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Hehehe! This Guy! I suspect you re a Fortunate 19 or 20 yr old having small cash and a crib! Better put your feelings in check,ok?

Beebah2000:
Wahala for who dey do relationship for this generation.
I don wash my hand commot from any word way get 'MEN' and any word way start with 'R' con end with 'P'.
I can't kill myself.

Lolss! But laslas, you will need a Guy! Body nor be firewood!

Kazeem47:
Seriously most the sections they comment on and their comments are not typical of naija gals.

Then you need to change ur circle of female friends! There re intelligent naija ladies out there! Hope no be Ashawo girls u dey follow?

OP, Which nonsense intelligence? Anyways, most of these persons are COWARDS afraid of coming out as a particular gender or SCAMMERS trying to deceive others!

Na wa! Question for ladies, Guys are rushing to comment! But it is Lies some ladies would have dropped anyways!

HopeNeverDies:
Damnnn!!! Harvest of Corruption; She Stoops to Conquer.

Hmmm, Its like you are a very Young person! One of my Neighbour's daughter used to read doz novels for her WAEC in 2019!

Kaycee54321:
Someone said:

"If you want to change the World, do it while you're single: because once you're married, you can't change a TV Channel".

lol, very correct!

Tboymessiah:
C.e.o, for Pos shop abi.

Lol, Even if na Laundry outfit, business na business!

Op, just try to dey go church, u hear?! So dat incase General blessings re poured on the congregration, u sef go receive am!

Sunday Oliseh! I really loved his bullet shot against Spain in France 98!

Stargurl20:
Stop lying against wonderful African mothers. Shout out to them all.

U sef wey go marry olosho na ur type u attract . No be so so bling bling una dey find?

I Suspect you re still a kid that wants to argue unnecesarily! As someone said up there, Nobody demands pregnancy b4 marriage from Decent girls! It is demanded from Oloshos, Ex-Runs Girls and cheap babes! Bye!

Lols, Relationship issues sha! OP, Don't kill yourself because of a Girl! Since u have Money, Think carefully b4 buying her gifts next time and let d item be what she really likes!

Shattered dreams (About the drunkard Ogadie), Without a Silver spoon, Echoes in the dark, Oliver twist and Wedlock of the gods for JSS! While for SS, A Man for all season, Romeo and juliet and Hamlet!

MajesticKris:
So after giving yahoo boys your womb, to mesmerize u expect me to marry u and start prayer and fasting,for sins wey u Do.. because of Iphone11 abi??

Don't mind them! Who dem think say be Mumu?

Kajaard:
Only a foolish girl with no brains will believe that nonsense: I need to know you can get pregnant before marrying you

Any girl that falls for that deserves to be sent to fight in the Ukraine - Russia war. Nonsense.

Ogbeni, if u know the kind things Young girls dey do diz days! Having BFs, Sugar daddies, taking postinor, shisha,etc! Dats Y some Mothers ask their sons to impregnate First! Women know themselves very well!

OP, Incase you do not know, it is Mothers dat Influences dier Bachelor sons to carry out this practice! Particularly when they have done investigation and have confirmed dat the Babe is an Olosho or 'Cheerful giver'! So any Blame falls on your Gender!

Helinues is not Here yet? Well, other Tinubu zombies are already doing dier Master's laundry in d thread!

phemmyfour:
Ronaldo isn't doing well this season has nothing to do with being single

Messi won Copa America has a married man.

Stop the sentiments! The last 3-4 years has been 'Messy' for the Argentine! He is struggling badly as if he has some Home troubles!

Kobojunkie:
The Grace of God given to men by Jesus Christ refers to the eternal(abundant) Life that we receive for believing in Him.

Jesus Christ is recorded to have said, this in the Gospels, "I came that you might have Life, and have it abundantly", Life eternal which is more than sufficient.

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What that has to do with your predicament, I have no clue.

On your last paragraph, i mean why will some 'Christians' cheat others and claim the grace of God is sufficient for dem?

Uchesis:
Ronaldo fan...

Incase u dont know yet, Messi and CR7 have both passed their prime. So dont make it look as if na only Messi don fade.

If u like marry, if u no like leave am. Period

No need for Arguments! Every football fan knows dat the last 3 or 4 years has been bad for Messi!

SeaTrade:
My brother told me this like q0 years ago and I'm beginning to think it's true.
As a man,if you have goals to achieve ,especially big ones, it is good to stay away from women.
Comes with all sorts of distractions and drawbacks.

