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samuelson06:
No wahala bro. I only wish the young man would take it and run with his life.

Usually, I plead with young men around me to exercise a little restrain, fix themselves, and from there, they can go build a family.

All of us would have loved to finish with childbearing before we get to 40 or 42. I would've loved to do that, at least that's what is obtainable in first world countries. Even before 35, many of them are done with childbearing—two or three kids and they done. Before 40, you see their body recovering and the females will appear like they've not given birth before.

But here we are in a country that our leaders don't care about us; nothing works here. The few gains we made as a country, they've destroyed everything as we speak. Today, the once giant of Africa stands like a begger. Nigeria is practically begging for survival. As young people, and we have to understand this sad reality and adjust accordingly.

I come from a humble background so I've tasted poverty. Poverty has a sour and bitter taste. Its color is black, and once it draws you to itself, your life practically becomes like the black color, a dark night, and a nightmare. The taste of your life becomes sour and bitter, and everyone tries to distant themselves from you—not because they truly hate you, but because you have nothing to offer—nothing to offer yourself, nor your children. There and then, it becomes clear to you that your life is a waste. But you had the chance not to get here

Sometimes, I don't teach people how to lead a good life. I sit with them and talk about poverty and the moment they make up their mind to reject that demon, they become motivated to work—putting everything else aside and just fight to defeat that monster.

Being a Nigerian, I know this country so well and I know it may never change—at least, not in this generation. So, I seize every opportunity to talk to young people about ways they can fix their life independent of the support they ought to get from the government. The task may be enormous but it's surmountable. It requires patience, hardwork, consistency, focus, and determination to succeed.

You'll be wasting your time if you keep jumping from one hustle to another. It shows that you are not serious or you may be too in a hurry to make it. Let's take the poster here for example, he's invested some amount of time, money, and other resources into becoming a frontend developer and he's on his way to becoming an expert in that field. Sadly, he now feels he's been wasting his time choosing a path that doesn't work and now feels like throwing away the experience and momentum he's been gathering in the coding sphere.

If that happens, he's going to start all over again elsewhere. Meanwhile, they are people succeeding where he's running away from and all he needed was to build on what he's known already and keep forging ahead. When it comes to success, you don't do magic. You just have to find a way and keep building up the momentum and with time, even nature will bear witness with your spirit that you've done your best and it's time for you to be announced to the world.

I can keep talking and talking. There's a formula to succeeding even in a rough country like Nigeria, but you have to be serious. It's not a game of luck but hard work—putting first things first, and not giving up.

I wish all of us the best in 2024.

You are too smart

HUNGER DEY OOO... But enemies of Nigeria surrounding the president are always lying to him that everything is alright...

Omoawoke:
Got 3 professional certifications in 4 months. It was crazy .
I saw some job openings with sweet offers that required some professional certifications, I started preparing for them and got them all in 4 months, days and nights of readings.

It is not only through dirty or illegal means you can make money, as they post dirty things, it’s okay for us to post encouraging things so people out there can see that professional jobs still pay.

Go and write pmp, cissp. Or go and write CFA or take Security plus certifications.
You can get GRC certifications.
Go to YouTube and stop watching porn alone, YouTube as mad resources to learn almost anything in this world from software development to cybersecurity to finance analyst etc
Apply for jobs, there are remote jobs you can do and you will make money pass yahoo boys, and the money that will give you rest of mind

Modified: I didn’t expect to start getting dms from this post. I don’t usually respond to DMs.
But it’s great that people are getting informed and having interests.
One thing is that there are a lot of info out there, and resources to get this done all by yourself. It’s just one thing which is “The will” if you go on YouTube, Reddit even here on nairaland, there are threads of certifications like this.
Like i said it’s just your determination and you can get them done, the other is funds. We know naira don crash so it affects a whole lot. But people spend up to 15k to 20k pounds migrating to Uk to start care jobs, while these certifications cost about 500 to 800 dollars each to get.

I think it worths it getting one or two or more. You can apply to remote jobs or even migrate with them to Canada or uk and still get jobs there. Even Australia takes this certifications. Best of luck

Thanks alot for this ginger

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Back then in the north...with my moustache...was hunting grasshopper up and down for money....

