Insightful thread

Wait for sex till Marriage!

Sucre6:


Yeah she was really, after the first round, she bleed, hymen broken, I would eventually forgive her, but I want to register it in her head that I am the Alpha in the Pack and I call the shots.

She go disturb you tire... Most women hardly forgets the man that disvirgned them...

I admire your stance...kudos

JESHAL:
Sleeping with prostitutes is a quick fix to a long term problem, you won't even enjoy the sex, it's one sided, no emotional bonding afterwards, it's transactional and negotiated, you get the poorest quality sex even if you spend heavily, you are on a time clock, the hoes sees you as a useful thirsty idiot, the hoes disrespect you, it's better to endure sexlessness.


Sadly many beta males are getting this kind of sex or no sex at all, based on the condition that they provide value is the only way their wives would endure and tolerate fucxking them,their wives see them as useful idiots they settled with, no love, just duty and chore sex.

Hahahaha , reality is that many of these men are after their orgasm...make dem cum den dislodged the bitch in peace.

Nothing concerns them with emotional bonding...
Infact after they cum the , woman looks useless in their eyes.

CaveAdullam:
1. The chances of achieving your goal become impossible or ultra slim.

2. As a father you will hardly have time for yourself because you are bothered about family bills.

3. Your only joy as a father is that your kids are healthy, intelligent, and becoming responsible.

4. As a father, the love your family has for you is predicated on the magnitude of your food storage and the depth of your pocket.

5. As a father when things go sour, the respect from nuclear and extended family plummets.

6. As a mother, you must serve your husband and children. You don't have time for vacations or rest.

7. As a father you will have at least one child that will behave in such a manner that it is as if he/she hates the family and wants to ruin the family name intentionally.

8. As a father only loyalty to your vows will keep you from infidelity because your wife will become boring by the day. Ditto for the mother.

9. The flames that run the marriage don't burn on their own. To keep the marriage fresh and the union alive the husband and wife must fan the flames.

10. As a father you'll one day be shocked and remain long-standing with mouth wide open, eyes gazing far when you are being asked "what have you done for me that you are using to boast".

11. As a mother you'll be expected to lead and provide even though it is not within your jurisdiction.

Marriage is a dreadful but enjoyable journey and must only be engaged by men and women who will be accountable and deliberate enough to hold to their specific marriage vows. Because marriage is the building block of civilization. The man and woman must be buoyant in the financial, physical, and spiritual angles (not religious) with no emotional baggage.

Thanks.

BabaCave always on point

Professorcplus:

op I feel your pain. Afterall failure is part of success.

If what was taught didn't work out, they already taught you experience.

An American philosopher once said during the California gold rush; people who sale minings tools makes more money that actual people searching for the gold.

That is why I tell people, it is easier selling some package information to others that actually doing the job.

No matter the internet income you are trying to do, you need to invest in two things:

TIME AND MONEY;

Starting an internet biz without having any money will likely take time and might lead to frustration if results isn't showing.

It would be more easier you already have it at the back of your mind that you will spend just like normal offline business.

So whenever this affiliate or info marketers show face, Here are red flags phase to watch out for.

1. Make $200-$1000 weekly doing nothing just pressing your phone for 1-2hours daily. I mean if everyone is making money doing nothing, they won't be value and the system because useless.

2. You can start without any money. Anyone that tells you that they started with nothing are lying and deceptive. Starting with nothing is nearly impossible. Because they theory of money is you use money to make money.

3. Spend all their time advertising their free training. I mean who goes out there preaching gospel of making money free. Look closely, their intentions lies within.

4. Watch out for Dog eat dog scheme: ie bring 2 or more people. You become their market. Any system which involves bringing 2 peoples is a pramid and would crash. I mean, where will the last 2 peoples see 2 people when everyone is taken

Except you want swing people money while selling plagrised information to ignorant ones, you make money online spending money and time

Words of wisdom

Meedon:
You all should have boundaries when dealing with married women. A nigga just got stripped naked and paraded on the street like a common criminal because he had sexual intercourse with a married woman. The woman went her way without much embarasment. No be every pussy dem the Bleep.

It pays to have self-control at times.

That may be a poor man to be stripped naked that way.

Omo

CaveAdullam:
Fresh account from the oven.

