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Areola14:
The very first week I joined my past secondary school WhatsApp group, I was frustrated with the number of comments on the group, 3,000 comment and many pictures. To me they just want to know those that have made it in life, and funny enough the un-seriouse that you never thought of have really made, but their lifestyle of living I dislike. I still see myself far far ok than them with their riches. Many of them wit lots of baby mama's, some ladies are single mothers and some in their 3rd husband place and some are roaming about with who to hookup with. Those serious one are not really riches but with a meaningful lifestyle. Am cannot be reading 3,000 comments after close of work abeg.

This is EXACTLY why I called it Time Wasting.

How can one Stay on a WhatsApp Group 24+7 and go as Far as Attending Burial of Member's Relatives.

Has to be JOBLESSNESS if you ask me.
ONLY Pple that have little or No Responsibility can have time for us.

Obierika:
So you're still beefing people over things that happened over 20 years agao when you were in school?!

Humans Forget Many things but we NEVER forget an Insult or Actions aimed at Destroying our Self Esteem.

This is Why Students can forgive a Teacher who flogged them 50 strokes of the Cane
but NEVER Forgive a Teacher who Insulted them in Class.

mazinaija:
Please just remain inactive there. At least nobody will say you don't have classmates or you didn't go to school. If you ask Tinubu, you will know the importance of classmates.

WhatsApp group is NOT the only means one can Link up with his/her Coursemates or Sec school mates Plz.😏😕

Lexusgs430:
It simply a group of people, attempting to leach on the more successful group members.......


Almost blaming the successful one's, for their woes....... 😁🤣

TRUE,
Some are Just there, Quietly Scanning for any Coursemate who has made it BIG
So that they can Para the person Later.

Not that They have any Meaningful contributions to make in the Group.

Heavance:
What kind of school did you even attend in the first place?
What kind of school?
Even the former president (Obasanjo) was so happy and in his assembly hall mood when he saw his buddies.
Many of us have a big relationship with our former classmates.
UCL game day alone is something else.
And there are various activities we do, and end of year party is always so big.. Anyone abroad hustle to join the link.
So what kind of school did you really attend?

Physical meetings and Online meetings are TWO Different things, Sir! 😏😕

Aaaaarghmed:
My higher institution group na so so pay pay pay pay money up and down.i never pay one naira.i no get that time

Lols,

If you want to give, Just Check what the Donation are Actually for.

Otherwise, Dem go use your Money take go Flex Barbeque and Cold Origin, on Weekends.

ukaface:
My secondary school page is filled with people who Dey show off, the clique of friends back then in school Dey yab other people.
Imagine being referred as ‘ that slim quiet girl that was always following O…’ omo! E pain me, I jejely deactivate from the group, no be me Una wan use bad energy for.
That page na Yeye page. I don’t think I want to be involved with my secondary school mates.

My S.O.N page no sabi pass wishing happy birthday upandan and contributing money for person wey carry belle, or who Dey do wedding. After I don contribute finish page no come Dey functional, everybody don quiet, minding their business.
Who go come contribute for me when I marry and carry belle bayi?

Lols.😄😄😂

Honestly, most Discussions in University or Sec. School WhatsApp groups are hardly Meaningful.😕

Formularcr7:
you mean traveling a long distance to see love ones or pay tribute is a waste of time and for jobless people? I pity you, na your type go host party and begin they beg neighbors to come eat

Travelling Distances for a Burial is simply for JOBLESS persons or Very Comfortable Persons whom PARENTS or UNCLES are Feeding.

A Hustler with Ambitions would not attend Burials randomly.

johnog4sure:
I am in NYSC, UNi and sec sch, I have not seen anything beneficial, I am just hanging in there, when they heard I was married with kid and all that, one them said I am too secretive, I just acknowledge he is correct, to avoid shalaye...just hanging in there hoping maybe I will initiate something good soon or somebody else would.

So the person expects you to be Broadcasting your Life events in the WhatsApp group?

Na wa for Pple!

kingthreat:
Some shameless criminals have turned alumni WhatsApp groups to scam their ex-colleagues.
One idiot scammed our set of over 1.5M lying about his medical issues. Someone who decided to track him saw that he was not sick but was using the money on women and booze.
Please if any of your ex-schoolmates asks for medical help, go and verify first.

Thank you, Brotherly!

Some Whatsapp Admins are Silent CROOKS.

They Use those Proceeds from Donations to Flex themselves Jejely.

winner37:
You are right , it was last year I spoke with few of my guys they open WhatsApp group started added member all of a sudden billing and self-exaltation started popping in because some had the opportunity to go to universities while others could not ,funeral announcement, birthday and wedding donation was all they know for me i diligently withdraw myself to avoid issues ..


Some people are only there for selfish interest ...

Some Whatsapp Admins actually EMBEZZLE those funds contributed.

Na their Office be that. They do NOT have any Paid Job in their normal lives.

Some of them Might be Right here on this Thread. 😌😌

Kobicove:
OP, what your friend said about you is true!

Introvert Maybe,
Anti-Social, NO!

Seriously, Most discussions in Alumni Whatsapp Groups are Merry-go-round, MEANINGLESS topics.

Peter My Man, how you dey, Magdalene our Chairlady, How far, etc.

You CAN'T use it to compare Nairaland as someone here has attempted to do.

dkidd:
It's just an avenue to meet old friends, lovers and fuckbuddies and see if anything fun and pleasure related can come up. Heck they even set up meetings and hangouts to that effect. And some old sparks get rekindled married or not and then complications sets in. In life u get past a stage and u keep going forward no looking backwards. Especially in today's world where discipline and loyalty is outdated. I pity married men who allow their wives engage in such groups. If no be say I dey principled the married women when full my contact from these groups and those steady flooding my vision with blinding green lights for dey get am hot hot. I no like karma for that department at all so I respect myself. There's no real reason to be in such groups

Lol, That's when there is a Reunion Party.