This NIN issues really Sent so many graduates aspiring to register for NYSC into mild depression.

ebubeson:
Those who are in early twenties doing shakara. You better start preparing your future now with reading hard, praying hard, fasting now, learning skills, capitalizing opportunities, giving to your parents, obeying them and honouring them for blessings and long life, giving the poor and widows, learning how to keep secrets about your life, avoiding bad friends, making peace with people, correcting your mistakes etc.
And you that may be trying to have sex with that good lady that is a wife material; all in the name of chop-and-clean-mouth, you may just be wasting your opportunity of your God sent wife. Same to ladies that may be wasting the resources and emotions of a responsible guy, that may be your God-sent future husband you are toiling with.
If you ask several singles in their thirties, they may tell you how they wasted the opportunity of a good partner. Later in life, you may discover that good partners may not be easy to come bye.

Be wise so you don't regret.

Word of wisdom

Nature has made men polygamous in nature...it is now to onus of the man to tame the "id"

April4th:
Travelled to Benue last week, couldn't find good yam to buy. Farmers are complaining of bandits attacking them and herdsmen ravaging their farmlands. It is well naija

You are very right.

In fact farmers are travelling in cities in drove to look for jobs like security to do to feed their families, because their farms are no more secured to use

99thEnemy:
Come to Benue.

I be benue boy...but yam self no really dey cheap like for this markudi

99thEnemy:
Come to Benue.

I be benue boy...but yam self no really dey cheap like that for benue

The mother on Black Sabi dance sha!!!

Na so Una go talk talk talk...Cho chi Cho.

Since January still talking...

Una know to to increase fuel, electricity bill, taxes, add charges, but to increase the standard of living of citizens be like Jamb exam for Una.

Sighssss

PaZwoD:
Generally, peer pressure thing. Sex is overrated

I agree sex is overated...
after you cum, your senses cum back

CAPSLOCKED...the man with the bold red fonts..
Johnydon22
Yuzedo

When your last bet tickets turn green....That feeling ehnnnn

sweetval:
I need to awaken this thread. Nigeria right now is a pro max of this thread. If it was right now this fellow made this thread, it should be Nigeria has finished me kpatakpata!!!

Hahahahahaha...E choke ooo

ch214:
Anyone still patronizing prostitutes in this modern age is a stupid person with inferiority complex.

Say No To patronizing prostitutes!

"Fundamental Attribution Error"

Ashawo no dey show for face....

moreover kings, politicians, musicians etc that fuuuccksss prostitutes all have inferiority complex abi

Gerrard59:
Generally, humans are discriminatory. To discriminate is human. The belief that everyone will like you is misplaced and entirely false. What you should seek is respect, not likeness. To gain respect, you need to proffer value. In today's world, that value is economic prosperity. If your dominant ethnic group or race is not prosperous, no one will respect that group. If that group is meek yet poor, others will pity the members. If the group is aggressive yet poor, others will hate its members. In all, it is better to be envied rather than pitied. No one pities a rich person. Rather, the rich person is envied. At the same time, no one disrespects a rich person. Why? There are economic consequences for disrespecting a rich person. On the other hand, anyone and indeed everyone, disrespects a poor person because there are no economic consequences. This is why, in some cases, rather than outrightly disrespect the poor person, humans pity him/her.

The home of black people is sub-Saharan Africa - home to more black people than elsewhere. If black people want to be respected, sub-Saharan Africa has to be prosperous.

I have explained this in detail here: https://www.nairaland.com/5886610/racism-against-blacks-reduce-drastically

Word of Wisdom...

Like for Sanusi, Share for Bayero

40 wives?

The dick no go dey move round na?

Women and Hypergamy don start tey try....
Man get 30 + wives...You still marry the man add to the numbers.

Any Man that ends up marrying a good woman in this current clime of Oloshoism.is a very lucky man ooo.

Kaczynski:
Women are way hornier than men , it's that they get to hide it well and use it in their favour

Hmmm, How come men are not hiding theirs?

Good one for Senegal.

But i just hope the oil won't be the end of the country

How the wife take know say her husband do anal sex with the lady...abi at a point of giving him blow joob.. the husband peepee starts smelling like hmmmm...

any man wey get mind dey put him peepee for anus...don use stlye dey port to Gaybriel.....

sighhssss

That Face looks like face wey go too like puna

Sighssss

Eedris Killed that song mehn...

E say Emilokan don turn Ebilokan....chai

Now this is music... not all those yeye breast and nyash songs littered all over everywhere

Redpill is Life... It's beyond women alone.

They should attend the to whys indices first and resolve it.

Why are the doctors actually leaving, why are people japa-ing

Imagine some doctors can't even afford self contain room...

Poor Nigerians sacrifices just for the politicians to flex the money and embezzle

Presido no be cho cho cho...abeg show workings...