Let's take the ministry forward.

Do like, retweet, and follow.

Merci.

Sharp sharp..I follow... To hear more words of wisdom

Hahahahaha Falseprophet preach on

Calibrator:
A hoe finds it easy to get men's attention while a virtuous woman gets men's commitment with ease.


The true test of a woman sexual value is not in the number of men's attention she is able to attract... It lies in the number of attracted men willing to commit spending their future with her.

Deep

emmaodet:


I see you as someone always trying to put blames on men.
In any society you find yourself, the party RECEIVING money is the one to blame, shame and embarrass because there will always be market for things.
Have you ever wondered why customs only go for smugglers and market women selling rice ? And not we the consumers?

Have you ever wondered why NDLEA goes after igbo sellers and farmers instead of the smokers?
Because there will always be market if it is encouraged.
Both are engaging in it - smugglers and consumers, Igbo traders and smokers yet one is shamed and embarrassed because if the market is not there, the consumer has no choice than to act normal.
Have you wondered why women are the ones called Asewo, prostitutes and not the men when both engage in it? Have you wondered why the prostitutes are the ones police go after and close down their hotels?
Because it is easier to destroy few smugglers/ Igbo traders and farmers/ prostitutes than putting virtually the whole country in prison for consuming foreign rice/Igbo or patronizing prostitutes

Sense too full this sentences

HardMirror:
i started with freelancing.
If you just need to make some money and be busy. Then go into freelancing. Find a niche you are good at and get down to work. If you are not sure what nich to do, just google the easiest freelancing jobs amateurs can do.

If you are not rushing to make money but want to make serious money online. Affiliate marketing, dropshiping, amazon book publishing are great avenues to make thousands of dollars per month.

All info you need are online just search and be smart how you go about it.

Goodluck

Thanks so much ..

HardMirror:
i stopped gambling since june. If i tell you how much i make per month now you would think i am sweet talking. I will just say i make more money than the salary of 5 professors combined. My life has become better i am now focused on becoming my best self.
I laugh at people on this thread thinking they are making money from bets. Bunch of idiots if only they knew how better their lives would be once they stop gambling

Quite insightful...thanks for spilling facts here.

However please can you suggest any legit hustle or online skills men needs to acquire or chase to save them from this mess?
As it seems many are just so stuck innit.

And according to one psychology behaviour therapy...Bad habits ,can be replaced by a good habits...hence if the good habits is sufficient replacement for the bad one.

Martinez39s:

This your memes ehnnnn

HardMirror:
honestly, i don't care what betting has done for you. I opened a thread before this one, I have seen big men ruined because of gambling. and I have seen smart young guys become stupidly rich working hard and working smart, focused on their business and not distracted by gambling. Leave gambling for stupid people, you dont need it AT ALL

Hard mirror...I play bets.

But you are on point.
This message is Indeed insightful.

HardMirror:
Why should you take my advice serious?

I am 34, and I started gambling around 2014 since then I have not only lost over 10 million in total, but I have met many, many people whose beautiful lives were destroyed by gambling.

LET THOSE THAT HAVE EARS TO HEAR LISTEN.

The only people I think should be gambling are HOPELESS people. If you know you are so hopeless, and dumb that you cannot ever see your self succeeding in life then you can go and try gambling to see if you will be lucky.

There are many personal things I cannot tell you guys here on nairaland. Even if i tell you, you would think i am lying, but I hope my message would save some people.

I dont care if gambling has given you millions of naira before, you are only fooling yourself.

MY ADVICE TO THOSE WHO HAVE MONEY.
If you have money, invest your money into business stop letting people LIE to you that you cannot make money in Nigeria.
I know many businesses that are making Millions of Naira EVERYDAY. IF you dont believe me, go to shomolu, go to mushin, go to Idumota. go to Alaba.
I know guys that were ordinary apprentice just 5 years ago, but today they are making Millions of naira EVERYDAY. Being a businessman is better than being a gambler. The money betting is giving you is chicken change. If you already have a business, focus on that business and leave foolish people to gambling.

If you are a young man or woman and you dont have money, but at least you have an android phone. Go and learn how to make money online. instead of wasting your data watching TikTok videos. go and Learn Affiliate marketing, article writing, Video editing, freelancing generally. You can join the thousands of Youths earning hundreds or thousands of dollars online. you don't have to do yahoo to make it big online. I have friends that have made hundreds of thousands of naira freelancing and from affiliate marketing.


stop being stupid and hopeless.

