see what sime Nigerians are passing through to survive because they where deceived by their agents, you will know that Nigeria is paradise. If you decide to travel after asking yourself an obvious questions, make sure you come through study or direct employment. Dont be deceived to come on Visiting or bussiness visas, you will regret it. You can't work with Visiting visa. The chances of integrating into the system is limited. Don't get loan thinking you will pay immediately you reach your destination. These advise is what agent can't tell you because they need your money. Have you ask yourself, if abroad is good as those agents paint them, why are they in Nigeria and never want to travel. There are so many people in Nigeria that are richer than many guys in abroad. There are guys sleeping in a garden, many are sleeping in a train station, many are living with a woman old enough to be their grand mother, many are passing out time in a bar or club. So many can't afford a meal let alone a square meal. All that glitters are not gold. Rents in abroad is monthly and not yearly. The amount to pay yout monthly rent is enough to pay for one year rent in Nigeria. Remember that if you will get a job as a student, you are only permited to work 20 hours a week which is just to pay for your rent, medical insurance, feed and maybe buy grocery. Remember you will stay 3 to 6 months before you can get a job depending on grace that follows you. There is no financial helper in abroad. Everyone is on your own. The earlier you know the truth the better you make an informed decision. I never said that coming abroad is bad but make a concrete plans towards that and don't come with the mindset that there are jobs and money everywhere. There are our brothers and sisters that are doing well in Medical and IT sections. Dont be deceived that lots of white women like black men. Don't be deceived that you will get who to marry immediately you come. Most of the women that like black men are old enough to be your mother. The reason for this write up is just to advice us, so you can make a good research before you live a paradise and come to hell fire. I wish you goodluck in whatever decisions you come up with.

I am not in Nigeria. I travelled for studies. Why I used this quotation because of some our brothers condition in abroad. Most guys that are incapacitated here are seeing abroad as hell fire and Nigeria as paradise due to the fact that they are limited with many things here. When you don't have a house to lay your head, you don't have upto €50 in your account, you don't have money to feed, the police is after you . What do you term such condition? My advice is that people that wants to come abroad should make researches on the country they want to come, have the financial capacity to weigh the options. I am not discouraging anyone from coming to abroad

Sirmuel1:



If you want to help someone, HELP HIM! Nigeria is a mess.
Anywhere outside Nigeria is 10x better.

If you need my advice, I can give it to you free of charge. I know how many people on Nairaland I have counselled and they are happy today.

Charmingrascal:


"If Nigeria better tommorow" is a future impossible tense

Hahahahahha......� � � � it is really Terible

EgunMogaji2:


You'll get labelled as an enemy of progress

I have already seen that bro...� � �...you know some people don't want to hear the raw truth. When they travel unprepared, na body go tell them. Anyone who has the capacity to travel can do so and that is the summary of my advice