₦airaland Forum

samchem:
cannibalism is as old as homosapiens

ok but it ws too rampant somewhere right

chidooh1:
Why not go there and see things by yourself and stop being deceived by grandpa's tale of a story

lol.. i'm not going

KingTom:
so you're even LOL? Chai this is a sad story though I heard they got a divorce so why is he making noise

you made your comment in a funny way..


The man needs Money!!!!!

samchem:
u guys have to rest these fetishistic believes...cannibalism happened everywhere years past, when men hunt men.Theirs may have stopped late, but truth b told it's in extinction now

hmmmmm it didnt happen everywhere.

APCsupporter:
Now u are associating Islam with the terrorists. Why can't u just mind your own religion and shut up?

You criticize cow worshippers
You criticize Islam
You criticize atheists
You criticize homosexuals
You critize hindu religion

Ah ah!

Whatever name gej is called is not my business
cos I know he is a bastard. I also don't have
problem with anybody insulting Buhari but u can't
insult me religion and expect me to smile. You can
cry me a river if u like


This statement made you a potential terrorist

KingTom:
don't diss the dead

LOL. i typed RIP to her o

APCsupporter:
Whatever name gej is called is not my business cos I know he is a bastard. I also don't have problem with anybody insulting Buhari but u can't insult me religion and expect me to smile. You can cry me a river if u like

How did he insult a religion from his post Religion of peace indeed!!! u can blow up yourself and wait for ur virgins in hotel paradise

KingTom:
So your wife was fucking around with Uzodinma and for her to die of aids means this happened a long while ago. Bia nwokem mechie onu gi may her soul rest in peace sha and may uzodinma's dick be struck with erectile dysfunction and may you receive sense. Can I get a loud amen

Lol..You cant.....The woman was so silly by leaving her husband in the first place


ok may her soul RIP

APCsupporter:
Op are you saing that the bastard didn't commit an offence? The bastard should be locked forever and ever. There is no difference between him and namdi kanu. Anything that threatens the peace of this country should be eliminated immediately. We have had enougj under the ineffectual buffons era

Don't the ibos call their own yoruba when they advise them against biafra?

The fools that are saying Buhari is our god are the same people that called gej their jesus.

i hope you said the same thing when el rufia was inslting GEJ?? He even went as far as writing a book tittled The accidental public servant