Those that are the big sharks in gambling are business men. their own business is to fix games and dont decieve yourself, they dont sell games. those caliming they sell fixed games are scammers. the people who are the real game fixers have millions of dollars already to play their games, they dont need your chicken change. leave them to do their own business, you too find business you can face and focus on.

Men like Mayweather that gamble are not your mate, they have information you can never have, they are not gamblers, they arE businessmen fixing games.

THERE ARE NO RICH GAMBLERS. FORBES TOP 1000 RICHEST PEOPLE DOES NOT CONTAIN PEOPLE BETTING ON CHELSEA AND MAN U, IT CONTAINS BUSINESSMEN. STOP GAMBLING.

This one touched my soul....

Words of wisdom

Blueace247:

1. A salary won't make you wealthy
2. Your boss doesn't care about your career growth (debatable)
3. A business pays you the least amount possible to maximize profit
4. Company loyalty is a dumb decision–changing jobs pays more
5. People go to jobs (mostly) cause they don't know what else to do
6. Most people have no idea what their passion is, so they lie
7. Hours worked has nothing to do with value created
8. Most of the stuff you buy keeps you tied to a job
9. Working long hours leads to burnout
10. Job titles are meaningless. They're just ego.
11. You're not entitled to a raise, promotion ... or anything
12. Those who get the best jobs are the ones that network the best

The people we lie to the most in our career is ourselves.

Stop lying. Face the truth. Then change your life.

Word..

Productive thread

IyaTola:
Here are the top 15 youtube channels that I've learned the most from:

�1. Alex Hormozi

Learn the secrets of starting a business and scaling it to multi-million revenue.

Alex is one of the best mentors I've discovered recently to learn how to sell, hire, and grow in your business.

�2. Moon

Highly produced documentaries around society, culture, business and branding.

His on point narration, storytelling and editing skills makes me watch one video after another.

�3. FINAiUS

if you're into finance, you'll absolutely love their documentary style videos.

They narrate the stories of the most powerful people and companies in finance.

My fav videos are those on Larry Fink, Bill Ackman and Peter Lynch.

�4. Aperture

Watch thought provoking videos about how the world works.

Love his narration and storytelling skills.

My fav videos are those on stoicism, death and black swan event.

�5. Pursuit of Wonder

Great videos on psychology and human behaviour.

There's always something new I learn and take note of when I watch their videos.

�6. Iman Gadzhi

Highly successful 22 year old deca-millionaire Iman shares his life lessons and journey of building his businesses.

He talks about business, mindset, productivity, side hustles, etc.

Loved his video on Monk Mode and the 7 lessons he learned after making $10M+.

�7. Aevy TV

Engaging videos on business case studies.

Love their formula of using skits and explainers to make everything simple for the average Joe.

�8. Lapaas Voice

A great way to consume daily news around Finance, Business and tech in India.

I often watch their videos while having breakfast for quick bite sized news updates.

�9. Daily Stoic

Ryan Holiday shares timeless wisdom from stoic philosophy, stories of kings and stoics like Marcus Aurelius, Epictetus, and Seneca.

His books and videos have truly transformed my mindset.

�10. Hamza

Hamza shares great advice around dating, male grooming, mental health, discipline, career and more.

This is one channel every male youngster much watch and take notes from.

�11. Backstage with Millionaires

Great for weekly tech and startup news and business case studies.

Caleb explains everything simply and makes it fun at the same time.

�12. My First Million

An excellent podcast to learn about various side hustles, business ideas, and journeys of self made millionaires.

My favs are the podcasts w/ Mr. Beast, Neil Patel and Pieter Levels.

�13. Colin & Samir

The best channel to learn everything about the creator economy.

My favs are the convos w/ Mr. Beast, MKBHD and Ryan Trahan.

�14. FreeCodeCamp

A treasure of free video courses on everything from blockchain to web development to ethical hacking, app development, UI/UX Design, etc

�15. Whiteboard Crypto

A great channel for learning the basics of web3, cryptocurrencies and everything blockchain.

They use real world examples to explain complex concepts.

