₦airaland Forum

Weah96:
I've felt like this since the age of 9. You get used to it. The worst part is when people tell me about a recent death, I tell them that the deceased is lucky to be dead already. Life is like a PHD program and death is the Thesis you write at the end. You cannot graduate without completing your thesis, so if someone dies, to me he has finished his 2200 page thesis, leaving me to write mine.

The fun is in finding something you like to do, someone you love. That's why we have kids. By the time you're done fooling around with them, it will be time to go.

oweniwe:
What is inside blow-jub that this guy will die if he no get sef?

So if your dodolondo is not sucked you can't have piece of mind?

Na wa

Timbuktuo:
Look, I've come to realise people will do what they want and coming to nairaland for advice is mostly just look for an echo chamber She already has her mind made up and wants to be told she's right. Another aspect, though, is hubby also has his mind made up, and they both have divergent opinions on how their personal and family finances should be run. The interesting thing is to see how it all plays/works out in the end.

Some of the sistren have even cited the economy. Oshey, Buharinomics is now a potent alibi!!! . You really cannot make this up. One minute we are equal, the next, they are just housewives trying to save for a rainy day. This is hypocrisy gold.

jajajaja828:
the source of the news is funny, blackberrybabes.com so house of rep care about us. did i collect money from them. if i loose money is it their own. wicked generation. they dont want nigerians to buy cars like them. they suppose to be concentrating on economic plsn, thats what happen when jobless people enter the house of assembly to embezzle the public fund.

RaeMystix:
Canada immigration has posted via twitter that all immigrants are welcome; Australia isn't bad either.

chubbygal:
Yea! Same here in life camp Efab Estate I got a very good self contain for 300k against 400k I use to pay .

Timbuktuo:
But he knows how much you earn? Oh, wait, he doesn't know either. Which would explain his sudden attempts at research and interrogation. You do realise youre as guilty as he on financial secrecy, right? Right?

And they said love was all you needed when getting married. Madam, do you not love your husband again? Or is this what your brand of love demands?

cococandy:
Life happens.

Even if you had a healthy sized piggy bank, you wouldn't still be able to afford same lifestyle as long as the same income doesn't keep coming.

At most if might have paid that year's fees, rent, start a business if you're so inclined or whatever else needs to be done immediately after which you'll still need to downgrade.

Accept your new normal and try to make it work. Contentment is key to happiness.

Mimzyy:
Smh for you. But you have been his blind follower all along

Mimzyy:
Not surprised. He's always been fake.

Nobody is perfect.

ItsQuinn:
Op, your wife is not going to listen to you and she's not going to change anytime soon, she's already made her mind up. The only thing you can do is to let her be and let her learn from her experience, let nature or karma take hold.....or if you're very impatient to wait for your wife to change, just opt for a divorce. Simple!

I always Lmao whenever I read Your comments.

Bluetooth2:
This is why you cant compare [b]iPhone [/b]and Samsung with Techno and other rubbish low phones that flood Nigeria.

Iphone is quality+class.

Ayokunleayoolashakirudeen:
Any good news?

RaeMystix:
May God help us. Seems like Trump might get impeached and Pence will end up becoming the next president.Hopefully

Impeached for what biko? Start booking Your flight back to Nigeria. We must all suffer together.

RaeMystix:
God is watching TB Joshua ooo...All those revelations he was sharing.

clerkent:
yes nah like bubu fixed our election by kidnapping the chibok girls. now he is releasing them one by one to take all the glory

RaeMystix:
You're actually very wrong.

RaeMystix:
Clinton is currently in the lead: 209 to 187

martyns303:
Meyn!!! Just felt chills down my spine.... I have been in ur shoes so I know exactly how it feels. I want to share some points

# "the only good girl is the one who haven't been caught". I bet never in a 1000 years would you have believed she could do such a thing, I mean after 5yrs.

# I believe you guys stay far from each other which created enough room for her to cheat for 2yrs without you noticing. Distance is always a problem.

# Generation gap (age difference), you are 9yrs older than her, she started cheating when she was 23yrs old, she was young and was looking to have fun. You will be shocked to find out that the guy she's cheating with is a 25-27yrs old skinny undergraduate, who is way below your level. you would even ask yourself what she saw in the guy.

# women always have multiple suitors, so don't think u were the only one. She loves you, but love the other guy too. I have a first hand experience of a girl coming to sleep with her BF on a Friday while the following day Saturday is her wedding. If only the groom knows.

# I know you would be asking yourself, at 34 where do u start building a new relationship. You built a good relationship for 5yrs, u know her, ur comfortable around her, you understand each other. And now its all gone.

# The other guy knows she have a serious date, so they were just f*cking, and she's playing you for a Sapp.

# if you forgive her, you will never forget, it will hunt you for as long as you two are together and the relationship will eventually die.

# My advice is for you to move on, "no trust" is too much baggage to carry around, forget her crying, yes I know you feel weak seing her cry, but be strong. She's only sorry she got caught. 1yr from now u'll be happier and probably married.

# don't forget to tell us how it goes