el rufia even insulted Jesus christ

you are a hypocrite though

joa2013:
Please don’t mind my long story.
Our parent have four of us. The first is a female, while the second is a male, he is my immediate elder brother, I am the third, I have a younger sister who is our last born. Our father died in 1990 when our eldest sister was in year one at the College of Education, my elder brother was in SS II, I was in SS I and my younger sister was in JSS I. With the death of our dad, An uncle who was also trained by my dad took responsibility for the training of our elder sister at the College of Education while the responsibilities for the education and upkeep of the remaining three of us fell upon our mom who at that time was employed as an office attendant in the civil service of the old Ondo State before Ekiti was carved out. She retired from the service of Ekiti State Government on Grade Level Six in 2009.
All of us could be described as above average academically while in school. Secondary School was not really free in those days even though the fees weren’t much, It wasn’t easy for my mum to cater for the three of us with her meager income, I remember that we had to really work hard in the farm to cultivate staple foods like cassava, maize etc to augment whatever our mom collect as salary. It wasn’t easy at all.
My elder brother completed his SSCE in 1991 with good results and had to be employed as sales assistant in a bookshop in Akure then, I completed mine in 1992, I was lucky enough to be employed as a clerical officer in the former office of my late dad, it’s a federal government agency, therefore I earned more than my elder brother and even close to what my mum was earning then. At this point, we made a family arrangement to allow my brother go for further studies first while my income and that of my mum would be channeled towards his education and our upkeep while I will get enrolled after he had completed his and that he will also help in assisting the remaining two of us in our education after he secures a job God willing. Things worked out, he was admitted to study Mechanical Engineering at FUTA. It wasn’t a nice time at all, I couldn’t just say I’m buying dresses or shoes at will, I worked for the whole of the over six years my brother spent at FUTA with my income being used to take care of his studies.
He completed his degree in 1998 and went for service, I got admitted to the University of Agriculture, Abeokuta to study Environmental Management and Toxicology (EMT) in year 2000, my brother had completed youth service then. He came back from service in Rivers State with a lady whom he wanted to marry, we all accepted Aunty Moji very well, thinking that they would still court for few years before marriage and that during that time, he would be able to render whatever assistance he could to us. My brother secured a job with the Federal Government with the assistance of a friend of our late father who was a Director General in a Federal Government agency then. My brother’s first pre-occupation after securing this job was to get engrossed with marital plans which I don’t see as bad anyway but I expected that he pity and come to the aid of our mum who had suffered so much for us and our younger sister who had left secondary school but couldn’t move any further and myself who had tried my best to keep my own side of our agreement. My brother closed his eyes against all of us. We attended his wedding somehow and continued with our lives. I told my mum to face my younger sister who was admitted to Owo Poly while I began my struggle to have university education. I was given study leave without pay in my office since my boss said study leave with pay could only be approved in Abuja, I suffered a lot in school. I became an emergency home teacher for two families in Abeokuta, the pay was peanut, I spent close to 50% of the earnings on transportation because I lived in the hostel since I couldn’t afford an off-campus accommodation. It wasn’t easy for me to combine the teaching jobs with the tasking academic schedule of UNAAB. I made frantic efforts to seek help from my brother to no avail until his wife, Aunty Moji wrote a nasty letter to my mum, asking her to warn me to stop troubling her family by my monetary demands. My brother did not contribute a dime to my education or assist my sister and mom, his wife will not even offer me water not to talk of food each time I visited them, meanwhile the mother and younger sister of Aunty Moji lived with them, this wasn’t my problem anyway but that I seriously needed financial assistance in those days.
My elder sister who had secured a job as a teacher tried her best for me, her hubby, a lawyer wasn’t doing well at that time, but things improved for them later in 2003 when PDP won the governorship election in Ogun State, he got a political appointment from the then Chief Gbenga Daniel’s administration in the state, they were of immense help to us. I completed my first degree in 2006, went for service and came back to my former office as a school certificate worker. My brother in-law also assisted in getting me a job later with his PDP connections. My younger sister finished her HND and got married to a university lecturer, she secured a job with a federal government health institution. I thank God for everything.
My issue now is that my brother has refused to relate freely with any of us, his wife don’t even relate with my mum or any of us at all, my brother usually sound apologetic or someone in deep regrets anytime I talk with him but he keep his distance and our relationship with him isn’t cordial at all despite all efforts we have been making to reconcile and get things right with him and his family. This is a big source of worry for my mum who should now relax and enjoy her retirement having labored so much for us, my elder sister is damn too emotional and spiritual about it all, she will cry and cry each time I discuss it with her, that’s her own nature anyway, her husband is too busy with politics and his business, my younger sister is the “I don’t care type”, she sees no reason why we should bother ourselves with him and his family since they have consistently kept their distance, my mum isn’t happy about the fact that his first son is estranged from our family, she even begged the parent of Aunty Moji, our in-law to intervene and help her beg them if she had offended them in any way, nothing seems to be yielding positive result. Our uncle who tried to wade into the issue at a time quickly withdrew because of the insulting nature of my brother’s wife.
The situation looks helpless but I have read a lot of issues like this on this forum and I saw a lot of good contributions from well meaning and experienced members, kindly advise me, I beg you, please don’t trivialize my story, God bless you all.

Your brother is living a life of regret bc he married a bad woman...tell your mum to stop disturbing herslf about him and enjoy herslf

haftob:
Don't let anyone scare u dat it is spiritual attack. Those marks on ur body are the handiwork of wall geckors known as omole in yoruba. Just try and be killing them weneva u see them in ur room.

story for the gods...

lakesidepapa:
This is something that happens all the time, but is
rarely discussed. Thanks to the nairaland, though,
people who observe unusual occurrences, like waking up with three scratches somewhere on their bodies, are starting to talk to each other. And there are a lot of us, and we know the same thing is happening to all of us.
When I say it like that, it sounds crazy, right? Sure it
does. It sounds crazy to me, even me that's
writing about this phenomenon of unexplainable
scratches and bruises, it appears on my body sometimes when i wake up in the morning.
"What does it mean?"
"Why is it happening?"
"Who else is it happening to?"
"Am I crazy, or is this real?"
"What can I do to stop this?"

A Witch or Wizard visited you in the night and took your blood

This is very Bad. i thought APC promised to end bokoharam before December last year

iykak47:
****

i hope you read the story my grandpa told me before typing this

As i said it is no longer Rampant as before due to civilization ..Learn how to communicate with people

sameer1212:
GEJ is a good man but too weak to lead a country like Nigeria. Anyway,thank you for relinquished power to our dear president BUHARI. History will always remember you for this.

