₦airaland Forum

JESHAL007:
TO BE A MAN IS NOT EASY:

1. We need to pay electricity bill
2. Buy bread when coming
3. Buy eggs when you are coming
4. Gas is finished.
5. Kerosine finished.
6a. Generator is not starting up.
6b. Buy fuel for generator when you are coming.
7. The car can't start, it has a flat tyre.
8. School fees is needed.
9. DStv/GOtv need to be paid.
10. Auctioneers are demanding for loan repayment.
11. Private tuitor wants her monthly pay.
12. It's happy hour, we need biscuits.
13. Water bill is due.
14. We need to pay rent.
15. Our parents need pocket money.
16. The baby has fever.
17a. I need airtime
17b. I need internet fata
18. Let's do dinner tonight.
19. Fridge, pressing iron, fan etc not working
20. We want to go to amusement park this holiday.
21. In the bedroom they shouldn't disappoint o, you better do it "HARDER"

Result:
Doctor says I have High BP.
How man no go get High BP.

Reason why men die earlier.

More reason I value the aspect of redpill more that focuses on men working on their economic prowess, on how they become more financially buoyant, build their masculinity...their skills... keeping fit etc.




So many group of men feels redpill is only just banging pussy alone.
I was disappointed when I got added to one redpill WhatsApp group...and what most of the guys was doing is just posting VN of their sex tape or covered pics of the ladies they are about to bang/have banged... traits that is always common in the ashewo thread now beggers den.


One thing I learnt in the realm of this redpill is that "A man with purpose have less time for all the time pleasure"

Last last sha..to be man sha no easy...

How this news take enter Front page self....sighs

Words of wisdom

University of Ibadan when are you uploading your senate list of graduate into NYSC Portal so that students can start going for registration.

Other schools have been proactive enough to do this...These days I no dey understand this UI again....

My younger brother don wait for this NYSC thing tire...

jayAjoku:
Lol facts be wary of married women . But what I was saying was if someone wanted to do the most damage to a Nigerian man’s ego . Fûckings his wife or girlfriend is the way to Go 🤣😂🤣 . But I advise all gentlemen to avoid peoples wives and girlfriends if you can , if you have knowledge of their affairs because their husbands could be major simps with deadly intentions and repressed anger .

Hahahahahaha Exactly Bossman

jayAjoku:
if you want to hurt a Nigerian man just fûck his wife , girlfriend or sister I promise you ,
you will drive a lot of them insane , especially their girlfriends. Nigerian men value sex more than the women they say they love. A large number of Nigerian men have low self esteem and no game. A lot of them don’t even know how to identify a woman that’s really into them. A lot of them don’t know how to maintain a relationship without money. It’s sad but I’ll be putting in the work to Fûck their girlfriends and wives on my free time

Hmmmm How married women take dey attract una self? Well becareful of the pussy of a married woman sha...because his simp husband will just gun you down and gun himself...

People like the Killer of those girls deserves public execution so as to serve as a deterrent to others

Like for NLC , Share for FG

During the days of MTN Xtral cool when i used to lover boy like Ramsey Noah them...So i called this my crush 12 am free call.

The girl picked.

I said "Hello Dear".

The girl replied 'Your mate dey use this time hustle, you na mtn free call dey your head, abeg go sleep'...

ME:



Well: Now wey bar dey my hand plus understanding the hypergamies nature of women...i over vent and select...

A man that can control His Anger or don't have Anger problems...Do not know what God has done for Him.

Dogalmighty17:
It appears funny right? But in a society with established systems that work that scammer will be cooling off in a police cell.

They told us every line has a NIN and every bank account has a BVN. They made Nigerians suffer under the sun qieuing up to submit biometrics for all this rubbish and yet scammers have increased. They operate freely without fear.

If at all you choose to involve the banks and the courts, you will be frustrated. All of a sudden, the bank tells you it doesn't have the details of whoever scammed you. You involve the police, they will demand outrageous sums from you in the name of tracking. You pay the police to do their job.

This is not how society should operate. Nigeria is a shame and a disgrace.

While others find it amusing...I am glad someone has something sensible to say about this anomaly

insightful thread

If you are broke, people do not actually cares if the economy is harsh...Your own is just to provide

chatinent:
1. EFCC arrests the poor.

But...

The same EFCC invites the rich for questioning.


The difference is money.

If you check well, the crime of the poor cannot be compared to that of the rich but they cannot be jailed in Nigeria. That is why ex Kano gov could fight them and escape in this same Nigeria! But you as a poor man, try am now.



