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OP, I wanted to say That your number 6 point is too correct.

But in the Bible, see the Woman that brought Solomon to the world.

This Life na wa.

NairalandGOAT1:
The thread ends officially after this comment!
I don't care to read anything others are writing or typing after this!!!

I'm out!!!!!

Honestly, the Guy KILLED the Guy.

In Ijaw language, they call it 'Egberi Fade' i.e. the Talk don Finish.

ravensckar:
You're very wrong but you just didn't realize it. The first rule of life is that; life doesn't come with a PAST QUESTION, MANUAL or INSTRUCTION BOOKLET. Na trial & error everybody dey do.

My dad had my older brother at 19, he wasn't from a rich family either. He suffered and laboured through his youthful age to raise us all. Today nko? He's in his late FIFTIES and most of us have become relatively successful in his lifetime. We're the ones taking care of him.He's still active, looks young and healthy. When he came to visit me early this year, most people didn't believe he's my dad.

My step-mum (his younger wife) is still servicing him. He still has other younger children who run and jump around the house. He has grandchildren who always come to spend the holidays with him (my children are there as I type). His older children (myself & siblings) always ensure he never lacks anything. Most importantly, he's living his DREAM. He's always happy and grateful for marrying early.

My point- both early and late marriages have their advantages and disadvantages. Anyone that works for you, practice it. Life is a foreign language afterall, everyone mispronounces it.

That's where you are VERY WRONG. 😕😕

Comparing the 1970's or 1980's to this Era.😏

You can't even compare 2014 to this 2024.

If any Unprepared Guy in his 20's Rush into Marriage in this times,
His life will be so Fuccked!😒

barrydee:
This OP is not wise at all.
Africa needs to grow beyond this mindset. Having a wife and kids is not an achievement but a fulfillment which by the way, different people have their own definition of fulfillment.

If you are a man in your 30s living in a difficult country like Nigeria, i advise you chase the bread to better your life & your future. If you stumble on a good woman while at it, you can marry her but if you allow societal pressure to make you marry one of these damaged, unproductive, & useless slay queens who are liabilities as a wife, sorry na your name.

You can still get married in your late 30s or early 40s and live a fulfilled life & by the time you are in your 60s, your kids would be in their eaely 20s keeping you company, running erands for you and making you happy while you relax and groom them to takeover your business/empire aince you utilized your youthful era to make some good investments.

Unlike those niggas who got married in their 20s using all their energy as youths just to fend, suffer and provide for the family. By the time they hit 60, no major investments, their kids have all abandoned them to begin their own lives/families making them feel lonely and abandoned. Only few lucky ones get regular visits, care and gifts from their kids at this point.

Too much Sense in this Part!👍

All the Money that could have Saved and Invested is put inside Family Responsibility.

You won't be able to own any Business or property throughout your 30's because you have Wife and kids at home.

When you get to your 40's, you are too Already weak to Hustle and you start waiting for ur 17yr old daughter to Marry RichMan. 😒😌

As a Guy from a Poor Family, If you Marry in your 20's, It's like signing LIFETIME CONTRACT WITH POVERTY.😟

Samfloxin:
Many of them are feeling bad but the cost of marrying a woman now is very high

It is Actually, The cost of Maintaining a Home.😒

Rent
Electricity bills.
GOTV
Gas
Diaper
School fees.
Etc.😟

Young Men should be very Financially Ready before going into Marriage,
because in Africa, All Responsibility is for the Man.

Woman own na to Born pickin and Nurture.

If they are Pursuing Money and Trying to build Wealth, they should be very Happy!

OP, if you know what some Young Parents are Facing in Nigeria currently,
You won't even advise anyone (Guys) to Marry in their 30's!.

Slytiger:
To think Joseph Benjamin was lamenting on twitter like 3 days before the movie was released about the Yorubas leaving the Ibo behind on movie production, and asking the Yorubas to tone down on their historical and cultural movies for "one Nigeria" reasons.

That's NOT what Joseph Benjamin said.

He said Nollywood was becoming fixated on TRIBAL/Ethnic movies such as Anikulakpo and others.

Since ladies like Successful, Already made Guys for marriage.
Men will desire Fresh, decent Girls for marriage.

Nobody be Mumu. 😏😕

You are forced to smell/inhale your Partner's Farts most times. 😟😌

You are forced to see their Dirty Armpits.😌😌

MrSly:
It seems you only eat agree bread. Which one is which kind bread someone bought for 1700 as if it is not possible? Are you in this country at all?

Or maybe na Madiga him dey Chop

I really Tire for his Argument that no Bread is sold for 1700.

CrossRhodes:
This is proof that you can't even feed yourself or don't have capacity to do so .......
Family men on this platform know a big family size of bread is 1600-1700

Most guys here that support BAD govts are Dependants.

They still Live in their Parents house and feed from their Mother's Pot.

They don't know what it feels like to Buy things or Pay bills.

NaijaPrince18:
He scored 1 goal in afcon. Overrated I don’t rate him again after that tournament

Though he missed some chances, but our Attacking play was RUBBISH.

Our Wingers are terrible.
Chukwueze, Moses Simon and Ademola Lookman were sh*.

