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DTOBS:
Wow the first female on this thread...Hmmmm u re welcome sweetie!

Are you heading to Benue too?


on that one, HIV/AIDs for Edo and calabar Na the highest!!!!

Agubushmenyo:
It won't Work for you. You know why?


Because we don't waste such Tricks on AVERAGE girls!!

Toks2008:
Every relationship has three stages and no matter who you date..even if you date your twin of different gender,formed in the same womb,you must go through these 3 stages and the truth is that any guy can date,marry and live together with any lady till old age if only you are both determined to go through these 3 stages.

Here they are...

1- Initial stage of adrenaline rush where you are just ok with him/her and everything about this person is just wow.This is the most frigile stage of every relationship.The initial stage when you meet a new person and you just can't see or hear enough of each other but suddenly after sometime which could be days, weeks or months,you just tend to realize that the feeling is not so real and you move on to another person.The unfortunate twist is that many people tend to mistake this stage for the real deal until they get to stage 2.

2- The reality stage :When all the initial gragra fades and you see the real person and this is the make up or break up stage where you start doubting if you ever made the right choice.This is the stage that defines a relationship and it is at this stage that you start seeing the faults and imperfections of the other person and many relationships break up at this stage due to the dreaded "irreconcilable differences" but the unfortunate fact is that no matter how many times you change partners, this stage will always be waiting for you.

3- Last stage is called comfy stage :At this stage,you have become so used to each other and both of you have made a conscious decision to be together against all odds and couples who make it to this stage will experience the best union ever.

No matter how hard you want to deceive yourself that a new partner is better than the previous,until you pass the first two stages with your new partner,i will advice you take a chill pill.

While some believe that falling in love with someone is never planed,i will say loving someone is a decision we must make if we truly want to get the best from any union.

Hope this makes sense.

DTOBS:
Lolzzz...that's why you have mango also...

After yam, eat the mango...


Plus, I hear say Benue gals Na dope!!! How true?...

justified10:
vikky014 welcome..where u com go since dis days...

y u no dey too enta Graceland na

PushPlay:
Okay guys.
Sorry for keeping you waiting.
I had a hectic weekend and I eventually couldn't make an appointment with my new catch so we rescheduled.

According to our chat today, she informed me she will be getting her hair done "to look beautiful and sexy for me". That's in her own words.

She also promised she would visit tomorrow.

As our chat went on, she made me understand her birthday is coming up and would want a special gift.

Do you now see what I'm saying guys.

I wish I could upload screen shots of our conversation but then I really don't have to do that just for you to have proofs.

I'll save it for future references after I might have chopped and clean mouth.

More updates coming soon.

bukatyne:
Hilarious Thread

All the men including the OP chanting yes, men are polygamous have suddenly forgotten that all polygamous men must cheat with women....

How sweet will it be if poster A's wife is banging poster B (Both A & B chanters of we are polygamous)

PussyKrook:
I find your reasoning to be absolutely and outright bereft of any basis or justification.

Let me say, for all intent and purposes, that this OP does not speak for all men. Let me also say, that the OP perhaps lacks the moral and philosophical foundations for making these baseless assumptions.

Let me also say that, this write up is a blatant attempt to justify, crucify, malign prejudice and stigmatize our womenfolk into staying in abusive, philandering, adulterous and un-fulfilling relationships.

It is also an attempt to to psychologically manipulate our womenfolk into making desperate decisions.

Lastly, the OP's piece is merely a further attempt to blackmail all faithful, courageous and loving menfolk.

A load of BS, warped reasoning says I.

ephi123:
Who made you an authority?! Rather than say that is your own personal opinion/preference, you are talking like your word is law. Anyway, other posters above have addressed you properly, no point wasting my time adding more.
Ladies & gentlemen, this kind of post is what happens when people set no standards for themselves but rather make the society their yardstick.