Which channels would you recommend?�

Interesting

CaveAdullam:
1. When you are young, you want to grow old and be free. When you are old, you reminisce about your younger days. Such is life.

2. The fact that humans don't know about the future is paradoxical: it makes them prepare for what's ahead; and it makes them prepare wrongly.
Yeah, we are sure there's a future but we don't know what the future entails. More like trial and error because life is not linear, it is a hole full of complex interconnecting lines activated by myriads of actions, behaviors, beliefs, experiences, and backgrounds of people with different faces and motivations. The action and behaviour of one affects the whole.

3. When we were young, we see the snippet of luxuries of older people, oblivious to their pains and struggles. We are eager for that luxury and minute joy because we think that's all there is until we become adults and the scales fall off. This also happens in business and success: we see the few that made it to the top and never considered the majority that failed - survivorship bias.

4. Anyway, it would have been a different story had it been there is economic prosperity. Though being an adult comes with a lot of responsibility; to whom much is given much is expected. However, we get shocked because as we entered adulthood, with little parental guidance or support we become perplexed and paranoid; what we envisaged differs from reality.

5. That's why parental guidance is sacrosanct in the lives of every child because they must prepare the child for the future by feeding them with good wisdom and exposing them to little discomfort so that when they grow up they can be able to navigate the world.

The world is not what we think it is. It is brutal!

Thanks.

Deep Deep...Words of wisdom

shortgun:

We always want God to do things we can always do ourselves.

Words of wisdom

SWEET THREAD

Tonnyray:
Belated birthday wishes bro.
At 19 I had no social life. With the advantage of hindsight I know it was good for me. Consider yourself lucky bro.
Cut off social media or better still tame it if you want to make tremendous progress in life. I see too many young folks totally consumed and destroyed by it already. The most heart wrenching thing I see these days is full grown bearded men in their late 20's totally sold to the dopamine bursts from pixels on their phones. There are 3 in my organization that our HR has identified and queried at least once. I have personally penciled one for termination by end of the year. He's in my department. Productivity zero. Initiative zero. Contributory value zero. Yet this guy will forever be glued to viewing videos on tiktok, statuses and instagram in the office. I have invited him for a hangout on 2 different occasions to help him however I can. Tried so hard to make him realize that the society we live in has zero tolerance for men who don't got their sh!t together. A babe can get away with plenty of such crap, some "cool" dude will still wife her up, as a guy you simply can't. All my entreaties were to no avail. As far as I'm concerned I need to act in the best interest of the organization now. He's a goner. The shock therapy of losing a N200k/month job might be all that's needed to rewire his cerebral cortex.

Why did I go into all this? You need a real life my guy. Your generation is just as blessed as it is cursed. Blessed with all the wherewithal to succeed right at your fingertips, as in just clicks away. Cursed with distractions on distractions on distractions. The choice is ultimately yours. Define your values. Define your goals.
Sign up on LinkedIn not instagram or tiktok or twitter or any of these hopeless apps that are wired to serve as distractions. That is my candid advice. Start taking necessary online personal and professional development courses.
Network with people in your chosen career path. Find mentors. Follow people that have made positive impact in society. Forget about "celebrities and entertainment stars" they are a curse to your generation. Focus only on people who have walked the paths you seek. Who have achieved meaningful things.
Money is good but do not let it be a major motivation just yet. If you put in the next 5-10 years into learning the right things, you'd have set yourself up for a lifetime of earning the wow $$$. The goal is to make money even in your sleep. Even I am on this quest my brother.
Meet real people, play down online dalliances, but be very, I mean extremely choosy who you allow into your space. Only people that will positively impact you and aid your trajectory in life.
I could go on and on but this is it in a nutshell.
I wish you the best bro.
Many more years to celebrate.

Wow...words of wisdom.

JESHAL:
Women are always fucking, they might not fucxk you, they might not fuxck me but they are being ploughedd, don't be naive and decieved because Nigeria is a religious society that pushes morality and traditional values, they have alpha bad boys and boyfriends drilling their pussies, don't ever be exploited of your attention and resources in the friendszone, don't let any girl waste your time especially if you want sex.

Bro you are spilling raw pills .. preach bro!!!

