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In these era of Gsm, why would I date a guy "hardly' call ME? If I observe this trait for a while. What the heck would I still be doing with him? He is as good as been dumped cos he is obviously wasting his credit on someone else! Good riddance!

I read his text messages becos | see nothing wrong with it. I mean if he doesnt not mind, then why wouldn't I read it?

Why be in a sad relatioship, when you can get something so much better? This same thing happened to me, he was so much into his ex telling me they were only friends. Until I caught him red handed thru a love text he sent.

I suggest you begin to disassociate yourself from him phsically and emotionally. it may not be easy, but you have to do it. He is simply a good riddance to bad rubbish!

II trust only my mum and even at that, I don't think I can reveal all my secrets to her.

bawomolo:
do u honestly think the women and children have a voice, especially the children??

In this modern times, how can you say women and children do not have a voice? I beg to differ. they were not forced to enter into the marriage with this man. He did nothing legally wrong so I think the Government or whoever is harassing him should stop.

I thought of this condition as a joke till a former boyfriend insisted I got pregnant before he comes to meet my parents.
I was like "oh! so you are doubting my fertitily abi?".
I told him if that was his condtion then, he is not the man for me. I mean who says that the fault may not be the guys own if no pregnancy emerges?

Any guy that makes this a condition no be am at all .

God has not promised that our skies would always be blue, but he has promised to see us through.

I would love to adopt kids. There are so many in Nigeria, why go all da way to Kenya?

I was born an only child. When I was about 10 years old, my dad suggested to my my to adopt and she refused. Now, almost more than 12yrs later, my mum decided it was worh a trial.

Just about three weeks ago, I got my self a baby brother (a month old now) and he is the cutest baby ever.

Any regrets? we should have done it a lot sooner!

Say to the righteous that it shall be well with them,
For they shall eat the fruit of their doings.
Isaiah 3: 10

I an an emotional person ( most ladies are).When I was in my last relationship, I devoted my time, money and all to see that it works. I was so much committed that I turned a blind eye to his faults even the most obvious. I think I loved him too much to let go, until he made the moves himself and  checked out, and now I know that was the best thing he had ever done. I am much wiser.

you are really starting to piss me off with this Kanu threads.
Wht can't you just tell us the beef you have with him or his family?

@ poster,
it is very much allowed to remain single ok?

The word 'goodbye' is used here to mean letting go with finality a relationship that is heading no where.

The question is why is is difficult for singles to say goodbye when they come to the realization that the relationship they are in is something they ought not to have gotten into in the first place.

What is the reason for this?

@ topic
this one na proper BOBO!

tope2000:
is your boyfriend a celebrity??

I wonder oh!

I will go for Sawyer - Josh Halloway
and Jack - Mathew Fox

Yes I still remember him. he was a very great guy and my first son would be named after him!

I got hurt so much from my past relationship that I vowed never to forgive him, not to talk of forgetting the wrong he did me.
But as time went on, I realized that I need to forgive and forget about him, not because he deserved it, but because he needs it and in the long run, I will need it too.

I took courage frOm the book of Matthew  6: 14 -15.

MP007:
I have my own version of "family values" but I think its time people start explaining what "family values" means to them,

Oya, lets hear your own version of family values first.

Life has taught me that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for what we become.

I am intelligent.

Fear of the unknown
Fear of failure

Ready to rise again by Gabrielle

yong babe:
* throws away gun, picks up grenade*

LMAO!
grenade blows up in Olowo1 face!

@ poster,

Stop deceiving your self!

He probably thought he was still on the field of play when he got those girls knocked up.

Orestik:
No Omolola you're wrong. Beyonce twists naturally but Shakira? She had to remove some of her ribs because she wanted to twist. Beyounce is perfect

Whether Shakira twists naturally or 'fakely' is totally irrelevant. She winds her hips better!

Well, I had a boyfriend who had only moved out with two girls (both lasted less than 2 months) before he met me, he said he would love me till he died and all that bla, bla, bla.

After like 6 months, story come change, he said he wanted to experience more before he totally like committed and all that.

The actual fact was that he was n ot yet exposed, and still felt that there was more out there for him before he gets hooked up.

he said this cause he was not really exposed and didnt know the concept of falling in love.

Father, forgive them!

Jedi - jedi is pile.

Dear Forgiving father,

I am overcome with sorrow. A great rift has occurred in a relationship that I have cherished for so long. I am deeply hurt - crushed under a burden of loss. I cannot imagine ever being able to trust again.

Father, what should we do when someone we love so completely hurts us so desperately? How can this kind of heartache ever heal? I have been devasted by the persons insensivity.

I know Lord, that we all make mistakes in judgement when dealing with people. And I know that we need to be merciful and forgiving when we are wronged, but aren't there limits to what we are expected to endure? I don't recall that I have ever hurt anyone as the person has hurt me. I don't think I can ever feel "safe"again.

Lord, I know you know all things. I believe that you understand my anguish. I trust that you feel my pain. Please counsel me with wisdom from above.

Your Brokenhearted Child.

@ topic

He didn;t lie, but he didn't say the whole truth either!