Ur Brother Told you the PURE TRUTH!

Particularly as a young, Struggling guy, you need to focus on your dreams or build wealth to a certain level.

When Nigerians laugh at those Igbo Business Guys who marry at 37 or 38, i just SMH at their Naivety!

kayo8080:
If you want to do what has never been done before... If you want to achieve great heights that have never been reached, trust me, marriage is a big distraction. But if you want to live a normal life... Work 9-5 and retire in your 60s and start collecting pension, then marriage is a very good thing.

Let me give you a few examples here on Nairaland. There was a female writer I looked up to here on Nairaland (literature section) around 2016-2017... I wanted to be like her because the rate at which she wrote stories (good stories) was very remarkable. But after she got married, she went off the map. Of cos she is happy in her marriage, but her writing had to suffer.

Also, there is a guy on Nairaland that started an e-commerce app to rival okadabooks and even amazon... I saw this guy growing, I chatted with him often, and I was happy for him. But once he got married, he shut down the app. I see his status, and I can see he is very happy with his family, but his dream is dead.

Those are two examples of Nairalanders. I can site tens of other real life examples, but you get the drift. The Op mentioned JAY Z and Beyonce being exceptions. What people don't understand is that Beyonce started singing professionally at the age of 8 with Kelly Rowland and a group of girls... Beyonce's dad was working with Xerox, and he had to give up his job just to dedicate his life on building his daughter's girl group... Even at that, it took Beyonce 10 years of constant grind to make it. What of JAY Z her husband... He started rapping professionally with Jaz O in 1986-1987...He didn't make it big until 1998...thats 11-12 years grind. So, Beyonce and Jay Z had already made a lot of sacrifice before they eventually married when they had become individually superstars already.

As I said earlier, if you want to live a normal life, marriage is a sweet thing. But if you want to be extraordinary, marriage is a big distraction.

Your First Paragraph is so on Point!


If as a Married man, you have Big dreams to Pursue, somehow either u will Neglect ur wife or She will not buy into the idea and may start acting up!


If its a woman, Her big dream may clash with her role as housewife and mother!

Olawrites:
So they didn't pursue success? It just gum on them from heaven.

Dont Argue Foolish arguments!

You and i know that most Nigerian Politicians are Thieves!

They cant be called Successful pple!

Sunmolar:
What does success mean to you.

Success is When you set Goals and achieve them or even Nearly achieving them!


For instance, Kylian Mbappe of France and PSG is a success because he had dreams of becoming a Great footballer and he has achieved it through Hardwork!

Olawrites:
Obi Cubana is married
E MOney is married
Soludo is married
Kcee is married
2face is married
Dbanj is married
Otedola is married
Tinubu is married
Buhari is married
Aregbesola is married
Amaechi is married
Goodluck Jonathan is married
Wike is married
Peter Obi is married



Get sense

Majority of the names you mentioned are your Naija Politicians who made wealth from STEALING PUBLIC FUNDS!

Note that i said in Pursuing Success! Those Guys didn't.

Compare it with the persons i mentioned!

46arcadez:
Depending on what you called success

I Simply Professional and Financial success!

Ronaldo is recognized for his achievements in Man u, Juve and R.Madrid!

Drake is Recognized for being a consistent, successful US Rapper since 2009!

Marriage cant be a 'Success' for such Persons!

Liverpoolfc:
Marriage itself is success. Success can't distract success.

So Married people living in Penury and Abject Poverty can still call marriage a Success?

czarr:
Seun sef fit get alternate moniker wey him dey use insult people.

Might be Mr. VultureGrills!

[quote author=Beebah2000 post=111176253][/quote]What!

Thought you would be absent today!

Forgiven, right?

SandraIkuboR:
so because I'm dressed like that on my profile now means I'm self advertising??

And even if I'm advertising what business of yours is it though??

Let this be the first and the last time you quote me on irrelevant trash in this forum

All this little kids everywhere SMH

Lolss..See this Funny Girl.

who has time to be looking at Pple's DP?

I am only replying to you telling us about ur Tight Pussy!

Is it necessary? What's the intent?

2ndchildhood:
Mikel Arteta surely deserves a noble price award if Arsenal qualifies for the champions League with Lacazette as a striker..

You are very correct! Lacazette just can't score goals! Despite all his runnings, he is a Minus! And his Replacement, Nketiah is not Better!

Congrats to Arsenal FC for claiming the three points! But Pepe is such a 72million waste!