Faber:
Follow white people dey flex feminism muscles and "I don't need a man"

Rita Dominic rushing to go marry, Tonto Dike, always shedding tears for leaving Churchill, Mercy Aigbe becoming a 3rd wife to a man, Judy Austin getting married to Yul Edochie, becoming a second wife, Genevieve running into depression and mental issues because of lack of husband should teach you young ladies some lessons...

Guys are going on strike, you will not notice it till it dawns on you.
I got like two ladies in their 30s always frowning at me when they see me with younger girls...one told me, what I am doing with all these indomie girls. For her mind I should come and settle for her battered pussy who does that

Word

CaveAdullam:
1. Even if there is a God, he is not coming to help anyone. Only humans have the sole power to change their lives and environment and cause prosperity. This is not to disqualify the metaphysical necessity of the divine; God is necessary because without the concept of God humans will live worst than animals in the wild. So, whether God exists or not, dead or alive, the divine is important. However, the divine isn't interested in humans, had it been He was interested, the world would be a better place - paradise.

2. God is not coming to help you, but you can use God to help yourself. How?

A. What do you know how to do best?
B. What's your skill?
C. What are your qualifications?
D. What can you do?

3. Brush yourself and starts attending top churches and mosques. Tell the religious worshippers or religious leaders your predicament and the things you have to offer. Don't allow anyone to waste your time, it is a game of numbers and patience. Move around, there are many churches. If you spot a church with good prospects you can stay around. Aim for churches with larger auditoriums and popular brands.

4. You can still apply for jobs if you have a degree. But it is better to learn a skill at this moment than to search for a job. However, if a job can be an effective stepping stone to your progress, please go get it.

5. There is always a way. What you need is knowledge, good strategy, energy, time, and patience.

Take action today.

Thanks.

PS: for the sake of others, this may help:

Always making sense...

Karlifate:
Just because a woman looks innocent doesn't mean she is innocent.
Women can produce tears on cue.



Just because a man looks tough doesn't mean he is tough.
Any idiot can get covered in tattoos.

Word of wisdom

CaveAdullam:
1. Such is life for you: some have it good from birth till death; others have it good at the middle, and the rest remain in perpetual penury.

2. It is why all religions hope and await judgment day and after that day, a life of peace, harmony, and comfort in eternity is guaranteed.

3. Life is full of ups and downs, sometimes we are victims of problems we never caused while at other times we are victims of our problems because of our mistakes or wrong strategies.

4. There is simply nothing you can do about it. This is life, welcome to life. We are in a world where incentives rules: if I'm not going to gain, ain't doing it and if I'm to lose, why should I even bother?

5. No matter how much you preach good, evil will persists in a world where morality, amorality, and immorality are in a close-a-door caucus meeting in the hearts of every man that breathes.

Don't be deceived, your pastor or imam will play whatever card that will give him more incentives or at least minimize his loss even if it means playing the immoral card. Those that claim explicit morality, and virtue signallers are criminals behind the scenes.

6. Evil continues to persist because good always finds a way to adjust and keep on moving. These are the C's students in colleges, they just want to pass and get promoted, unlike the A's students who want to binge on every higher score.

7. Good people have never for once, thought of leveraging the violence, ruthlessness, and cunning of evil to manifest good in a larger dimension. They are the nice men and nice women, the sheep-like religious adherents that get both faces messed up with hard slaps.

8. Evil persists because it is leveraging on a potent tool that is required by good. Woke and progressive cultures are successful because of this simple fact. The more violent and ruthless win. Life doesn't care about who is good or bad, it is those in charge that matter. Going further, Jesus Christ said, "the children of the world are wiser than the children of light".

That's why in the Christian circle, "the violent take it by force" if the kingdom of God - a symbol of peace, hope, prosperity, and unity suffers evil violence.

9. Under the clouds of the earth, we are under the control of factors beyond our control. Life doesn't care about your determination and ambitions; if they don't meander in the same pathway as life, you'll end up despondent, and you my friend is at this junction.

10. Probably, you have not done evil or involve in a dirty crime, but here you are getting stripped of every hope and ambition you once had. My friend, welcome to life, things don't always go as planned. Refer to 9 above.

11. Don't launch into complaints, murmuring, and lamentations because if you do, you are adding more tinctures of pains to your predicaments. Evil and good will continue to persist. What you need to do is to maneuver across the hurdles life has presented along your paths. Refer to 5 and 9 above.

