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Family / One Night Stand Saying She Is Pregnant by Vincent88: 7:27pm On Nov 05, 2019 |
Hello NR I'm very sorry for bothering you again. I have a big problem and really need your advice please , no insult. My life has been destroyed lately by a woman with whom I had a one night stand on the 3rd of October. I was stressed out because my wife left me so I went out to night club to drink and met the lady there. I wore protection and did everything safely , I didnt enjoy her but I pretended I did , I didnt even like her and wished to hear no more from her , she then texted me 2 days ago to say she is pregnant, her text shocked me within seconds and I texted her that there was no way she could be pregnant. She said she 1000% I'm responsible for her pregnancy and she needed money for antenatal. I rang her and suggested to meet and talk and I suggested to take her to hospital, she refused this and said she needed the money for hospital that she would go on her own. She said she needs 250k and I must pay up fast. I telephoned her to talk everything but she just kept shouting and threatening that if I didn't pay up quickly she would expose me to my wife and in laws which I dont want her to do that because I'm trying my best to bring my wife back and I dont want her to know about this. I told my close friend in desperation and he thinks that this girl Is lying and blackmailing me. I have agreed to pay her 250k and for her to leave me alone until the baby is born they we do DNA, but my friend told me to not paying her yet but I'm scared she will go to my wife but u want to pay her and sorted. I'm destroyed and stressed out to bits over all this and it has been the worst 2 days of my life. I know it was very safe sex and I regretted it, I wish I didn't go out or get drunk on that day. |
Family / Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Vincent88: 10:46pm On Sep 25, 2019 |
techwahala:Thank you |
Family / Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Vincent88: 10:45pm On Sep 25, 2019 |
Uncleodi:We have done all blood test the result including rhesus was okay we dont have a problem. She didn't do any abortion because I married her a virgin 1 Like |
Family / Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Vincent88: 10:43pm On Sep 25, 2019 |
Yes we have all 4 kids with us because they dont have anyone else apart from my wife and me. The older boy stays in the university hotels he comes home sometime when he can. ImaIma1: |
Family / Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Vincent88: 7:31pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
sinaj:Thank you so much |
Family / Re: My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Vincent88: 7:30pm On Sep 18, 2019 |
Thank you ,, I didn't confess to my wife or my brother about my niece . My brother was stabbed in the nightclub where he went to drink with friends. I have seen some people here reminding me of my past which it is painful , hopeful that my wife has not read it yet or else it will make things worse. I just want her to be home with us, myself and the kids are missing her every day. The house feel so empty without her LilMissFavvy: 1 Like |
Family / My Wife Has Left Me. Heartbroken by Vincent88: 5:02am On Sep 18, 2019 |
Good morning everybody. I feel lost without my wife, she had a fourth miscarriage after 2 years of marriage and her family has accused me to be a ritualist that I am eating the babies which I know nothing about and they have decided to take her away from me. I haven't finished grieving for my elder brother who passed away 3 weeks ago, leaving his 4 children for us and now she is gone. Please she is also in this platform beg her for me to come back to me, because I love her so much and I cant live without her please. 130 Likes 11 Shares |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 7:44pm On May 13, 2019 |
Update Thank you everyone for your kind advice I taught it would be a good ideas not to confess to them but Instead I have confessed my sin to God and repented for everything, but for peace of mind I took my niece for paternity test which the result came back positive that I am her father , I am very heartbroken but to me she still my brother child and she would still be forever . That was all I had to say thank you 2 Likes |
Family / Re: What Is Wrong With A Married Man Passing The Night In His Inlaw's Place? by Vincent88: 9:19pm On Mar 11, 2019 |
Nothing wrong |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 1:15pm On Mar 04, 2019 |
Ohidata:Thank you nice advice , i will message you |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 5:36pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
PrincewithGod:Thank you for the advices |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 5:33pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
rosalieene:Yes she is legally married again big white wedding she put pictures all over facebook and she added my wife on facebook so we can see how her life is glowing |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 5:31pm On Mar 01, 2019 |
Antina:Thanks she is a emmotional person but i dont know if it is part of anxiety |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 10:15am On Mar 01, 2019 |