Things like that must definitely occur in such Gatherings.

Especially when Broke Nigga back then, is now a SA to a Governor or a Big Politician!
Some female coursemates will Try get his contact and later do 'Business' with him.

OP, Money is NOT that hard to get.

The Real problem in Nigeria now, is that the VALUE of Money has been Destroyed.

If you are earning 50k salary currently, you are VERY poor.
But 50k in 2018, 2019 was a Relatively good salary.

Reno Omockery is an UNSTABLE element and is Fooling Himself.

That's Why all three Major Politicians; PETER OBI, Tinubu and Atiku can't take him Serious.

He should have realized that by now.

Sapasenator:
My alumni, they are only interested in contributing money for birthdays and burial ceremonies.

We are never good at harnessing the power of a group to achieve great success or solve a problem.

Na that Burial ceremony dey Tire me Pass.

Some even Travel Distances to such Burial ceremonies.🤨

I am always like 'So this Person does not Have a Job or Things to do with his/her Time'? 🤨😒

In my Secondary School and University WhatsApp groups,
I hardly Comment or make contributions.

I see them online talking about social media trends, Our School days, Visitations,etc and I always Wonder 'Do these Pple have Jobs and ambitions?'.

I talked to a Friend of mine About this and he said 'I am Anti-Social or an Introvert'.

But Really, I see those Alumni WhatsApp Groups as an Organization of Time Wasters.

HOW ABOUT YOU?
Comment.

I didn't FUCCK Akpevwe.

I only used my PREEK to check if she was a Virgin. 😟😌😌

chatinent:
Anyone who played the role will still do it well ..


But I'll go for the father of the girl in Miracle in cell 8 or sth like that...

Lingo lingo

Says who?😏

There are Famous Films that the Directors/Producer knows that Star Actor did NOT do justice to the role
And they wished they gave to Someone else.😕🙁

Like the movie Face-off by John Travolta and Nicholas Cage,
Nicholas Cage for me did NOT do well in the movie.😒

Expanse2020:
Robert Powell
James Patrick Caviezel Jr.
Chris Saradon
In the Passion of the Christ making
These people play the role of Jesus so good that billions of Africans Christian think they are the real Jesus..
They hanged there faces in the house, church, carry there cross thinking they are the God, son of God and all sort of the dirty talk..
I give it to them they supposed winning the Grammy every year
😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

Have you watched one Old Ghanaian Majid Michel movie when he acted as Jesus Christ?🤨

He was even BETTER than Mel Gibson in Passion of Christ.🙂🙂

Jean Claude Van Damme in Hard Target.
Arnold Swarzeneggar in Terminator.
Ramsey Nouah in the Movie, My LOVE.

These Actors 'killed' their roles in those Movies.

No one could have done it Better.

Icandream:
Did Juventus ever play semi final after Ronaldo left?

Well same thing with MESSI and Barca. 🤷

Since he left, they have never reached UCL Semi final.😒

Infact, they crashed out of the Group stage last season and went to Europa league.😌

That can NOT happen with a MESSI on the team.

kals4luv990:
I swear boss..noticed that immediately messi and neymar left,PSG reach semifinals?that dwarf was a curse

UCL is NOT Messi's Problem.

He has seen Everything in UEFA champion league and won it 4X
Plus like 5,6 UCL Highest scorers Awards.

Beverlyjean:
They chased the leprechaun fraud away and they are back to playing semis ....

If it's PSG you are referring to, How about Neymar?

You this MESSI hater.😕

Did Ronaldo even play any UCL Semi final with Juventus? 😏🤔

This one na Still Handiwork of Opposition Party or Mischief makers?😏🙄

APC, very SHAMELESS party with a criminal president and Chairman. 😟😟

Lol, Primary School Girl from Health centre crossing road.'🤨

'OP is a Peterfile suffering from Racism'

Mr Cork ehn, na BETTER craze dey him Head o.. 😄😄

OP, You are on the right part.👍

Be PROUD of your decision.

Since you have not Put your Finances together, there's NO Need for you to be in a Relationship,
UNLESS THE GIRL'S FATHER IS RICH or She is the one Begging you to befriend Her.

OP, Ladies Don't like Men with a Single Character/Personality Style.

Ladies likes Men/Guys with a Mix Traits of TUFACE Idibia, PORTABLE Zazu and SHALLIPOPI.

Gentility, MADNESS and YAHOO boy Vibes.

saphiere:
We Igbos are not like that o.

She is not referring to Igbos.😏

She is Referring to Men.😕

Claiming Men will accuse Jnr Pope wife of Infidelity.

What Brings INFIDELITY into this?

Mohbad's Wife was Suspected of Cheating because their Son resembled Another Man. 😕😒

1Sharon:
I'm watching.

They're going to rope Jnr popes wife into his death and end up asking for a DNA test. They are somehow, going to make it her fault.

SHUT UP.

Nobody has brought anything like this.

You are the one Bringing such Nonsense Ideas.

OP, Blame BUHARI, Tinibu and APC Fans!

They Spoiled Nairaland just like their Papa (Which some of them are now Denying) did to Nigeria..

Before 2016, this Site was very Interesting but They came with LIES, PROPAGANDA AND TRIBALISM and Polluted it.

And we Anti-APC Group countered back, the Result is What you see today.