12. You and I are on death ground. We are facing a wall, and it's impossible to pass through. This is the place life has brought us and it is high time we turn our backs to the wall and fight the war that has been chasing us and that we've been postponing through hope, faith, and prayer. Remember: "the violent take it by force". Refer to 8 above.

13. We are not only victims of our mistakes but our resolutions, our big dreams, and ambitions; these are important, but in life, you plan with reality creating a chance for flexibility and adaptability. "Power of positive thinking or think big" will not help you when life is going left and you are going right. Things don't go that way.

14. You can always achieve anything you want to achieve in life, but think about reality first and the newer tools you'll use in achieving it when things don't go as planned. Nothing is impossible, however, time, chance, knowledge, energy, life, and patience happen to them all. Refer to 13 above.

15. Setting unnecessary resolutions without thinking about the style and shape every dawn will take is a contribution to our depression when we don't meet up.

We all want to get married, own a house, a large farm, 5 wives and 30 grandchildren by age 70 but neglected the political, environmental, and socioeconomic terrain - these are what matter, not our hopes or ambitions.

It dawns on us all as life begins to take several kicks and blows on us. And by that time, we are weak and anxious.

16. At the end of the day, you'll come to ask yourself: do this life worth all these struggles?

Some will experience the pain and seek nihilism while others will become philanthropic. It all depends on the angle you are viewing things from.

However, if life doesn't have something good for you even though it is minute, it would not have produced you. You are either here to create beauty or enjoy the beauty or pass beauty. Life my friend is beautiful once you understand the nature of things and their mechanism.

17. You are perishing because you lack knowledge, but once you seek that specific knowledge you will experience prosperity in a crescendo.

18. Cut down on your ego. Since ego hasn't helped you, it is time to cut down on it so that you'll not be blinded by it and not do things that are capable of bringing you prosperity and beauty.

19. Don't look for encouragement, my friend. Look for quality knowledge.

20. No longer waste time on things and people that matter less. Look for good connections. Seek and you shall find.

21. Don't relent. Sow here and there, you don't know which will bear good fruits.

22. Swing into action. This war will not kill you. You will come out as a winner only if you will fight.

Run, run, run my friend. See you on the last lap.

Thanks.

You are alike a university
..wow

pansophist:


If I give you uppercut eh, mtcheew. When I talk about real-life problems, you are talking about losing money. Let me make this clear, money problem is the least of the problems when we talk about existential problems. As in, a problem that renders your money completely useless. I will list some problems.

You could be able to make back the money you lost because you are young, and have sense. What if you are old, in your seventies, and found out that all your kids are not yours? How will your money solve it? Even if you can marry and have kids again, will you be alive to watch them grow older?

How about being a millionaire in dollars but impotent and can't have kids of your own? God now luckily bless you with one when you are in your 50s, and five years later, he died in an accident. How will your money solve it?

How about going to work on a peaceful morning, and a trailer from nowhere, hit you, rendering you cripple, with brain damage that you can't remember anything, and they have to cut off your legs? Especially if you live in Naija and the govt doesn't give a shit about you? How will your money bring back your legs?

How about being a businessman in Ukraine and Putin bombed your city so much that you lost all your company, some of your family died, and you have to be seeking asylum in neighboring countries, from grace to grace instantly? Did you hear about that Afgan minister (Sayed Sadaat) that delivers food on a bicycle in Germany?

I can make the stories darker than this, so don't think what I just wrote is the worse of it all. Just hope real-life problems don't locate you. You need humility and stop thinking you are a superman. Problems no be your mate. it might help if you google ''suicide notes'' and read some of the reasons people kill themselves.

That's why feeling big (bragging) is a fool's game, because most people are just one calamity away from being broken. That fine girl that thinks the world revolves around her beauty, just one unfortunate motor accident, or a dirty slap from an angry soldier, coupled with an uppercut will end her beauty career, she go come ugly like ogbanje

Death is actually the solution to end their problem. Hope you don't reach that point you will prefer death because every second you breathe is nothing but sorrow, hopelessness and nihilism.

I love realistic people

educative

Till now we don't know Who ordered the shootings on innocent protesters at the Lekki Toll gate.

Great Thread