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chimpo26:
funny enough I ve adapted, sokoto. pcm batch A 2016. I know most of u would ve gotten little tips about sokoto n it's environment.They say itz the most peaceful northern state,it is the safest. yea,with what we ve seen,i guess it is. sokoto wammako camp is a cool place n much better wen compared to other camps. during our camping (batch 2016 B),we didn't lack water n light,soldiers where more friendly,compared to what we hear in other camps. Our stay in wammako camp was fun n I hope u guyz ve same experience as we did. But the weather ain't friendly at all,d heat is pretty much n at this time alittle unbearable. For those that enjoy taking alcohol, it is highly restricted, but u could still get access to it within the barracks environment n few hotels close to barracks. Selling of alcohol in camp is not allowed bt one could still get access to alcohol from some sellers in a 'coded' way,n with time it could be a little open n very accessible in camp as d stay continues. The key to survival in sokoto is adaptation n mostly to d weather. Am a batch B 2015 Corp member, serving in sokoto

firstking01:
How and why??

SSpeter:
Bros you use the lady meet up or na mistake...I have never seen a guy doing very ok financially in Nigeria wey marry him egbon....I no say you go deny no bother quoting me

LAGATA:
Woow! That's the best of all marriages. My wife is 3years older than me and wev bn married for two years now without any hitch. She so humble, patient, matured, caring, loving & the best woman I have met. Thou once in a while I feel so unsecure but she's just so caring and understanding. I must say that since we got married till date she always kneel down on her two knees to greet me in the mornings, welcome me with a deep hug when I return from work, unbutton my shirt then goes to dish my meal while I have a cold shower. I must say am lucky... So guys don't feel discouraged as not all older ladies have that 'big woman' or 'elder sister' attitude

firstking01:
Meaning you dnt give guys a second chance??....

firstking01:
Meaning you will do worse na

samsam2019:
5 Dating Etiquettes That Will Keep You Happy In A Relationship



That's the title of your thread



Follow your advise and stop disturbing us

ifex370:
Better be

ifex370:
So must u laf cos is funny

firstking01:
Ifa hear...that's what you guys usually say.

DanceVille:
Being unmarry should be a very special time for you; A time to study and learn; To think about what you would like to do in the future; To develop friendships; And to grow into the kind of person you want to be as an adult.This is an exciting time for you to discover the opposite sex buh without having to deal with the complications of being involved in sexual activity.

Dating can be a lot of fun without sex! Getting into the sexual scene can short-circuit the growth you need to become a mature adult!.

Don't be afraid you will lose him or her if you say "NO" to sex.If your boyfriend wants you only for your physical self, then they aren't worth it.

Ten Good Reasons Why You Shouldn't Indulge In Sex When You Haven't Marry.

1. First of all, you won't ever have to worry about getting pregnant, you will never experience the fear and anxiety of having to tell your parents, "I'm pregnant.." or "I got my girlfriend pregnant".Pregnancy should be a happy announcement after marriage.

2. You will never have to worry about getting "STD"[Sexually Transmitted Disease].

3. You'll be free to grow emotionally, psychologically, intellectualy and spiritually.

4. You will feel good about yourself, knowing that you didn't give in to your partner pressure.

5. By not falling into "the sex-trap" , you're building your psychological strength and self-esteem.

6. You will be setting an example for others, siblings, friends and people around you, showing them that sexual activity can be avoided.

7. You will be protecting your own reputation, no lady wants to be known as "Loose" or "Olosho", no guy wants the reputation of being a "Stud" or "Maniaks".

8. You will known for certain that he or she cares about you for who are and not just for your physical person.

9. You will be free to channel your energies into healthy activities such as Reading, Studies, Sports, etc.

10. The last buh not least... You will learn not confuse love with sex.Sex can be spontaneous and brief (A One Night Stand).Love takes time to grow and lasts forever.

NB
I created this thread to advice everyone(Both Gender) not to think "Sex is Love" before marriage.A guy can have sex with you today and dump you tomorrow.And will always badmouth you infront of his friends.

Say No To Sex Before Marriage..

I drop my pen at this juncture.


Most of them need to be advice on why not to have sex before marriage.

ifex370:
Y did one con de laf

firstking01:
hope you wnt do such to your boo?

firstking01:
I 've done that since the moment she started misbehaving.

firstking01:
Listen up girl...i dnt do the things i critizise and i dnt critisize the things i do...i'm never an hypocrite...she's the first ever girl i 've given my heart to...well, i dnt blame her sha.

feldido:
Chai, u wicked!

firstking01:
It ain't funny girl...

layla129:
Lol, uncountable to go

ifex370:
A heart break can be very painful both physically n emotionally... I think a muscle in the heart actually tears

firstking01:
This is one aspect of my being i hate


Just fighting so hard to put myself together....really been decades i felt this hurt, and this is why i hate bringing out my heart to love any girl

Toks2008:
Does real love exist? can we ever meet someone in life who will love us genuinely? Is there anything like mutually balanced love?

Many people have searched for love in many ways and at different locations.Some are so desperate to find it while some are calm about it.

But in all my years on earth,I have come to realize that indeed you can meet someone who will love you genuinely but the truth is that people who search for real love hardly finds it because they tend to focuss in the wrong direction.

Just be yourself,be sensitive,get busy with your life and Love will surely find you when and where you may never expect it.

Jalubarika:
Yea I'm still at her, check my signature

ndcide:
Some people just want to believe that all guys are engaging in illicit and reckless sex. Hence, they add it to every statement they make relating to the need for people to want Virgins or the need for people to be chaste and remain sexually pure.

There are people who have not kissed the feet of bal.
I believe in chastity and don't see any disadvantage in it.

Like I always say, people will always react to this issue based on their weaknesses.

Why should a guy not be a Virgin and why should he not desire to marry a Virgin?

Abegy... If everyone is reckless about sex and they want to justify it, shouldn't something tell you that something is wrong somewhere? and it's most likely evil?

EagleEyes001:
virgins after marriage can be trusted by there partners in terms of faithfulness. But for non-virgins you may hardly see the trust even when there is claim of trust. If you can't control your sex urges before marriage, then ask yourself how can you then control it after marriage when your partner is away? Is easy for ladies to trust their partners than the men. The ego of a man can't allow him to see his wife being bang by another man, that's why most of them can't bear to take the risk of marrying non-virgins.
For me I can marry a non-virgin if only she can stay without sex for two years when in courtship with me. That will surely prove how faithful she will be in marriage.

Rajosh:
my prayer is to marry God's choice for me irrespective of whatever she may have done before. virginity doesn't guarantee a happy marriage. in short, virgin girls and all these S.U sisters are difficult people to live with.

Arsenate:
lol, this your post doesn't even make any sense (even though it got a couple of likes; I can bet from non-virgin girls consoling themselves ) .
What makes you think virgin girls can't be sensible, responsible and matured while the non-virgin girl be a replica of Jezebel (I have seen loads of them)
My point is, all things being equal and if given a choice, I will pick a virgin (tear rubber ) over a non-virgin girl that have been slammed by all the guys on campus
(Why will I pick toks Ranger Rover over a new one?)

Jalubarika:
Marrying a virgin to me is not really a priority.
I once left a virgin for a non virgin ,it depends on what you want in a woman.
Best of luck in your Gulder Ultimate Search

magicminister:
Imsu na school?

Abeg this first class no folow jare.
If its from ebsu, imsu, absu, lasu, eksu or anything that ends with "su", please don't take it seriously.