*IPOB Youths you can all see GEJ has moved on with his life. If una like,make una still they hate Buhari and other tribes thinking they are your problems,na una sabi.

Nigeria sai Buhari

God bless Nigeria.

and BUHARI is too strong to lead a country We are watching

obyrich:
The thing tire me o. I had to reply him because he claimed to be a graduate who should be able to analyse information critically especially those coming from the grapevine. All the lies about the Ngwas being primitive and deadly is just geared towards keeping them in political and economic servitude. I am proud to assert that ' No Igbo community accommodate strangers more than the Ngwas'. This explains why Alex Otti and many others like him prefer to build mansions and relate with the Ngwas to doing same in their towns of nativity.

HMMMM IS IT THAT YOU ARE TRYING TO DENY THE OBVIOUS TRUTH

Ngwa people that even have a statue of a missionary they killed and ate his meat....Just say it is not rampant again. but to be frank ngwa people like human meat alot..
.My grandpa would hv been a victim if not for his good friend that refused to bring him out the night your people came to slaughter him as a stranger...His friend told him that the wives request for brain from their cannibalistic hubby for cooking soup

cococandy:
Ha that's too much sha.

But I believe the visits will lesson as time goes on. She's probably having some hard time letting go since you guys only got married recently.
Fortunately she's not meddlesome like you said so there may not be that urgency to curb her visits.

Still find a gentle way to pass the message to your wife. Even she must be getting tired.

My big sis the wife is pregnant and she is the only daughter for christ sake


The other day he opened a thread about how his mum cautioned him bc he helped his pregnant wife to carry their heavy bag..i know if it ws his own mum he wont complain


I think this OP is nagging here

Yomieluv:
I got wedded to my wife late October,since then till now,my MIL has visited more than 50 times.

She comes as she likes,both announced,and unannounced. At every little opportunity she's in our place.

My wife is her only daughter.

Today she came unexpected again,i was pissed off,cos the reason she gave was she tried her daughter's number and not going through yesterday,so she came to check on her.

She stays in the island,and shed a widow,and a retiree though. Her visit is becoming boring to me. Most time,i just have to leave the house to hang her with friends till she goes.

How can i stop at frequent visit to our place,cos her visit makes me feels like she's invading my privacy.

How do i tell my wife am not comfortable with her constant visit without hurting her. I dont want her to feel i hate her mum.

I Am not against her visit,am not just comfortable with the frequency of it.

Is it your mum that dont like you helping ur pregnant wife by carrying her heavy bag That will visit her

for crying out loud her only daughter is pregnant allow her to check on her pregnant daughter please..you r nagging here OGA

nnacent:
Madam! u are being too emotional here. I am a married man, ok? read in between the lines. eatery became Henry's house. Why will a married woman go to a single mans house to render him help. Abeg! abeg!!

i hv told you my own...Be vigilant. watch and pray. If you think your wife will give you details of her deals with her sugar boy. you must be dreaming

ijustdey:
ask yourself this question.......why did the husband speak with the wife and she tells her husband that she was at the eatery with a faulty car whereas, she went straight to Henry's house that day the incident happened

a woman will leave her beautiful home and go to a boys quarter to sleep with a dirty poor boy that needs help i dnt know wht is wrong with people like you...i hope u read the part whr he also wanted to kidnap a school proprietress

May God judge wicked henry

Lobolintin:
To me..


Henry is right ...

His dating her ....

Wana know how I ended up with such ,

One, what was she doing in his house ?
If she doesn't visit him often before

For him to admit he wana kidnap her....
And for him to clear his neighbours .......
Damn that dude is dating that woman

Just pray you dont fall into temptation one day bc i cant believe dt any sane human will accept henry's claim

ikukuhero:
May God forgive you for this ignorant comment of yours. This woman was a very decent and beautiful christian wife and mother. Her husband is a young, tall, handsome, and very wealthy business man. She lacked nothing. Mr. Emma's family ( Deacon Emma as we call him) had always helped the boy Henry.

Thanks for this.. i dont even know her and the family bt i cautioned the guy

i'm in tears right now. what a wicked world

ijustdey:
all these sugar mummy things......