Can you compare any of them with the likes of Tijani Babangida, Finidi George or even Pius Ikedia?😏

The way Chukwueze played, I was wondering how is this an AC Milan of Serie A Player? 😕☹️

Jokerman:
But Pessi is earning big in MLS , and he's not playing due to now eating burger like flopzard.

Like Yahooboy like Pessi...

Was Messi mentioned anywhere in this Thread?🤨

Why you dey behave like our APC Agbad0rians brothers,
who call Peter Obi name in a Matter that is totally unrelated to him? 😒😒

thesicilian:
South Africans and Ghanaians also complain of the same thing. Seems the Nigerian men prefer to spend money instead of trying to get the women to love them for who they are. And after using money to entice them, they'll start complaining that the ladies are only after money.

It is our Culture.

SPENDING Money to prove ur Love' for a Lady.

Davido is the Main enabler when he sang 'I give my baby Assurance and Taty Billion for the account o'.

In many Other Countries, they DON'T use Money to Impress or keep a woman,
So Nigerians go there and Spoil things for them. 🙁🙂

Wahala.

Na so South African Men start their complain too o.

That Nigerian Guys dey snatch their Babes.

Dronedude:
I like PO, I don't really like RO's views but after seeing these RO's points, I see and share in his ideology.

Ogbeni, LP struggles is Political-sponsored. 😏

Otherwise, how will NLC president Joe Ajaero leave his constitutional duty and start fighting Abure for leadership of LP?😕

A Man that once followed Tinibu to Dubai for a Political trip.

Labour Party that has Messed up with by that Babalawo Man Apapa and currently Joe Ajaero,
What do you think Obi should do, here?

PETER OBI is very Smart for temporarily distancing himself from party.

okerekingsley90:
They tossed Hummels career up and down

Bayern used the Guy's career, like they Way Bigmen children do Biscuits.

Very true, OP.👍

Prices of foodstuffs and Household still remain the same.

Hungry Man size Indomie is N900!

Only N100 reduction from the N1000 prize.

Tinibu no Try at all. 😕

DIVINEEVIDENCE:
6-year old don get hotel and I'm on Nairaland arguing with Tinubu's E-rats.

Na you nor Smart na.

I never Try that.

I gnore their Foolish Mentions. 😒

Goons that supported Buhari for 8yrs, now Supporting Tinibu and codedly criticizing Buhari.

As a Wise Person, Just Eat 3, 4 pieces of the Meat and claim you are Satisfied.

If you eat MORE than 5pieces, ur Inlaws will so Gossip you behind you.
Africans get BAD-MOUTH pass anything.

YoungLionken:
@OP, you acted like it's your write up, meanwhile you only copy and pasted it here for all to see..

Always give credit or acknowledgement to original owners...

Immediately, I saw his name, I knew it was a copied write up.

He is one of our APC Agbad0rians.

Agbad0rian no go fit get Intelligence reach so.

This Guy dey smoke Igbo (In Wike's voice).

The way people those days, take dey FastForward Advertisements for our Nollywood films
Or those Dancing/singing in Indian movies,

Na so I take Skip all the OP wrote, move to the comments section.

Peter Obi, the Main Man!😎😊😊

OP, kudos to you. 👍

Topman7:
You spoilt your post with Peseiro.

Nigerians don’t like defensive, Park the bus football.

But before that Ivory Coast match, he was Praised to High Heavens.😏

Zonefree here said, It is Tactical Discipline!

That Greece won EURO 2004 when winning 1 0 throughout.🤨😒

Everyone was Hailing but Suddenly they changed Mouth!

OP, I think most Nigerians are POOR decision Makers.

In 2022, When Gernot Rohr was sacked as Super Eagles coach, they were jubilating.

But when Eguavoen got the job and Messed up by losing to Tunisia in the AFCON and failing to qualify for the Qatar WC, they started Crying.

Useless APC govt sharing Palliatives to citizens, like biscuits to children in a Retreat.

spencekat:
And the fool is also married.

That's why it is Wrong to assume Married Men as Responsible!😒

Some Landlords do not give their Apartments to Single Guys,
Claiming that such Guys are very sexually Corrupt.

But If you know Wetin Some Married men fit do ehn.

Ha! Osubi that is close to my hood.

The compound resemble Compound when I don enter b4.

Very USELESS man.

All dis Disrespectful Soldiers.

No wonder Sanwo-Olu called them USELESS.

Can they Invade TY Danjuma's or Gowon's house to look for arms?

They have no Respect for Southerners, Dat's I so much Detest them.😏

Always want to Treat us like Trash but honour and Respect Bandits like Kings!😕

Alexis11:
Keep decieving yourself. By your logic it means Nigerian football team never had glory days.

😂

Mr Agbad0rian,
He simply means since Buhari and Ebola tinibu came onboard,
Super Eagles have been FAILING WOEFULLY.

He means Bad Governance affect all areas of life, including Football.

During Abacha (1993-1998), was our Glory Era in Super eagles and even Sports in general, because of his Able Leadership!

APC/tinibu na curse unto Nigeria! 😒