Spoiler: One certain time the members of the EFCC came over to my estate and, as you know, picked many boys...even scapegoats (an ice-cream seller waiting for change and etc). Now everyone was labelled a Yahoo Boy. You know they like numbers. Cos the more, the better. I dey watch from my window at the far rear of the other street when negotiations started and some was let go and they squeezed the rest.

Make I give una update: anybody wey you see say EFCC televise after catching, most times are those who didn't meet up the bribe (from the point of arrest).

2. During Environmental Sanitation in Nigeria, there's always a curfew (for the poor), and a pardon for those on essential duties (the rich). One of the two if caught will be squeezed and arrested, then heavily fined, while the other will be saluted and even begged for money by the taskforce.

The difference is your status.


3. The police is meant for the rich against the poor in Nigeria. The rich believe the poor are the major perpetrators of crime.

The police serve as security details for the rich, and they see the poor as another means to flex their powers, and of course extort them. That is why there's a kind of car you'll drive in Nigeria and no checkpoint can dare stop you. Even the soldiers!

Wanna try?

Buy two Hilux, two Tacoma muscle and two Prado. Mix the arrangement: the Hilux and Tacoma at the front and the other two at the back with both Prados in the centre...then drive at 180km/hr on any road in Nigeria. Even if you kidnapped a fellow citizen inside or carry drugs, the policemen, road safety, army, civil defence and gbogbotibgo cannot stop you. Instead, they will help you and be clearing the road off other vehicles and pedestrians.





4. Do you know it's safer to steal bigger sums in Nigeria than smaller sums?

If you steal ₦4000 in St Michaels, Aba, Abia State, before your people even know what's happened, you'd have been roasted by two tyres, two litres of fuel and general beating with only a grace to speak unless it's your last prayer you demand for.

But if you steal ₦50bn in Nigeria, do you know you will go scottfree? At all at all, dem go say make you forfeit ₦50m bail and they'll release you. Now think it, someone who stole ₦50bn is returning ₦50m. That's like stealing ₦100k and being told to return ₦1.




So stealing is legal for the rich. All laws made in Nigeria are for the poor.




I remember when one Road Safety officer stopped me. I was on seatbelt and had my driver's licence with an updated paperwork, fire extinguisher, triangle and even a new spare since I had changed the four tyres. Can you believe what the man threatened to charge me with as he saw nothing else? He said he'd charge me for not moving with my original papers but the photostat. I didn't utter a word and he spoke and got tired until another officer came, asked what happened and told me to go reprimanding him of the overdo. They later begged me for tips and guess what! I didn't give them politely.


5.You think I am lying? Do you know the cell or jail the big men stay in Nigeria is different from the one the poor men stay?



Mr Chairman, with these few points of mine, I wish to educate you that whatever you fit do to make money in Nigeria, just do it.


If you still don't have any reason to have money in Nigeria, just have the money.


I'm available for research writing. Thanks.

Words of wisdom

ubunja:
yes, men can turn down sex due to self-control and morality issues. That's commendable. The "but" here is that no man must think doing so has a bearing on how women view him. As concerning value and worth.
Because at the end how it plays out is That pucc you're passing on to appear special/different from other men, the lady is just going to take it to another guy! Usually some guy who's always available for quick cheap no-stress sex. Some guys just make it so hard and complicated to give them sex girls simply stop offering.

I'm sure we've all heard of a situation where some morally upright gentleman of a guy had a lady always visiting him acting funny for him but the guy was always "controlling" himself until the lady gave up, stopped visiting and somehow ended up getting pregnant for some clown.
What the gentleman did is really not playing hard to get in the dating sense, he just missed opportunities.

Okay let's switch genders for better clarity.

How does a woman play hard to get?

We go back to the foundation of male/female dynamics: Men love sex, Women love money. Men want sex, Women want money.

A woman then plays hard to get by being stingy with SEX. Cause sex is what men want.
While a man plays hard to get by being stingy with LOVE aka commitment, cause that's what women want.

A man doesn't play hard to get by refusing sex just as a woman doesn't play hard to get by refusing love/commitment/money. A man takes the sex but refuses to give the woman that one thing she wants (love/commitment/money) -that's him playing hard to get. Because until a man is in love or committed the woman hasn't actually got him.

Same way,,, a woman takes the love, commitment and money that's offered to her but denies men that one thing they all want: sex. Cause until a woman has given a man sex, the man hasn't actually got anything worthwhile from the woman. He hasn't yet "got" the woman.
The moment of truth for women is when a man finally commits. And the moment of truth for men is when a woman finally gives sex.