NiRfreak:
@OP....I'm also of the pragmatic breed. If getting ready to marry means a lady must be aware and brace up for future infidelity of the man, then , part of bracing up and getting ready should also means that she could play infidelity emulating her husband and none of the partners should feel discontent about it. else, that would amount to applying double standard and prejudice in favour of the mans infidelity. And your marriage law will read: The man is liable to have side chicks or mistresses but the woman can not in marriage. how fair!

Toks2008:
I know many people will read that write up in isolation and it takes a very intelligent person to grasp the deep message in it.

I repeat...if a lady is not ready for the POSSIBILITY of sharing her man with another lady whether AS A MISTRESS or another wife,she should remain single.

IkpuMmadu:
My education doesnt transalte....as okeipku and asadike...they give me inspiration ..I am not a musician

lol

IkpuMmadu:
Nwanyi oma
Enewe ukwu egbuo ewu
Enewe ikpu ede cheque
Omuma asa ahu
Igobe...golibe


Nne

What happened to my moniker

IkpuMmadu:
I waited for almost a year before I got my call up..as an igbo dude I started selling okirika before the call up...I had so many customers that I came to camp as a baller...

My regrets that I didn't continue ...went into my career
But thank lord I am doing well


That's igbo man for you

tripoli007:
Should i just say u re a fool,this lady is trying to earn a living and not turn into a hoe ..u re busy complaining of her not having swag ..u re the biggest dumbass that has ever existed #ewugambia

modelmike7:
She is a graduate of accountancy from the
University of Abuja, the Vice President of the
National Association of Anambra Students and
she sells akara in Abuja. She's done this business
for 31 days, waiting for her national youth service
and has decided selling akara is what she wants
to do. She plans to continue during her service
year and beyond. She's very cheerful and friendly.
The first time I bought akara from her was a day
after valentines day. She asked how my val was
and I was taken aback because that's not a
question the usual akara seller asks. I decided to
talk with her today and find out why she does
this business. I'm glad I did and I am inspired.
Unemployment is relative after all.

Toks2008:
Do ladies even know what they want.

Toks2008:
Lol..technical wife...you go still see mexhanical wiife..

A lady wey comit adultery dey remorseful surppose get second chance but when she does it without remorse then the recommended action is justified.

No room for nonsense...shebi she don tire for my stick then she must go thru the divorce on her own and she can even ask the other man to assist her since it is apparent that the guy wants her.

Iranu

ademost:
A friend's sister dat served in Sokoto said wen u wake up early in d morning,u have to fetch water and hang it on a tree else thirsty lizards will visit u in d afternoon..dat its smthn almost all d households around her vicinity used to do early in d morning

Toks2008:
A good thing you have a first hand experience.

I honestly laugh at the foolishness of guys who spend their money divorcing a worthless LovePeddler...GOD FORBID.

treat her like a super LovePeddler she chose to be and even when she decides to leave your house,tell her categorically that she still remains your wife and divorce proceedings must be follwed before she can be wuth another man and she will be arrested if seen by you going about with another man expecially if u guys are legally married.

Infacty make a report to the police that your life is threatened by her.

This is a sure way to deal with an unrepentant lady.

Toks2008:
Not practising wettin?
I for dey cry beg am.

Cutehector:
naaaaaaaaaaaaaaah.... my modus operandi doesn't work that way.. I think maybe I hardly count females as friends.... cuz wherever I find myself, I only make male frnds..

sinequanon:
You don't have any attractive female friends. How does this work? How many friends are you shutting out?

Dude, you just have to be strong and accept that feelings have to be kept in check.

Cutehector:
I have female frnds who aren't my girlfrnds... what I dnt Wana have is someone who I have feelings for and wants to remain a frnd. Capisce

Cutehector:
gawd.. just gv me dat wicked heart to frndzone just one girl abeg. Just one

mysticgal:
I feel like going to beg him but I have exams tomorrow morning. I am confused. Help me now

Cutehector:
may u not frndzone ur husband in d process, say amen