stanliwise:Thanks you are right before i was not thinking how telling the whole truth will destroyed them but after getting some good advices on here i have decide to keep it to myself but i will atleast take her from DNA just to know if she is mine or not . Im hoping she will not be mine that will put my mind in peace . |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 7:28pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
soohib:Ok i will message you |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 6:42pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
emmabest2000:Thank you |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 6:41pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
soohib:You mean private messages? |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 6:40pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
michealdeco:We have tried many good hospitals in here but they still cant found the exact causes maybe sending her out of the country will help either to nigeria or south african . I will have a talk with her |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 6:35pm On Feb 28, 2019 |
Gandollaar:thank you i will keep it to myself even it is not easy for me because of the guilt im feeling everyday and i cant take this off my head but i will try my best moving on. 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 10:06am On Feb 28, 2019 |
HarmonyDee:Thank you |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 10:04am On Feb 28, 2019 |
michealdeco:Thanks for the advice. She was a virgin im the only one who enter her jeruzalam |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 2:16am On Feb 28, 2019 |
britiko:thank you so much very nice advice |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 2:01am On Feb 28, 2019 |
Thank you so much guys for all the advices , after reading your advices i realise that i was being selfish looking for my own interest to bring the secrets out because im desperate for my wife to give me my own child i taught maybe bringing this out will deliver us from having our own children , but i was not caring about how my brothers and wife will feel about hearing this especially my brother because he is already a broken man who rely on alcohol and the only things that is keeping him alive it is his children nothing else. I have come to conclusion that i will take the little girl for a secret DNA test to find out if she is mine or not and even if the results came she is my daughter i will forever keep this secrets till my last day on earth . My wife is not the same anymore since her last miscarriage she is depressed , loosing appetites and weight i cant bear to see her looking sad everyday she is only 24 please put us in your prayers for God to remember us and put a smile on my wife face again . Thank you 2 Likes |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 11:02am On Feb 27, 2019 |
peacefull:Please dont apologise i did not take your comment as rude , i was just informing you about the tests we have we were expecting for a result so we can find solution to her problem but with everything coming clear it makes things more stressful. Thank you so much hopefully God will remember us this year and blessed us with triplets |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 10:08am On Feb 27, 2019 |
peacefull:We have done all the test to find out the exact cause but all the results came back clear with no causes found which it is strange and worrying. |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 9:09pm On Feb 26, 2019 |
IAMBlesssed:Thank you im not catholic but i will do as you said , there is a catholic church not far from my workplace i will visit it tommorow after work to get more information . 1 Like |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 7:33pm On Feb 26, 2019 |
kross01:Thank you so much for the advice i really appreciate it |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 7:32pm On Feb 26, 2019 |
Kerosene:Thank you |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 7:31pm On Feb 26, 2019 |
Tosinex:Thanks for the advice i really appreciate it and i will do as u said |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 11:39pm On Feb 25, 2019 |
SEGLIZ:Thanks i will tell my wife but im not sure when is the right time to speak with her maybe early morning or very late at night i just dont know and i hope she will not leave me after hearing this 5 Likes |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 11:36pm On Feb 25, 2019 |
[quote author=3plet post=76123758]Don't confess yet!!! 3 miscarriage @about 16weeks could be as a result of "incompetent "cervix", has ur wife had a surgical procedure performed "cerclage" on her @about 13weeks of any of the 3 terminated pregnancies? [/quote We did all the tests to find out if any problem like incompotent cervix or mis- shaped uterus but the result were negative , she has no problem it is like something spiritual |
Family / Re: I Had A Child With My Brother's Ex Wife. Please Read And Advice Me by Vincent88: 9:30pm On Feb 25, 2019 |
BiggyB242:I swear i dont want her even if it came up that she is my child i will never take her away from my brother. She will still his daughter no matter what , I just want to freed myself and move on 16 Likes |
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