If you're a woman it doesn't matter if Davido or Chris Brown wants to sleep with you. What matters is Do they want to commit?Do they want to marry you? That's the question cause that's what really determines your worth IN THEIR EYES. Being good enough for sex is inferior. Being good enough to committment is superior. Its when a man commits that you have got got him.

That's why when a woman cheats a man's first question is "Did you sleep with him?" Cause for men there's nothing serious until sex happens.
And when a man cheats women's first question is "Do you love her?" Cause women understands that men will fucc anything, its when a man commits that things become serious.

Men and women are looking at sex and love from opposing sides, so what they value, what they see as valuable, is also opposed.

When a girl tells her friends "Moses loves me!" What do the friends ask? They ask, "What has he done for you?!"
Meanwhile, if a guy tells his friends, "Dorothy loves me!" They're going to ask "Did she let you smash?"

Which is to say, A woman can't say "Moses loves me cause he had sex with me". Not really, cause sex is not something men control. Just as a man can't say,"Dorothy loves me cause she bought me this and that". Cause a womans commitment is worthless. As long as he hasn't smashed Dorothy, his friends can't really be convinced Dorothy loves him. Cause the only thing of value Dorothy has is the pucc. Until she puts that on the table, she's holding back.

All this is to illustrate both men and women understand the "moment of Truth" concerning each gender. A woman can't use commitment to show a guy she loves him, just as much as a man can't use sex to show a woman he loves her. Women express love by sex, men express love by commitment. Hence that woman who's hard to fucc is the woman everyone fights for cause she has value.Just like that man who's hard to commit is the man everyone fights for cause he has value.
Which brings us full circle back to the virgin and the Bad boy as the most valuable in the dating field.

This pill is too hottttt ....hot like tatashe'

Proserpina:
That's because women are not created to be providers! Whoever loses job should get another!

Oh women are not meant to be providers abi...oh okay...just for sex and making babies, i dig

Insightful messages from the lawyer...


In a nutshell, nothing like unconditional love in romance

pansophist:
I don see woman for nairaland wey dey objective and wey get sense.

Finally.

Me self dey flabbergasted ....when I saw her comment...

People wey no like truth really hates this guy man.... Still on still the guy dey talk gan...he no dey filter him words

Nigeria the common "Hub of corruption "

Sighsssss


Moreover why can't they mentioned the names of the individuals and companies blacklisted so as to stand as a detterant to others....

Obalende axis of lagos Island is a replica of how life can be hard for men. Women at their low offers pussy for money to survive... while the men at their low sleeps on top the bridge using the pavement as bed. When it rains it falls on them. When you see their faces, it is filled with so much despair and melancholy. They are like walking dead , no one to save them. ....Young men....Please dont play with your future oooo

Yes, if it has Air Condition..

Bianca2o24:
Omo on god. I don sell my house bet untop dortmumd na them go bring me funds wey I go use buy jet. I dont tire for naija

Village People on the beats

Another PSG and Bayern Final...

Just provide stable Electricity , reduce fuel to 200.... Sufferings will reduce to a very large extent.

This increment can not meet half of the current cost of living...

sighsssss

Minimum wage...another distractions for 2024...After Dollar rise and fall...Fall and Rise

Unserious Government and Labour

Come Nigeria interesting...

Shaaa...make those bandits no try to kidnap dem ooo...

Sighsssss

This country and hope hope.... blissful wishes... Una go hope till una go old.
This Hope is a indeed a strong delusional drug...We like hoping in this country.

Average Nigerian will pray (with their hypocritical mind) and hope in bliss..." when dem no be illbliss..."

Evil politicians and charlatans know this hence they use it as tool against the people.

Nigeria for don better...but the number of people wey no get sense plenty pass those wey get sense.



Sighs

Life has thought me that las las "Nothing dey this Life".

That many people we think are actually doing better than us are actually living in their worst state.

That You can't wait until life isn't hard anymore before. you decide to be happy.”(Nightbirde)"

That there 3 things you can do with your life... you can Waste it, Enjoy it or Invest it.

That truth is actually difficult to embrace...but it will shape us for the best.

That you are the only one that can love yourself unconditionally.

Your circles,relationship or environment most times can make or mar you

Una don start again.

2024 Year of Naira Vs Dollar rise and fall battle...

I just hope last last Naira Truimphs sha

congratulations to him