I guess the woman didn't pay well for the service the guy was rendering that why he hatched the plan of kidnapping her for ransom.



evuls world

please read and digest the story well. The woman was never his sugar mummy but a generous kind hearted woman that wanted to help a poor man..He is just lying against the dead...I'm seriously fighting back tears most men are very wicked


My only problem with this lady and his pastor husband is that they lack vision in their family temple bc God supposed to have revealed this incident to them through dream or any means.....it is good to be spiritually active and conscious by listening to the still small voice


MAY HER BEAUTIFUL SOUL RIP

Burger01:
Don't mind the op. Na so dem dey start tribal wahala.

Btw, the woman looks igbo. Na igbo women dey fight men for public like that

Really you seriously need help

After reading some people's comment i found out dt this ex issue is serious ooo

Hmmmmm my shakara don too much for my virgin male friend e be like say i will look his way very soon oo...i hate it when someone compares me with another in a negative way!!!

Jadekitana:
It's not your business my dear, learn to let people live their lives. I hope this amebo pays you very well? You sound pained about the virginity stuff! Mind you a non virgin would never take that thread personal, just the scared one who's frustrated and thinking of whether to give in or not. You need to take a chill pill about life issues

you need this ur advice more cos i wasnt the one dt opened a thread about virgins.. So learn to let people live their lives dear. virgin or non.virgin live and let live simple!

Jadekitana:
Wow I never knew I offended a virgin, Pele o but i'm not giving you the attention you seek so sorry dear.

NO BE SMALL OFFENDED A VIRGIN

ALL I'M SAYING IS THAT YOU SHOULD ENJOY YOUR NON VIRGINITY BLESSINGS BY VISITING HIM

Jadekitana:
What is this one saying?

Jadekitana (f ): 4:07pm On Jan 29
A friend was chatting me up last night that he has
been dating this lady for 2years now yet nothing
has happened she keeps saying he should
wait. The worst thing she invited him to Abuja last
weekend for a wedding, after which he checked
into a hotel with her. She slept with her pant and
bra yet didn't allow my friend to touch her
when he tried to, she threatened to leave the room
for him! That's how he came to lagos empty. She
would be 26 this year and has refused to have sex.
By the way i'v been tripping for this my friend for a
year now,he threw me to the friend zone and keeps
running to Abuja to meet madam Virgin who is
busy hoarding her c.unt like it's made of gold.
Some guys would just blatantly ignore the green
light and be chasing what's not chasing them
and yes i'm a Hater





THIS IS WHAT I'M SAYING...MAYB U R STILL WAITING FOR THIS UR CRUSH TO INVITE U THEN U WILL FLY TO HIS BEDROOM...MTCHEEW

Bethh:
well said.

LOL. I DIDNT SEE THIS BFORE TYPING MINE

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]How many times are we going to talk about this issue?

It has become over flogged.

You didn't go to that guy's house doesn't mean you won't go to the next guys house. You must visit a guy in his house and that's just a fact. It's just probably because you weren't feeling that guy so you turned him down.

So kindly shut the fùck up,stop acting all prudent and wait for the guy you like who will invite you to his house and let's see if you won't go.

Nonsense!

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WELL SAID

Jadekitana:
No the issue is becoming annoying. I told a friend I was bored and let's go to Elegushi to chill, he said he doesn't like chilling in open places and that we can always chill in his house with vodka and play truth or dare.

Vodka to get me drunk abi?
Who even plays truth or dare anymore?

I would stay in my house instead, but guys you all need to stop this "come to my house thing" can't this generation just hang out peacefully and have fun outside the house?

The other day you opened a thread about virginity @25 being a curse not decency


my question is why not enjoy your non virginity blessing by visiting him

More reason why guys think women dont know what they want

Decker:
Yoruba men know how to love a woman and show her love. If a Yoruba man loves his woman, he would treat her like a queen. Yoruba men are romantic. That's why you still see poor Yoruba men with loyal wives.

Igbo men aren't really romantic. Most of them think they are, but they actually aren't. They believe being romantic is by spending money on a woman, rather than showing her affection.
The average Igbo man would first acquire all the wealth he can acquire before thinking of going into a serious relationship, especially one aimed at marriage, because he believes that money is the most essential thing in a relationship, and that's a wrong notion.

And before people start calling me a tribal bigot, I am actually Igbo, but I always uphold the truth, irrespective of the tribe involved.

must evrything be about igbo and yoruba y cant u just comment by praising ur yoruba tribe wtout lumping igbo men to your post na waoh




BY the way nice outfit they look cute