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whiteshark:
Hello mi lonely ladies, does anyone need some good company hit me up on the PM.

Thanks, but no, thanks. We've agreed that u guys can be boring atimes too, so we'll just hook up amongst ourselves.

Won't we lovely ladies

I used to work with a popular man in Nigeria who airs all this weird stuff on TV and Radio. Believe me, things like this do happen. Africa has a lot of 'jazz' and people who have these powers do use them on thier victims.

I'm sure the person who did this to the woman must have done it in the spiritual realm. when we sleep, alot of things happen. May God continue to protect us.

All the VIRGOs in the house, say "yea!, yea!!"

Ohhh Lizzy! you're such an angel.

damygurl:
i got da solution! what u need are:
pizza
20 pieces of chocolate
hot chocolate
cheese cake
Ur friends
blanket
it all equals a girls night out(in)!!!

damy i follow ur advice i'll only end up not only lonely but also FAT

But thanks all the same

I need new gal friends cos all my old ones are now married and no longer have time for girlie outings. And you know guys can be boring atimes My work is even making the whole matter worse

Any fun-loving gal wanna be my friend?

doubleface:
ok..agreed that we 4got to protect ourself be4.should she also 4got to do something after?

No offence intended, but i think that is irresponsibility of the highest order!! Same thing that made you forget to use a condom is the same that made her forget to use contr==

Every action has a consequence, and one of the conseqences of sex is pregancy. So if you fit do the thing, you must be ready to fit be parent (both parties).

You can't eat your cake and still have it.

Princess:
It takes a desperate women that has been roaming all her life disrespecting her body to chase men until they can locate Mr. right. That is so hopeless and undignified!

I think it is shameful and undignified for a lady to throw herself at a man ( no matter how rich, handsome or whatever).

I may not necessarily be drop-dead gorgeous, but i have a healthy portion of Self-respect and Pride. I would NEVER chase a man (not even codedly).And i think like princess said, only a desperate babe or indecent one for that matter would.

U mean there aren't no Guru Marahaj member in this forum Or is someone denying his/her ??

I need advice on how to come out of this feeling of loneliness.

Yes i'm single and Yes, Yes, Yes i'm soooooooooooooo LONELY

someone plzzzzzzz, help me!

I'm a babe, but personally i don't think a lady has to be rude to say NO to a guy (even if that guy was way beneath her in all things).Being nice and polite doesn't make you cheap but matured.

And i think its foolish to want something and then pretend as if you don't (of course you can make him chase) but do it warmly and nicely. Its the confusion of not knowing what u're really up to that will make him go gaga.

On the other hand, i believe a woman should have PRIDE, that is what makes us a woman. I may sound old-fashioned now,but this is my own view. A woman should not throw herself at a man (cos God made it to be d other way round). I know this is prevalent today, but I do not subscribe to it.

If i were a guy, i'll be put off any babe who act rude just to say no to me and would certainly throw up if a lady throws herself at me. Call me old-fashioned, but that is Vinna for u.

There should be order in everything!

I don't know about wat entails in other cultures, but i know as an african, a MAN is supposed to fend for his woman and all known religion share same view. Its the man who woos and he that must bear the expense of wooing. When you become an item, it wld now be up to both of u how ur relationship runs, but i personally think a man shld not go out with a woman and expect her to pay cos that wld be the height of irresponsibility,but if she does, fine.

And secondly, as much as we might like the western culture, taking it in all its totality and dropping all ours wld be detrimental to our uniqueness as AFRICANS.

****rolling up sleeves*** kay don't u dare start wt my gal ok! or you'll have me to reckon with

the reason is quite obvious. MONEY, KUDI, OWO, EGO

Anybody that breaks up with you during Xmas or any special period for that matter is just a playa, (he/she) doesnt really care abt u. Except of course things have been declining b4 it got to the final break/brake up.

otemu my brother, mavor!

I hope you are not Urhobo abroad like me
Anyway, welcome to 9ra land, hope u have fun.

***a round of applause*** ocho, chillin, snazzy. u gals are really making me proud in here.

why are my african brothers pretending as if they don't know wats up na?


Any way, this thing is all about the culture of ppl in ur end. Whether u like it or not, a proper Nigerian babe wld expect you to pick up the bills (dunno abt anywhere else). so all these talks about askees and askers, 4 get it!

A Nigerian babe wants a guy that is capable in all ways. Maybe when things gets serious btw u two sha, she fit soft-pedal.

Naija babes, if i lie make u na tell me!!!!

yemstrad:
aaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhh! experience plenty for NairaLand. My sister, the thing dey tire person?

Go ask a 70 year old that

prettyH:
The boi had better go and read his books.

I'm joining force with PrettyH to say "SAMUEL, face your studies and quit being desperate for a lover now!"

I tell you, when time reach the thing go tire u!

don't forget to add the Reginalds too.    Men too do warm beds and break hearts you
know

Lexy you are someone my dad wld call a TROUBLE SHOOTER!

Imagine u just "looking" for everybody's trouble

Come on!! be a good boy and leave Reggie alone. At least take solace in the fact that every one agrees with you that she is a 'one kind' actress and a bed warmer. Abi no be true?