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Timileyin:
I have a son that i and just 2 friends know about, i really dont see it as a big deal cause its a part of my life i dont explore or talk about. I once asked my fiance early in our relationship what she feels about a guy that as a son out of wed lock but she said she will end the relation instantly. I really Love her, going to the alter with her in 3 weeks, want to marry her and i know we will always be fine so far i keep my little secrete as secrete. a friend as been advising me to tell her, do you think i should or not?

fulfillbill:
Lol na secondary school we dey...

Welcome from jail anyways, nite

Toks2008:
All your epistle is embedded in numbers 3 and 9

fulfillbill:
Hmmm, for what offence?
I'm good...

fulfillbill:
Hello, i was about to set up a search party...

Toks2008:
The fact is that women are the most complex and complicated creation of GOD and infact i call them the first wonder of the world


-A lady will say she wants a faithful man but will prefer to be with a man every other lady wants.
-A lady will practically friend-zone a man who genuinely wants her and would prefer to run after another guy who does not want her.
-A lady will say there is no husband material but what she is implying is that her own specification of a tall,cute,rich,romantic...is rare.
-Many ladies will talk down on polygamy but would prefer to be the side dish of a rich guy rather than be the only lady of a poor dude.
-And a lady can be with one man,get married to him,have all his children and even grow old with him yet her heart will be with another all the days of her life. I can continue to list several situations to confirm the complexity of women.

The problem is that many men are always quick to bring down every woman because of the bad ones they have come across but this is grossly unfair because every lady is not the same and we must treat any new lady special regardless of the experience we had with an ex.

Nevertheless,i think i have come up with the best way to be at peace with a woman and trust me,if you follow this golden advice,you will always have peace with any lady you choose to be with and here they are.


1.Love your lady with so much passion.

2.Lavish her with gifts.

3.Treat her like a queen.

4.Don't ever raise your hand to beat her or insult her in anyway.

5.Listen to her when she wants to be heard.

6.Shower her with lots of accolades.

7.Give her undivided attention.

8.Be very romantic towards her.

9.Respect her above others.

10.Don't cheat on her in anyway.

11.Provide her needs to the very best of your ability.

12.Don't ever break her heart or make her cry.

13.Be extremely caring.

14.Pamper her in anyway imaginable.

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15.But despite all these,expect the worst from her because she can still turn around and rub all the above on your face

The bottom line is that the man that will please a woman has not been created but the best we can do is to try all we can not to give them an excuse to misbehave but still expect the worst from them.If you treat her badly,she will have a good excuse so just treat her very well so that when she misbehaves,there will be no excuse for her to hold on to and her folly will be conspicuous to the world.

This is the only way you can be at peace with a woman so that if she eventually shows her color despite all your efforts to please her,you will be psychologically ready and will never be a surprise to you.

My candid opinion.

noblegrex:
nice talk. Are you sure you're a lady at all. Cos you reason like a man. I met a virgin but she's got no good behaviour I had to let go even when I wanted her so much.. The point is virgin + good behaviour.infact kudos to you..you realy made a lot of sense there.. But if one find love and she's not a virgin but maintain good attitude,then you can just make do of that.you've got no choice.but there will always be a question mark on the TRUST.

Kastonkastroll:
Like boko haram members like IPOD( Indigenous people of dreamland) youths. No difference!!!

1surdman:
My sis stuns too

free2ryhme:
when you borrow money from bank and they give it to you please let us know

lilzcee:
Lols

zicoraads:
Lalasticlala and Myndd44...for some reason, I have decided to be very civil here. But if kekakuz is left off for all he has spewed here, I will surely reply in kind.

Enahi:
Nah jealous about what na?
I am not to decide where who I am going to marry should come from, I have given God that job to do for me.

aim5:
Is it as bad as people calling Yoruba girls dirty and unclean? Is it as bad as people calling Edo girls witches and demons? No it isn't. And to be honest, I actually respect Igbos, but you people need to understand that not everybody is jealous of you.

aim5:
I don't think it's jealousy. Everybody can call Edos, Yorubas, Niger Deltans, etc all sorts of bad names and attach all types of negative stereotypes but when it comes to Igbos, all of sudden everyone is hating. The same people that can talk all kinds of crap about every other group but becomes defensive when you talk about them.

daretodiffer:

Toks2008:
It is not even about getting a verbal endorsement from anyone about how sexy or hot you are.

The point is simple...Calm down and let your good virtues be more prominent in your life rather than allowing your outwarde beauty get into your head.

cheruv:
Mmm
I too have noticed it...when you praise a girl,most times she starts been funny since then I'd decided not to complement any girl,and if I must do it I'd coat it with "yabbing".
That way I'd be able to gauge her intellectual maturity with her response without been blinded by a beauty that might fade when she starts dropping kids.
The only time I can unreservedly flatter you is when I know its part of the program that'd get me beyond your panties

Itsmenyou:
Really? Now It's be careful how you flaunt yourself on social media? Women! Men condition you to think a certain way and you swallow their suggestions hook, line and sinker. What is wrong with y'all? So because a man refuses to control the thing between his legs we must make an entire gender pay for this? And the women now buy the fight and become the enforcers for patriarchy on fellow women?! Have you told the likes of PSquare to be careful posting their "eggplants" on social media? So why shouldn't a lady post flattering photos of herself on instagram, or what do you think the gram is for? Give yourselves brain women, and stop being so programmed by men that you lose your capacity to think!

cr80vity:
Guys, m a fresh graduate nd I wil b goin for nysc ds coming March so u see marriage ia not an option for me...den she s in part 2 - I.dnt see marriage bin an option for her likewise